Jane

(Shere Hite) I can have an orgasm with clitoral stimulation but I have never&#8230;

(Shere Hite) I don’t have sex in order to have an orgasm &#8230; generally&#8230;

(Shere Hite) I don’t enjoy intercourse because it’s a bore and I never come.

(Shere Hite) Like the competition among women fifty years ago as to who made&#8230;

(Shere Hite) I get paranoid. Did I please her? Was I good enough? This&#8230;

(Shere Hite) The reason for the importance (during masturbation) of different leg positions to&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Position of woman on top. There isn’t anything that automatically makes this&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Most men either take it for granted that you have one, or&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Of course, the thirty percent of women who said they could orgasm&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Fellatio is okay but my mouth gets tired of being stretched open.

(Shere Hite) We love each other very much &#8230; But when we have intercourse&#8230;

(Shere Hite) The pill itself did not bring about ‘sexual freedom’ &#8230; but merely&#8230;

(Shere Hite) I really enjoy it (touching and affection), but I find that some&#8230;

(Shere Hite) ‘Dick Power’ &#8211; the penis decides when it’s over.

(Shere Hite) &#8230; masturbation increases your ability to orgasm in general, and also your&#8230;

(Shere Hite) This officially promoted focus on reproductive activities &#8230; was important for the&#8230;

(Shere Hite) I feel very strongly that sexual education for women will be one&#8230;

(Shere Hite) During sex, I (male) can express the feelings I have for another&#8230;

(Shere Hite) &#8230; supposedly women are less interested in sex and orgasms than men,&#8230;

(Shere Hite) My feeling is that I would consider sucking a cock with a&#8230;

(Shere Hite) If we make it easy and pleasurable for men to have an&#8230;

(Shere Hite) It is not the fact that women do not like intercourse &#8230;&#8230;

(Shere Hite) I used to (fake), because my partner was comparing me to another&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Frequently, yes (I fake orgasm). To get the social obligation over with&#8230;

(Shere Hite) At times, I would fake them and get so involved I could&#8230;

(Shere Hite) All too many men still seem to believe, in a rather naïve&#8230;

(Shere Hite) It’s over after his orgasm. Isn’t that the natural end of sex?

(Shere Hite) &#8230; if you pull any skin around the area it can stimulate&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Staggeringly uniformed. The more confident they (men) are of their sexual prowess&#8230;

(Shere Hite) I’ve learned that unless a female wants sex, it is wise not&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Men are uninformed. They must all read the same book. Of course,&#8230;

(Shere Hite) There are times when I feel I’m discharging an obligation, like washing&#8230;

(Shere Hite) I wish I could be told sometimes in the middle of the&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Orgasm is important, but not as important has he thinks: my orgasm&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Maybe having sex with someone I knew well and deeply cared about&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Most researchers and sex therapists agree that thrusting is less efficient in&#8230;

(Shere Hite) However, the full spectrum of physical contact is enjoyed by the other&#8230;

(Shere Hite) I feel a little incapable not being able to make her orgasm&#8230;

(Shere Hite) When I’m inside her, simple things like her arms wrapped tightly around&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Touching is the most important part of sex, part of a natural&#8230;

(Shere Hite) The light touch is better than the gorilla approach.

(Shere Hite) Touching is as important or more, to me, than having sex, and&#8230;

(Shere Hite) They (mammals) also masturbate and have homosexual relations quite commonly.

(Shere Hite) I think our culture has made sex overimportant.

(Shere Hite) In patriarchal society, the, intercourse for a man has the whole force&#8230;

(Shere Hite) The importance of masturbation for me is that it’s my only source&#8230;

(Shere Hite) With my boyfriend of four years, we pretty much stopped fucking, because&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Wow &#8211; let’s let women tell it like it is, instead of&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Sex itself is not terribly important to me, but physical contact in&#8230;

(Shere Hite) There is no great mystery about why a woman has an orgasm&#8230;.

(Shere Hite) It is not female sexuality that has a problem (‘dysfunction’) but society&#8230;

(Shere Hite) General body touching is more important to me than orgasm.

(Shere Hite) He thinks if I don’t have an orgasm, he has failed me,&#8230;

(Shere Hite) For a long time I didn’t know if I was having them&#8230;

(Shere Hite) The descriptions of arousal &#8230; are very similar to these descriptions of&#8230;

(Shere Hite) The greatest thing is the security I feel when I’m in bed&#8230;

(Shere Hite) It seems that women have only recently discovered the nature and depth&#8230;

(Shere Hite) The definition of male sexuality as being ‘instinctively’ drawn to heterosexual intercourse&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Many men feel they can never be sure that a woman loves&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Men have been raised in an environment where sex is seen as&#8230;

(Shere Hite) In general, then, vaginal penetration or the presence of a penis seems&#8230;

(Shere Hite) My sexuality has more to do with the desire than with satisfaction&#8230;.

(Shere Hite) This is my first sexual relationship. I am eighteen &#8211; almost nineteen&#8230;.

(Shere Hite) Among most species of mammals there is, in actuality, a great deal&#8230;

(Shere Hite) There is great pressure on women in our society now to say&#8230;

(Shere Hite) The fact is, we usually cooperate quite extensively during intercourse in order&#8230;

(Shere Hite) From my experience as a minister listening to married women describe their&#8230;

(Shere Hite) I have never failed a woman yet to achieve orgasm.

(Shere Hite) Judging from the rapturous descriptions of feelings during arousal, its pleasures would&#8230;

(Shere Hite) During intercourse I feel secure and wanted &#8211; whole, warm, loved, womanly.

(Shere Hite) Clearly, if a woman is financially dependent on a man, she is&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Perhaps it is important here to say something about what most women&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Anything that helps women define their own sexuality on their own terms,&#8230;

(Shere Hite) 98 percent of the women &#8230; said they would like more verbal&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Closely linked with the traditional pressure on men to maintain long erection&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Naturally intercourse is most appealing on a physical basis (male). It’s a&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Indiscriminate sex is irresponsible. Loving your body and your feelings is beautiful.

(Shere Hite) I think most of the writers I’ve read don’t understand women at&#8230;

(Shere Hite) The woman-in-the-street (most of us) still has the impression that it is&#8230;

(Shere Hite) If I could feel my lover was more involved emotionally, if he&#8230;

(Shere Hite) The question should not be: Why aren’t woman having orgasms from intercourse?&#8230;

(Shere Hite) If you want a good orgasm, you can masturbate. The whole reason&#8230;

(Shere Hite) First of all, Masters and Johnson chose their basic study population only&#8230;

(Shere Hite) I become very aroused by caressing my female lover’s breasts and clitoris&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Sex in our society is an extremely important way of being close&#8230;

(Shere Hite) During eighteen years of marriage, we did everything but stand on our&#8230;

(Shere Hite) I feel that all people regardless of age and experience have to&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Anyone who is economically and legally dependent on another person, as women&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Many women had spent rather long periods of time in their lives&#8230;

(Shere Hite) I think women’s genitals are about as lovely as something on this&#8230;

(Shere Hite) &#8230; for a woman to orgasm during intercourse, she must adapt her&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Orgasm during intercourse is more of a diffused total mental and physical&#8230;

(Shere Hite) I used to (fake), when my husband had a complex about sex&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Kinsey went on to explain several times that the basic problem for&#8230;

(Shere Hite) But the point still must be: don’t wait for the Right Man&#8230;

(Shere Hite) To orgasm is fine as long as semen does not end up&#8230;

(Shere Hite) In short, the only real difference between men’s and women’s erections is&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Despite this, a majority of women stated flatly that, no matter what&#8230;

(Shere Hite) I used to (fake orgasm), and then stopped, and found that men&#8230;

(Shere Hite) Many men have a completely genital approach to sex. Sex play is&#8230;