(Other Sources) … hard core pornography is not a celebration of sexual freedom; it…
... hard core pornography is not a celebration of sexual freedom; it is a cynical exploitation of female sexual activity through the device of...
(Other Sources) It might seem to be an obvious solution, but when examining research…
It might seem to be an obvious solution, but when examining research into sexual behavior and sexual satisfaction, the issue of communication crops up...
(Other Sources) Orgasms are natural, but intercourse is not, for many of us, the…
Orgasms are natural, but intercourse is not, for many of us, the easiest way to have them.
(Other Sources) I think that in the discussion of natural problems we ought to…
I think that in the discussion of natural problems we ought to begin not with the Scriptures, but with experiments, and demonstrations.
(Other Sources) Women aren’t automatically excited the way men are. But men seem to…
Women aren’t automatically excited the way men are. But men seem to expect us to be turned on, and they’re annoyed when it doesn’t...
(Other Sources) I began suggesting sex in bar bathrooms or sex while his roommate…
I began suggesting sex in bar bathrooms or sex while his roommate watched. The promise of publication was like a drug, and the more...
(Other Sources) Many women think of masturbation as unnatural and disgusting … and don’t…
Many women think of masturbation as unnatural and disgusting ... and don’t understand why anybody does it and are unsympathetic to the view that...
(Other Sources) Porn to men is not a big deal. They honestly can’t see…
Porn to men is not a big deal. They honestly can’t see how watching a sexy film can be any sort of reflection on...
(Other Sources) A man should look for what is, and not for what he…
A man should look for what is, and not for what he thinks should be.
(Other Sources) For many women intercourse is not the best way to get the…
For many women intercourse is not the best way to get the type of clitoral stimulation needed to have orgasm. In these cases manual...
(Other Sources) Basically, a man needs about two or three minutes of stimulation to…
Basically, a man needs about two or three minutes of stimulation to have an orgasm. ... If a woman is to have an orgasm,...
(Other Sources) So, a brief definition – vaginismus is chronic inhibitory tone of the…
So, a brief definition - vaginismus is chronic inhibitory tone of the pubococcygeus muscle, so the muscle at the mouth of the genitals is...
(Other Sources) The naked truth is that women are more likely to be attracted…
The naked truth is that women are more likely to be attracted to a man when he has his clothes on.
(Other Sources) She knows how personally you are going to take it when she…
She knows how personally you are going to take it when she can’t orgasm, and it makes her dread having sex because she doesn’t...
(Other Sources) Sometimes the person you want, doesn’t deserve you.
Sometimes the person you want, doesn't deserve you.
(Other Sources) Sexuality is influenced by the interaction of biological, psychological, social, economic, political,…
Sexuality is influenced by the interaction of biological, psychological, social, economic, political, cultural, legal, historical, religious and spiritual factors.
(Other Sources) The rewards of emotional closeness – the increased commitment, bonding, and tolerance…
The rewards of emotional closeness - the increased commitment, bonding, and tolerance of imperfections in the relationship - together with an appreciation of the...
(Other Sources) As sex therapist Lonnie Barbach notes: “In reality, the clitoris is the…
As sex therapist Lonnie Barbach notes: “In reality, the clitoris is the female sex organ. ... The vagina is comparable in sensitivity to the...
(Other Sources) … (erotica is) a mutually pleasurable, sexual expression between people who have…
... (erotica is) a mutually pleasurable, sexual expression between people who have enough power to be there by positive choice . . . ....
(Other Sources) It’s not that men are insensitive. Their brains just aren’t organised to…
It’s not that men are insensitive. Their brains just aren’t organised to notice small details and changes in the appearance or behaviour of others.
(Other Sources) The best sex starts long before the clothes come off.
The best sex starts long before the clothes come off.
(Other Sources) Moreover, there has never been a culture where women have been encouraged…
Moreover, there has never been a culture where women have been encouraged to explore and experiment with their sensuality without censure.
(Other Sources) When you have an orgasm the pelvic floor muscles always contract. If…
When you have an orgasm the pelvic floor muscles always contract. If that does not happen you are not having an orgasm.
(Other Sources) Reality and fantasy are further apart for women than for men …
Reality and fantasy are further apart for women than for men ...
(Other Sources) Masturbation is a normal sexual outlet, which is most common in adolescence,…
Masturbation is a normal sexual outlet, which is most common in adolescence, but which is practised at all ages, by people with and without...
(Other Sources) A woman… wants more intimacy, comprising affection, commitment, and respect for individual…
A woman... wants more intimacy, comprising affection, commitment, and respect for individual identity... Although she knows he wants sex, she is frustrated because this...
(Other Sources) Men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed… Women are motivated…
Men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed... Women are motivated and empowered when they feel cherished...
(Other Sources) Women, on the other hand, can become physically aroused (increased blood flow…
Women, on the other hand, can become physically aroused (increased blood flow in the reproductive organs) without becoming psychologically aroused even in the slightest.
(Other Sources) You deserve a man who loves you, respects you, and is attentive…
You deserve a man who loves you, respects you, and is attentive to your needs. Don't feel like you have to settle for anything...
(Other Sources) Of 50 premenopausal women in a community study by Cawood, only 2…
Of 50 premenopausal women in a community study by Cawood, only 2 reported sexual thoughts more often than once a week and 23 reported...
(Other Sources) In her model of the female sexual response, Basson described the concept…
In her model of the female sexual response, Basson described the concept of receptive desire. She explained that, though many women do not seek...
(Other Sources) Surveys have revealed that 75% of men ejaculate within 2 minutes of…
Surveys have revealed that 75% of men ejaculate within 2 minutes of penetration.
(Other Sources) Propagating what ‘normal levels’ of sexual function is also leaves no space…
Propagating what ‘normal levels’ of sexual function is also leaves no space for inter-individual variation in functional levels.
(Other Sources) Women use silence to punish men. But men like silence.
Women use silence to punish men. But men like silence.
(Other Sources) Women are convinced that somewhere in men must lurk a hidden store…
Women are convinced that somewhere in men must lurk a hidden store of untapped thoughts, insights and emotions, an inner self similar to their...
(Other Sources) It (the penis) is not designed to be consistently erect as it…
It (the penis) is not designed to be consistently erect as it is depicted in all kinds of media - able to be erect...
(Other Sources) Orgasms vary, both between women and for the same woman at different…
Orgasms vary, both between women and for the same woman at different times. We experience different qualities of orgasm depending upon the degree and...
(Other Sources) For example, men found anal sexual behaviors (including anal sex, anal toys,…
For example, men found anal sexual behaviors (including anal sex, anal toys, and anal fingering) more appealing than women. The same was true for...
(Other Sources) Nature is relentless and unchangeable, and it is indifferent as to whether…
Nature is relentless and unchangeable, and it is indifferent as to whether its hidden reasons and actions are understandable to man or not.
(Other Sources) According to some scholars, the allegedly high prevalence of female sexual dysfunction…
According to some scholars, the allegedly high prevalence of female sexual dysfunction has to do with the fact that the standard of ‘normality’ is...
(Other Sources) We got the message: Sleep around, write about it, become someone.
We got the message: Sleep around, write about it, become someone.
(Other Sources) For women who no longer care for sex, or for those who…
For women who no longer care for sex, or for those who never did, refuge may be found in this inability to prove what...
(Other Sources) … people who report most guilt about having fantasies during intercourse have…
... people who report most guilt about having fantasies during intercourse have higher levels of sexual dissatisfaction and dysfunction than those who are relatively...
(Other Sources) We do not know beforehand where fundamental insights will arise from ……
We do not know beforehand where fundamental insights will arise from ... and history ... shows clearly that accepted and conventional ideas are often...
(Other Sources) Numerous research studies make it very clear that the people who have…
Numerous research studies make it very clear that the people who have the best quality and most frequent sex are married couples. That says...
(Other Sources) Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.
Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.
(Other Sources) I think it is important to write articles that can be digested…
I think it is important to write articles that can be digested by the public so that we don’t keep what we learn as...
(Other Sources) A woman talks to show participation and build relationships.
A woman talks to show participation and build relationships.
(Other Sources) Sensing an opportunity to be sexual, the partner’s neediness, or an awareness…
Sensing an opportunity to be sexual, the partner’s neediness, or an awareness of one or more potential benefits or rewards that are very important...
(Other Sources) Further, desire for sex is not always the primary motive for engaging…
Further, desire for sex is not always the primary motive for engaging in sex; women describe a range of personal (e.g. increasing self-esteem) and...
(Other Sources) If you can’t explain it simply, you don’t understand it well enough.
If you can't explain it simply, you don't understand it well enough.
(Other Sources) If you told a woman that you had just returned from a…
If you told a woman that you had just returned from a trip to the surface of the Moon, she would show her interest...
(Other Sources) “Who wants to have sex for eight hours?” Ask a dude. Ask…
“Who wants to have sex for eight hours?" Ask a dude. Ask even a tired dude. No contest.
(Other Sources) One man talked about this chasm as ‘My own Gulf war ……
One man talked about this chasm as ‘My own Gulf war ... 6 inches between us in the bed feels like 1,000 miles!’
(Other Sources) Facts which at first seem improbable will, even on scant explanation, drop…
Facts which at first seem improbable will, even on scant explanation, drop the cloak which has hidden them and stand forth in naked and...
(Other Sources) For women, it is increasingly difficult to carve out the dual identity…
For women, it is increasingly difficult to carve out the dual identity of mother and sensual lover. Plus, there is a rival for her...
(Other Sources) Can’t we have our pleasure – and the truth too? Women deserve…
Can’t we have our pleasure - and the truth too? Women deserve accurate information about their bodies.
(Other Sources) Given the inflated estimates on the prevalence of low sexual desire in…
Given the inflated estimates on the prevalence of low sexual desire in women, it is important to question whether a high number of them...
(Other Sources) But in an economy where nearly all creative types are struggling, highly…
But in an economy where nearly all creative types are struggling, highly confessional essays about sex by young people - in particular women -...
(Other Sources) In fact, since only about 30 percent of women achieve orgasm with…
In fact, since only about 30 percent of women achieve orgasm with intercourse but over 80 percent experience a climax with masturbation, orgasm by...
(Other Sources) Yeah, vaginismus is one of the most treatable forms of sexual pain.
Yeah, vaginismus is one of the most treatable forms of sexual pain.
(Other Sources) A gentleman who has unfortunately found himself in the grasp of a bull…
A gentleman who has unfortunately found himself in the grasp of a bull queer. Unknown to the wiggler his frantic wiggling is merely increasing the bull queers...
(Other Sources) Overall, if the partner was seen as attractive, admirable, or respectable this…
Overall, if the partner was seen as attractive, admirable, or respectable this contributed to participant’s sexual desire.
(Other Sources) To prove his love for her he climbed the highest mountain, swam…
To prove his love for her he climbed the highest mountain, swam the deepest ocean and crossed the widest desert. She left him -...
(Other Sources) … a woman’s sexual fulfilment is much more complex than a man’s….
... a woman’s sexual fulfilment is much more complex than a man’s. She requires a man with a skillful touch, lots of time, and...
(Other Sources) He’s just using me for sex, we whine self-righteously. And what are…
He’s just using me for sex, we whine self-righteously. And what are we using him for? A wedding ring? His sperm?
(Other Sources) We’d made out in the elevator of his hotel, and when I…
We'd made out in the elevator of his hotel, and when I woke up the next morning, I was dry-mouthed and confused, and as...
(Other Sources) At the beginning of the 21st century, the World Health Organization included…
At the beginning of the 21st century, the World Health Organization included pleasure as a component in their definition of sexual health.
(Other Sources) There are still lots of G-spot believers. Their point is: If a…
There are still lots of G-spot believers. Their point is: If a woman believes she’s found her G-spot, that should outweigh any lack of...
(Other Sources) Most men think that if they stick it in you you’ll be…
Most men think that if they stick it in you you’ll be screaming with orgasm, just as long as they keep at it enough...
(Other Sources) It vexes me when they would constrain science by the authority of…
It vexes me when they would constrain science by the authority of the Scriptures, and yet do not consider themselves bound to answer reason...
(Other Sources) In a survey of women from 29 countries, rates of self-reported low…
In a survey of women from 29 countries, rates of self-reported low sexual interest ranged from 26 to 43% (Laumann et al.).
(Other Sources) Just having stronger pelvic muscles may have no impact on our perception…
Just having stronger pelvic muscles may have no impact on our perception of orgasm quality.
(Other Sources) If a woman experiences little to no sexual desire, no sexual fantasies,…
If a woman experiences little to no sexual desire, no sexual fantasies, and exhibits little ... enjoyment of, sexual activity for over 6 months...
(Other Sources) Male masturbation has always been a secret from which women have been…
Male masturbation has always been a secret from which women have been excluded. Even in marriage, few women are given the opportunity to witness...
(Other Sources) Tracy Cox gives ten good reasons to masturbate including: It releases tension…
Tracy Cox gives ten good reasons to masturbate including: It releases tension and helps us sleep - a secret sleeping pill without any side-effects!
(Other Sources) To some degree, men experience their desire as independent of context -…
To some degree, men experience their desire as independent of context - often choosing to use the word ‘drive’.
(Other Sources) Men want friends to play with, … whereas women want friends to…
Men want friends to play with, ... whereas women want friends to talk to.
(Other Sources) If you really think about why vaginal stimulation matters so much, it’s…
If you really think about why vaginal stimulation matters so much, it’s because it puts the focus on male pleasure.
(Other Sources) Research has shown that orgasms are also not widely considered to be…
Research has shown that orgasms are also not widely considered to be the most important aspect of sexual experience.
(Other Sources) Men think they’re initiating foreplay. Women feel like they’re being prepped for…
Men think they’re initiating foreplay. Women feel like they’re being prepped for performance, not connection.
(Other Sources) The source of an orgasm, then, is clitoral. But a woman can…
The source of an orgasm, then, is clitoral. But a woman can feel orgasm mainly in her clitoris or the area beneath it, or...
(Other Sources) Men and women are mismatched in this respect because a man is…
Men and women are mismatched in this respect because a man is MUCH MORE easily and quickly aroused, and reaches orgasm in a very...
(Other Sources) The majority of women worldwide do not have orgasms during intercourse: as…
The majority of women worldwide do not have orgasms during intercourse: as a matter of fact, female sexual dysfunctions are popular because they are...
(Other Sources) When men see an attractive woman, they fantasise about sex. When women…
When men see an attractive woman, they fantasise about sex. When women see an attractive man, they fantasise about a relationship - charming, agreeable...
(Other Sources) How to satisfy a woman every time: Caress, praise, pamper, … die…
How to satisfy a woman every time: Caress, praise, pamper, ... die for, dream of, tease, gratify, squeeze, indulge, idolise, worship. How to satisfy...
(Other Sources) Vaginal lubrication traditionally has been considered the genital marker of arousal. However,…
Vaginal lubrication traditionally has been considered the genital marker of arousal. However, many women are little aware of their lubrication.
(Other Sources) Although there has been some disagreement in the past as to whether…
Although there has been some disagreement in the past as to whether the absence of coital orgasms without accompanying manual clitoral stimulation is an...
(Other Sources) … many women have found it secretly comforting to discover they are…
... many women have found it secretly comforting to discover they are not the only ones who experience this enormous discrepancy between masturbation and...
(Other Sources) Sexual decisions, in the final analysis must be personal.
Sexual decisions, in the final analysis must be personal.
(Other Sources) Even Sharon Stone admits that she did women a disservice in ‘Basic…
Even Sharon Stone admits that she did women a disservice in ‘Basic Instinct’ by suggesting that they could reach orgasm in about 30 seconds...
(Other Sources) Anal intercourse: This is something which nearly every couple tries once. A…
Anal intercourse: This is something which nearly every couple tries once. A few stay with it, usually because the woman finds that it gives...
(Other Sources) Tell her she’s important to you. For a woman to feel the…
Tell her she’s important to you. For a woman to feel the desire for sex, she needs to feel loved, adored and significant.
(Other Sources) If you’ve got a penis, it would be super convenient if the…
If you’ve got a penis, it would be super convenient if the way the person with a vagina has pleasure is for you to...
(Other Sources) … most research focuses on “dysfunctional” desire (i.e. low levels of desire…
... most research focuses on “dysfunctional” desire (i.e. low levels of desire and desire discrepancies between partners) and particularly the experiences of Western, heterosexual...
(Other Sources) There are a lot of people out there pretending to be sex…
There are a lot of people out there pretending to be sex experts. Everyone seems to think they are an expert.
(Other Sources) Men are frequently unaware that, though the source of a woman’s pleasure…
Men are frequently unaware that, though the source of a woman’s pleasure may be the size of a peanut, it is armed with all...
(Other Sources) I think media portrayal and propaganda of what ‘normal sex’ constitutes, for…
I think media portrayal and propaganda of what ‘normal sex’ constitutes, for example in terms of frequency, preferences, etc., definitely has effects on people’s...
(Other Sources) Always be willing to look at yourself in the mirror. Hold yourself…
Always be willing to look at yourself in the mirror. Hold yourself accountable in life, that's how you grow and get better.