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Shere Hite
Shere Hite
Quotations from books by Shere Hite including ‘The Hite Report’.
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(Shere Hite) Women don’t seem to look at men as people, women look at…
Jane
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March 12, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) For a long time I didn’t know if I was having them…
Jane
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March 11, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) At times, I would fake them and get so involved I could…
Jane
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March 10, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In summary, since intercourse has been defined as the basic form of…
Jane
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March 9, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Many women indicated that they could not even suggest that their male…
Jane
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March 8, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There were, unfortunately, many women who orgasmed regularly during masturbation but almost…
Jane
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March 7, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) ‘Dick Power’ – the penis decides when it’s over.
Jane
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March 6, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In some cases, it was not even clear to the woman herself…
Jane
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March 5, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In short, the only real difference between men’s and women’s erections is…
Jane
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March 4, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Waiting for the Right Man to make us orgasm is like waiting…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It would seem that to analyze what is probably an unusual group…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The penis … has two roots known as crura which play an…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) To tell you the truth, I’m really not sure. I have read…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The reason for the importance (during masturbation) of different leg positions to…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) However, since female orgasm is not necessary during intercourse for reproduction to…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I wish making love were more sensuous touching and less direct genital…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … there was no correlation with frequency of orgasm: women who did…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Masturbatory orgasms are stronger, but I prefer the diffusion and variety of…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Clearly, if a woman is financially dependent on a man, she is…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Probably, in many cases, no regular orgasm has occurred; perhaps at other…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Most men have fucked me with a minimum of foreplay, have been…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sex is to please him. What I like is the feeling of…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Not only were women tired of the old mechanical pattern of ‘foreplay’,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sex is important because when there is a feeling of understanding and…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Orgasm is important, but not as important has he thinks: my orgasm…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Probably millions of women could agree with one woman who wrote, “It…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Definitely (I fake orgasm) – some men want to fuck me till…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Perhaps if you masturbate, you can get a fixation on your clitoris…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) One of the most important themes of men’s replies is their desire…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Intercourse shows my husband loves and wants me.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Eleven point six percent of the women in this study never orgasmed,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Most (men) did not seem to be aware that what brought them…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Wow – let’s let women tell it like it is, instead of…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I have been married to one partner for over twenty-sex years, and…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Among most species of mammals there is, in actuality, a great deal…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I can see no way sex is political, unless you mean the…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sociocultural influence more often than not places a woman in a position…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The descriptions of arousal … are very similar to these descriptions of…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I think our culture has made sex overimportant.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) This, of course, is not to say that women don’t like sex,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Only 3 percent of the (male) answers to “Why do you like…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I feel very strongly that sexual education for women will be one…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sex is really a neat way to express my strong feelings for…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Masters and Johnson … The crucial finding of their work, with regard…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I get paranoid. Did I please her? Was I good enough? This…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I can have an orgasm with clitoral stimulation but I have never…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Most men either take it for granted that you have one, or…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … for a woman to orgasm during intercourse, she must adapt her…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Saying no to sex has become, for many women, a ways of…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Men certainly have control of their own stimulation to orgasm: during intercourse…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Anyone who is economically and legally dependent on another person, as women…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) We have arrived at a point in our thinking as a society…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The fact is, we usually cooperate quite extensively during intercourse in order…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I like touching very much, but with my husband a touch is…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Unfortunately, the idea that sex is necessary for health has become big…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Why, in our pattern of sexual relations, does the man have charge…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Maybe having sex with someone I knew well and deeply cared about…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Of course once he (Freud) had laid down this definition of our…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Yes, I like intercourse. I like men, their bodies, and pleasing them.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Women are more willing to be dependent, or part of another person,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Despite this, a majority of women stated flatly that, no matter what…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There is a great deal of confusion here on the part of…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Men often feel very angry with women who never initiate sex and…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There are times when I feel I’m discharging an obligation, like washing…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) My husband has on occasion threatened to withhold money or favor ……
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The light touch is better than the gorilla approach.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sex plays a very important part in my life because … I…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I have never failed a woman yet to achieve orgasm.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There is nothing wrong with saying that the movement of the clitoral…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I love anything a woman does that takes her off her back.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … whereas 44 percent of the women orgasmed regularly with clitoral stimulation…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Most men are only attentive to women when they want sex, and…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I haven’t had an orgasm during my marriage (twenty-seven years) or with…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It’s over after his orgasm. Isn’t that the natural end of sex?
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The reproductive model of sex insures male orgasm by giving it a…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) As Ann Koedt put it, in ‘The myth of the vaginal orgasm’:…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) With women there is a lot of hugging, kissing, caressing, i.e., a…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) To assume that intercourse is the basic expression of female sexuality, during…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) If my body wanted me to have orgasms, I’m sure it would…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I (male) have been married for almost five years. I like it…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The pill itself did not bring about ‘sexual freedom’ … but merely…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Yes, I like intercourse, even though I don’t have orgasm. It shows…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I’ve tried everything, but I’ve never had one.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … even if a man has a strong physical desire for orgasm…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) At this point in my life, it’s just not really important, and…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) My husband used to ask, “Did you come?” – and when the…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) If women find cunnilingus so enjoyable, why doesn’t it lead to orgasm…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Somehow I feel almost guilty that I’m satisfied afterward. There seems to…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Indiscriminate sex is irresponsible. Loving your body and your feelings is beautiful.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I (male) think it’s specifically penetration and thrusting that give penis-vagina intercourse…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Having a man love me and want to have sex with me…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) At the same time, many men jealously guard their prerogative of being…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Men were mostly concerned with their own pleasure rather than mine. I…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) General body touching is more important to me than orgasm.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The importance of masturbation for me is that it’s my only source…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I would not have answered honestly without anonymity …
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The real pleasure of sexual relations, in this sense, then, is the…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I think I have sex almost always to consummate a bond, to…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) My affairs, unknown to my wife, had a good effect on me…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Yes, arousal is more important than orgasm. It was this that sustained…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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