(Nosper Dialogues) Does size matter …?
Sachin: Is there any chance to increase length of my penis? JANE: Men are penis obsessed! If only I had a dollar for every...
(Nosper Dialogues) Mental shopping list
Punditty: Another great story, Jane. I love the quote about the mental shopping list being compiled during repetitive penile thrusting. And this should be...
(Nosper Dialogues) The wrong man …
Rosanne: I disagree that men need turnons. Men who expect a performance from a woman are the narcissists who are into porn, strip clubs...
(Nosper Dialogues) Mental fantasy
Darin: If my wife doesn't masturbate then it seems she may not be experiencing orgasm which is extremely far from me having to masturbate...
(Nosper Dialogues) Confusing for women …
JANE: Are you prepared to discuss orgasm and how it is achieved? Sara: Have you read our book? It has most of these answered...
(Nosper Dialogues) Women are sexually different
Modibbo: Please, what is with a man who, after a satisfactory sexual intercourse with a woman, the heart of such a man later becomes...
(Nosper Dialogues) Feel good moments during sex …
Zama: Ive never found it embarrassing to talk about sex. The way I see it, its my body. I need to benefit from it...
(Nosper Dialogues) Educational
Marco: I love to share your articles and websites with my friends. JANE: I'm impressed. Not many people care about this subject! Marco: Well,...
(Nosper Dialogues) Sexualizing themselves
Khaled: Women are so clever in sexualizing themselves as mentioned in your article. JANE: Men enjoy it when women provide turnons because men enjoy...
(Nosper Dialogues) Making love to another woman …
Elizabeth: It truly is amazing the number of women who never have an orgasm. I always find it incredibly sad. JANE: Given the confusion...
(Nosper Dialogues) You’re a big turn on …!
Kevin: Ive read your articles, you are a big turn on! JANE:Thanks Kevin that is very nice of you to say so! Some people...
(Nosper Dialogues) Changed my perspective
Joe: Your work has really changed my perspective on male/female relationships. For what it's worth, my wife has verified 90% of everything you have...
(Nosper Dialogues) Frustrated to the max …
Peanut: I am a 45 yr. old woman who cant feel anything during sexual intercourse with my husband. We have been married for 9...
(Nosper Dialogues) Movies are helpful
Jerome: It seems that every article from you references some kind of television or movie. Is that coincidence or are you some kinda huge...
(Nosper Dialogues) I wish I had time to engage further
Stephanie: There are tons of books about female orgasm just do an internet search. JANE: I am asking women to provide personal insights. I...
(Nosper Dialogues) Smaller side of average
Jay : You seem know a lot about penises and women! I read a lot of your posts that are inspiring my confidence. But...
(Nosper Dialogues) Touching herself during intercourse
TFW: Perhaps statistically it is a minority of women who can orgasm through intercourse. However, it is by no means a small minority. JANE:...
(Nosper Dialogues) Sex is vital
Khan : We can change our behaviour, but not our attitudes right? Nowadays people believe whatever they see.... JANE: Sexuality includes conscious behaviours &...
(Nosper Dialogues) A great book on female sexuality
Jas: I can recommend a great book on female sexuality. JANE: Can you tell me why you thought it is a great book?I haven't...
(Nosper Dialogues) Climax from cunnilingus
Karl : RE your statement: Cunnilingus = oral stimulation of the clitoral glans does not cause orgasm. My girlfriend would have disagreed with your...
(Nosper Dialogues) Tapping on the frenum …
Steven: When I masturbate, I never stand. I always prefer to lie down. The majority of times I use my fingers to manipulate my...
(Nosper Dialogues) Types of gender
Crish: Ok. How many types of gender are there? Will you tell me? JANE: Gender concerns social stereotypes typically male and female. Crish: Ohh....
(Nosper Dialogues) It’s like choosing dinner
Deborah:In my younger days, sex was about my partner reaching orgasm but now I am a more mature woman it is a much better...
(Nosper Dialogues) Desire and arousal
Eva : I so love to read what you have to share about womens orgasms. I am really tired to hear what society is...
(Nosper Dialogues) A total lack of sensation
David: Hi, I am doing a homework for college. Could you please answer this question: Is the female glans clitoris physically stimulated during intercourse?...
(Nosper Dialogues) Single and horny
Nontokozo: Women can also view men as sex objects. JANE: Women do not have the same ability (that men have) to view a person...
(Nosper Dialogues) Tribbing is often employed
Rosalinda: Tribbing will take place almost every time lesbians have sex but cunnilingus does not always happen. It is an intimate and intense experience...
(Nosper Dialogues) Cervical stimulation
Smash: I know what orgasms are because I masturbated on my clit to orgasm for a good 3 years before I ever had sex....
(Nosper Dialogues) A woman loving porn
Madita: Our genitalia and chromosomes do not decide what turns us on. Please dont reinforce this sexist and regressive sex & romance binary. Greetings...
(Nosper Dialogues) Shere Hite’s studies
JANE: Religion involves following guidelines set down by ancient peoples who lacked a scientific understanding of the world. People followed unquestioningly the wisdom laid...
(Nosper Dialogues) How can I turn someone on?
Daniela: Hi Jane, Can you advise me? I feel inhibited concerning sex practices, whether it is one night stands or serious relationships. Daniela (cont):My...
(Nosper Dialogues) My bucket list
Darin: Hi Jane, thanks for sharing your contact information. I must admit, its quite erotic to hear you compliment my dialogue as the most...
(Nosper Dialogues) What’s the point of men?
Peanut: I too, question why women are denied sexual pleasure during intercourse. Why would God make our bodies unable to orgasm and enjoy sexual...
(Nosper Dialogues) They scream to let go
JANE: Men rarely scream when they orgasm so why should women? Daniel: It is usually said that women are emotional beings. When women orgasm,...
(Nosper Dialogues) A man is always the loser
JANE: A man's love is conditional on getting the sex he needs. So a woman must be willing to offer a man the pleasure...
(Nosper Dialogues) The pleasure is shared
JANE: The function of female orgasm is simple. Female orgasm is about providing women's pleasure NOT men's! TE: True but its a turnon for...
(Nosper Dialogues) A toxic habit
Musa: how to avoid masturbation if it becomes a toxic habit? JANE: Is it toxic? Some men are much more responsive than others. Kinsey...
(Nosper Dialogues) Female sexual dysfunction
JANE: Why is Female Sexual Dysfunction so common if female orgasm is supposed to be the norm? JANE (cont): One of the diagnostic criteria...
(Nosper Dialogues) Comprehensive data
RS: Alfred Kinsey's work has been pivotal in advancing our understanding of human sexuality. It's fascinating how his research, especially 'Sexual Behavior in the...
(Nosper Dialogues) … a hole or a pole makes no difference
JANE:Women are emotionally reassured by the security men offer. Men often protect & defend a woman they are having sex with. JANE (cont): She...
(Nosper Dialogues) I’m not a selfish guy …
JANE: I have spent years asking women to explain these orgasms that men think they have. I call them porno orgasms because they are...
(Nosper Dialogues) Orgasm and pregnancy
Ahmed: Tell me: if women do not take interest in sex and orgasm does not occur, how will she get pregnant? Second question: if...
(Nosper Dialogues) Orgasm during penetration
Darin: I don't believe my wife has ever orgasmed during sex. The only time I recall her possibly having an orgasm during penetration was...
(Nosper Dialogues) Pregnancy and orgasm
Saif : Your information regarding definition of sex and emotions are tremendous. I most appreciate it. You have very vast knowledge of everything that...
(Nosper Dialogues) Sex without consent
JANE: Sex without consent is rape regardless of intent. Kancha : Does it also applies to a men too? JANE: Consent involves the penetrating...
(Nosper Dialogues) Uncontrollable desire for sex
Giorgia: That men need/want/have a primal uncontrollable desire for sex is a fallacy. Perpetuating it does everyone a disservice. JANE: Would you mind telling...
(Nosper Dialogues) His engorged member
Goodkitten38: I am turned on by the look in his eyes and his engorged member. His scent, and the quick intake of breath he...
(Nosper Dialogues) … sexless marriage …
JANE:Sex is the price women pay for marriage. Marriage is the price men pay for sex. Allan & Barbara Pease Steven:Unless of course you...
(Nosper Dialogues) I’m not interested
JANE:Orgasm is not a vital aspect of womens sexuality. Julia:Written by a man I would guess. JANE: Why would a man ever question that...
(Nosper Dialogues) The sex diaries
JANE: Hi Steven, What did you think of Bettina Arndts book The sex diaries? Steven: My thoughts on the sex diaries book. It shows...
(Nosper Dialogues) … creating their self-pleasure …
JANE: If women enjoyed their sexual experiences, surely older women would be more sexually willing than younger women? Zhen: Not necessarily. Opportunity matters: Many...
(Nosper Dialogues) My less than exciting sex life …
Jenny: Im 56 years old and have been married 28 years. My husband is the only sexual partner Ive had. I thought that I...
(Nosper Dialogues) Impressed and convinced
Steven: I have to say I am impressed and convinced by your arguments, observations and conclusions. I too maintain a library of erotic literature...
(Nosper Dialogues) Partners take turns having orgasms
Caroline:Studies show that while lesbian sex is less frequent than straight couples, lesbian sex lasts longer and is more satisfying. Caroline (cont): In lesbian...
(Nosper Dialogues) Not easy to talk about
Honey: Sex is not always easy to talk about JANE: Men tend to talk about sex more easily than women. But men like to...
(Nosper Dialogues) She has no desire
Steven: Hi Jane I have a question for you. How much do you see sexless marriages being a result of the dissatisfaction produced by...
(Nosper Dialogues) I don’t have time
JANE: I contacted you a few weeks ago to ask about your recent newspaper article because I heard you on national TV challenging the...
(Nosper Dialogues) Reluctant to have sex
Vikram:I have been married for 16 years and blessed with 2 kids. Ours is a love marriage, without our parents consent. From the start,...
(Nosper Dialogues) … that is a shame
JANE:Orgasms are elusive. Most women dont have one every time (or maybe even most times) they hit the sheets. Plenty of surveys and likely...
(Nosper Dialogues) Biological imperative
Mr Badger: Ach, Jane, I fear youre promoting a message that people have been conditioned into not wanting to hear. Youre doing a great...
(Nosper Dialogues) Physical arousal
Liz: While its true that women arent having very noticeable, bulgeintheirpants erections, clitoral, vaginal, and labial tissue becomes noticeably engorged, lubricated, and frequently darker...
(Nosper Dialogues) Being objective… being ignorant …
JANE: Contacts with prostitutes are most frequently had by males of the lowest social levels. Alfred Kinsey Ogunjobi: Na lie JANE: What do you...
(Nosper Dialogues) … women are sexual …
Merrit: Hi, 1. do not have an erect organ to penetrate with. Trans women exist and can have penises.2. Men's enjoyment of erotic...
(Nosper Dialogues) Women know when they orgasm …
Joslyn: Women know when they orgasm. Cunnilingus definitely works! JANE: Could you be more explicit? What do you enjoy about cunnilingus? It cannot cause...
(Nosper Dialogues) … sex is transactional
JANE: Men are naturally promiscuous. So a woman has to offer sex to keep a man committed to supporting her family goals. Cleo: How...
(Nosper Dialogues) Lots to think about…
Maggie: My marriage has been really hard, but I can't even express how grateful I am to have a husband who seriously cares about...
(Nosper Dialogues) The nature of human sexuality…
JANE: Men tend to believe everything that they see in pornography. This is because pornography aligns with their fantasies. It is effectively a male...
(Nosper Dialogues) Pleasure during intercourse
Theresa: I am glad to know that I am not the only woman who cant feel sexual pleasure during intercourse. It is incredibly frustrating...
(Nosper Dialogues) Male orgasm and ejaculation
Patricia: Male orgasm is NOT necessary for reproduction; ejaculation is. Male orgasm & ejaculation are physiologically separate events. That they often occur spontaneously in...
(Nosper Dialogues) Emotional connection
Amy: Orgasm and emotional connection are equally important to me, maybe even inseparable. JANE: Thanks Amy. I assume you never masturbate to orgasm? How...
(Nosper Dialogues) A little to the left sweetie
Marion: Broadly speaking, I know that women dont generally orgasm as much as men and certainly not every time. I usually do. But it...
(Nosper Dialogues) Soon become boring
JANE: Why do women get bored by sex over time? Men often feel very angry with women who never initiate sex and too often...
(Nosper Dialogues) Male sex drive
Stephen: I must say that the male sex drive is a potent force, driven by the innate desire for procreation and the perpetuation of...
(Nosper Dialogues) Owning their manhood
JANE: Why is female orgasm so important to men? Javiera: Because it makes them feel competent, useful, owning their manhood, sense of mastery and...
(Nosper Dialogues) Physical frustration
JANE: Male sex drive causes men to feel rejected any time a woman doesn't want intercourse, even when it's uncomfortable or painful for her....
(Nosper Dialogues) A dominant woman
Sofia: I am a dominant woman. I love giving orders, beat them, make them shout and cry. It is cerebral but it gives me...
(Nosper Dialogues) Our expectations
JANE: Men enjoy erotic turnons. Ivriets: I think my wife should reading this. Thanks Jane! Vernon: It is all about exchange. If either the...
(Nosper Dialogues) My sex timing
Adam: How can I increase penis size ? JANE: You can't increase penis size. The size of your penis makes no difference to the...
(Nosper Dialogues) Substitute for intercourse
Amanda: In my experience, both professional and personal, women do not masturbate as a substitute for intercourse. Many women would feel like losers if...
(Nosper Dialogues) Having an erection is pleasurable …
Steven: From my male perspective it is certainly true that I often wake up with an erection even now. As a teenager, erections would...
(Nosper Dialogues) Don’t people talk anymore?
Whatserface: Women complain about sex, not because all men are garbage in bed, but because womens minds and bodies dont react sexually in the...
(Nosper Dialogues) Generalisations about men …
JANE:I used to (fake orgasm), and then stopped, and found that men didnt seem to care. Shere Hite Jeremy: What's interesting about this quote?...
(Nosper Dialogues) Sensual versus erotic
Laura: You separate the terms sensual pleasure and erotic pleasure. What's the difference? What body parts are involved? Women do not experience sexual pleasure...
(Nosper Dialogues) Grind my clit
Trisha: Once I started having intercourse, I began faking but didn't think of it that way. I never once did or have achieved orgasm...
(Nosper Dialogues) Thinking of sex
Shubham: By seeing girls why we are thinking of sex?? Means by looking to big boobs or anything else. JANE: Biological sex drive just...
(Nosper Dialogues) Internal part of the clitoris
Kelly : I orgasm from vaginal intercourse in a certain position where the penis hits the internal part of the clitoris. JANE: Orgasm comes...
(Nosper Dialogues) Not interested in sex
Saif : My wife 45 years old but she is not interested in sex. Her sexual desire is no arousal. She is in menopause....
(Nosper Dialogues) Sexual pleasure
JANE: Heterosexual intercourse is the only form of sexual pleasure really condoned in our society. (Shere Hite) Carmen: Because its the only one that...
(Nosper Dialogues) Shattering the myths …
Valerie:I wish to thank you for your research and perseverance in shattering the myths about womens sexuality. I am 53 and my experience has...
(Nosper Dialogues) Sensual massage
Micheal: I don't stop until there's a nice big wet spot on the sheets. JANE:The wet spot is a result of male orgasm. But...
(Nosper Dialogues) Is she abnormal …?
Mosh: I have had one woman who likes sex so much. So much that she demands it. She's very free and explores a lot...
(Nosper Dialogues) Purely physical experience
Diane: I am familiar with female orgasms and the physical and emotional factors that go into it. JANE: Orgasm has nothing to do with...
(Nosper Dialogues) Sex education is paramount …
JANE: Women associate affection with love. Men associate affection much more directly with sex. Men see affection of any kind as a sexual invitation....
(Nosper Dialogues) … the money-maker …
James: My Keyholder has a monster vibrator she nicknamed the moneymaker because she uses it in front of me in chastity knowing that I...
(Nosper Dialogues) How women define female orgasm
SRC: I would add that the clitoris is the source in most cases, but not always. JANE: Are you a woman? Do you mean...
(Nosper Dialogues) Let go of shame & enjoy ecstasy
Mia: I think that women are not used to exploring what they like and therefore just stay at a halfway satisfactory level and lose...
(Nosper Dialogues) What is allowed
Qarijaan: I would like to ask about the CONCEPT OF SEXUAL LIFE IN ISLAM. What is allowed and prohibits in Islam for wife and...
(Nosper Dialogues) Questions that need answers
JANE: I am asking women (like yourself) about the erotic turnons & physical stimulation they use to orgasm alone & with a lover! Isabelle:...
(Nosper Dialogues) We discuss sex & orgasm
Phillip: Why do you only want to talk to women? JANE: I research female sexuality. Would you talk to women to learn about male...
(Nosper Dialogues) I don’t want to discuss this
Irene:Your suggestion that sex is primarily a male pleasure is BS. JANE:If you have something explicit to say, please say it. If not, please...