(Nosper Dialogues) … sex is transactional
JANE: Men are naturally promiscuous. So a woman has to offer sex to keep a man committed to supporting her family goals. Cleo: How...
(Nosper Dialogues) Sex without consent
JANE: Sex without consent is rape regardless of intent. Kancha : Does it also applies to a men too? JANE: Consent involves the penetrating...
(Nosper Dialogues) Society’s reaction…
JANE: Most of the complications which are observable in sexual histories are the result of societys reaction when it obtains knowledge of an individuals...
(Nosper Dialogues) Interesting and intriguing
JANE: Women are under extreme pressure from men to say that they orgasm and so some women imagine something. I found it incredible at...
(Nosper Dialogues) Satisfied by her lover …
SJK: A woman who isnt satisfied by her lover loses her sex drive. She may have sex but faking becomes inevitable! JANE: Perhaps you...
(Nosper Dialogues) Natural techniques
Zrak : Hello, you have a perfect website. I support your efforts to educate women and keep them informed about sex education. Jane: Thanks...
(Nosper Dialogues) I’m going to pass …
JANE: Hi Emily, You seem to be someone new, who is giving orgasm advice to women on the web and elsewhere. You may have...
(Nosper Dialogues) Emotionally tied to a man
JANE: Sex is an emotional bonding mechanism for men. Ulysses : And women too. In fact, mostly women. A man can have sex and...
(Nosper Dialogues) Something wrong with me…
Steph: Everything you talk about in your book, particularly with reference to your problems with having an orgasm from intercourse, I have had the...
(Nosper Dialogues) ZERO interest
Tony: I have been married for 24 years. Since we had kids 16.5 years ago my wife has ZERO...and I mean ZERO interest in...
(Nosper Dialogues) Women’s lack of arousal …
Jessica: Uh, WTF is this!! ?? finger shake womens lack of arousal and orgasm with a lover? JANE: I am talking about responding to...
(Nosper Dialogues) Masturbation workshops
Tom H. : Check out the womens masturbation workshops advertised on the internet! Jane: How many masturbation workshops do you know of for men?...
(Nosper Dialogues) Eat, sleep, sex – that’s all I need …
FMG: I saw an article that said sex once a week is good for a happy relationship. That is not true for a man,...
(Nosper Dialogues) Solo orgasms
Steve P. : There is the data that women reach orgasm in 4 minutes (I know it is from Kinsey). I think that not...
(Nosper Dialogues) Wrap it before you tap it … !
JANE: What do you think young people should be told about enjoying sexual pleasuring? Fiona: Wrap it before you tap it! (Im pretty proud...
(Nosper Dialogues) Thinking of sex
Shubham: By seeing girls why we are thinking of sex?? Means by looking to big boobs or anything else. JANE: Biological sex drive just...
(Nosper Dialogues) Women know when they orgasm …
Joslyn: Women know when they orgasm. Cunnilingus definitely works! JANE: Could you be more explicit? What do you enjoy about cunnilingus? It cannot cause...
(Nosper Dialogues) Pregnancy and orgasm
Saif : Your information regarding definition of sex and emotions are tremendous. I most appreciate it. You have very vast knowledge of everything that...
(Nosper Dialogues) Sex isn’t about a magic position …
Jill: Im writing a magazine article on 5 experts favorite sex positions. Id like to ask you to be one of my experts. I...
(Nosper Dialogues) Sharing nudes
Rick: I'm 58 years old and married for 35 years!!! Don't have much sex now! Only had one affair, and that was 20 years...
(Nosper Dialogues) Facts versus magic …
Kathryn: Can't we have better, safer sex without reducing something so marvellous as female sexuality to simple facts? Kathryne (cont): Perhaps part of the...
(Nosper Dialogues) Bisexual transgender woman
Rachel: I am a woman who is transgender. Very late in life, just a few years ago, I discovered hormone replacement therapy and it...
(Nosper Dialogues) Does size matter …?
Sachin: Is there any chance to increase length of my penis? JANE: Men are penis obsessed! If only I had a dollar for every...
(Nosper Dialogues) Mental shopping list
Punditty: Another great story, Jane. I love the quote about the mental shopping list being compiled during repetitive penile thrusting. And this should be...
(Nosper Dialogues) The wrong man …
Rosanne: I disagree that men need turnons. Men who expect a performance from a woman are the narcissists who are into porn, strip clubs...
(Nosper Dialogues) Mental fantasy
Darin: If my wife doesn't masturbate then it seems she may not be experiencing orgasm which is extremely far from me having to masturbate...
(Nosper Dialogues) Confusing for women …
JANE: Are you prepared to discuss orgasm and how it is achieved? Sara: Have you read our book? It has most of these answered...
(Nosper Dialogues) Women are sexually different
Modibbo: Please, what is with a man who, after a satisfactory sexual intercourse with a woman, the heart of such a man later becomes...
(Nosper Dialogues) Feel good moments during sex …
Zama: Ive never found it embarrassing to talk about sex. The way I see it, its my body. I need to benefit from it...
(Nosper Dialogues) Educational
Marco: I love to share your articles and websites with my friends. JANE: I'm impressed. Not many people care about this subject! Marco: Well,...
(Nosper Dialogues) Sexualizing themselves
Khaled: Women are so clever in sexualizing themselves as mentioned in your article. JANE: Men enjoy it when women provide turnons because men enjoy...
(Nosper Dialogues) Making love to another woman …
Elizabeth: It truly is amazing the number of women who never have an orgasm. I always find it incredibly sad. JANE: Given the confusion...
(Nosper Dialogues) You’re a big turn on …!
Kevin: Ive read your articles, you are a big turn on! JANE:Thanks Kevin that is very nice of you to say so! Some people...
(Nosper Dialogues) Changed my perspective
Joe: Your work has really changed my perspective on male/female relationships. For what it's worth, my wife has verified 90% of everything you have...
(Nosper Dialogues) Frustrated to the max …
Peanut: I am a 45 yr. old woman who cant feel anything during sexual intercourse with my husband. We have been married for 9...
(Nosper Dialogues) Movies are helpful
Jerome: It seems that every article from you references some kind of television or movie. Is that coincidence or are you some kinda huge...
(Nosper Dialogues) I wish I had time to engage further
Stephanie: There are tons of books about female orgasm just do an internet search. JANE: I am asking women to provide personal insights. I...
(Nosper Dialogues) Smaller side of average
Jay : You seem know a lot about penises and women! I read a lot of your posts that are inspiring my confidence. But...
(Nosper Dialogues) Touching herself during intercourse
TFW: Perhaps statistically it is a minority of women who can orgasm through intercourse. However, it is by no means a small minority. JANE:...
(Nosper Dialogues) Sex is vital
Khan : We can change our behaviour, but not our attitudes right? Nowadays people believe whatever they see.... JANE: Sexuality includes conscious behaviours &...
(Nosper Dialogues) A great book on female sexuality
Jas: I can recommend a great book on female sexuality. JANE: Can you tell me why you thought it is a great book?I haven't...
(Nosper Dialogues) Climax from cunnilingus
Karl : RE your statement: Cunnilingus = oral stimulation of the clitoral glans does not cause orgasm. My girlfriend would have disagreed with your...
(Nosper Dialogues) Tapping on the frenum …
Steven: When I masturbate, I never stand. I always prefer to lie down. The majority of times I use my fingers to manipulate my...
(Nosper Dialogues) Types of gender
Crish: Ok. How many types of gender are there? Will you tell me? JANE: Gender concerns social stereotypes typically male and female. Crish: Ohh....
(Nosper Dialogues) It’s like choosing dinner
Deborah:In my younger days, sex was about my partner reaching orgasm but now I am a more mature woman it is a much better...
(Nosper Dialogues) Desire and arousal
Eva : I so love to read what you have to share about womens orgasms. I am really tired to hear what society is...
(Nosper Dialogues) A total lack of sensation
David: Hi, I am doing a homework for college. Could you please answer this question: Is the female glans clitoris physically stimulated during intercourse?...
(Nosper Dialogues) Single and horny
Nontokozo: Women can also view men as sex objects. JANE: Women do not have the same ability (that men have) to view a person...
(Nosper Dialogues) Tribbing is often employed
Rosalinda: Tribbing will take place almost every time lesbians have sex but cunnilingus does not always happen. It is an intimate and intense experience...
(Nosper Dialogues) Cervical stimulation
Smash: I know what orgasms are because I masturbated on my clit to orgasm for a good 3 years before I ever had sex....
(Nosper Dialogues) A woman loving porn
Madita: Our genitalia and chromosomes do not decide what turns us on. Please dont reinforce this sexist and regressive sex & romance binary. Greetings...
(Nosper Dialogues) Shere Hite’s studies
JANE: Religion involves following guidelines set down by ancient peoples who lacked a scientific understanding of the world. People followed unquestioningly the wisdom laid...
(Nosper Dialogues) How can I turn someone on?
Daniela: Hi Jane, Can you advise me? I feel inhibited concerning sex practices, whether it is one night stands or serious relationships. Daniela (cont):My...
(Nosper Dialogues) My bucket list
Darin: Hi Jane, thanks for sharing your contact information. I must admit, its quite erotic to hear you compliment my dialogue as the most...
(Nosper Dialogues) Lack of communication
Sharon: I think sex is a subject that does need to be talked about more. The lack of communication and the shame that comes...
(Nosper Dialogues) It’s called consent
JANE: A woman offers intercourse on her terms. Intercourse is a privilege that a woman confers on a man as a sign of her...
(Nosper Dialogues) Women like to talk
Jerry: I can tell you love your job. If you ever need a volunteer for research let me know. Wow so you must be...
(Nosper Dialogues) Sex toys & imagination
JANE: Women dont tend to ask nor will they always allow a lover to stimulate their genitalia, which is no evidence of pleasure let...
(Nosper Dialogues) Female pleasure
JANE: Why do we think it is a man's role to stimulate a woman sexually? Mara H.: Historically, there has been a greater focus...
(Nosper Dialogues) Men never listen
JANE: What do you think arouses women? Why do women talk of emotional factors with a lover? Rita : I know many women who...
(Nosper Dialogues) Good question!
JANE:Intercourse is a territorial act of male dominance. Alan: So what if the woman makes a start on the man? What's the act called...
(Nosper Dialogues) Other forms of intimacy
JANE: Although she knows he wants sex, she is frustrated because this seems to be the only form of intimacy he is interested in...
(Nosper Dialogues) Well definitely not my feet …
Rita: Women can have both a deep loyalty to one person and also many partners without getting feelings for anyone. This idea women just...
(Nosper Dialogues) Watching porn with a lover
EnlightFundy: Well its very strange to me that people would resist a push towards greater knowledge on these topics. For example, my women friends...
(Nosper Dialogues) Hypersexual
Emma L : I love your work! I consider myself to be hypersexual. I am always turned on. By anything. I either need to...
(Nosper Dialogues) Loving embraces
FGH: I want to reaffirm the point that affection and loving embraces are massively important in my relationships. JANE: I think everyone finally agrees...
(Nosper Dialogues) I have a small one
Paul : My think Im not able to satisfy my girl on the bed because I have a small one. She hasnt told that...
(Nosper Dialogues) Openly discussed
JANE: I decided to talk openly about my experiences to demonstrate that I can explain exactly what I do and what I think about...
(Nosper Dialogues) … self-reported finding
JANE: If cunnilingus provides female orgasms, one would think women would offer fellatio more willingly. Men believe cunnilingus causes female orgasm. But where does...
(Nosper Dialogues) Are you ready for me…?
Fin: Hi Sweetie!! Do you discuss sex with someone if they want to be private? If so, everything will be confidential between us? JANE:...
(Nosper Dialogues) Erotic fantasy alone …
Alex: well WTF is the answer? Dont leave us hanging? JANE: The answer is in the quote. The erectile tissue is within the body...
(Nosper Dialogues) Living truth …
JANE: Orgasm is a vital aspect of male reproductive function because male orgasm triggers ejaculation of sperm. Orgasm has nothing to do with a...
(Nosper Dialogues) … giving orgasms to women …
Lawal: The biggest pleasure in sexual relationships is giving orgasm to women. And if that doesn't happen some men feel disappointed because what they...
(Nosper Dialogues) My greatest fear
Jim: I just wanted to drop you a note on how much Ive enjoyed all your articles. I am a bit confused though. Im...
(Nosper Dialogues) I’ll give it a shot!
Mack: Im a female and Im happy to talk about sex and orgasm. If you have some questions for me, Ill give it a...
(Nosper Dialogues) Retaining one’s seed
Leonardo : I pose this question: Why do we persist in the belief that men seek orgasm? Have not the ancient sages imparted wisdom...
(Nosper Dialogues) Mars & Venus
Howard: As always, Mars & Venus need to talk more about things that matter, to her! That way Mars learns. BUT if Venus is...
(Nosper Dialogues) Problems with my genitals
Linda: I am writing to you because I think there is a problem with my genitals and I'm embarrassed to talk to someone else....
(Nosper Dialogues) Men should listen to you
Mike:Truth: most of us men are so blinded by our own pleasure that we forget about the needs of the women involved in the...
(Nosper Dialogues) Facilitates lubrication
Jessica : Is there any chance you could help disseminate detailed clitoral anatomy? JANE: What do you want me to say exactly? The clitoris...
(Nosper Dialogues) Under voluntary control
JANE: Biologically and hormonally, men are MUCH MORE driven to be sexual than women are. (John Gray) Catherine: I would contest (or add to)...
(Nosper Dialogues) Faking is humiliating …
JANE:Yes, I always fake orgasms. It just seems polite. Why be rude? Shere Hite Jake: Its not fair. For guys like me, knowing, it's...
(Nosper Dialogues) … muscle contractions …
JANE: Talking to women about female orgasm Veronica: The best feeling! JANE: Do you mean orgasm?If so, how do you achieve it? What turnons...
(Nosper Dialogues) Sociable sex focuses on reproduction
JANE: Women allow men to determine the stimulation of sociable activity. So men can enjoy the stimulation they obtain JANE (cont): from intercourse. Sociable...
(Nosper Dialogues) … that special place
Nora: Ladies, contact her! Explain all the turnons. Explain that yes, it's possible to have an orgasm when having sex with a man. For...
(Nosper Dialogues) Satisfied without having orgasms…
JANE:Please name some erotic turnons that cause female arousal! Mostly women talk of emotional factors with a lover. Nicole:Are you asking me what turns...
(Nosper Dialogues) The G Spot
Ellen: Dr. Beverly Whipple of Rutgers University did a study and wrote a fabulous book about 20 years ago called 'The G Spot'. It...
(Nosper Dialogues) My imagination
Rebellion Song: When I watch porn it sometimes makes me feel bad for being a woman. My imagination is way better. Jane: Men are...
(Nosper Dialogues) Taboo questions
Darin: I don't understand why women don't come forth and explain their sexuality. I'm what I think is a rational and logical person. It's...
(Nosper Dialogues) The right match
Karyn: Women can love sex as much as men if its the right match! Jane: Please can women provide some explicit detail when they...
(Nosper Dialogues) My childhood traumas
Kenya: There should be less porno for adults and more sex education. Not just physical, but psychological and moral. JANE: Thanks for your support!...
(Nosper Dialogues) Women’s sex drive
JANE: Women only think they have a sex drive because they dont risk pregnancy every time. Bob: So are you saying that contraception lets...
(Nosper Dialogues) No physical stimulation
JANE: Why are women so unwilling to admit that intercourse provides no physical stimulation? Batrice: Perhaps you should as a couple visit a sex...
(Nosper Dialogues) An impossible question
JANE: If women had orgasms regularly with a partner, then men would know what erotic turnons cause female orgasm, what anatomy and what stimulation...
(Nosper Dialogues) Wishes and desires
Stanley: Men and women are the same. JANE: Not in all respects! But certainly everyone achieves orgasm in a similar way. Orgasm is a...
(Nosper Dialogues) What exactly women want
JANE: Why are men so unwilling to deliver what women want? Its important to see three points: (1) change is possible; (2) it isnt...
(Nosper Dialogues) A lot of pleasure
Lisa: I'd like to share something that happened to me. I was a little confused about sex, being a virgin, and I talked to...
(Nosper Dialogues) Simple physical response
Fay: Women like intimacy. Most men believe intimacy is sex. It isnt but its often as close as women can get for feeling it....
(Nosper Dialogues) … four or five goes at it …
JANE:Women fake orgasm to reassure mens sexual ego. Jackie:Sometimes, after already having four or five goes at it, you're tired and just want to...
(Nosper Dialogues) Sleeping with the wrong guys!
JANE: ... for a not inconsiderable number of males the climax may be reached within less than a minute or even within ten or...