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Shere Hite
Shere Hite
Quotations from books by Shere Hite including ‘The Hite Report’.
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Women don’t seem to look at men as people, women look at…
Jane
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March 12, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) For a long time I didn’t know if I was having them…
Jane
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March 11, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) At times, I would fake them and get so involved I could…
Jane
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March 10, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In summary, since intercourse has been defined as the basic form of…
Jane
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March 9, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Many women indicated that they could not even suggest that their male…
Jane
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March 8, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There were, unfortunately, many women who orgasmed regularly during masturbation but almost…
Jane
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March 7, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) ‘Dick Power’ – the penis decides when it’s over.
Jane
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March 6, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In some cases, it was not even clear to the woman herself…
Jane
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March 5, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In short, the only real difference between men’s and women’s erections is…
Jane
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March 4, 2026
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) General body touching is more important to me than orgasm.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The importance of masturbation for me is that it’s my only source…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I would not have answered honestly without anonymity …
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The real pleasure of sexual relations, in this sense, then, is the…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I think I have sex almost always to consummate a bond, to…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) My affairs, unknown to my wife, had a good effect on me…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Yes, arousal is more important than orgasm. It was this that sustained…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) 98 percent of the women … said they would like more verbal…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Most (men) were speed demons.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It’s a trade. Like my mother says, men give love for sex,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It is not the fact that women do not like intercourse ……
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) All too many men still seem to believe, in a rather naïve…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Has orgasm regularly from intercourse 30%; Has orgasm rarely from intercourse 22%;…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Touching is as important or more, to me, than having sex, and…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) They also masturbate and have homosexual relations quite commonly.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The idea that if we would ‘just relax and let go’ during…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Vaginas are always, to me, deep, wonderful, warm, moist, magical, intimate.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Masters and Johnson observe that the clitoris is automatically ‘stimulated’ in intercourse…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … orgasm is most likely to come when the woman takes over…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I’m ashamed of my genitals, and don’t want anyone to see them.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I never needed to fake – no man noticed I didn’t come.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Perhaps it is important here to say something about what most women…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It’s an unspoken code of behavior among men not to show that…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Surprisingly, most researchers have not shown much interest in masturbation.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Freud was the founding father of vaginal orgasm. He theorized that the…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sometimes I have felt that reaching orgasm was more a matter of…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In a very real sense, relationships between men are “what matters” to…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … the different position and the closeness of the partner prevent a…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I think sex is great but I don’t want to sleep with…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Orgasm during intercourse is more of a diffused total mental and physical…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I’m sick to death of sexuality – everywhere sex sex sex! So…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I am tired of having some man tell me what I should…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I have the feeling that I can’t hug my partner without ‘taking…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I love an excellent kisser. It is also important to enjoy it…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I fake orgasm to save his pride and prevent arguments.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I haven’t gotten away from the feeling that I’m ‘dirty’ ‘down there’.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) If I could find a sex partner with whom I felt completely…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I feel a little incapable not being able to make her orgasm…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … this stimulation of women could be compared to the stimulation ……
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I used to (fake orgasm), and then stopped, and found that men…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It smells so good, I smell my fingers after masturbation!
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) From my experience as a minister listening to married women describe their…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There is, it seems to me, an erotic continuum, of which orgasm…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Anything that helps women define their own sexuality on their own terms,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sex with a woman for me (as a woman) has involved kissing,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Of the 82 percent of women who said they masturbated, 95 percent…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I’ve had a few orgasms – (um) I can count only one…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Of course, masturbating to orgasm does not automatically enable you to orgasm…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I never fake orgasm. I am angry with other women who do,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I always fake them because I never have them.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I used to (fake), because my partner was comparing me to another…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) If the partner is male, the woman is stuck with the limits…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Many men feel they can never be sure that a woman loves…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The most obvious form of economic intimidation occurs when a woman is…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … intercourse is the ultimate experience. It doesn’t feel that good for…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Some women … have a different type of orgasm during clitoral stimulation…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Women don’t realize that men do all the work, are expected to…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I like it when he comes in my mouth. I like the…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) How would a man feel if he made love and never achieved…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I get virtually no foreplay from my partner, even when I ask…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) To consider all non-reproductive sexual contact ‘an error of nature’ is a…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It would also seem as if there is a definite break between…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) ‘Cunnilingus’ at least has a name, even if its meaning is not…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … if a man’s desire for intercourse is not shared by a…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) This is my first sexual relationship. I am eighteen – almost nineteen….
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I can’t say I liked answering these questions, I would die of…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I don’t need sex as often as my husband but he gets…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The most important real pleasure men’s said they get from intercourse -…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) My sexuality has more to do with the desire than with satisfaction….
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Closely linked with the traditional pressure on men to maintain long erection…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) If we make it easy and pleasurable for men to have an…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) My greatest displeasure is feeling myself to be simply a substitute for…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I love physical affection and touching but find that this inevitably leads…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Men have been brainwashed to think they’re the sexual experts, and furthermore,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In general, then, vaginal penetration or the presence of a penis seems…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There is only one kind of orgasm, the vaginal orgasm is a…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sex in the best of all possible worlds? My clitoris would be…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Of all the women who described how they masturbated, only 1.5 percent…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) First of all, Masters and Johnson chose their basic study population only…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Technically, women together do what male and female together do – touch…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It is noteworthy, however, that very few of the men who had…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … supposedly women are less interested in sex and orgasms than men,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) This officially promoted focus on reproductive activities … was important for the…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … the two reasons women don’t orgasm during intercourse are: they are…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) One girl never orgasmed. I tried every trick in the book ……
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I would like to be able to sustain sexual activity indefinitely. I…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … it is wonderful to hear what other women are thinking and…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The question should not be: Why aren’t woman having orgasms from intercourse?…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I’m sick of all the lies that are printed about women’s sexuality…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) To me orgasms have nothing to do with regular male/female sex. Orgasm…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Boys have had casual sex with me and have then … thought…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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