Shere Hite – Staggeringly uniformed. The mo…
Staggeringly uniformed. The more confident they (men) are of their sexual prowess and the effectiveness of their techniques, the more ignorant they seem to...
Ways Women Orgasm – It is really quite disturbing …
It is really quite disturbing that young women today are so unaware of the facts about male sex drive. Every man knows that past...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – The physical contacts between …
The physical contacts between females in the homosexual relations had often depended on little more than simple lip kissing and generalised body contacts.
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Wow!!!! You are amazing! On target and right to the point!!! People struggle and they don't know where to turn for help. This is...
Other Sources – Considering the number of wome…
Considering the number of women who have sex regularly, the number of orgasms they report having is shockingly low.
Love Sex Intimacy – No boy reaches puberty and con…
No boy reaches puberty and consciously decides to be aroused by girls. It just happens. If it doesn't, he may have a very low...
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – There are males who never mast…
There are males who never masturbate. There are a few males who masturbate only one or twice in their lives; and there are others...
Learn About Sexuality – The issue of female orgasm wit…
The issue of female orgasm with a lover is at the core of sexual politics. Men want to feel valued as lovers. Women want...
Shere Hite – Sex is intimate physical activ…
Sex is intimate physical activity for pleasure, to share pleasure with another person (or just alone).
Ways Women Orgasm – Even if a woman wanted to be h…
Even if a woman wanted to be honest, she still has the problem of how to respond during sex. Men want a partner to...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – In the sample of single female…
In the sample of single females, a high proportion (51%) of those who had had any homosexual experience had had it with only a...
Testimonials – Thanks Jane I appreciate lear…
Thanks Jane, I appreciate learning the facts even though they seem somehow harsh to swallow. Hugs Jose
Other Sources – Just as a man forgets feelings…
Just as a man forgets feelings, a woman forgets her sensual desires and longings. The practicalities of day-to-day survival and living take precedence over...
Love Sex Intimacy – Some women mislead men into be…
Some women mislead men into believing that they are satisfied either to end sex sooner or to satisfy a man's need to feel that...
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – When she fails to be intereste…
When she fails to be interested in sexual relations with her husband, when she is less interested than he is, when she refuses to...
Learn About Sexuality – Confusingly for men the wome…
Confusingly, for men, the women who are shouting loudest about female orgasm are the ones who have no idea how it is achieved. But...
Shere Hite – My greatest displeasure is fee…
My greatest displeasure is feeling myself to be simply a substitute for his hand, a dish of mashed potatoes, or any warm place he...
Ways Women Orgasm – Ultimately the aim is for Ways…
Ultimately the aim is for Ways Women Orgasm to facilitate an open and constructive dialogue, covering questions or experiences from women and their partners,...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – … between 36 and 44 per cent…
... between 36 and 44 per cent of the females ...had responded to orgasm in a part ... of their coitus in marriage. About...
Testimonials – Your fact based researches & d…
Your fact based researches & deep knowledge about human sexuality has been of genuine benefit to many folks, which luckily I happened to be...
Other Sources – How to satisfy a woman every t…
How to satisfy a woman every time: Caress, praise, pamper,… die for, dream of, tease, gratify, squeeze, indulge, idolise, worship. How to satisfy a...
Love Sex Intimacy – Vaginal lubrication is assumed…
Vaginal lubrication is assumed to be another key indicator of female sexual arousal but this response facilitates intercourse (and therefore reproduction). In no way...
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – In general the sexual pattern…
In general, the sexual patterns of the younger generation are so nearly identical with the sexual patterns of the older generations in regard to...
Learn About Sexuality – Sexuality is about talking ob…
Sexuality is about talking, observing or interacting with others in return for payment or other non-relationship rewards. Depending on our personality we may employ...
Ways Women Orgasm – Very few virgins approach sex …
Very few virgins approach sex realising that a woman might need to exaggerate her true sexual arousal during sex. Women learn over time to...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – It is difficult for most males…
It is difficult for most males to comprehend that females are not aroused by seeing male genitalia. Some males never come to comprehend this.
Testimonials – Your articles are always very …
Your articles are always very informative and interesting. Thank you for your posts. Heather
Other Sources – Research has shown that orgasm…
Research has shown that orgasms are also not widely considered to be the most important aspect of sexual experience.
Love Sex Intimacy – A man can be aroused by erotic…
A man can be aroused by erotic stimuli throughout the day. So by the time he gets an opportunity for sexual activity (even masturbation),...
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – … impotence is in actuality …
... impotence is in actuality a relatively rare phenomenon.
Learn About Sexuality – Sexuality is about appreciatin…
Sexuality is about appreciating what causes us to become aroused and learning how we can achieve orgasm both alone and with a lover.
Shere Hite – … the different position and t…
… the different position and the closeness of the partner prevent a successful masturbating technique.
Ways Women Orgasm – True sexual desire involves ou…
True sexual desire involves our motivation to enjoy our sexual arousal and orgasm by appreciating aspects of eroticism, by discovering masturbation alone and by...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – There were wives and husbands …
There were wives and husbands in the older generation who did not even know that orgasm was possible for a female.
Testimonials – Sex Education should be mandat…
Sex Education should be mandatory across the world. Especially in countries like India. Shikha
Other Sources – The best sex starts long befor…
The best sex starts long before the clothes come off.
Love Sex Intimacy – Those who are paid to promote …
Those who are paid to promote sex succeed in confusing us all (even women) over what is truly possible. Women who talk about orgasm...
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – In general more males prefer …
In general, more males prefer to have intercourse in the light, and more females prefer it in the dark.
Learn About Sexuality – If any form of clitoral stimul…
If any form of clitoral stimulation (oral or manual) were to cause female orgasm with a lover, women would have no reason to accept...
Shere Hite – If my body wanted me to have o…
If my body wanted me to have orgasms, I'm sure it would see I did. I'm healthy, normal, well-balanced, and all that, so if...
Ways Women Orgasm – Young women often don’t know h…
Young women often don't know how to orgasm and why should they? There are few sources of information to help younger women learn how...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – It cannot be emphasized too of…
It cannot be emphasized too often that orgasm cannot be taken as the sole criterion for determining the degree of satisfaction which a female...
Testimonials – If more men would take the tim…
If more men would take the time to understand their women this way the number of happy marriages would no doubt increase! David S.
Other Sources – Perhaps you took a course on h…
Perhaps you took a course on human sexuality in college. If you did, you likely remember one thing: the lecture on the female orgasm....
Love Sex Intimacy – The concept of female arousal …
The concept of female arousal (as evidenced by the cliched moaning) comes from pornography where a woman emulates a response to provide a male...
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – By the time he is 30 the sing…
By the time he is 30, the single male has become much more efficient in his social approaches and does not lag far behind...
Learn About Sexuality – The kind of stimulation that …
The kind of stimulation, that might lead to orgasm, is highly specific and involves massaging the erectile organ or more specifically the blood-flow within...
Shere Hite – Of course once he (Freud) had …
Of course once he (Freud) had laid down this definition of our sexuality, Freud not so strangely discovered a tremendous 'problem' of 'frigidity' in...
Ways Women Orgasm – Be the devoted admirer: charmi…
Be the devoted admirer: charming, companionable and have a laugh together. For a woman to be amenable to sex she needs to feel good...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – In marriage the male more or l…
In marriage the male more or less assumes that coitus is his privilege, and the law confirms him in this interpretation.
Testimonials – Your research has been enlight…
Your research has been enlightening me, no doubt about that. Kashif
Other Sources – Feeling like we don’ live up t…
Feeling like we don’ live up to the physical ideal, women often grow to view themselves, and even their genitalia, as undesirable.
Love Sex Intimacy – Women define orgasm in terms o…
Women define orgasm in terms of the emotional feelings they experience rather than eroticism as men do. But orgasm must arise in the same...
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – For the population as a whole…
For the population as a whole, it has been shown that frequencies of sexual outlet depend upon the age of the individual, the age...
Learn About Sexuality – The more creative and inventiv…
The more creative and inventive we are about imagining scenarios, the more likely we are to enjoy solitary sexual activity that relies on our...
Shere Hite – Sociocultural influence more o…
Sociocultural influence more often than not places woman in a position in which she must adapt, sublimate, inhibit, or even distort her natural capacity...
Ways Women Orgasm – She will not want to ‘make lov…
She will not want to 'make love' to you if she is angry or exhausted. You can't expect her to be amenable in bed...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – Human males throughout history…
Human males throughout history and among all peoples have been most often concerned with the sexual activities of the female when those activities served...
Testimonials – After having read a few of the…
After having read a few of the stories here, I can say that they are much more logically consistent with real life - than...
Other Sources – And since scientists can’t agr…
And since scientists can’t agree about what women’s sexual response is, what constitutes female sexual dysfunction, or if women have a definitive sexual peak,...
Love Sex Intimacy – Any discussion of female sexua…
Any discussion of female sexuality is usually aimed at providing turn-ons for men rather than being a realistic description of how women truly orgasm.
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – … throughout the lives of ma…
... throughout the lives of many males, including married males especially of upper social levels, masturbation remains as an occasional source of outlet that...
Learn About Sexuality – Adults masturbate over the lon…
Adults masturbate over the longer term because they can generate fantasies that reliably lead to orgasm.
Ways Women Orgasm – Be ready to acknowledge the ef…
Be ready to acknowledge the effort your partner makes for your benefit by offering sex and be ready to give her some space from...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – Just as in the human species …
Just as in the human species, it is the male among practically all of the mammals which initiates the ultimate genital union.
Testimonials – Jane hi! I’m very proud of you…
Jane hi! I'm very proud of you for continuing the fight on Sex Ed. I have learned a lot and appreciate and respect your...
Other Sources – For women it is increasingly …
For women, it is increasingly difficult to carve out the dual identity of mother and sensual lover. Plus, there is a rival for her...
Love Sex Intimacy – Intercourse involves coordinat…
Intercourse involves coordinating with a man's thrusting pace and rhythm while masturbation alone focuses on drumming up mental inspiration. Overall masturbation is worlds apart...
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – There are some data that indic…
There are some data that indicate that the frequency of morning erection is correlated with ... frequency of sexual activity ... and that the...
Learn About Sexuality – Sexuality is about enjoying th…
Sexuality is about enjoying the responsiveness of our own body through masturbation. Our mind's ability to respond to erotic scenarios (both real and imagined)...
Shere Hite – I don’t enjoy masturbating and…
I don't enjoy masturbating and have never reached orgasm when doing it. Every six months to a year or so, I will rather idly...
Ways Women Orgasm – When you have family insist o…
When you have family, insist on some privacy in the bedroom early on and be prepared to arrange and pay for regular evenings out...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – The male … may think it inev…
The male ... may think it inevitable that anyone who is in love would dream of having overt sexual relations with her lover. But...
Testimonials – Dearest Jane Your articles ar…
Dearest Jane, Your articles are Amazingly True, as found after discussing with my wife. Hearty Congrats. Dave H.
Other Sources – Exploring what defines women’s…
Exploring what defines women’s libido and why it becomes depleted, I investigate whether we have unrealistic expectations about our sex drive, who defines what...
Love Sex Intimacy – I present a definition of what…
I present a definition of what is involved in sexual response. Essentially an erotic stimulus, a mental trigger, causes the brain to send blood...
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – Erection … is practically a da…
Erection … is practically a daily matter for all small boys, from earliest infancy … Slight physical stimulation of the genitalia, general body tensions...
Learn About Sexuality – For the purposes of reproducti…
For the purposes of reproduction, a woman has to be willing to continue intercourse until a man ejaculates.
Love Sex Intimacy – Reproduction is the prime purp…
Reproduction is the prime purpose of sex. So sex is presented in terms of intercourse, in which female orgasm plays no role, but which...
Shere Hite – Sometimes emotional orgasm was…
Sometimes emotional orgasm was felt as the desire to conceive, to be impregnated, ...
Ways Women Orgasm – Ways Women Orgasm is for coupl…
Ways Women Orgasm is for couples who want to share ideas on enjoying sexual pleasure together, within the context of a healthy relationship and...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – For most males discussions of…
For most males, discussions of sex often provide some sort of erotic stimulation. They do not provide anything like the same sort of stimulation...
Testimonials – Just ordered two of your books…
Just ordered two of your books! It is refreshing to see a true representation of female sexuality! Hayley
Other Sources – The average size of an erect p…
The average size of an erect penis in Europe is 6 inches, in Asia 5 inches, and in Africa 7 inches.
Love Sex Intimacy – Men’s bravado involves exagger…
Men's bravado involves exaggerating the number or variety of their sexual opportunities and lovers. Women's bravado involves boasting about orgasm. But their modesty and...
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – Male prostitutes may be involv…
Male prostitutes may be involved in heterosexual prostitution, which is rare, or in homosexual prostitution, which is much more frequent.
Learn About Sexuality – Sexuality is about our motivat…
Sexuality is about our motivation to explore our fantasies both during masturbation alone and during sex play with a lover. Our ability to reach...