However, in each age group, from the youngest to age forty, there…
However, in each age group, from the youngest to age forty, there were some individuals who were having coitus in their marriages on an...
Men expect to have regular sex with their partner. This expectation means…
Men expect to have regular sex with their partner. This expectation means they are frustrated when their partner is physically present but not sexually...
And yet, too many folks choke on the fact of innate gender…
And yet, too many folks choke on the fact of innate gender differences in libido. Feminists equate a lower sex drive with inferiority. Feminism...
Despite contraception, sex still involves a risk of pregnancy, sexual disease and…
Despite contraception, sex still involves a risk of pregnancy, sexual disease and much emotional turmoil(!). So we promote the link between sex and love...
We do know that the frequencies of nocturnal dreams show some correlation…
We do know that the frequencies of nocturnal dreams show some correlation with the level of erotic responsiveness of an individual.
I used to (fake orgasm), because men would enjoy watching me pant.
I used to (fake orgasm), because men would enjoy watching me pant.
The erectile organs (penis and clitoris) develop from the same anatomy in…
The erectile organs (penis and clitoris) develop from the same anatomy in the foetus called the genital tubercle. The penis and clitoris have crura...
In this attempt to resolve the conflict between the sexual nature of…
In this attempt to resolve the conflict between the sexual nature of the human male and the pattern imposed by his code on the...
The golden rule of sex is: if it hurts, then stop doing…
The golden rule of sex is: if it hurts, then stop doing it. If something does not feel good, it should not be done.
Women’s top 5 turn-ons. 1. Romance 2. Commitment 3. Communications 4. Intimacy…
Women’s top 5 turn-ons. 1. Romance 2. Commitment 3. Communications 4. Intimacy 5. Non-sexual touching
A man’s arousal and orgasm are pretty much a given during sex….
A man's arousal and orgasm are pretty much a given during sex. But a woman can take part in sexual activity without ever becoming...
… it (homosexual activity) is simply accepted as a different kind of…
... it (homosexual activity) is simply accepted as a different kind of sexual outlet by a fair number of persons, whatever their marital status,...
I used to (fake), when my husband had a complex about sex…
I used to (fake), when my husband had a complex about sex and a marriage counsellor told me I should build up his ego.
A man’s sexual emotions involve his sexual drive to engage in penetrative…
A man's sexual emotions involve his sexual drive to engage in penetrative sex and to enjoy the eroticism of being physically intimate with a...
In most cultures, throughout history, everywhere in the world, some sort of…
In most cultures, throughout history, everywhere in the world, some sort of distinction has been made between the acceptability of pre-marital coitus for the...
No one teaches us how to orgasm. We discover orgasm because we…
No one teaches us how to orgasm. We discover orgasm because we have the capability. Orgasm is a significant response that we definitely realise...
… by 50 as much as half the male population lacks the…
… by 50 as much as half the male population lacks the testosterone that would give them the kind of sex drive young men...
During masturbation men use erotic images (usually the naked body and sexual…
During masturbation men use erotic images (usually the naked body and sexual attributes of a sexual partner) and women use erotic scenarios (usually stories...
Education develops a demand for more elaborate recreation and more extended social…
Education develops a demand for more elaborate recreation and more extended social contacts.
Intercourse is necessary for reproduction, and sexual pleasure and orgasm are involved…
Intercourse is necessary for reproduction, and sexual pleasure and orgasm are involved with reproduction. But exactly how? Looking closer, one sees that only male...
Women often refuse to divulge turn-ons, implying a loyalty to the perceived…
Women often refuse to divulge turn-ons, implying a loyalty to the perceived accomplishment of their lover. They assume (as men do) that orgasm is...
The failure of a female to reach orgasm in her marital coitus…
The failure of a female to reach orgasm in her marital coitus may be a considerable source of marital discord.
Women send out mixed signals that are very confusing for a man….
Women send out mixed signals that are very confusing for a man. They display their bodies in ways that arouse men. But their behaviours...
The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and…
The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent full of doubt.
I had honestly never considered masturbation to be a legitimate part of…
I had honestly never considered masturbation to be a legitimate part of sex. Masturbation was a mechanism for assisting me in getting to sleep...
Nearly, but not quite, all males experience sexual fantasies during masturbation. The…
Nearly, but not quite, all males experience sexual fantasies during masturbation. The female fantasies much less often while masturbating.
In the same way that women’s role has shifted from child-bearer to…
In the same way that women’s role has shifted from child-bearer to sex object since the decline in importance of child-bearing, just so the...
Masturbation involves a woman stimulating anatomy equivalent to the penis (the phallus)….
Masturbation involves a woman stimulating anatomy equivalent to the penis (the phallus). Orgasm involves the erectile sex organ (penis or clitoris). So, by masturbating,...
Just as in the human animal … petting among the other mammals…
Just as in the human animal ... petting among the other mammals is primarily, although not exclusively, male activity which is directed toward the...
In the absence of testosterone, the genital tubercle forms the female phallus,…
In the absence of testosterone, the genital tubercle forms the female phallus, called the clitoris.
Histological studies have demonstrated that the glans has many more small nerves…
Histological studies have demonstrated that the glans has many more small nerves than the other clitoral components, supporting its role in sensation. Furthermore, it...
When it comes to her own sexual arousal, it helps if a…
When it comes to her own sexual arousal, it helps if a woman sees herself as sexually attractive to men and if she takes...
Most of the action in a petting relationship originates with the male….
Most of the action in a petting relationship originates with the male. Most of it is designed to stimulate the female.
For a long time I didn’t know if I was having them…
For a long time I didn't know if I was having them because of the verbal myths surrounding them and no means of comparison...
There are countless sources providing a porn-friendly, over-hyped view of female sexuality…
There are countless sources providing a porn-friendly, over-hyped view of female sexuality ... My work is for liberated and worldly couples who understand...
The frequencies of the female’s marital coitus … are often much higher…
The frequencies of the female's marital coitus … are often much higher than she would desire, and even those females who are most responsive...
A man’s best chances of passing on his genes involve having a…
A man's best chances of passing on his genes involve having a biological drive to impregnate any attractive woman regardless of circumstances.
… women’s sexual response more commonly stems from intimacy needs rather than…
… women’s sexual response more commonly stems from intimacy needs rather than a need for physical sexual arousal ...
Many women are shocked by any form of eroticism. This shows a…
Many women are shocked by any form of eroticism. This shows a lack of understanding about the nature of sexual pleasure. After all, eroticism...
It is probable that prostitution is no exception to the economic laws,…
It is probable that prostitution is no exception to the economic laws, and it continues to exist because there is a sufficient demand for...
At times, I would fake them and get so involved I could…
At times, I would fake them and get so involved I could almost believe it was really happening.
You cannot teach someone to orgasm. We discover orgasm because we have…
You cannot teach someone to orgasm. We discover orgasm because we have the capability. Responsiveness relies on a person's ability to identify with erotic...
Much of this interest in rare or non-existent forms of sexual performance…
Much of this interest in rare or non-existent forms of sexual performance may represent the male’s wishful thinking, a projection of his own desire...
It suits a man that intercourse does not require female arousal. He…
It suits a man that intercourse does not require female arousal. He does not need to wait for a lover to be aroused. A...
At its core, we define … sexual pleasure as the experience of…
At its core, we define ... sexual pleasure as the experience of positive affect (feeling good) during sexual activities.
Women co-operate with men’s sex drive and provide men with sexual pleasure…
Women co-operate with men's sex drive and provide men with sexual pleasure to create the emotional bonds needed for long-term relationships. Intercourse provides women...
Patterns of sexual behaviour are, in an astonishingly high percentage of cases,…
Patterns of sexual behaviour are, in an astonishingly high percentage of cases, merely reflections of the patterns of the particular social level to which...
In summary, since intercourse has been defined as the basic form of…
In summary, since intercourse has been defined as the basic form of sexuality, and the only natural, healthy, and moral form of physical contact,...
Anyone who can orgasm, understands how their own sexual arousal works, the…
Anyone who can orgasm, understands how their own sexual arousal works, the erotic turn-ons and the specific stimulation technique involved because it is a...
The number of females who had ever masturbated to the point of…
The number of females who had ever masturbated to the point of orgasm differed somewhat in the education levels ... the accumulative incidence at...
A man’s reproductive role is to maximise his opportunities for intercourse. Women’s…
A man's reproductive role is to maximise his opportunities for intercourse. Women's sexual role is to provide a man with his sexual release by...
It is less easy to assess psycho-sexual triggers for women than for…
It is less easy to assess psycho-sexual triggers for women than for men.
The success of the G-spot myth is not simply down to men’s…
The success of the G-spot myth is not simply down to men's enthusiasm for intercourse. To explain their orgasms during intercourse, women have also...
Most of the complications which are observable in sexual histories are the…
Most of the complications which are observable in sexual histories are the results of society's reactions when it obtains knowledge of an individual's behaviour,...
There were, unfortunately, many women who orgasmed regularly during masturbation but almost…
There were, unfortunately, many women who orgasmed regularly during masturbation but almost never during sex with another person in any way.
Those who are truly responsive (men for example!) don’t promote their own…
Those who are truly responsive (men for example!) don't promote their own orgasm. They discuss their enjoyment of erotic turn-ons such as their lover's...
Some females had masturbated for some years before they learned that the…
Some females had masturbated for some years before they learned that the activity in which they had been engaged had any sexual connotation and...
The fact that there is a sex positive movement implies there are…
The fact that there is a sex positive movement implies there are negative aspects to sex. What are these? Why do they arise? And...
Sex is the price women pay for marriage. Marriage is the price…
Sex is the price women pay for marriage. Marriage is the price men pay for sex.
The issue of clitoral stimulation is a red herring – women aren’t…
The issue of clitoral stimulation is a red herring - women aren't that timid and neither are their partners. If women could orgasm as...
Most males … are definitely aroused upon seeing things that are associated…
Most males … are definitely aroused upon seeing things that are associated with sex, and most females are not so aroused. To have intercourse...
Since I don’t have orgasms during intercourse, therefore I enjoy it without.
Since I don't have orgasms during intercourse, therefore I enjoy it without.
Masturbation provides women with the opportunity to enjoy their own arousal and…
Masturbation provides women with the opportunity to enjoy their own arousal and orgasm without exposing themselves to the life-threatening risks of pregnancy and childbirth.
Masturbation may or may not be pursued to the point of orgasm,…
Masturbation may or may not be pursued to the point of orgasm, and it may or may not have orgasm as its objective.
One of the problems with suggesting that female orgasm occurs through masturbation,…
One of the problems with suggesting that female orgasm occurs through masturbation, is that very few women masturbate.
A woman doesn’t want sex for the same reasons a man does….
A woman doesn’t want sex for the same reasons a man does. A woman enters a new relationship looking for romance and love. Sex...
Masturbation as an adult activity involves knowing how to become sexually aroused…
Masturbation as an adult activity involves knowing how to become sexually aroused enough so that genital stimulation leads to orgasm. Female sexual arousal has...
The most important consequence of sexual orgasm is the abrupt release of…
The most important consequence of sexual orgasm is the abrupt release of the extreme tension which preceded the event and the rather sudden return...
In some cases, it was not even clear to the woman herself…
In some cases, it was not even clear to the woman herself whether there had been an orgasm or merely high levels of arousal…
Scientists research female orgasm because they hope to discover what the average…
Scientists research female orgasm because they hope to discover what the average couple has missed. But if women routinely had orgasms with a lover,...
Many males … poorly understand the techniques by which females masturbate, the…
Many males … poorly understand the techniques by which females masturbate, the anatomy which may be involved … and the part which fantasy plays...
Either new anatomy (such as the clitoris) or new areas (such as…
Either new anatomy (such as the clitoris) or new areas (such as the G-spot) are suggested in a never-ending search for the magic button...
… men wish that women’s sexuality was like theirs, which it isn’t….
… men wish that women’s sexuality was like theirs, which it isn’t. Male sexual response is far brisker and more automatic… Your clothes,...
I am told that women ‘enjoy’ sex or even ‘love’ sex (and…
I am told that women 'enjoy' sex or even 'love' sex (and why not for heaven's sake?) but then they talk of affection. It...
Many younger females and, for that matter, a certain portion of the…
Many younger females and, for that matter, a certain portion of the older and married female population, may engage in such specifically sexual activities...
I would like to know more about sex, but most of the…
I would like to know more about sex, but most of the books I have read are not very revealing. They don’t answer the...
Women’s inability to reconcile their amazing good luck with the experiences of…
Women's inability to reconcile their amazing good luck with the experiences of millions of other women make it clear that they are seeking political...
There are few married persons who have not, at least on occasion,…
There are few married persons who have not, at least on occasion, recognized a serious need for additional information to meet some of the...
We cannot legislate for sex education in the sense of insisting that…
We cannot legislate for sex education in the sense of insisting that everyone agrees on the facts and logic involved. Education depends on an...
If you can’t explain it simply, you don’t understand it well enough.
If you can’t explain it simply, you don’t understand it well enough.
We often talk about sexual arousal as if an erection or orgasm,…
We often talk about sexual arousal as if an erection or orgasm, for that matter, is caused purely by physical stimulation. This is partly...
The failure of the scientist to go further than he has in…
The failure of the scientist to go further than he has in studies of sex is undoubtedly a reflection of society's attitudes in this...
Again, the penis contains within its shaft two caverns or spaces known…
Again, the penis contains within its shaft two caverns or spaces known as corpora cavernosa, which fill with blood during sexual excitation ... The...
The fact that women orgasm most easily by masturbating alone is counterintuitive…
The fact that women orgasm most easily by masturbating alone is counterintuitive because it is not the male experience.
… the female has a greater capacity for being faithful … she…
... the female has a greater capacity for being faithful ... she is generally more inclined to consider the moral implications of her sexual...
We need stimulation to continue until orgasm is achieved and not beyond….
We need stimulation to continue until orgasm is achieved and not beyond. But men want to believe (beyond all logic) that women orgasm from...
How do women learn what an orgasm is? Your parents aren’t talking…
How do women learn what an orgasm is? Your parents aren’t talking to you about it. Where would you learn? I don’t know. Maybe...
As long as we expect women to respond as men do then…
As long as we expect women to respond as men do then we will always conclude that women are dysfunctional.