JANE: Men & women are fundamentally different when it comes to sex & emotions. Women don’t need sex at all. Sex is massively important to men. Women’s love is unconditional. Men’s love is conditional on getting the regular sex they hope for. Sex tends to become functional over time as a means of satisfying men’s needs. But men forget that women like romance a lover who demonstrates caring behaviours. So sex dies because women are not emotionally fulfilled. Shohei: On the other hand, men also tend to be complacent, so understanding is necessary. It can peer into the abyss by respecting and caring for each other. It’s difficult to keep trying in a long life, but I think the result will be wonderful. Men who enjoy platonic love will seek platonic love somewhere even when they grow up. I think that this feeling leads to deeper sex. JANE: Yes, but for women, sex is about love not obtaining a sexual release. Women obtain emotional rewards such as feeling admired as well as the reward of giving pleasure. This pleasure is much less intense than the reward men obtain from sexual release. You need to understand the difference between the role of the penetrating male and the receiver. No one pays for being the receiver. Only penetrating males pay for sex. Shohei: No, women need sex too, to confirm their love for each other. I do not deny that there are women who do not need sex and there are men who only want a body. Things like the instinctive need for sex in men and the emotional rewards in women are the approach stage. In a deeper connection, men seek emotional rewards and women seek instinctive physical gratification. Shohei (cont): I’ve met a lot of ‘women who haven’t experienced an orgasm with sex’. Sometimes the problem can be solved immediately, and sometimes it takes a number of times. To give a concrete example, there are many cases where a woman reaches orgasm more than ten times during one man’s orgasm. JANE: What turnons (relating to specifically erotic scenarios or concepts) cause female arousal? You are observing women’s behaviours & accepting what they say to keep men happy. Only men talk about these orgasms. Women clearly have no interest in sexual matters whatsoever. But if you know any women willing to discuss sex, please ask them to contact me! JANE (cont): I provide the sex research findings and not erotic fiction. If you aren’t interested in the facts, the explanations (common sense) & the research findings, then I suggest you go elsewhere. I do not have time to convince people who do not want to be convinced. You need to have an open mind to understand sexuality for what it truly it. Women pleasing men is not evidence of their own pleasure. You need to be able to explain worldwide censorship of sexual content. Only men talk of sex. Shohei: In Japan, there is a conversation only for women called girls association. Women don’t make public statements to protect their modesty, but at girls associations, they talk about sex. These associations are feared by men because women talk about the play content and size that they have experienced. JANE: Women often refer to the male performance because women do not have the same responsiveness. Women rarely refer to genitals. They laugh at men’s obsession with their own penis. Women are modest because men harass them if they show the slightest interest in sex (or even if they don’t). I have not found a single woman who masturbates to orgasm or who understands sexual response. Shohei: I speak from my own experience. No one elses, much less a fantasy. There are many who agree with me. But inexperienced people do not understand. If you can’t respect each other, you won’t get close to the truth. JANE: I am sorry but you are far too vague to be credible. You cannot explain anything. You are just believing that what you seen in porn must occur in real life. No one discusses male orgasm because it is inevitable. But female orgasm, that was associated with womens solitary masturbatory activities, has become a token of female approval for men & an ego trip for women. It is all politics not science. JANE (cont) : Sex education is not for those who think they already know it all. Men want to believe that women orgasm with them because the fantasy justifies sexual activity that does little for women. Men are always trying to persuade women to have sex. The pressure on women to have these ‘porno orgasms’ causes confusion for both sexes. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all