(Feedback) Jane, I’m very proud of you for continuing the fight on Sex…
Jane, I’m very proud of you for continuing the fight on Sex Ed. Regards JeanClaude
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) Although it is commonly believed that most males prefer sexual relationships with…
Although it is commonly believed that most males prefer sexual relationships with ... younger partners, and although most males are attracted by ... younger...
(Learn About Sexuality) Any woman who wants intercourse, can find it easily enough. Women only…
Any woman who wants intercourse, can find it easily enough. Women only advertise because they are trying to make money out of men.
(Other Sources) Women are turned on by what is done to them, men are…
Women are turned on by what is done to them, men are turned on by what they see.
(Ways Women Orgasm) Sex remains a highly personal and embarrassing topic for most people. I…
Sex remains a highly personal and embarrassing topic for most people. I hope that my efforts will save other couples some of the difficulties...
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) … in many species of mammal the male ejaculates almost instantly upon…
... in many species of mammal the male ejaculates almost instantly upon intromission ... this is true of man’s closest relatives among the primates.
(Nosper Dialogues) Satisfied by her lover …
SJK: A woman who isnt satisfied by her lover loses her sex drive. She may have sex but faking becomes inevitable! JANE: Perhaps you...
(Shere Hite) There are many myths about what men and women want and enjoy….
There are many myths about what men and women want and enjoy. Great honesty is necessary.
(Love Sex Intimacy) Men are proactive lovers because of their arousal. Men enjoy exploring women’s…
Men are proactive lovers because of their arousal. Men enjoy exploring women's bodies because it is arousing for them. Foreplay existed well before any...
(Feedback) It’s not every day you meet someone focused on such an important…
It’s not every day you meet someone focused on such an important aspect of human relationships! John M.
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) Some of them (male homosexuals) had had experience with scores and in…
Some of them (male homosexuals) had had experience with scores and in many instances with hundreds of different partners. Apparently, basic psychologic factors account...
(Learn About Sexuality) We will never be able to protect girls, if we are not…
We will never be able to protect girls, if we are not honest about what they can expect from sex.
(Other Sources) Women don’t like it when you refer to sex as ‘sex’. Call…
Women don't like it when you refer to sex as 'sex'. Call it 'making love'.
(Ways Women Orgasm) I, for one, was bitterly disappointed when sex did not deliver the…
I, for one, was bitterly disappointed when sex did not deliver the easy arousal portrayed in erotic fiction. I also could not believe that...
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) The gifts that are bestowed by males of all social levels upon…
The gifts that are bestowed by males of all social levels upon girls with whom they keep company many be cloaked with fine sentiments,...
(Nosper Dialogues) Natural techniques
Zrak : Hello, you have a perfect website. I support your efforts to educate women and keep them informed about sex education. Jane: Thanks...
(Shere Hite) Often I resent the fact that my husband limits most of his…
Often I resent the fact that my husband limits most of his kissing to sex-resulting situations.
(Love Sex Intimacy) And if women orgasm easily through oral sex, why do men complain…
And if women orgasm easily through oral sex, why do men complain that women seldom return the favour by offering fellatio? But also why...
(Feedback) Thank you for your work normalizing sexuality and making it part of…
Thank you for your work normalizing sexuality and making it part of life, that is essential for peace and unity. When folks make it...
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) Some 37 per cent (of married women) had reached their first orgasm…
Some 37 per cent (of married women) had reached their first orgasm in masturbation. Some 18 per cent had reached their first orgasm in...
(Learn About Sexuality) As with all forms of casual sex, swinging focuses on intercourse and…
As with all forms of casual sex, swinging focuses on intercourse and male orgasm.
(Other Sources) … hard core pornography is not a celebration of sexual freedom; it…
... hard core pornography is not a celebration of sexual freedom; it is a cynical exploitation of female sexual activity through the device of...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Romance may cause a woman to be amenable to sex but anyone…
Romance may cause a woman to be amenable to sex but anyone who is familiar with orgasm will know that reaching orgasm involves a...
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) … 4 per cent of the white males are exclusively homosexual throughout…
... 4 per cent of the white males are exclusively homosexual throughout their lives, after the onset of adolescence.
(Nosper Dialogues) I’m going to pass …
JANE: Hi Emily, You seem to be someone new, who is giving orgasm advice to women on the web and elsewhere. You may have...
(Shere Hite) Most men have fucked me with a minimum of foreplay, have been…
Most men have fucked me with a minimum of foreplay, have been reluctant to touch me (not from repulsion just lack of interest), and...
(Love Sex Intimacy) Consider fellatio as a parallel. No matter how amazing the sensations are…
Consider fellatio as a parallel. No matter how amazing the sensations are for a man, when a lover stimulates his penis orally, the mouth...
(Feedback) Your dedication to advocating for a more scientific and inclusive approach to…
Your dedication to advocating for a more scientific and inclusive approach to research in human sexuality is truly commendable. Survin
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) Practically all of the males in the sample had had the opportunity…
Practically all of the males in the sample had had the opportunity to observe portrayals of sexual action, and had taken the opportunity to...
(Learn About Sexuality) Women tend to be wary of any male approach, no matter how…
Women tend to be wary of any male approach, no matter how it is disguised, because they learn that men are just looking for...
(Other Sources) It might seem to be an obvious solution, but when examining research…
It might seem to be an obvious solution, but when examining research into sexual behavior and sexual satisfaction, the issue of communication crops up...
(Ways Women Orgasm) When girls become women they learn that men’s response to their body…
When girls become women they learn that men's response to their body provides them with a tremendous advantage both in earning easy admiration and...
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) Nerves have been demonstrated inside the vagina only in an area in…
Nerves have been demonstrated inside the vagina only in an area in the anterior wall, proximate to the base of the clitoris.
(Nosper Dialogues) Emotionally tied to a man
JANE: Sex is an emotional bonding mechanism for men. Ulysses : And women too. In fact, mostly women. A man can have sex and...
(Shere Hite) Waiting for the Right Man to make us orgasm is like waiting…
Waiting for the Right Man to make us orgasm is like waiting for the prince to come.
(Love Sex Intimacy) Men learn from a young age that sex is a topic that…
Men learn from a young age that sex is a topic that is not mentioned in front of women. So many women are offended...
(Feedback) I have to say I am impressed and convinced by your arguments,…
I have to say I am impressed and convinced by your arguments, observations and conclusions. Steven S.
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) For most of the females in the sample, the homosexual activity had…
For most of the females in the sample, the homosexual activity had been limited to a relatively short period of time. ... This means...
(Learn About Sexuality) Men learn that women do not appreciate direct sexual approaches. A man…
Men learn that women do not appreciate direct sexual approaches. A man is likely to get his face slapped or to be reported for...
(Other Sources) Orgasms are natural, but intercourse is not, for many of us, the…
Orgasms are natural, but intercourse is not, for many of us, the easiest way to have them.
(Ways Women Orgasm) Presumably, for a fortunate few, the erotic stories describing the overwhelming sexual…
Presumably, for a fortunate few, the erotic stories describing the overwhelming sexual arousal that fictional women have from vaginal penetration are a reality. For...
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) … we have already reached the conclusion that the patterns of behavior…
... we have already reached the conclusion that the patterns of behavior are largely laid down by age 16, and that relatively few persons...
(Nosper Dialogues) Something wrong with me…
Steph: Everything you talk about in your book, particularly with reference to your problems with having an orgasm from intercourse, I have had the...
(Shere Hite) To assume that intercourse is the basic expression of female sexuality, during…
To assume that intercourse is the basic expression of female sexuality, during which women should orgasm, and then to analyze women’s ‘responses’ to intercourse...
(Love Sex Intimacy) I am challenging modern beliefs about female sexuality, which I believe are…
I am challenging modern beliefs about female sexuality, which I believe are wrong. For example: if women masturbate during sex, why are so few...
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) The factors which are responsible for the correlations between the age at…
The factors which are responsible for the correlations between the age at which the male turns adolescent and the nature of his subsequent sexual...
(Learn About Sexuality) Sexuality is about our emotions and how we feel loved in our…
Sexuality is about our emotions and how we feel loved in our relationships with others.
(Other Sources) I think that in the discussion of natural problems we ought to…
I think that in the discussion of natural problems we ought to begin not with the Scriptures, but with experiments, and demonstrations.
(Ways Women Orgasm) The aim of Ways Women Orgasm is not to dwell on the…
The aim of Ways Women Orgasm is not to dwell on the difficulties but to accept that they exist and suggest how couples can...
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) More individuals (96%) of the college level and 95 per cent of…
More individuals (96%) of the college level and 95 per cent of the high school group, are ultimately included (involved in masturbation), fewer (89%)...
(Nosper Dialogues) ZERO interest
Tony: I have been married for 24 years. Since we had kids 16.5 years ago my wife has ZERO...and I mean ZERO interest in...
(Shere Hite) Eleven point six percent of the women in this study never orgasmed,…
Eleven point six percent of the women in this study never orgasmed, and most of them also never masturbated.
(Love Sex Intimacy) Heterosexual men assume that the sensations of being penetrated are equally arousing…
Heterosexual men assume that the sensations of being penetrated are equally arousing as the sensations of penetrating. They don't take into account that intercourse...
(Feedback) Your stories about healthy sexuality are consistently enlightening, most valuable. Rick
Your stories about healthy sexuality are consistently enlightening, most valuable. Rick
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) … the average (median) female in the sample had reached orgasm in…
... the average (median) female in the sample had reached orgasm in something between 70 and 77 per cent of her marital coitus.
(Learn About Sexuality) Women engage in intimate physical activity with a lover primarily as a…
Women engage in intimate physical activity with a lover primarily as a bonding mechanism and to demonstrate affection.
(Other Sources) Women aren’t automatically excited the way men are. But men seem to…
Women aren’t automatically excited the way men are. But men seem to expect us to be turned on, and they’re annoyed when it doesn’t...
(Ways Women Orgasm) If men want women to be more amenable to sex, then they…
If men want women to be more amenable to sex, then they should take the emphasis off orgasm (both their own and hers) and...
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) The sexual life of the young boy … is usually sporadic. The…
The sexual life of the young boy ... is usually sporadic. The sexual life of the old male is ... an end in itself,...
(Nosper Dialogues) Women’s lack of arousal …
Jessica: Uh, WTF is this!! ?? finger shake womens lack of arousal and orgasm with a lover? JANE: I am talking about responding to...
(Shere Hite) Physically it (intercourse) is slightly pleasant, but boring, because it lasts too…
Physically it (intercourse) is slightly pleasant, but boring, because it lasts too long and never brings me to orgasm.
(Love Sex Intimacy) Sex is done to women. It does not originate from their own…
Sex is done to women. It does not originate from their own responses. So it is highly embarrassing for most women.
(Feedback) You show great courage in challenging the popular misconceptions and nonsense spread…
You show great courage in challenging the popular misconceptions and nonsense spread by the media or inspired by the political or ideological theory that...
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) The literature usually implies that the vagina itself should be the center…
The literature usually implies that the vagina itself should be the center of sensory stimulation, and this as we have seen is a physical...
(Learn About Sexuality) Women often receive rewards for pleasing a man. Yet men cannot believe…
Women often receive rewards for pleasing a man. Yet men cannot believe that some women employ behaviours to please men.
(Other Sources) I began suggesting sex in bar bathrooms or sex while his roommate…
I began suggesting sex in bar bathrooms or sex while his roommate watched. The promise of publication was like a drug, and the more...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Regardless of her sexual expectations, any woman is more likely to offer…
Regardless of her sexual expectations, any woman is more likely to offer sex when she feels good about the relationship and loving towards her...
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) In marital relations, oral stimulation of male or female genitalia occurs in…
In marital relations, oral stimulation of male or female genitalia occurs in about 60 per cent of the histories of persons who have been...
(Nosper Dialogues) Masturbation workshops
Tom H. : Check out the womens masturbation workshops advertised on the internet! Jane: How many masturbation workshops do you know of for men?...
(Shere Hite) I don’t enjoy masturbating and have never reached orgasm when doing it….
I don’t enjoy masturbating and have never reached orgasm when doing it. Every six months to a year or so, I will rather idly...
(Love Sex Intimacy) The evidence for female responsiveness needs to come from women who can…
The evidence for female responsiveness needs to come from women who can talk confidently about their enjoyment of arousal (a response to erotic stimuli)...
(Feedback) I am new to your website. I have found many interesting articles….
I am new to your website. I have found many interesting articles. Stacy
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) … sexual contacts between males of the lower mammalian species do proceed…
... sexual contacts between males of the lower mammalian species do proceed to the point of orgasm, at least for the male that mounts...
(Learn About Sexuality) Responsiveness is a characteristic of the brain we are born with. A…
Responsiveness is a characteristic of the brain we are born with. A responsive person discovers orgasm because the sensations of tumescence (increased blood-flow) motivate...
(Other Sources) Many women think of masturbation as unnatural and disgusting … and don’t…
Many women think of masturbation as unnatural and disgusting ... and don’t understand why anybody does it and are unsympathetic to the view that...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Given the popular belief that female arousal and orgasm during sex are…
Given the popular belief that female arousal and orgasm during sex are easily achieved, many women simply assume that they experience these sensations as...
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) … a considerable portion of the population, perhaps the major portion of…
... a considerable portion of the population, perhaps the major portion of the male population, has at least some homosexual experience between adolescence and...
(Nosper Dialogues) Eat, sleep, sex – that’s all I need …
FMG: I saw an article that said sex once a week is good for a happy relationship. That is not true for a man,...
(Shere Hite) Whichever you prefer is a personal decision and a matter of temperament…
Whichever you prefer is a personal decision and a matter of temperament - whether you define pleasure as desire or its satisfaction. Is the...
(Love Sex Intimacy) Stimulation of the vagina is associated with a male partner. The clitoris…
Stimulation of the vagina is associated with a male partner. The clitoris is associated with women's stimulation of themselves or other women. Naturally, the...
(Feedback) I think society places pressure on the female in a way that…
I think society places pressure on the female in a way that probably isn’t fair to support society and maybe men’s fantasies. Darin
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) There are no cases in our sample, and practically none in the…
There are no cases in our sample, and practically none in the literature, of females publicly exhibiting their genitalia because they derived erotic satisfaction...
(Learn About Sexuality) Responsiveness does not arise because an individual has some special knowledge or…
Responsiveness does not arise because an individual has some special knowledge or techniques. This is not a conscious choice.
(Other Sources) Porn to men is not a big deal. They honestly can’t see…
Porn to men is not a big deal. They honestly can’t see how watching a sexy film can be any sort of reflection on...
(Ways Women Orgasm) If a woman cannot give herself an orgasm then it is unlikely…
If a woman cannot give herself an orgasm then it is unlikely that someone else will be able to. Sexual arousal originates in the...
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) … the average adolescent girl gets along well enough with a fifth…
... the average adolescent girl gets along well enough with a fifth as much sexual activity as the adolescent boy, and the frequency of...
(Nosper Dialogues) Solo orgasms
Steve P. : There is the data that women reach orgasm in 4 minutes (I know it is from Kinsey). I think that not...
(Shere Hite) As the feminist group the Redstockings put it, for many women marriage…
As the feminist group the Redstockings put it, for many women marriage is one of the few forms of employment that is readily available.
(Love Sex Intimacy) In fact women are passive receivers of the stimulation men want to…
In fact women are passive receivers of the stimulation men want to provide. Women are passive due to lack of arousal. This is why...
(Feedback) Even things I probably knew but was just buried somewhere deep within,…
Even things I probably knew but was just buried somewhere deep within, and you helped me dig it all out to the surface! Mona
(Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality) … some females object to the frequencies of coitus and therefore overestimate…
... some females object to the frequencies of coitus and therefore overestimate the amount they are actually having. Males, on the other hand, often...
(Learn About Sexuality) Orgasm arises as a subconscious response when the circumstances are appropriate. Once…
Orgasm arises as a subconscious response when the circumstances are appropriate. Once our minds are aroused, we supply the correct stimulation instinctively.
(Other Sources) A man should look for what is, and not for what he…
A man should look for what is, and not for what he thinks should be.
(Ways Women Orgasm) If you cannot get turned-on in your mind then it doesn’t matter…
If you cannot get turned-on in your mind then it doesn't matter how much you stimulate your genitals - nothing will happen.
(Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality) Ultimately about 92 per cent of the total (male) population is involved…
Ultimately about 92 per cent of the total (male) population is involved in masturbation which leads to orgasm.
(Nosper Dialogues) Wrap it before you tap it … !
JANE: What do you think young people should be told about enjoying sexual pleasuring? Fiona: Wrap it before you tap it! (Im pretty proud...
(Shere Hite) We have arrived at a point in our thinking as a society…
We have arrived at a point in our thinking as a society where it has become acceptable for women to enjoy sex, as long...
(Love Sex Intimacy) I know we all want a man to think us the sexiest…
I know we all want a man to think us the sexiest thing in the world but it is not helpful to have female...
(Feedback) Hi Jane, I think your research has brought more methods and happiness…
Hi Jane, I think your research has brought more methods and happiness to people in the process of enjoying sexual life. That’s great. Especially...