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(Other Sources) It was my first published piece, and it confirmed what I’d always…
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(Other Sources) Premature ejaculation is the great male fear. The trouble is that coming…
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(Other Sources) We’ve got this generation of boys growing up thinking that, you know,…
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(Other Sources) Yeah, vaginismus is one of the most treatable forms of sexual pain.
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(Other Sources) Men think they’re initiating foreplay. Women feel like they’re being prepped for…
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(Other Sources) Many women wonder if their lack of orgasms is due to some…
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(Other Sources) One of the most important aspects of partnered sexuality, according to experts,…
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(Other Sources) For a G-spot to exist, it would have had to have been…
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(Other Sources) I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t be satisfied if we only had sex…
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(Other Sources) The vagina itself is a muscular tube of about 8 cm that…
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(Other Sources) Convinced of their own complexity, women just can’t believe it possible that…
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(Other Sources) Add to that that women spend more time thinking up stories anyway,…
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(Other Sources) What’s the one thing that differentiates good friends from lovers? Sex… Stop…
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(Other Sources) … expressing what you want and like will help you feel more…
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(Other Sources) Women know when all you want is a glass of wine, nodding…
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(Other Sources) The fact is – and it’s a big one – across every…
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(Other Sources) Another woman said ‘Alas, I am sorry to say that I cannot…
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(Other Sources) Differences in how women and men experience orgasms can lead to unrealistic…
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(Other Sources) A gentleman who has unfortunately found himself in the grasp of a bull…
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(Other Sources) The source of an orgasm, then, is clitoral. But a woman can…
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(Other Sources) Sexuality is experienced and expressed in thoughts, fantasies, desires, beliefs, attitudes, values,…
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(Other Sources) Men, imagine having sex without having your penis stimulated. It would certainly…
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(Other Sources) Don’t waste your time dating someone who doesn’t want what you want.
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(Other Sources) Further, desire for sex is not always the primary motive for engaging…
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(Other Sources) Sensing an opportunity to be sexual, the partner’s neediness, or an awareness…
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(Other Sources) Closeness and connection is a human need.
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(Other Sources) A woman talks to show participation and build relationships.
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(Other Sources) I think it is important to write articles that can be digested…
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(Other Sources) Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.
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(Other Sources) One study reported that many women find their most satisfying sexual experiences…
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(Other Sources) Numerous research studies make it very clear that the people who have…
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(Other Sources) We do not know beforehand where fundamental insights will arise from ……
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(Other Sources) … people who report most guilt about having fantasies during intercourse have…
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(Other Sources) For women who no longer care for sex, or for those who…
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(Other Sources) We got the message: Sleep around, write about it, become someone.
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(Other Sources) According to some scholars, the allegedly high prevalence of female sexual dysfunction…
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(Other Sources) Nature is relentless and unchangeable, and it is indifferent as to whether…
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(Other Sources) For example, men found anal sexual behaviors (including anal sex, anal toys,…
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(Other Sources) Orgasms vary, both between women and for the same woman at different…
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(Other Sources) It (the penis) is not designed to be consistently erect as it…
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(Other Sources) Women are convinced that somewhere in men must lurk a hidden store…
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(Other Sources) Women use silence to punish men. But men like silence.
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(Other Sources) Propagating what ‘normal levels’ of sexual function is also leaves no space…
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(Other Sources) Surveys have revealed that 75% of men ejaculate within 2 minutes of…
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(Other Sources) In her model of the female sexual response, Basson described the concept…
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(Other Sources) Of 50 premenopausal women in a community study by Cawood, only 2…
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(Other Sources) You deserve a man who loves you, respects you, and is attentive…
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(Other Sources) Women, on the other hand, can become physically aroused (increased blood flow…
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(Other Sources) Men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed… Women are motivated…
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(Other Sources) A woman… wants more intimacy, comprising affection, commitment, and respect for individual…
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(Other Sources) Masturbation is a normal sexual outlet, which is most common in adolescence,…
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(Other Sources) Reality and fantasy are further apart for women than for men …
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(Other Sources) When you have an orgasm the pelvic floor muscles always contract. If…
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(Other Sources) Moreover, there has never been a culture where women have been encouraged…
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(Other Sources) The best sex starts long before the clothes come off.
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(Other Sources) It’s not that men are insensitive. Their brains just aren’t organised to…
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(Other Sources) … (erotica is) a mutually pleasurable, sexual expression between people who have…
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(Other Sources) As sex therapist Lonnie Barbach notes: “In reality, the clitoris is the…
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(Other Sources) The rewards of emotional closeness – the increased commitment, bonding, and tolerance…
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(Other Sources) Sexuality is influenced by the interaction of biological, psychological, social, economic, political,…
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(Other Sources) Sometimes the person you want, doesn’t deserve you.
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(Other Sources) She knows how personally you are going to take it when she…
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(Other Sources) The naked truth is that women are more likely to be attracted…
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(Other Sources) So, a brief definition – vaginismus is chronic inhibitory tone of the…
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(Other Sources) Basically, a man needs about two or three minutes of stimulation to…
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(Other Sources) For many women intercourse is not the best way to get the…
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(Other Sources) A man should look for what is, and not for what he…
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(Other Sources) Porn to men is not a big deal. They honestly can’t see…
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(Other Sources) Many women think of masturbation as unnatural and disgusting … and don’t…
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(Other Sources) I began suggesting sex in bar bathrooms or sex while his roommate…
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(Other Sources) Women aren’t automatically excited the way men are. But men seem to…
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(Other Sources) I think that in the discussion of natural problems we ought to…
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(Other Sources) Orgasms are natural, but intercourse is not, for many of us, the…
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(Other Sources) It might seem to be an obvious solution, but when examining research…
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(Other Sources) … hard core pornography is not a celebration of sexual freedom; it…
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(Other Sources) Women don’t like it when you refer to sex as ‘sex’. Call…
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(Other Sources) Women are turned on by what is done to them, men are…
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(Other Sources) Sexual double standards that favour pleasuring men continue to prevail. But I…
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(Other Sources) The clitoris is not this little nub on the outside of the…
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(Other Sources) Men are most comfortable expressing love through sex, through shared activities, through…
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(Other Sources) Feeling like we don’t live up to the physical ideal, women often…
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(Other Sources) Women do not get turned on at the thought of two men…
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(Other Sources) Overall, if the partner was seen as attractive, admirable, or respectable this…
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(Other Sources) Men and women are mismatched in this respect because a man is…
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(Other Sources) The vagina has no anatomical structure that can cause orgasm.
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(Other Sources) Although the woman is moved to be sexual by the expectation of…
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(Other Sources) People will hide behind lies because they are too scared to face…
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(Other Sources) Read all the sex surveys you want but you still won’t really…
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(Other Sources) Above all women like men who take an interest in them.
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(Other Sources) The bottom line of what makes sex fulfilling and memorable for a…
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(Other Sources) … certainly, it is easier for most women to be orgasmic during…
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(Other Sources) It is less easy to assess psycho-sexual triggers for women than for…
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(Other Sources) … it’s a pretty safe guess that the statistics are worse than…
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(Other Sources) For most women orgasm does not have this central role in life….
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(Other Sources) … at a certain level and for all men, girls and parts…
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(Other Sources) Thus, we have two problems: First, the male version of sex drive…
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(Other Sources) Women need to feel a degree of sexual intimacy before sex becomes…
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(Other Sources) Another important reason why women fake their orgasm is the fear of…
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(Other Sources) To prove his love for her he climbed the highest mountain, swam…
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