You have very vast knowledge of everything that is impressive. It is…
You have very vast knowledge of everything that is impressive. It is simply excellent I love it. Please continue to share such a rare...
While these physical changes at adolescence are a fundamental part of the…
While these physical changes at adolescence are a fundamental part of the process by which the female becomes mature enough to reproduce, they seem...
Reliable contraception cannot change women’s instinctive responses that have evolved over millions…
Reliable contraception cannot change women's instinctive responses that have evolved over millions of years.
The problem I’ve heard most about over the years… is the problem…
The problem I’ve heard most about over the years… is the problem of mismatched desire… which is the issue of sex-starved men and reluctant...
If a couple has some understanding of the different rewards that men…
If a couple has some understanding of the different rewards that men and women obtain from sex, they can make sure that there is...
In the younger boy there is no ejaculate because the prostate and…
In the younger boy there is no ejaculate because the prostate and seminal vesicles are not yet functionally developed, and in the female those...
The woman-in-the-street (most of us) still has the impression that it is…
The woman-in-the-street (most of us) still has the impression that it is ‘normal’ to orgasm from male thrusting.
Men cannot accept that without a sex drive, women have no reason…
Men cannot accept that without a sex drive, women have no reason to be remotely interested in sex. Rather than try to convince men...
It is SO SO easy to have unreal expectations of a woman…
It is SO SO easy to have unreal expectations of a woman and hence become selfish as we live in such a 'what can...
… the pre-adolescent boy’s capacities for specifically sexual responses develop rapidly as…
... the pre-adolescent boy's capacities for specifically sexual responses develop rapidly as he nears adolescence. This is not matched by any similar rise in...
If we are to understand men and women’s sexuality, we must never…
If we are to understand men and women's sexuality, we must never forget that Nature wants us to engage foremost in intercourse. Male sex...
Men’s illusions about women are long on fantasy and short on reality……
Men’s illusions about women are long on fantasy and short on reality… the more experience a man has with women in the real world,...
Whatever taunts are thrown out by men looking for a frivolous lay,…
Whatever taunts are thrown out by men looking for a frivolous lay, in the longer term men respect a more picky woman.
… the average age of onset of adolescence in the white male…
… the average age of onset of adolescence in the white male is about 13 years and 7 months.
Of the 82 percent of women who said they masturbated, 95 percent…
Of the 82 percent of women who said they masturbated, 95 percent could orgasm easily and regularly, whenever they wanted.
People are amazed when I question the orgasms actresses are portrayed as…
People are amazed when I question the orgasms actresses are portrayed as having in pornography. They cannot believe that anyone would doubt the fiction....
Let us enjoy and savour life. I invite you to read some…
Let us enjoy and savour life. I invite you to read some very wise words about eroticism from a very knowledgeable lady. Thanks to...
We do not believe that the happiness of individual men, and the…
We do not believe that the happiness of individual men, and the good of the total social organization, is ever furthered by the perpetuation...
Given her lack of erotic arousal with a lover, a woman has…
Given her lack of erotic arousal with a lover, a woman has no incentive to be proactive in sexual activity of any kind unless...
The idea of ‘no-strings attached’ sex is very attractive to most men,…
The idea of ‘no-strings attached’ sex is very attractive to most men, gay or straight.
A man tends to assume that physical intimacy is a given as…
A man tends to assume that physical intimacy is a given as soon as a woman shows him any affection. A woman needs time...
I would not have answered honestly without anonymity…
I would not have answered honestly without anonymity...
A man’s willingness to stimulate a woman (even if only through intercourse)…
A man's willingness to stimulate a woman (even if only through intercourse) reassures him that his motivations (because they are aimed at pleasuring his...
Hello, I wanted you to know that I have enjoyed reading your…
Hello, I wanted you to know that I have enjoyed reading your book. I found your material interesting, perceptive, informative, and well written. Yumi
There is an honesty in science which demands that the best means…
There is an honesty in science which demands that the best means be used for the determination of the truth.
Some couples experiment early on with different positions. But they usually resume…
Some couples experiment early on with different positions. But they usually resume missionary style intercourse, which involves least effort for a woman.
When a man decides to sensually touch a woman, he does the…
When a man decides to sensually touch a woman, he does the things he prefers – he gropes her boobs and crotch. This is...
Inevitably there must be some women who are sexually insatiable and some…
Inevitably there must be some women who are sexually insatiable and some men who are unmoved by sex but these individuals do not represent...
Certainly no aspect of human biology in our current civilization stands in…
Certainly no aspect of human biology in our current civilization stands in more need of scientific knowledge and courageous humility than that of sex.
The reproductive model of sex insures male orgasm by giving it a…
The reproductive model of sex insures male orgasm by giving it a standardized time and place ... But there are not really any patterns...
Experts imply that women are happy with a lack of orgasm. Most…
Experts imply that women are happy with a lack of orgasm. Most women are too embarrassed to question. Others don't want to hurt their...
If sex education was really taught to girls, not reproductive education, we…
If sex education was really taught to girls, not reproductive education, we would be better off, because we would know the facts, not the...
Discontinuities in total outlet are practically unknown in the histories of males.
Discontinuities in total outlet are practically unknown in the histories of males.
Heterosexual men assume that what pleases them must please a woman equally…
Heterosexual men assume that what pleases them must please a woman equally as well and heterosexual women accept whatever stimulation a man offers.
For example, men found anal sexual behaviors (including anal sex, anal toys,…
For example, men found anal sexual behaviors (including anal sex, anal toys, and anal fingering) more appealing than women. The same was true for...
Real female orgasms involve the release of sexual emotions not romantic feelings….
Real female orgasms involve the release of sexual emotions not romantic feelings. So it does not matter how much you love your partner, orgasm...
Throughout the mammals is it the male which more often (but not…
Throughout the mammals is it the male which more often (but not always) pursues the female for a sexual contact.
I like touching very much, but with my husband a touch is…
I like touching very much, but with my husband a touch is all he needs to think it's time to hop into bed.
For men, all of these activities (intercourse, fellatio and masturbation) involve stimulating…
For men, all of these activities (intercourse, fellatio and masturbation) involve stimulating the penis. The stimulation technique is consistent. The shaft of the penis...
You have taught me so much over the last few months. Thank…
You have taught me so much over the last few months. Thank u! Frederick
In not a few instances transvestitism develops out of a fetishistic interest…
In not a few instances transvestitism develops out of a fetishistic interest in clothing or some part of clothing of the opposite sex.
Responsiveness (the ability to respond to the point of orgasm) is part…
Responsiveness (the ability to respond to the point of orgasm) is part of male reproductive function.
… it is time for the field to come together and resolve…
... it is time for the field to come together and resolve the differences about models of female sexual response and diagnostic consequences. We...
Most women never talk about lost sexual opportunities. They talk about commitment…
Most women never talk about lost sexual opportunities. They talk about commitment and trust. This enormous gap between the sexes means that most women...
The educated male’s interest in protracted relationships which involve social contacts and…
The educated male's interest in protracted relationships which involve social contacts and pre-coital petting is likely to go unsatisfied with most prostitutes.
The penis … has two roots known as crura … During sexual…
The penis ... has two roots known as crura ... During sexual excitation these crura become engorged with blood and contribute to erection of...
Others find pleasure in these non-reproductive aspects of their sexuality. They enjoy…
Others find pleasure in these non-reproductive aspects of their sexuality. They enjoy fantasy, erotic turn-ons and stimulating themselves to orgasm quite separately from a...
Jane, It really takes courage to go public on the kind of…
Jane, It really takes courage to go public on the kind of projects you are pursuing. I compliment you on your strong spirit. Love,...
Females do produce … extensive literature which is called erotic … but…
Females do produce ... extensive literature which is called erotic ... but most of these deal with more general emotional situations, affectional relationships, and...
Gender is a person’s feeling of identification with being male or female….
Gender is a person's feeling of identification with being male or female. Gender, typically described in terms of masculinity and femininity, is a social...
Severe relationship distress is also listed as a diagnostic exclusion (i.e. a…
Severe relationship distress is also listed as a diagnostic exclusion (i.e. a context in which low sexual desire would not be diagnosed), yet it...
Many people describe their sex life, including evidence of female arousal, as…
Many people describe their sex life, including evidence of female arousal, as if it came straight out of erotic fiction. I have come to...
Extra-marital intercourse most often causes difficulty when it involves emotional and affectional…
Extra-marital intercourse most often causes difficulty when it involves emotional and affectional relations with the new partner who take precedence over the spouse.
All he ever wants is intercourse. I have been hurt by his…
All he ever wants is intercourse. I have been hurt by his refusals and by his lack of reciprocation. I don't feel my husband...
Our sense of sexual inadequacy comes from expectations set by unique individuals….
Our sense of sexual inadequacy comes from expectations set by unique individuals. Yet the very sensationalism of such stories highlights the rarity of women's...
I have enjoyed your messages for some time now, thank you for…
I have enjoyed your messages for some time now, thank you for sharing your personal experience too, very bold, best wishes to you :)...
The possibility of reconciling the different sexual interests and capacities of females…
The possibility of reconciling the different sexual interests and capacities of females and males ... and the possibility of adjusting social concepts to allow...
Sex determines a person’s biological status as male or female. Sex is…
Sex determines a person's biological status as male or female. Sex is defined by biological facts: chromosomes, balance of hormones as well as internal...
Differences in how women and men experience orgasms can lead to unrealistic…
Differences in how women and men experience orgasms can lead to unrealistic expectations and a misinterpretation of the meaning of sexual response.
I had questions from the very first time I had sex but…
I had questions from the very first time I had sex but there was no one to ask. Years later when I tried to...
There seems to be no question but that the human male would…
There seems to be no question but that the human male would be promiscuous in his choice of sexual partners throughout the whole of...
I still believe the greatest sexual satisfaction comes from having a partner…
I still believe the greatest sexual satisfaction comes from having a partner you care about. I've gone through stages of having several lovers and...
Men like to discuss their own enjoyment of eroticism and sexual pleasure…
Men like to discuss their own enjoyment of eroticism and sexual pleasure with a lover. They are also confident to assert that women achieve...
Your work focuses on the side that is rarely discussed – from…
Your work focuses on the side that is rarely discussed - from the perspective of women. That's what is most educative for me. Mosh
… males are usually aroused and often intensely aroused before the beginning…
... males are usually aroused and often intensely aroused before the beginning of a sexual relationship and before they have made any physical contact...
Sexuality is about reproduction. But human reproduction involves much more than intercourse.
Sexuality is about reproduction. But human reproduction involves much more than intercourse.
… a woman’s sexual fulfilment is much more complex than a man’s….
… a woman’s sexual fulfilment is much more complex than a man’s. She requires a man with a skilful touch, lots of time, and...
In fact, there is no intentional campaign to disseminate misinformation but simply…
In fact, there is no intentional campaign to disseminate misinformation but simply a lack of understanding in an intensely personal area of our lives.
Far from being abnormal, the human male who is quick in his…
Far from being abnormal, the human male who is quick in his sexual response is quite normal among the mammals, and usual in his...
With my husband, I sometimes feel obligated because I’m his wife and,…
With my husband, I sometimes feel obligated because I'm his wife and, after all, he does pay for everything.
Some people define sex purely in terms of interaction with a lover….
Some people define sex purely in terms of interaction with a lover. They may consider any kind of solitary activity or activity that is...
Your posts are critically important! I’m 66 and I’m still learning because…
Your posts are critically important! I'm 66 and I'm still learning because of you. Steven S.
… the male is stimulated by seeing the sexual partner, by seeing…
... the male is stimulated by seeing the sexual partner, by seeing the genitalia or other parts of the body of the sexual partner,...
The anatomy involved in orgasm must be consistent for all women of…
The anatomy involved in orgasm must be consistent for all women of all orientations whether they are alone or with a lover (regardless of...
Frigidity – This does not mean failure to enjoy sex when one…
Frigidity – This does not mean failure to enjoy sex when one is dead with fatigue… Nor does it mean failure to get a...
All those magazine articles proposing a million ways to give a woman…
All those magazine articles proposing a million ways to give a woman a mind-blowing orgasm sound very promising but why are they needed in...
Variety in coital position is regularly suggested by marriage manuals, but once…
Variety in coital position is regularly suggested by marriage manuals, but once again it is the male who is most often interested in experimenting.
I really enjoy it (touching and affection), but I find that some…
I really enjoy it (touching and affection), but I find that some men do not understand this and so become aroused and want to...
The suggestion that women should orgasm from intercourse indicates the inherent bias….
The suggestion that women should orgasm from intercourse indicates the inherent bias. Sexual response is instinctive. There is no should about it.
Your RSM video presentation is impressive, Jane. It takes a lot of…
Your RSM video presentation is impressive, Jane. It takes a lot of courage to stand up and present, let alone about such a taboo...
Most males, whether heterosexual or homosexual, are inclined to initiate a sexual…
Most males, whether heterosexual or homosexual, are inclined to initiate a sexual relationship through some genital exposure or genital manipulation.
The key characteristics of orgasm include: mental arousal must precede stimulation, stimulation…
The key characteristics of orgasm include: mental arousal must precede stimulation, stimulation focuses on massaging the blood flow within the corpora cavernosa of the...
Who would set a limit to the mind of man? Who would…
Who would set a limit to the mind of man? Who would dare assert that we know all there is to be known?
Why do adults so often assume that they know everything about sex…
Why do adults so often assume that they know everything about sex when most people have never even read a sex manual?
It is certain that most of the physical stimulation which the female…
It is certain that most of the physical stimulation which the female receives from actual coitus comes from contact of the external areas of...
The most frequent reason men gave for having sex outside their marriages…
The most frequent reason men gave for having sex outside their marriages was sexual rejection by their wives, or the boring nature of repeated...
Porno orgasms (those men assume women should have with a lover) involve…
Porno orgasms (those men assume women should have with a lover) involve different anatomy because men provide all the stimulation of a sexual encounter....
A comprehensive, research-based educational resource and brave endeavour! Manish
A comprehensive, research-based educational resource and brave endeavour! Manish