Al : Ive always found that it depends on the manner of the thrusting and attentiveness of the thruster. Mind you, I only have my own years of experience to go by. JANE: I am talking about orgasm. No one can orgasm from stimulation that they cannot control. Stimulation needs to continue to the point of orgasm & not beyond. Intercourse relies on the male responses of erection & ejaculation. Women fake to keep men happy… Al : I tend to disagree with your first point on stimulation. Im 71. Since prostatectomy, no longer enjoy delights of female orgasms let alone mine (unaided). My experience, 5 with whom Ive had intimate relations had great orgasms even multiple ones even when I havent. JANE: If you know any women willing to discuss these orgasms men think they have, please ask them to contact me. We need to control the stimulation that causes orgasm. So intercourse can never give a woman an orgasm. In decades of talking about orgasm, I find that only men talk about them. JANE (cont): Women do not talk of eroticism, sexual pleasure or orgasm. It’s all male ego! Orgasm ends activity that is focused on achieving it. Heterosexual activity typically continues until male ejaculation. Women use faking to arouse a man & speed up intercourse. Al : Sorry. 50 years ago, maybe. I dont talk about them and only ever did with my lovers. In at least 2 of my intimate sexual relationships, credit has been mutual. 2 women (different 2) were voracious, and 1 of those had all the orgasms, I was her first sex partner for 8 years. JANE: This is what causes so much confusion over female orgasm. Men think they have the right to speak on women’s behalf. But this is nonsense. No one discusses male orgasm. It just happens. You are trying to boost your own ego it’s just male fantasies run amok. Al: You use a lot of generalisations! Not all men fall into your behavioural pigeonholes. I dont speak on behalf of women. My comments here are personal shares. I have no need to boost my own ego and have never boasted about prowess or fantasised in that way. JANE: My work explains how these orgasms that are promoted through porn cannot possibly be real. I provide facts & logical explanations. I do not have time to convince those who do not want to be convinced. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure