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A Hand Full of Cards
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Shere Hite
Shere Hite
Quotations from books by Shere Hite including ‘The Hite Report’.
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) If you want a good orgasm, you can masturbate. The whole reason…
Jane
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April 6, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The question should not be: Why aren’t woman having orgasms from intercourse?…
Jane
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April 5, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) If I could feel my lover was more involved emotionally, if he…
Jane
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April 4, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The woman-in-the-street (most of us) still has the impression that it is…
Jane
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April 3, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I think most of the writers I’ve read don’t understand women at…
Jane
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April 2, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Indiscriminate sex is irresponsible. Loving your body and your feelings is beautiful.
Jane
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April 1, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Naturally intercourse is most appealing on a physical basis (male). It’s a…
Jane
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March 31, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Closely linked with the traditional pressure on men to maintain long erection…
Jane
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March 30, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) 98 percent of the women … said they would like more verbal…
Jane
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March 29, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Anything that helps women define their own sexuality on their own terms,…
Jane
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March 28, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Perhaps it is important here to say something about what most women…
Jane
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March 27, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Clearly, if a woman is financially dependent on a man, she is…
Jane
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March 26, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) During intercourse I feel secure and wanted – whole, warm, loved, womanly.
Jane
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March 25, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Again, the penis contains within its shaft two … corpora cavernosa, which…
Jane
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March 24, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I really believe my clitoris may not be physically positioned quite right…
Jane
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March 23, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I never fake orgasm. I am angry with other women who do,…
Jane
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March 22, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) To me orgasms have nothing to do with regular male/female sex. Orgasm…
Jane
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March 21, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) One of the most important themes of men’s replies is their desire…
Jane
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March 20, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I (male) think it’s specifically penetration and thrusting that give penis-vagina intercourse…
Jane
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March 19, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … the basic value of sex and intercourse for women is closeness…
Jane
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March 18, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I enjoy fellatio but women are usually so afraid of it or…
Jane
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March 17, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) My affairs, unknown to my wife, had a good effect on me…
Jane
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March 16, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It’s grossly built up into something it’s not. It’s just a thing…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I (male) have been married for almost five years. I like it…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Most of the men in my heterosexual career … wanted oral stimulation…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I want to talk about our relationship, feelings and problems, and to…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I can see no way sex is political, unless you mean the…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) We love each other very much … But when we have intercourse…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It’s over after his orgasm. Isn’t that the natural end of sex?
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) They (mammals) also masturbate and have homosexual relations quite commonly.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Many men feel they can never be sure that a woman loves…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Despite this, a majority of women stated flatly that, no matter what…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sex with a woman for me (as a woman) has involved kissing,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The women who had orgasm during intercourse were usually those who, in…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Most men have fucked me with a minimum of foreplay, have been…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Of all the women who described how they masturbated, only 1.5 percent…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Most women do not orgasm as a result of intercourse per se….
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I for one am heartily sick of reading what men have to…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) No (I don’t fake orgasm), but I fake pleasure.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sex is to please him. What I like is the feeling of…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The most important real pleasure men’s said they get from intercourse -…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In fact, for over 70 per cent of women, intercourse – the…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The reproductive model of sex insures male orgasm by giving it a…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sex is intimate physical activity for pleasure, to share pleasure with another…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Although most women said that they missed the touching and holding of…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There has been a built-in contradiction between the so-called male lifestyle and…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It smells so good, I smell my fingers after masturbation!
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The pill itself did not bring about ‘sexual freedom’ … but merely…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … if you pull any skin around the area it can stimulate…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I think our culture has made sex overimportant.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Men have been raised in an environment where sex is seen as…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) First of all, Masters and Johnson chose their basic study population only…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I used to (fake orgasm), and then stopped, and found that men…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Freud was the founding father of vaginal orgasm. He theorized that the…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It would also seem as if there is a definite break between…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Often I resent the fact that my husband limits most of his…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Masturbation by men is usually to check if I’m wet.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The most obvious form of economic intimidation occurs when a woman is…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In other words, women really loved the feelings of arousal and being…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I’ve had a few orgasms – (um) I can count only one…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) At first I felt somewhat guilty about extramarital sex, just justified it…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I would like to be able to sustain sexual activity indefinitely. I…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) With my husband, I sometimes feel obligated because I’m his wife and,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) All he ever wants is intercourse. I have been hurt by his…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Orgasm is more diffuse when I am emotionally aroused with my partner,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … researchers must stop telling women what they should feel sexually, and…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There was no correlation between whether a boy had had sexual experience…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I haven’t had an orgasm during my marriage (twenty-seven years) or with…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I really enjoy it (touching and affection), but I find that some…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Staggeringly uniformed. The more confident they (men) are of their sexual prowess…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In patriarchal society, the, intercourse for a man has the whole force…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In general, then, vaginal penetration or the presence of a penis seems…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I become very aroused by caressing my female lover’s breasts and clitoris…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Many men have a completely genital approach to sex. Sex play is…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There is nothing wrong with saying that the movement of the clitoral…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I would like to know more about sex, but most of the…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There are many myths about what men and women want and enjoy….
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It’s an unspoken code of behavior among men not to show that…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Many women indicated that they could not even suggest that their male…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I never needed to fake – no man noticed I didn’t come.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Since I don’t have orgasm during intercourse, therefore I enjoy it without.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Outside of sex we get along great. We cooperate and are compatible….
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Intercourse is necessary for reproduction, and sexual pleasure and orgasm are involved…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Most (men) did not seem to be aware that what brought them…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) If women know how to have orgasms, why don’t they use this…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Some women … have a different type of orgasm during clitoral stimulation…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) One of the problems I had when I was married was that…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Boys have had casual sex with me and have then … thought…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) But perhaps it was also necessary to channel all forms of physical…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) ‘Dick Power’ – the penis decides when it’s over.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I’ve learned that unless a female wants sex, it is wise not…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The importance of masturbation for me is that it’s my only source…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) My sexuality has more to do with the desire than with satisfaction….
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sex in our society is an extremely important way of being close…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … the information he has been given – that thrusting during intercourse…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) We have had lots of sex without me orgasming – sometimes it’s…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Men certainly have control of their own stimulation to orgasm: during intercourse…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I like intercourse because it is a time when I get his…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) My husband doesn’t seem to enjoy anything besides intercourse, and that very…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I am tired of having some man tell me what I should…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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