Stanley: Men and women are the same. JANE: Not in all respects! But certainly everyone achieves orgasm in a similar way. Orgasm is a release of mental & physical arousal that arises when the brain responds to an erotic scenario. Some women think they must orgasm just because a man ejaculates into their vagina. JANE (cont): The key issue is that women are not aroused with a lover. No one can name any female erotic turnons! No matter what stimulation is used, women will never orgasm. Men stimulate the anatomy that arouses them. Women are sexually passive due to lack of arousal. Stanley: You must talk to women who have not had the pleasure of a man who knows what to do. Because the opposite is true, when a man knows what their partner likes and wants, it will stimulate her every single time. I know this from vast experience. JANE: In porn women are shown apparently responding to stimulation of every part of their body. Men stimulate the anatomy that arouses them. But orgasm relies on stimulating the sex organ. First a person must be mentally aroused to achieve tumescence. Stanley: When I am with a partner, their wishes and desires are what I want to fulfil, taught to me by those partners when I was a child in relationships. JANE: What wishes & desires? What erotic turnons cause women’s arousal? Physical stimulation is useless if there is no arousal. If women were aroused, they would obtain their own stimulation rather than wait for a lover to provide it. Men boast about their sexual prowess. Stanley: I ask my partners what turns them on and everyone has been able to give me answers. So your understanding of how orgasms are reached is lacking in reality. JANE: So please tell me: (1) what erotic stimuli cause women’s mental arousal and (2) what precise anatomy & stimulation techniques causes female orgasm? What do women tell you exactly? What do they do exactly? Where are these women? Why do you need to speak on their behalf? Stanley: You seem like a pervert, wanting to know the desires of other women without asking them? JANE: I have asked women every day about their sexuality. Very few ever comment. But you have not answered any of my questions! If you cannot be explicit about your opinions, please go away! I provide the sex research findings science rather than erotic fiction! Stanley: I have found that my female partners respond to the wishes and desires they indicated to me that they like, after I asked them. Honest communication to self and a partner, work to enshrine trust in a relationship that wants the best for each other. JANE: You are being extremely vague. You are wasting my time. Stanley: Everything you have said is pure fiction and has little understanding of life, let alone why men and women are different and the same. While I do have practical experience and knowledge. Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism