Veronica: The women of the View were discussing why there seem to be a rise in lesbians coming out in their 40s after they had lived with men and raised families. Your opinions on why this is, has piqued my interest. No one has ever given this reason before: of women not understanding or enjoying their sexuality until later in life. Very enlightening perspective! Jane: My conclusion is that women enjoy their sexual response alone through explicitly erotic fantasies. These are relatively complex psychological scenarios, which makes them unsuitable for use with a partner. Hence sexual relationships tend to focus on male arousal and orgasm since men can become aroused enough for orgasm simply through an appreciation of the sexual attributes of a sexual partner and the erotic pleasures of penetrating a partner. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all