Hi, I am Jane – founder of WaysWomenOrgasm.org. I write about the sexual experiences of real women in the population in the context of the researchers findings.
My focus is on helping women, and their lovers, who have not found answers elsewhere. I am challenging the sex advice given to women, which I believe is wrong.
Ways Women Orgasm
The website WaysWomenOrgasm.org presents the text of my book ‘Ways Women Orgasm’ (published 2010).
You can buy my book from Amazon either as a paper or a Kindle version:
Ways Women Orgasm explores the contradictions in our current interpretation of women’s sexuality and the unrealistic expectations we have for female orgasm. Jane has the intellect to challenge the status quo and the courage to demand answers. She differentiates between erotic fiction and the much less popular facts and logic that support a scientific understanding of our sexuality.
Ways Women Orgasm presents real women’s sexual experiences:
- What real women say: Real women respond very differently to how women are portrayed in pornography and other erotic fiction.
- Orgasm techniques: A woman has to use erotic turn-ons (just as men do) to achieve the kind of sexual arousal that leads to orgasm.
- The politics of sex: Women boast about orgasm as a male turn-on. These are not realistic accounts of how women truly orgasm.
- Men & sex play: Women can make more of their sex lives by exploring techniques and ideas for more adventurous sex play.
Thanks to all my fans!
Your stories are always thought provoking. Karl
Love your pages, you really know how to get people off !!! You are Hot !!!! Tim H.
Just wanted to thank you in person. I love your posts – open honest and informative. Jin-ah
I thought I knew a lot about women and sex. You’ve showed me that I know nothing. Woodshop
Your site has a lot of helpful information to help women feel more comfortable with their sexuality. I applaud your efforts. Gwen
Hello, you have a perfect website. I support your efforts to educate women and keep them informed about sex education. Zrak Sh.
Thank you for creating a site where both women and men can learn and share experiences about the most basic of human needs. Ann
Dear Jane, your work is fabulous! As a psychologist, your information has really been a great asset in helping my clients. Thank you for all you do!! Sincerely, Dr Rosalinda
We don’t have to like everything you say to begin to appreciate its power and wisdom. Sometimes our education and the truth are just outside of our mental comfort zone. Wael
I am glad that there are those like you that want to educate and not shame women for wanting to be happy in and of themselves. Thank you for providing the resources. Thank you for it. Asexual anon
I think women tend to think that when men talk of their ‘sex drive’ it’s some kind of metaphor. It isn’t. It actually is a biological imperative. And men need to understand that for women it isn’t. Mister Badger
Jane, I found your site to be very interesting and it was nice to find a site that is genuinely trying to help women with honest information and with no hidden agenda. Its about the only one on the web I think. Cathy
Thank you so much Jane. You deserve immense love from my side for being such an excellent writer. It a privilege for me to go through your writings. Looking forward to greater learnings through your books. Monica
Women complain about sex, not because all men are garbage in bed, but because women’s minds and bodies don’t react sexually in the same way men’s do. Both men AND women assume they should, but they don’t. Whatserface
You show great courage in challenging the popular misconceptions and nonsense spread by the media or inspired by the political or ideological theory that men are the same as women when it comes to sex and sexual enjoyment or motivation. Steve P.
I just wanted to thank you for so generously sharing such a wealth of helpful, thought-provoking information in such a nice, concise presentation. I immediately thought of several patients and supervisees I want to recommend your book to! Cheers! Ricky
So far, what I have read on your website, I find accurate. I think many women also find it accurate and the reality of it is disturbing. If sex education was really taught to girls, not reproductive education, we would be better off, because we would know the facts, not the fiction about sex. Peanut