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Prostitutes, swingers and bluffers may talk nonchalantly about techniques for pleasuring a man. But women rarely refer to the turn-ons they use to achieve mental arousal with a lover. This issue is vital to understanding why these orgasms are...

The sexual anatomy involved in female orgasm

Because she targeted female masturbation specifically, Shere Hite’s sample included even more women (82%) who masturbated (compared with Kinsey’s sample). Yet even though such...

Orgasm is not a vital aspect of women’s sexuality

Men approach sexual activity (alone or with a lover) already aroused and so they are easily stimulated to orgasm. Women are not spontaneously aroused...

Women only need to be amenable to intercourse

Samples based on volunteers will always attract people whose sexual (or political) motivation is well above the average for the general population. Women, who divulge...

Confusion over anatomy only arises with a male lover

Men’s orgasm techniques are consistent regardless of sexual orientation. Once he has responded to a turn-on, a man stimulates his penis whether he engages...

A woman is amenable to sex when she feels appreciated

Romance allows a man to demonstrate that he is interested in a woman as a person and causes a woman to interpret a man’s...

Bringing variety of situation and technique to intercourse

Although intercourse provides little internal sensation, a woman feels some external pressure. When a man thrusts deeply the base of his penis may...

Talk of orgasm does not necessarily lead to more sex

Ironically (because only men’s responsiveness declines with age) women are often more sexually active when younger. Once a woman has children she is much...

Showing sexual initiative and providing erotic feedback

Doesn’t anyone else find it odd (and very convenient!) that modern advice on female orgasm just so happens to reflect almost exactly how women’s...

Female arousal is more deeply buried in the subconscious

Sexual phenomena (such as masturbation or gay sex) tend to be shocking and alien until we discover we enjoy them.  Similarly once we experience...

Understanding what works: the clitoris versus the vagina

Regardless of gender, sexual activity that is aimed at achieving orgasm involves continuous rhythmic movements of the whole body focused primarily on the...

The symbiotic relationship between men and women

When living in an environment devoid of sexual stimuli (such as one without women) most men cease all forms of sexual activity. For example,...