(Feedback) You have researched well. It’s well-written except that it’s so explicit that…
You have researched well. It’s well-written except that it’s so explicit that it feels like one of those fantasy novels. It’s also good the...
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) … the techniques of masturbation usually offer the female the most specific…
... the techniques of masturbation usually offer the female the most specific and quickest means for achieving orgasm. For this reason masturbation has provided...
(Learn About Sexuality) When researchers ask, ‘Do you orgasm from intercourse?’ the very act of…
When researchers ask, 'Do you orgasm from intercourse?' the very act of asking the question implies that 'yes' is a legitimate reply as if...
(Other Sources) As a general guideline, a woman needs to be emotionally fulfilled before…
As a general guideline, a woman needs to be emotionally fulfilled before she can long for sexual contact. A man, however, gets much of...
(Ways Women Orgasm) When girls reach puberty they get breasts and periods: body changes linked…
When girls reach puberty they get breasts and periods: body changes linked to women's child-bearing role. So even today women often approach sex from...
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) Originally the pre-adolescent boy erects indiscriminately to the whole array of emotional…
Originally the pre-adolescent boy erects indiscriminately to the whole array of emotional situations ... By his late teens the male has been so conditioned...
(Nosper Dialogues) “An expert on female orgasm”
JANE: Hi Bella, I was hoping that as a sex expert, you might be able to help me! I am asking women to be...
(Shere Hite) In the same way that women’s role has shifted from child-bearer to…
In the same way that women’s role has shifted from child-bearer to sex object since the decline in importance of child-bearing, just so the...
(Love Sex Intimacy) Women’s response to lovemaking is conscious, which explains why they appear to…
Women's response to lovemaking is conscious, which explains why they appear to respond differently. Consequently if we are to truly appreciate female sexuality, we...
(Feedback) Your work challenges normalized social perceptions and provides an opportunity for reflection…
Your work challenges normalized social perceptions and provides an opportunity for reflection and the production of new perceptions. This process is essential for breaking...
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) … females who had used fingers or other objects in vaginal penetrations…
... females who had used fingers or other objects in vaginal penetrations did so ... because such penetrations had been recommended by some male...
(Learn About Sexuality) Sex is a subject on which every adult feels entitled to have…
Sex is a subject on which every adult feels entitled to have an opinion, however uninformed. We all think our personal experiences and personal...
(Other Sources) Exploring what defines women’s libido and why it becomes depleted, I investigate…
Exploring what defines women’s libido and why it becomes depleted, I investigate whether we have unrealistic expectations about our sex drive, who defines what...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Many women dislike the eroticism that leads to sexual arousal and so…
Many women dislike the eroticism that leads to sexual arousal and so they are offended by the suggestion that a woman might need to...
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) Some male prostitutes ejaculate five, six, or more times per day with…
Some male prostitutes ejaculate five, six, or more times per day with regularity over long periods of years. While the amount of semen per...
(Nosper Dialogues) “Hassling for sex …”
JANE: Sex drive arises in the brain of the penetrating male. Aren’t men, who constantly hassle for sex, evidence that men want intercourse more...
(Shere Hite) Surprisingly, most researchers have not shown much interest in masturbation.
Surprisingly, most researchers have not shown much interest in masturbation.
(Love Sex Intimacy) There is no consistency between women’s orgasm techniques either alone, with a…
There is no consistency between women's orgasm techniques either alone, with a man or with another woman. While male erotic turn-ons are clearly defined...
(Feedback) Dear Jane, I admire the work you have done. Phillip…
Dear Jane, I admire the work you have done. Phillip
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) A relatively infrequent but biologically important method of masturbation in the female…
A relatively infrequent but biologically important method of masturbation in the female is one which depends upon the development of muscular and nervous tensions...
(Learn About Sexuality) Everyone seems to assume that erotic fiction is the equivalent of holy…
Everyone seems to assume that erotic fiction is the equivalent of holy scriptures rather than fictional stories aimed at arousing and entertaining.
(Other Sources) Many women find it very difficult to talk about sex with their…
Many women find it very difficult to talk about sex with their male partners. More than a quarter of the women with whom I...
(Ways Women Orgasm) A popular suggestion is that a woman needs a truly loving partner…
A popular suggestion is that a woman needs a truly loving partner who knows how to 'give a woman an orgasm'. Wouldn't that be...
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) Most males would have intercourse more frequently if their spouse were more…
Most males would have intercourse more frequently if their spouse were more interested, if other occupations did not interfere, if business routines ... did...
(Nosper Dialogues) “Erotic turn-ons!”
Peach: Please define erotic turn-ons!
JANE: Stimuli of a psychological nature that cause a person to become erotically aroused. When the brain focuses on erotic...
(Shere Hite) I enjoy simple touching just for its own sake without overtones of…
I enjoy simple touching just for its own sake without overtones of ‘this has to conclude in intercourse.’ But getting me aroused so that...
(Love Sex Intimacy) Factors that affect men’s orgasm frequencies include their age, the age at…
Factors that affect men's orgasm frequencies include their age, the age at which they reached adolescence as well as their level of education.
(Feedback) Keep those posts coming Jane! A treasure of knowledge! Anton…
Keep those posts coming Jane! A treasure of knowledge! Anton
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) The clitoris is the small, bud-like structure – a homologue of the…
The clitoris is the small, bud-like structure - a homologue of the male penis - which is located near the outer surface at the...
(Learn About Sexuality) An unfortunate by-product of research that involves talking to women is that…
An unfortunate by-product of research that involves talking to women is that unrealistic orgasm claims are given credibility just because they have been recorded...
(Other Sources) … it’s time to talk about what most men could initiate more…
... it’s time to talk about what most men could initiate more of, and that is non-sexual intimacy. ... It involves any kind of...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Guilt about sexual fantasies is misplaced because our ability to enjoy our…
Guilt about sexual fantasies is misplaced because our ability to enjoy our own sexual arousal is part of the human experience. Such feelings occur...
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) After the initial experience in ejaculation, practically all males become regular in…
After the initial experience in ejaculation, practically all males become regular in their sexual activity.
(Nosper Dialogues) “The long and winding road …”
JANE: Women don’t tend to ask nor will they always allow a lover to stimulate their genitalia, which is no evidence of pleasure let...
(Shere Hite) Sex plays a very important part in my life because … I…
Sex plays a very important part in my life because ... I know it is his way of showing he loves me. Many times...
(Love Sex Intimacy) Emotional bonding is vital to reproduction post conception. Our sexuality has evolved…
Emotional bonding is vital to reproduction post conception. Our sexuality has evolved from a purely reproductive activity into an on-going process that forges the...
(Feedback) I am confident that some of the frustration and tension between my…
I am confident that some of the frustration and tension between my wife and I can be relieved quite simply by me taking the...
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) Most of the females in our sample had discovered how to masturbate…
Most of the females in our sample had discovered how to masturbate as a result of their exploration of their own genitalia.
(Learn About Sexuality) The response of orgasm evolved millions of years ago. Nothing new can…
The response of orgasm evolved millions of years ago. Nothing new can be discovered as such. We can only document the facts and use...
(Other Sources) A woman doesn’t want sex for the same reasons a man does….
A woman doesn’t want sex for the same reasons a man does. A woman enters a new relationship looking for romance and love. Sex...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Therapists conclude that since other women say nothing they must be happy…
Therapists conclude that since other women say nothing they must be happy with sex. There is little acknowledgement of just how embarrassed most people...
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) … about 90 per cent of the males ejaculate for the first…
... about 90 per cent of the males ejaculate for the first time between the ages of 11 and 15 (inclusive).
(Nosper Dialogues) “How women define female orgasm …”
SRC: I would add that the clitoris is the source in most cases, but not always.
JANE: Are you a woman? Do you mean each...
(Shere Hite) It’s a trade. Like my mother says, men give love for sex,…
It’s a trade. Like my mother says, men give love for sex, women give sex for love.
(Love Sex Intimacy) Sex research appears to indicate that many women orgasm both alone and…
Sex research appears to indicate that many women orgasm both alone and with a lover. But all of this research is flawed because there...
(Feedback) I am really thankful to you for your articles, which I read…
I am really thankful to you for your articles, which I read regularly. They are helpful & reveal so many myths. Anil
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) … in regard to sexual responsiveness the female matures much later than…
... in regard to sexual responsiveness the female matures much later than the male.
(Learn About Sexuality) The goal of sexology would seem to be to educate women in…
The goal of sexology would seem to be to educate women in their role of providing male pleasure. This is a political battle rather...
(Other Sources) Even Sharon Stone admits that she did women a disservice in ‘Basic…
Even Sharon Stone admits that she did women a disservice in ‘Basic Instinct’ by suggesting that they could reach orgasm in about 30 seconds...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Surrounded by unrealistic portrayals of female sexuality in the media, women often…
Surrounded by unrealistic portrayals of female sexuality in the media, women often conclude that they are abnormal when they are, in fact, facing a...
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) It is not improbable that nearly all boys have some pre-adolescent genital…
It is not improbable that nearly all boys have some pre-adolescent genital play with other boys or girls. Only about one-fifth as many girls...
(Nosper Dialogues) “Owning their manhood…”
JANE: Why is female orgasm so important to men?
Javiera: Because it makes them feel competent, useful, owning their manhood, sense of mastery and deserving...
(Shere Hite) I have been married to one partner for over twenty-sex years, and…
I have been married to one partner for over twenty-sex years, and it’s been very satisfying. I have only one wish: for vaginal orgasm...
(Love Sex Intimacy) We’d rather base our sexual knowledge on a concoction of fantasy and…
We'd rather base our sexual knowledge on a concoction of fantasy and ignorance than the research findings. So it's small wonder that both sexes...
(Feedback) Your partner must love getting in your brain Jane! Andy…
Your partner must love getting in your brain Jane! Andy
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) … published instances of masturbation, especially in the female, have often been…
... published instances of masturbation, especially in the female, have often been unduly augmented by the inclusion of activities which we do not now...
(Learn About Sexuality) The reason women can’t make sense of the explanations for their sexuality…
The reason women can't make sense of the explanations for their sexuality is that men have defined it for them.
(Other Sources) It vexes me when they would constrain science by the authority of…
It vexes me when they would constrain science by the authority of the Scriptures, and yet do not consider themselves bound to answer reason...
(Ways Women Orgasm) In fact, a sexually demanding partner can be a turn-off for a…
In fact, a sexually demanding partner can be a turn-off for a man. Simply put, men prefer to be the ones chasing women rather...
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) For … the nation as a whole, we arrive at a figure…
For ... the nation as a whole, we arrive at a figure of 3.27 per week for the total sexual outlet of the average...
(Nosper Dialogues) “Impressed and convinced …”
Steven: I have to say I am impressed and convinced by your arguments, observations and conclusions. I too maintain a library of erotic literature...
(Shere Hite) I get virtually no foreplay from my partner, even when I ask…
I get virtually no foreplay from my partner, even when I ask for it. She however demands lots of foreplay for herself. All women...
(Love Sex Intimacy) Sexual pleasure is often implied but left to the individual to discover….
Sexual pleasure is often implied but left to the individual to discover. So even today sex education provides the reproductive facts but no explicit...
(Feedback) I salute your courage on these subjects. Specially difficult in Eastern Societies….
I salute your courage on these subjects. Specially difficult in Eastern Societies. Thank you. Alaa
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) Over the course of the past fifteen years, 16,392 persons have contributed…
Over the course of the past fifteen years, 16,392 persons have contributed their histories to this study. To date, we have secured the histories...
(Learn About Sexuality) Learn About Sexuality differentiates between the behaviours that women employ (to arouse…
Learn About Sexuality differentiates between the behaviours that women employ (to arouse men) and orgasm, which occurs (when the erectile organ is stimulated) as...
(Other Sources) If you can’t explain it simply, you don’t understand it well enough.
If you can't explain it simply, you don't understand it well enough.
(Ways Women Orgasm) Teenage girls should never feel bulldozed into sex by the popular view…
Teenage girls should never feel bulldozed into sex by the popular view that sex is always easily pleasurable for women. True sexual liberation means...
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) ‘low in sex drive’ … This situation is even more often found…
‘low in sex drive’ ... This situation is even more often found among females, 30 per cent of whom are more or less sexually...
(Nosper Dialogues) “What’s the point of men?”
Peanut: I too, question why women are denied sexual pleasure during intercourse. Why would God make our bodies unable to orgasm and enjoy sexual...
(Shere Hite) Touching is very important and meaningful, but doesn’t happen often because men…
Touching is very important and meaningful, but doesn’t happen often because men most generally have but one end in mind when they touch you.
(Love Sex Intimacy) My work involves applying basic common sense. I ask questions that reveal…
My work involves applying basic common sense. I ask questions that reveal truths. I question assumptions. Very few people appear to see the need...
(Feedback) Your work matches my lifelong hunches, borne out by my imperfect observation….
Your work matches my lifelong hunches, borne out by my imperfect observation. Your level-headed delivery comes off as helpfully trustworthy & authoritative. Pawel
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) The male is aroused at observing his potential sexual partner, as most…
The male is aroused at observing his potential sexual partner, as most females are not.
(Learn About Sexuality) A comprehensive sex education should expose the emotional beliefs that cause many…
A comprehensive sex education should expose the emotional beliefs that cause many people to prefer sexual ignorance over sexual knowledge.
(Other Sources) Twenty-five to 30 percent of women climax without additional clitoral stimulation. Experts…
Twenty-five to 30 percent of women climax without additional clitoral stimulation. Experts believe these women may have a larger clitoris than usual so it’s...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Men tell me how convinced they are that ALL their partners orgasm…
Men tell me how convinced they are that ALL their partners orgasm during sex. But that's kind of what faking orgasm is about, isn't...
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) Considering the physical advantage which the married individual has in securing intercourse…
Considering the physical advantage which the married individual has in securing intercourse without going outside of his own home, it is apparent that the...
(Nosper Dialogues) “Sexual pleasure …”
JANE:What do you think young people should be told about sexual pleasure?
Sadie: I think it’s important first to teach them about consent and respect....
(Shere Hite) Men have been brainwashed to think they’re the sexual experts, and furthermore,…
Men have been brainwashed to think they’re the sexual experts, and furthermore, that whatever feels good to them is what feels good and ‘fulfils’...
(Love Sex Intimacy) I suggest it is unreasonable to expect women to replicate the unrealistic…
I suggest it is unreasonable to expect women to replicate the unrealistic sexual feats claimed by a tiny minority. What is impossible for me...
(Feedback) I think you pass along wonderful information. Thank you for the opportunity…
I think you pass along wonderful information. Thank you for the opportunity to learn and share your knowledge. Calvin
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) … a great many of the married females may be disappointed and…
... a great many of the married females may be disappointed and seriously disturbed when they find that they are not responding in their...
(Learn About Sexuality) Incredibly it is assumed everyone has the intellect, experience and emotional detachment…
Incredibly it is assumed everyone has the intellect, experience and emotional detachment needed to understand sexuality.
(Other Sources) … some religious traditions regard a thought as equivalent to an act;…
... some religious traditions regard a thought as equivalent to an act; thus, a person who has ‘immoral’ sexual daydreams or desires is as...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Lack of understanding about female sexuality means most women prefer to say…
Lack of understanding about female sexuality means most women prefer to say nothing at all. It has certainly made me wonder: if the 'normal'...
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) The history of science is part of the history of the freedom…
The history of science is part of the history of the freedom to observe, to reflect, to experiment, to record, and to bear witness.
(Nosper Dialogues) “Never had an orgasm …”
Penny: After I got married, I was talking to a friend of mine about sex. I found out that, though she’d been married for...
(Shere Hite) If I could find a sex partner with whom I felt completely…
If I could find a sex partner with whom I felt completely as ease sexually, I would probably have an orgasm during intercourse or...
(Love Sex Intimacy) Reproduction is the prime purpose of sex. So sex is presented in…
Reproduction is the prime purpose of sex. So sex is presented in terms of intercourse, in which female orgasm plays no role, but which...
(Feedback) Reality is all that we have to work with at the end…
Reality is all that we have to work with at the end of the day. Mona
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) There is an honesty in science which refuses to accept the idea…
There is an honesty in science which refuses to accept the idea that there are aspects of the material universe that are better not...
(Learn About Sexuality) Believing that experts can understand what we cannot understand ourselves is part…
Believing that experts can understand what we cannot understand ourselves is part of the problem. If it cannot be explained (at least to graduates)...
(Other Sources) Sex is strongly linked to happiness. Being comfortable with one’s personal sexual…
Sex is strongly linked to happiness. Being comfortable with one’s personal sexual preferences and having a partner who shares and values these are key...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Forget the bluffers! What matters is making the most of our own…
Forget the bluffers! What matters is making the most of our own experiences whether we describe them as orgasmic or not.
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) The decline in sexual activity of the older male is partly ……
The decline in sexual activity of the older male is partly ... the result of a general decline in ... capacity. It’s ... affected...
(Nosper Dialogues) “Is sex education a modern right …?”
JANE: Access to comprehensive, authoritative and realistic sex education is a basic human right. So why is it almost impossible to find in our...
(Shere Hite) Sometimes I have felt that reaching orgasm was more a matter of…
Sometimes I have felt that reaching orgasm was more a matter of satisfying my partner’s desire to satisfy me than my own need for...
(Love Sex Intimacy) Many people, such as agony aunts and journalists in popular magazines, pronounce…
Many people, such as agony aunts and journalists in popular magazines, pronounce on sexuality without having any relevant qualifications in sexology. Such information is...
(Feedback) Jane’s point of view is quite challenging and has expanded my horizons…
Jane’s point of view is quite challenging and has expanded my horizons of how I see human sexuality. Pakehamack