(Nosper Dialogues) Emotional investment

(Nosper Dialogues) Emotional investment

JANE: Women look for emotional rewards from their relationships so they tend to find men’s sexuality crude & impersonal. Serena: From a relationship standpoint, I’ve found that past partners think that being sexual is the equivalent of being romantic. This misunderstanding is frequently problematic. I don’t know how other women feel, but I can orgasm with an emotional investment. JANE: My experience is that orgasm is not possible with a lover. I think women often confuse emotional sensations for a true response to eroticism. Serena: I’ve often been told that my responses aren’t typical, so let’s agree to disagree. JANE: I am asking for facts & logical explanations. Not orgasm boasts. Men need erotic stimuli for mental arousal and they stimulate consistent anatomy. I am asking women to explain the equivalent stimuli and anatomy that causes female orgasm. JANE (cont): Women claim to orgasm in scenarios that defy common sense. This is wrong & causes much distress for those who assume everyone can be honest about their sexual experiences. Serena: I don’t boast about orgasms. A lady never kisses and tells. Ok, that last part IS a lie. However, I try to be open minded enough not to tell others what their experiences are. Life’s too short to engage in meaningless arguments. JANE: It’s called science (facts & logical explanations) rather than politics (trying to manipulate men). Women need to explain the anatomy & the erotic turnons that they use to achieve the response to erotic stimuli that is called orgasm. JANE (cont): The rest is just erotic fiction fantasy. Women expect to have their orgasm claims accepted. They refuse to discuss any details. Nor do they provide any evidence of enjoying sexual pleasure. These are just political mantras. Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism