Hi, I am Jane – founder of WaysWomenOrgasm.org. I write about the sexual experiences of real women in the population in the context of the researchers findings.
My focus is on helping women, and their lovers, who have not found answers elsewhere. I am challenging the sex advice given to women, which I believe is wrong.
Ways Women Orgasm
You can buy the paperback ‘Ways Women Orgasm’ (ISBN 978-0956-894700) from Amazon:
Ways Women Orgasm explores the contradictions in our current interpretation of women’s sexuality and the unrealistic expectations we have for female orgasm. Jane has the intellect to challenge the status quo and the courage to demand answers. She differentiates between erotic fiction and the much less popular facts and logic that support a scientific understanding of our sexuality.
Ways Women Orgasm presents real women’s sexual experiences:
- What real women say: Real women respond very differently to how women are portrayed in pornography and other erotic fiction.
- Orgasm techniques: A woman has to use erotic turn-ons (just as men do) to achieve the kind of sexual arousal that leads to orgasm.
- The politics of sex: Women boast about orgasm as a male turn-on. These are not realistic accounts of how women truly orgasm.
- Men & sex play: Women can make more of their sex lives by exploring techniques and ideas for more adventurous sex play.
All the text (132 articles) from Jane’s book ‘Ways Women Orgasm’ is replicated on the website WaysWomenOrgasm.org under the top menu headings: REAL WOMEN, ORGASM TECHNIQUES, SEXUAL POLITICS & SEX PLAY (33 articles in each category).
Thanks to all my fans!
Wow. Very few people will dive into such a difficult truth for so many. Thanks! Nina
I’m 55 and you certainly make me think and learn. Thank you. I love learning from you! Fred
My wife & I have viewed your sites and find them most interesting. Very educational. David R.
Your site has a lot of helpful information to help women feel more comfortable with their sexuality. I applaud your efforts. Gwen
Thank you for creating a site where both women and men can learn and share experiences about the most basic of human needs. Ann
A great reference guide for those challenged by elusive sexual satisfactions. Thank you, I have referred several women to your site. Joseph R.
Hello, I wanted you to know that I have enjoyed reading your book. I found your material interesting, perceptive, informative, and well written. Yumi
It was nice to find a site that is genuinely trying to help women with honest information and with no hidden agenda. It’s about the only one on the web I think. Cathy
Love your work and writing, Jane! Thank you for your efforts and all you do to promote sex-positivity and comprehensive education for all – much appreciated! Trey
… Jane’s website is genuinely trying to help women with honest information … AND it helps men too. If they want a better perspective. It is truly a site that will Open Your Eyes. Jeff
I like what you’ve written here. I find it refreshing for someone to be so direct and honest in their approach. Your writing is easy to read, but very interesting. Glad I found this site… Vernon C.
Hi Jane, A quickie… Just a short message to thank you for your brutal candour and honesty. I’ve now read your Ways Women Orgasm book and loved it. Your regular posts etc are brilliant. Carlos
Your RSM video presentation is impressive, Jane. It takes a lot of courage to stand up and present, let alone about such a taboo subject. Some excellent points. Well done again and very best of luck with your future public talks. ToteScrote
This blog should be required reading starting in high school and an exam should be taken before a man is married! If more men would take the time to understand their women this way the number of happy marriages would no doubt increase! David S.
So far, what I have read on your website, I find accurate. I think many women also find it accurate and the reality of it is disturbing. If sex education was really taught to girls, not reproductive education, we would be better off, because we would know the facts, not the fiction about sex. Peanut