Jacqueline: Jane, you represent the sad majority of women who simply have no idea of their potential. It both saddens me and inspires me to continue my work. Jacqueline (cont): When a woman does reach her sexual potential (admittedly very rare in this society) there is no way she would want to achieve the small, limited orgasms that most men experience boring! Jacqueline (cont): You take a very stereotypical view of sex and relationships. For instance, I see as many couples where the man has the lower interest in sex than the women. Jacqueline (cont): My experience is that men love intimacy and emotional connection as much as if not more than women. As to female orgasm, well, the female capacity for orgasm leaves men for dead! Jacqueline (cont): Our ability to orgasm in many ways and from many different types of stimulation is prodigious. The reason women find themselves limited in their sexual interest and response is because they have bought into all those myths Jacqueline (cont): that pervade our society, such as that men are more sexual than women, or that sex is something a woman does to keep a man happy, or that men are only interested in intercourse and nothing else. Its all social conditioning! Jacqueline (cont): Its assumed that because so many women dont have great sexual experiences therefore women arent sexual. Sure, tell women who have trouble having any kind of orgasm to fantasise while masturbating, thats the first and obvious step. Jacqueline (cont): But you will realise that the fantasy masturbatory experience, how ever good you find it at the time, becomes little more than hamburger with sauce once youve discovered how much more erotic and pleasurable sex is when you and your partner(s) become masters of gourmet sex. Jacqueline (cont): Its the same with sex. Fantasy is a good start for women with no or little sexual knowledge or experience. If theyre happy with that, great, but if they truly want to experience their sexual and orgasmic potential Jacqueline (cont): then theres a lot more to do after that. In time she will reach a place where she doesnt need to rely on fantasy because the quality of the sexual experience will be far greater than what any fantasy in her head could create. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all