Jane Thomas

Jane has researched sexuality for many years. Her articles give examples from real life so that the reader can learn from others. She uses straightforward language and all the images are non-pornographic.

Jane provides constructive sex advice for free because she believes that access to unbiased sex education is a basic human right. She suggests ideas for sex play and helps couples with issues that arise in long-term sexual relationships. Her books are on Amazon.

Anyone, who has orgasms, can explain explicitly how they achieve them. Jane asks women to explain the turn-ons, the anatomy and the stimulation technique involved to differentiate between sexual response and emotional rewards with a lover.

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Since the frequencies of masturbation depend primarily on … the volition of…


In the early days, a man’s sex drive seems like a demonstration…


Women can use sex to get what they want. Men cannot, as…

In fact it’s not just lack of orgasm during vaginal intercourse that…



The human animal usually demands a certain privacy which is not always…


Men often feel very angry with women who never initiate sex and…

I explain the erotic stimuli that arouse me mentally. I describe the…


A great reference guide for those challenged by elusive sexual satisfactions. Thank…

Rhythmic pelvic thrusts during sexual activity are among the distinctive characteristics of…


A woman’s sexual role focuses on what happens before intercourse. She needs…

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… desire for sex is not always the primary motive for engaging…

Some women are motivated to explore their sexuality and do discover orgasm….


The boys who are earliest adolescent, by age twelve at the latest,…


Many women indicated that they could not even suggest that their male…

Men cannot accept that intercourse appeals to them because they are male….


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Photographs of female nudes and magazines exhibiting nude or near nude females…


People often focus on physical stimulation techniques when talking about female orgasm….


One of the diagnostic criteria for FSD (female sexual dysfunction) is feeling…

Men tend to become defensive when it is suggested that vaginal intercourse…


… our marriage customs … are based upon an assumption, that individuals…


Orgasm is something I am able to give myself any time -…

Ideally, we control our own stimulation because only we know the state…


Thanks for sharing real issues and topics about sex knowledge – most…

Female Responsiveness

Jane provides scientific (non-anecdotal) evidence in support of her conclusions by:

  • interpreting the research findings to account for erroneous assumptions made
  • explaining the biological precedents relating to genitals and responsiveness
  • discussing how men and women’s sexual behaviours reflect their responsiveness
  • defining how orgasm is achieved by anyone regardless of sex and orientation
  • presenting female masturbation to orgasm as an instinctive sexual response
  • demonstrating that no one can explain porno orgasms rationally (in terms of erotic turn-ons and consistent anatomy).

Porno orgasms are those women fake (by emulating porno actresses) as a turn-on and to reassure male ego, which are not supported by any facts, logic or research findings.