Jane Thomas

Jane has researched sexuality for many years. Her articles give examples from real life so that the reader can learn from others. She uses straightforward language and all the images are non-pornographic.

Jane provides constructive sex advice for free because she believes that access to unbiased sex education is a basic human right. She suggests ideas for sex play and helps couples with issues that arise in long-term sexual relationships. Her books are on Amazon.

Anyone, who has orgasms, can explain explicitly how they achieve them. Jane asks women to explain the turn-ons, the anatomy and the stimulation technique involved to differentiate between sexual response and emotional rewards with a lover.

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Photographs of female nudes and magazines exhibiting nude or near nude females…


People often focus on physical stimulation techniques when talking about female orgasm….


One of the diagnostic criteria for FSD (female sexual dysfunction) is feeling…

Men tend to become defensive when it is suggested that vaginal intercourse…




Orgasm is something I am able to give myself any time -…

Ideally, we control our own stimulation because only we know the state…


Thanks for sharing real issues and topics about sex knowledge – most…

Outside of marriage relatively few females have coitus with anything like the…


If female orgasm occurred routinely with a lover, all heterosexuals, both male…


Relationships fail because men still don’t understand why a woman can’t be…

Women, whose sexual experiences are based purely on sex with a partner,…


The validity of extending generalizations derived from a study of any sample…


We have had lots of sex without me orgasming – sometimes it’s…

… responsiveness is a unique experience unlike any other. So if you…


Jane, I really do think you are onto something. You like Kinsey…

… the capacity to reproduce is not synonymous with the capacity to…


Any research that supports intercourse as a means of providing female orgasm…


If she’s too drunk, she can’t give you consent. Also, silence is…

To reach orgasm from sexual fantasies alone a woman has to achieve…


Experience indicates that the first volunteers from any group are likely to…


It seems that women have only recently discovered the nature and depth…

Intercourse is determined by a man’s responses so it is unlikely that…


I think you’re doing a great job. Clair

Female Responsiveness

Jane provides scientific (non-anecdotal) evidence in support of her conclusions by:

  • interpreting the research findings to account for erroneous assumptions made
  • explaining the biological precedents relating to genitals and responsiveness
  • discussing how men and women’s sexual behaviours reflect their responsiveness
  • defining how orgasm is achieved by anyone regardless of sex and orientation
  • presenting female masturbation to orgasm as an instinctive sexual response
  • demonstrating that no one can explain porno orgasms rationally (in terms of erotic turn-ons and consistent anatomy).

Porno orgasms are those women fake (by emulating porno actresses) as a turn-on and to reassure male ego, which are not supported by any facts, logic or research findings.