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Only women have ever been described as ‘frigid’ (meaning cold). An unenthusiastic lover is a turn-off and causes a man to feel unappreciated. Men approach relationships with unrealistic expectations set by fictional media such as pornography, which depicts a fantasy...

Women’s use of fantasy makes orgasm easier alone

Men may be spontaneously aroused but most men most of the time need to do something to orgasm. So female orgasms cannot ‘just happen’. The...

The sexual anatomy involved in female orgasm

Because she targeted female masturbation specifically, Shere Hite’s sample included even more women (82%) who masturbated (compared with Kinsey’s sample). Yet even though such...

Women Are Not Spontaneously Aroused As Men Are

Men are easily aroused because their minds frequently focus on sexual opportunities. Nudity (especially genitals) triggers the male brain to anticipate a potential opportunity...

The anatomy involved in heterosexual intercourse

Men always approach sex and orgasm with a focus on the penis: either through intercourse, oral or manual stimulation. There is no debate over...

Women’s Minds Respond to Fewer Erotic Turn-Ons

Male orgasm is most usually associated with erotic stimuli. Yet it is sometimes suggested incorrectly that female orgasm relies on emotional stimuli. This misunderstanding...

Sexual techniques and exploring sex play with a lover

Men do not make ideal lovers of women. Not only do they orgasm too easily but men rarely appreciate either what drives women emotionally...

Techniques for getting the most out of anal intercourse

Few homosexual men orgasm solely from penetration. The penis is always involved. The anus and the entrance (vestibule) to the vagina have some sensitivity....

Married men have sex more often than single men do

In the movie ‘Bad Boys’ (1995) a married cop gives his opinion “That’s what married means. It means you sleep together but you can’t...

Relatively few women use a vibrator to masturbate

Sex toys are a useful addition to a couple’s sex play: to take the pressure off a man’s erection and to provide erotic stimulation...

Women are turned on more by fantasy than reality

Men are aroused by thinking about sexual activity with someone they find attractive. Only two thirds (69%) of women ever have erotic fantasies. The...

The symbiotic relationship between men and women

When living in an environment devoid of sexual stimuli (such as one without women) most men cease all forms of sexual activity. For example,...