Jane Thomas

Jane has researched sexuality for many years. Her articles give examples from real life so that the reader can learn from others. She uses straightforward language and all the images are non-pornographic.

Jane provides constructive sex advice for free because she believes that access to unbiased sex education is a basic human right. She suggests ideas for sex play and helps couples with issues that arise in long-term sexual relationships. Her books are on Amazon.

Anyone, who has orgasms, can explain explicitly how they achieve them. Jane asks women to explain the turn-ons, the anatomy and the stimulation technique involved to differentiate between sexual response and emotional rewards with a lover.

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There are some who advocate the perpetuation of our ignorance because they…



We know that women do not orgasm with a lover because of…

Youtube Video


I am challenging women who say that orgasm with a partner is…





By engaging in intercourse, a woman risks pregnancy. Why would a woman…





Most of us are insecure about pleasing or performing for a lover….

It is a nonsense to suggest that women have a sex drive…


The evidence supporting women’s greater difficulties with sexual arousal compared with men…





Sexual arousal starts as a subconscious response to eroticism in the brain….





Trains and buses around the world at rush hour provide an opportunity…

Women enjoy chick flicks for the romantic scenarios that allow them to…


Few women challenge the media portrayals of the spontaneously orgasmic women because…





A woman accepts the stimulation provided by male lovemaking because of the…



Female Responsiveness

Jane provides scientific (non-anecdotal) evidence in support of her conclusions by:

  • interpreting the research findings to account for erroneous assumptions made
  • explaining the biological precedents relating to genitals and responsiveness
  • discussing how men and women’s sexual behaviours reflect their responsiveness
  • defining how orgasm is achieved by anyone regardless of sex and orientation
  • presenting female masturbation to orgasm as an instinctive sexual response
  • demonstrating that no one can explain porno orgasms rationally (in terms of erotic turn-ons and consistent anatomy).

Porno orgasms are those women fake (by emulating porno actresses) as a turn-on and to reassure male ego, which are not supported by any facts, logic or research findings.