JANE: Men believe that cunnilingus causes female orgasm. But where does this belief come from? It doesnt come from any research findings. Cunnilingus is clearly associated with pornography rather than womens sexual pleasure. Gabby: Wow…love your work but I can’t agree with this one. Maybe speaking clinically or in general. JANE: I am highlighting that women do not understand sexual response. Something must happen in the brain. Women talk of nice feelings or they say something feels good. But this is not necessarily orgasm. If you orgasm, you know for sure because your mind focuses on an erotic stimulus. JANE: The glans has the least erectile tissue of the clitoris. Men eulogise about oral sex but women say little. Are you talking about a true sexual release (a mental response to erotic stimuli) or just emotional and sensual pleasure? Gabby: Very very interesting I’m not sure I can answer that one! JANE: I appreciate your support for my work. Every day I present the research that concludes that women are talking about emotional responses with a lover. If you disagree, you need to speak up. Very few women ever comment on orgasm by any means. Men promote female orgasm with a lover. Gabby: I was afraid to disagree with an expert. Your knowledge of Hite’s work (among others), and years of work in this field are incredible. Thanks for your body of research and sharing it with us over years. JANE: You are welcome to disagree but I am asking for evidence. How do you get mentally aroused with a lover? What feelings are you describing as orgasm? Why do you think no one talked of the clitoris until Kinsey? Kinsey found that most women disliked oral sex. Gabby: I just read another clinician in this field. Hardly as well studied as you, who has often been surprised by findings she has made in some of her trials. The nuance you talk about is way over my head! We love ya keep up your incredible work. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all