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Quotations from books by Shere Hite including ‘The Hite Report’.

(Shere Hite) Men see other men as the arbiters of what is real, the…
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(Shere Hite) Men see other men as the arbiters of what is real, the…

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(Shere Hite) In fact, even women who did orgasm during intercourse most frequently gave…
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(Shere Hite) In fact, even women who did orgasm during intercourse most frequently gave…

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(Shere Hite) But as time passed, her devotion to me (her male partner) evolved…
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(Shere Hite) But as time passed, her devotion to me (her male partner) evolved…

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(Shere Hite) … if a man’s desire for intercourse is not shared by a…
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(Shere Hite) … if a man’s desire for intercourse is not shared by a…

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(Shere Hite) Many men have a completely genital approach to sex. Sex play is…
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(Shere Hite) Many men have a completely genital approach to sex. Sex play is…

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(Shere Hite) I used to (fake orgasm), and then stopped, and found that men…
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(Shere Hite) I used to (fake orgasm), and then stopped, and found that men…

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(Shere Hite) Despite this, a majority of women stated flatly that, no matter what…
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(Shere Hite) Despite this, a majority of women stated flatly that, no matter what…

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(Shere Hite) In short, the only real difference between men’s and women’s erections is…
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(Shere Hite) In short, the only real difference between men’s and women’s erections is…

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(Shere Hite) To orgasm is fine as long as semen does not end up…
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(Shere Hite) To orgasm is fine as long as semen does not end up…

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(Shere Hite) But the point still must be: don’t wait for the Right Man…
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(Shere Hite) But the point still must be: don’t wait for the Right Man…

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(Shere Hite) Kinsey went on to explain several times that the basic problem for…
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(Shere Hite) Kinsey went on to explain several times that the basic problem for…

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(Shere Hite) I used to (fake), when my husband had a complex about sex…
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(Shere Hite) I used to (fake), when my husband had a complex about sex…

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(Shere Hite) Orgasm during intercourse is more of a diffused total mental and physical…
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(Shere Hite) Orgasm during intercourse is more of a diffused total mental and physical…

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(Shere Hite) … for a woman to orgasm during intercourse, she must adapt her…
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(Shere Hite) … for a woman to orgasm during intercourse, she must adapt her…

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(Shere Hite) I think women’s genitals are about as lovely as something on this…
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(Shere Hite) I think women’s genitals are about as lovely as something on this…

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(Shere Hite) Many women had spent rather long periods of time in their lives…
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(Shere Hite) Many women had spent rather long periods of time in their lives…

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(Shere Hite) Anyone who is economically and legally dependent on another person, as women…
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(Shere Hite) Anyone who is economically and legally dependent on another person, as women…

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(Shere Hite) I feel that all people regardless of age and experience have to…
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(Shere Hite) I feel that all people regardless of age and experience have to…

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(Shere Hite) During eighteen years of marriage, we did everything but stand on our…
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(Shere Hite) During eighteen years of marriage, we did everything but stand on our…

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(Shere Hite) Sex in our society is an extremely important way of being close…
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(Shere Hite) Sex in our society is an extremely important way of being close…

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(Shere Hite) I become very aroused by caressing my female lover’s breasts and clitoris…
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(Shere Hite) I become very aroused by caressing my female lover’s breasts and clitoris…

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(Shere Hite) First of all, Masters and Johnson chose their basic study population only…
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(Shere Hite) First of all, Masters and Johnson chose their basic study population only…

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(Shere Hite) If you want a good orgasm, you can masturbate. The whole reason…
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(Shere Hite) If you want a good orgasm, you can masturbate. The whole reason…

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(Shere Hite) The question should not be: Why aren’t woman having orgasms from intercourse?…
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(Shere Hite) The question should not be: Why aren’t woman having orgasms from intercourse?…

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(Shere Hite) If I could feel my lover was more involved emotionally, if he…
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(Shere Hite) If I could feel my lover was more involved emotionally, if he…

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(Shere Hite) The woman-in-the-street (most of us) still has the impression that it is…
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(Shere Hite) The woman-in-the-street (most of us) still has the impression that it is…

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(Shere Hite) I think most of the writers I’ve read don’t understand women at…
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(Shere Hite) I think most of the writers I’ve read don’t understand women at…

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(Shere Hite) Indiscriminate sex is irresponsible. Loving your body and your feelings is beautiful.
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(Shere Hite) Indiscriminate sex is irresponsible. Loving your body and your feelings is beautiful.

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(Shere Hite) Naturally intercourse is most appealing on a physical basis (male). It’s a…
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(Shere Hite) Naturally intercourse is most appealing on a physical basis (male). It’s a…

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(Shere Hite) Closely linked with the traditional pressure on men to maintain long erection…
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(Shere Hite) Closely linked with the traditional pressure on men to maintain long erection…

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(Shere Hite) 98 percent of the women … said they would like more verbal…
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(Shere Hite) 98 percent of the women … said they would like more verbal…

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(Shere Hite) Anything that helps women define their own sexuality on their own terms,…
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(Shere Hite) Anything that helps women define their own sexuality on their own terms,…

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(Shere Hite) Perhaps it is important here to say something about what most women…
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(Shere Hite) Perhaps it is important here to say something about what most women…

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(Shere Hite) Clearly, if a woman is financially dependent on a man, she is…
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(Shere Hite) Clearly, if a woman is financially dependent on a man, she is…

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(Shere Hite) During intercourse I feel secure and wanted – whole, warm, loved, womanly.
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(Shere Hite) During intercourse I feel secure and wanted – whole, warm, loved, womanly.

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(Shere Hite) Again, the penis contains within its shaft two … corpora cavernosa, which…
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(Shere Hite) Again, the penis contains within its shaft two … corpora cavernosa, which…

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(Shere Hite) I really believe my clitoris may not be physically positioned quite right…
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(Shere Hite) I really believe my clitoris may not be physically positioned quite right…

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(Shere Hite) I never fake orgasm. I am angry with other women who do,…
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(Shere Hite) I never fake orgasm. I am angry with other women who do,…

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(Shere Hite) To me orgasms have nothing to do with regular male/female sex. Orgasm…
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(Shere Hite) To me orgasms have nothing to do with regular male/female sex. Orgasm…

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(Shere Hite) One of the most important themes of men’s replies is their desire…
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(Shere Hite) One of the most important themes of men’s replies is their desire…

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(Shere Hite) I (male) think it’s specifically penetration and thrusting that give penis-vagina intercourse…
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(Shere Hite) I (male) think it’s specifically penetration and thrusting that give penis-vagina intercourse…

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(Shere Hite) … the basic value of sex and intercourse for women is closeness…
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(Shere Hite) … the basic value of sex and intercourse for women is closeness…

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(Shere Hite) I enjoy fellatio but women are usually so afraid of it or…
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(Shere Hite) I enjoy fellatio but women are usually so afraid of it or…

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(Shere Hite) My affairs, unknown to my wife, had a good effect on me…
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(Shere Hite) My affairs, unknown to my wife, had a good effect on me…

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(Shere Hite) Emotional orgasm is a feeling of love and communion with another human…
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(Shere Hite) Emotional orgasm is a feeling of love and communion with another human…

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(Shere Hite) I wish making love were more sensuous touching and less direct genital…
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(Shere Hite) I wish making love were more sensuous touching and less direct genital…

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(Shere Hite) Saying no to sex has become, for many women, a ways of…
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(Shere Hite) Saying no to sex has become, for many women, a ways of…

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(Shere Hite) Definitely (I fake orgasm) – some men want to fuck me till…
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(Shere Hite) Definitely (I fake orgasm) – some men want to fuck me till…

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(Shere Hite) Yes, arousal is more important than orgasm. It was this that sustained…
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(Shere Hite) Yes, arousal is more important than orgasm. It was this that sustained…

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(Shere Hite) … masturbation increases your ability to orgasm in general, and also your…
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(Shere Hite) … masturbation increases your ability to orgasm in general, and also your…

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(Shere Hite) Men are uninformed. They must all read the same book. Of course,…
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(Shere Hite) Men are uninformed. They must all read the same book. Of course,…

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(Shere Hite) With my boyfriend of four years, we pretty much stopped fucking, because…
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(Shere Hite) With my boyfriend of four years, we pretty much stopped fucking, because…

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(Shere Hite) This is my first sexual relationship. I am eighteen – almost nineteen….
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(Shere Hite) This is my first sexual relationship. I am eighteen – almost nineteen….

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(Shere Hite) It does make me feel strange, that after all the stimulation I…
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(Shere Hite) It does make me feel strange, that after all the stimulation I…

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(Shere Hite) I’ve tried everything, but I’ve never had one.
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(Shere Hite) I’ve tried everything, but I’ve never had one.

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(Shere Hite) Female sexuality has been seen essentially as a response to male sexuality…
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(Shere Hite) Female sexuality has been seen essentially as a response to male sexuality…

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(Shere Hite) There is a great deal of confusion here on the part of…
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(Shere Hite) There is a great deal of confusion here on the part of…

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(Shere Hite) Masturbation is another form of sex and should be seen as such.
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(Shere Hite) Masturbation is another form of sex and should be seen as such.

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(Shere Hite) … even if a man has a strong physical desire for orgasm…
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(Shere Hite) … even if a man has a strong physical desire for orgasm…

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(Shere Hite) Small amount of foreplay, then intercourse till he comes, The End.
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(Shere Hite) Small amount of foreplay, then intercourse till he comes, The End.

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(Shere Hite) During intercourse I (female) feel very close and somehow entangled and united…
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(Shere Hite) During intercourse I (female) feel very close and somehow entangled and united…

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(Shere Hite) It would seem that to analyze what is probably an unusual group…
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(Shere Hite) It would seem that to analyze what is probably an unusual group…

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(Shere Hite) Men often feel very angry with women who never initiate sex and…
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(Shere Hite) Men often feel very angry with women who never initiate sex and…

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(Shere Hite) Our sex organs, though internal and not as easily visible as men’s,…
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(Shere Hite) Our sex organs, though internal and not as easily visible as men’s,…

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(Shere Hite) When I finally ejaculated at thirteen, I felt great! ’Hooray, I’m a…
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(Shere Hite) When I finally ejaculated at thirteen, I felt great! ’Hooray, I’m a…

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(Shere Hite) It is noteworthy, however, that very few of the men who had…
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(Shere Hite) It is noteworthy, however, that very few of the men who had…

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(Shere Hite) The real pleasure of sexual relations, in this sense, then, is the…
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(Shere Hite) The real pleasure of sexual relations, in this sense, then, is the…

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(Shere Hite) Sex is a form of communication without words based on bodily responses,…
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(Shere Hite) Sex is a form of communication without words based on bodily responses,…

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(Shere Hite) This officially promoted focus on reproductive activities … was important for the…
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(Shere Hite) This officially promoted focus on reproductive activities … was important for the…

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(Shere Hite) There are times when I feel I’m discharging an obligation, like washing…
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(Shere Hite) There are times when I feel I’m discharging an obligation, like washing…

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(Shere Hite) Wow – let’s let women tell it like it is, instead of…
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(Shere Hite) Wow – let’s let women tell it like it is, instead of…

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(Shere Hite) Among most species of mammals there is, in actuality, a great deal…
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(Shere Hite) Among most species of mammals there is, in actuality, a great deal…

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(Shere Hite) Sometimes it builds a man’s ego to let him think he’s successful….
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(Shere Hite) Sometimes it builds a man’s ego to let him think he’s successful….

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(Shere Hite) More than anything else, I associate sex with anxiety, fear of failure,…
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(Shere Hite) More than anything else, I associate sex with anxiety, fear of failure,…

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(Shere Hite) In summary, since intercourse has been defined as the basic form of…
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(Shere Hite) In summary, since intercourse has been defined as the basic form of…

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(Shere Hite) Oral stimulation is best, mainly because most men do not have a…
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(Shere Hite) Oral stimulation is best, mainly because most men do not have a…

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(Shere Hite) Biologists and psychologists who have accepted the doctrine that the only natural…
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(Shere Hite) Biologists and psychologists who have accepted the doctrine that the only natural…

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(Shere Hite) If my body wanted me to have orgasms, I’m sure it would…
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(Shere Hite) If my body wanted me to have orgasms, I’m sure it would…

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(Shere Hite) Masters and Johnson observe that the clitoris is automatically ‘stimulated’ in intercourse…
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(Shere Hite) Masters and Johnson observe that the clitoris is automatically ‘stimulated’ in intercourse…

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(Shere Hite) I like touching very much, but with my husband a touch is…
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(Shere Hite) I like touching very much, but with my husband a touch is…

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(Shere Hite) But worse than the actual loss/lack of erection, perhaps, is the fear…
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(Shere Hite) But worse than the actual loss/lack of erection, perhaps, is the fear…

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(Shere Hite) I’m ashamed of my genitals, and don’t want anyone to see them.
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(Shere Hite) I’m ashamed of my genitals, and don’t want anyone to see them.

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(Shere Hite) If I could find a sex partner with whom I felt completely…
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(Shere Hite) If I could find a sex partner with whom I felt completely…

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(Shere Hite) Lesbian sex is very different from sex with men. It is not…
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(Shere Hite) Lesbian sex is very different from sex with men. It is not…

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(Shere Hite) He is happier when I never bring anything up. But if I…
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(Shere Hite) He is happier when I never bring anything up. But if I…

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(Shere Hite) … it is the emotional warmth shared at this time, and the…
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(Shere Hite) … it is the emotional warmth shared at this time, and the…

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(Shere Hite) To tell you the truth, I’m really not sure. I have read…
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(Shere Hite) To tell you the truth, I’m really not sure. I have read…

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(Shere Hite) I can have an orgasm with clitoral stimulation but I have never…
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(Shere Hite) I can have an orgasm with clitoral stimulation but I have never…

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(Shere Hite) I feel very strongly that sexual education for women will be one…
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(Shere Hite) I feel very strongly that sexual education for women will be one…

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(Shere Hite) I wish I could be told sometimes in the middle of the…
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(Shere Hite) I wish I could be told sometimes in the middle of the…

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(Shere Hite) Sex itself is not terribly important to me, but physical contact in…
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(Shere Hite) Sex itself is not terribly important to me, but physical contact in…

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(Shere Hite) There is great pressure on women in our society now to say…
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(Shere Hite) There is great pressure on women in our society now to say…

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(Shere Hite) Women don’t realize that men do all the work, are expected to…
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(Shere Hite) Women don’t realize that men do all the work, are expected to…

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(Shere Hite) I think I have sex almost always to consummate a bond, to…
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(Shere Hite) I think I have sex almost always to consummate a bond, to…

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(Shere Hite) … the different position and the closeness of the partner prevent a…
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(Shere Hite) … the different position and the closeness of the partner prevent a…

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(Shere Hite) Probably millions of women could agree with one woman who wrote, “It…
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(Shere Hite) Probably millions of women could agree with one woman who wrote, “It…

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(Shere Hite) I love anything a woman does that takes her off her back.
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(Shere Hite) I love anything a woman does that takes her off her back.

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(Shere Hite) Psychologically I like being in control and having power, feeling close to…
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(Shere Hite) Psychologically I like being in control and having power, feeling close to…

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(Shere Hite) Yes, with vaginal penetration, there is a lesser sense of your own…
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(Shere Hite) Yes, with vaginal penetration, there is a lesser sense of your own…

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(Shere Hite) Vaginas are always, to me, deep, wonderful, warm, moist, magical, intimate.
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(Shere Hite) Vaginas are always, to me, deep, wonderful, warm, moist, magical, intimate.

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