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After fifty years of marriage one woman told me she had never been interested in men. Men tend to seek women out. Women don’t need sex but also they get affectionate companionship from girlfriends and their children. Men often...

Our Biological Motivation to Achieve Orgasm

There is a precedent for female masturbation in the animal world. Some female mammals do masturbate but since they do not ejaculate it is...

Women’s conscious use of sexual fantasy

Unless she masturbates to orgasm a woman is unlikely to appreciate that orgasm relies on psychological turn-ons. But equally if she has never had...

Women’s sexuality involves providing male turn-ons

Women display their bodies to gain approval from others. This behaviour is misunderstood by men who assume that a woman’s conscious behaviour (to present...

Reproduction: The Role of Heterosexual Intercourse

It is often assumed that women orgasm naturally during intercourse. Yet there are no research findings to support this view. Shere Hite’s work in...

Men are motivated by intercourse not by orgasm

There is an amazing lack of tolerance for any discussion of sex that does not involve promoting women as the sexual equals (or superiors)...

Talk of orgasm does not necessarily lead to more sex

Ironically (because only men’s responsiveness declines with age) women are often more sexually active when younger. Once a woman has children she is much...

Bringing variety of situation and technique to intercourse

Although intercourse provides little internal sensation, a woman feels some external pressure. When a man thrusts deeply the base of his penis may...

Techniques for getting the most out of anal intercourse

Few homosexual men orgasm solely from penetration. The penis is always involved. The anus and the entrance (vestibule) to the vagina have some sensitivity....

Female sexuality today is defined by male fantasies

Men’s state of arousal means they approach sex with a clear agenda. Women are not easily aroused which is why they talk about...

Women’s arousal depends on a more indirect mechanism

Men are turned on as a direct consequence of their drive to penetrate (a female) and thrust until ejaculation. A woman lacks this drive....

The male ‘arousal cycle’ from erection to ejaculation

Sensations of fear, apprehension, shock or surprise all give rise to nervous system responses that have characteristics in common with arousal. Some young boys...