Jenny: I find it interesting that so many women as well as men believe a partner is responsible for a woman being able to orgasm. When she correctly focuses her attention & actions, her brain is no longer confused & an orgasm naturally results. Refraining from being mentally distracted is a woman’s greatest challenge. JANE: Are you talking about alone or with a partner? I haven’t found that orgasm occurs with a lover. It only occurs alone when it is possible to get the focus on fantasy that is necessary for arousal. Jenny: Both. Focused attention brings forward increased awareness of vaginal feeling. The orgasmic power lies in encouraging and enjoying those waves of sensation to wash over you and through you, instead of questioning whether or not it is an orgasm. JANE: Women often confuse emotional & sensual feelings with a lover with true orgasm. This is because very few women ever masturbate to orgasm so they have no way of knowing what an orgasm is. Orgasm is a mental response to eroticism. But women are not aroused with a lover so JANE (cont): stimulation makes no difference. Intercourse certainly cannot provide the receiver with an orgasm because the stimulation lasts for only as long as the man needs to ejaculate. The vagina is devoid of sensation being part of the birth canal. The clitoris is the only female erectile organ. Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism