(Frequently Asked Questions) Therapists have told me that my expectations were set too high. So…
Therapists have told me that my expectations were set too high. So if women cannot expect to orgasm with a lover, why is this...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Why isn’t the truth about our sexuality of value, not only to…
Why isn't the truth about our sexuality of value, not only to sexologists but also to anyone who is interested in logical explanations?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Porn provides male turn-ons, or fantasies, to assist with male arousal in…
Porn provides male turn-ons, or fantasies, to assist with male arousal in the absence of a partner. So women understand why men watch porn?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men believe that women enjoy the intercourse that satisfies male needs. Why…
Men believe that women enjoy the intercourse that satisfies male needs. Why are men so unaware of the emotional control this gives women?
(Frequently Asked Questions) There is no research to prove that anyone can use a vibrator…
There is no research to prove that anyone can use a vibrator to orgasm. Why are people so gullible when it comes to women's...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men are reassured by the idea that women want intercourse. But if…
Men are reassured by the idea that women want intercourse. But if they do, why do women need other rewards to incentivise them to...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Intercourse involves little effort for a woman and is less explicit than…
Intercourse involves little effort for a woman and is less explicit than most foreplay activities. Is this why women often prefer lovemaking?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women often talk about love when they want to refer to sex….
Women often talk about love when they want to refer to sex. But why do men talk about love to a woman when they...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Before tampons, an intact hymen was a sign of virginity. So if…
Before tampons, an intact hymen was a sign of virginity. So if women do not stimulate the vagina, why would they orgasm from penetration...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women fake orgasm and men take the credit. It’s just ego and…
Women fake orgasm and men take the credit. It's just ego and bravado on both sides. Presumably this explains why no one likes sex...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Beliefs about female orgasm with a lover are based on porn -…
Beliefs about female orgasm with a lover are based on porn - a male masturbation tool. So why do sexologists suggest that real women...
(Frequently Asked Questions) The sex toy companies never say that their products guarantee anyone an…
The sex toy companies never say that their products guarantee anyone an orgasm. So why do people assume that sex toys cause female orgasm?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Some boys have a porn stash that they have to hide from…
Some boys have a porn stash that they have to hide from their mothers or girlfriends. Why do some women claim to be aroused...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Arousal is a mental response of the brain to eroticism. So how…
Arousal is a mental response of the brain to eroticism. So how can women believe that they orgasm by responding to relationship rewards?
(Frequently Asked Questions) There is little understanding of the role of fantasies in women’s ability…
There is little understanding of the role of fantasies in women's ability to orgasm alone. Is this why women need a man to give...
(Frequently Asked Questions) So-called sexual dysfunctions have become increasingly common. Is this because of the…
So-called sexual dysfunctions have become increasingly common. Is this because of the expectation gap between reality and erotic fiction?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Why has the research finding that female masturbation is much less common…
Why has the research finding that female masturbation is much less common (and less frequent) than male masturbation not been promoted?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Every embryo has a genital tubercle, which becomes a penis or a…
Every embryo has a genital tubercle, which becomes a penis or a clitoris. Why is the clitoral glans called the clitoris as if it...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Orgasm comes at the end of activity that is focused on achieving…
Orgasm comes at the end of activity that is focused on achieving it. Is this why both heterosexual activity and intercourse end with a...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women look for a loving and supportive relationship rather than for sex…
Women look for a loving and supportive relationship rather than for sex itself. Do women offer intercourse to men in return for emotional rewards?
(Frequently Asked Questions) The vagina is not present in men and cannot be involved in…
The vagina is not present in men and cannot be involved in orgasm, a response common to both sexes. Why is penetrating equated to...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Porno orgasms involve different female anatomy because men stimulate the body parts…
Porno orgasms involve different female anatomy because men stimulate the body parts that arouse them. Why would this stimulation cause female orgasm?
(Frequently Asked Questions) If no one can explain how women achieve mental arousal as a…
If no one can explain how women achieve mental arousal as a response to eroticism, then how on earth can they be having orgasms...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Male turn-ons include a partner’s nudity and genitals, his own erection and…
Male turn-ons include a partner's nudity and genitals, his own erection and opportunities for intercourse. What are the equivalent female turn-ons?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Responsive women use surreal erotic fantasies for arousal when masturbating alone. Is…
Responsive women use surreal erotic fantasies for arousal when masturbating alone. Is this why they find that orgasm does not occur with a lover?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women are offended by explicit sexual references such as clitoral stimulation and…
Women are offended by explicit sexual references such as clitoral stimulation and erotic fantasies. How can they be masturbating regularly to orgasm?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Surely the key benefit of talking about women’s enjoyment of sexual pleasuring…
Surely the key benefit of talking about women’s enjoyment of sexual pleasuring in reality (not in fantasy) is that it might actually be achievable?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men are told that intercourse involves having consent from a partner even…
Men are told that intercourse involves having consent from a partner even within marriage. So why are we told that intercourse causes female orgasm?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Many researchers have highlighted men’s greater responsiveness. Why is this fact not…
Many researchers have highlighted men's greater responsiveness. Why is this fact not used to help couples understand their spouse's sexuality?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Responsiveness evolves over millions of years. Why do we assume sexual behaviours…
Responsiveness evolves over millions of years. Why do we assume sexual behaviours (that change as fashion dictates) indicate sexual responsiveness?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men dislike the reduced stimulation of wearing a condom. Why would women…
Men dislike the reduced stimulation of wearing a condom. Why would women opt for the supposed indirect clitoral stimulation of intercourse?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Do people really think social media images of partial nudity and implied…
Do people really think social media images of partial nudity and implied sexual activity are censored in our society because MEN are offended?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women obtain admiration from men and make money from their orgasm claims….
Women obtain admiration from men and make money from their orgasm claims. Why do people, even scientists, accept women's orgasm claims at face value?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Intercourse has evolved from an act of male assault. Perhaps this explains…
Intercourse has evolved from an act of male assault. Perhaps this explains why the porno actresses scream and why men find such behaviour arousing?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Research indicates that women look for emotional (not erotic) rewards from sex….
Research indicates that women look for emotional (not erotic) rewards from sex. Perhaps female orgasm with a lover is a male fantasy?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Almost all my long-term supporters are men. What does this suggest about…
Almost all my long-term supporters are men. What does this suggest about those who benefit most from all the deceit surrounding sexual politics?
(Frequently Asked Questions) A man may expect a partner to provide turn-ons. Why don’t women…
A man may expect a partner to provide turn-ons. Why don't women insist that men provide erotic turn-ons to assist with female arousal?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Anyone who can orgasm knows exactly how they got there. It is…
Anyone who can orgasm knows exactly how they got there. It is a reasonably reliable process. So why are women so reluctant to discuss...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Implicit within marriage is the expectation that a man will support a…
Implicit within marriage is the expectation that a man will support a family. Is it unreasonable that he should expect intercourse in return?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Unlike gay men, a heterosexual man can always assume the role of…
Unlike gay men, a heterosexual man can always assume the role of a penetrating male. Is this why men struggle to understand the female...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women say they respond sexually to emotional connection. Men respond to erotic…
Women say they respond sexually to emotional connection. Men respond to erotic turn-ons. How can different inputs lead to the same output (orgasm)?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Asking “Do you orgasm?” makes it inevitable that some women will say…
Asking “Do you orgasm?” makes it inevitable that some women will say they do. Is it not possible that women are simply conforming to...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Very few women ever masturbate to orgasm. Is this why women accept…
Very few women ever masturbate to orgasm. Is this why women accept lovemaking even though female orgasm has nothing to do with intercourse?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women dislike images of penetration and genitals. Is this why movies show…
Women dislike images of penetration and genitals. Is this why movies show intercourse rather than foreplay activities that are believed to arouse women?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women are assumed to enjoy the same sexual pleasure as men. Is…
Women are assumed to enjoy the same sexual pleasure as men. Is this why no one gives women credit for their efforts to satisfy...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Intercourse is intended to impregnate a woman not give her an orgasm….
Intercourse is intended to impregnate a woman not give her an orgasm. Why does modern sex information not inform young women of this fact?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Humanity’s biggest hurdle today, is reconciling our emotional beliefs with reasoning. Why…
Humanity's biggest hurdle today, is reconciling our emotional beliefs with reasoning. Why do people lose sight of basic truths when it comes to sex?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sex gives women an emotional hold over men while men try to…
Sex gives women an emotional hold over men while men try to control their key sexual outlet. Why is this symbiotic relationship rarely acknowledged?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women enjoy male admiration but are offended by sexual urges that come…
Women enjoy male admiration but are offended by sexual urges that come from being aroused. Is this not evidence that they do not experience...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Given it provides zero physical and erotic stimulation, women view intercourse as…
Given it provides zero physical and erotic stimulation, women view intercourse as lovemaking. How can women have orgasms from kissing and caressing?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women look for emotional rewards from their relationships. Is this why heterosexual…
Women look for emotional rewards from their relationships. Is this why heterosexual women and lesbians find men's sexuality crude and impersonal?
(Frequently Asked Questions) A man can orgasm from penetration of the mouth, vagina or anus….
A man can orgasm from penetration of the mouth, vagina or anus. But how can penetration of these orifices cause orgasm for the receiver?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women’s orgasm claims (or silence in the face of male fantasies) enhance…
Women's orgasm claims (or silence in the face of male fantasies) enhance their attractiveness to men. Why is the evidence of faked orgasms ignored?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men are aroused by erotic stimuli (anatomy, fantasies and sexual opportunities) regardless…
Men are aroused by erotic stimuli (anatomy, fantasies and sexual opportunities) regardless of any relationship. What erotic stimuli arouse women?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Whether through intercourse, fellatio or masturbation, men stimulate consistent anatomy. So how…
Whether through intercourse, fellatio or masturbation, men stimulate consistent anatomy. So how can women orgasm by stimulating different anatomy?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Unlike men, who always stimulate the penis, female orgasm involves inconsistent anatomy….
Unlike men, who always stimulate the penis, female orgasm involves inconsistent anatomy. Is this because men stimulate the anatomy that arouses them?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men know that women offer sex for emotional (not erotic) reasons. Why…
Men know that women offer sex for emotional (not erotic) reasons. Why else when a woman doesn't want sex, does a man say "Don't...
(Frequently Asked Questions) It almost seems that men enjoy the chase or that they expect…
It almost seems that men enjoy the chase or that they expect women to play hard to get. Is this why men call women...
(Frequently Asked Questions) There is little evidence in the population for female responsiveness. Why do…
There is little evidence in the population for female responsiveness. Why do researchers assume that everyone is sexually responsive?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Eroticism is sexual scenario that stops short of physical contact. Why is…
Eroticism is sexual scenario that stops short of physical contact. Why is eroticism defined in terms that are appealing to men but offensive to...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Are scientists really so unaware of the emotional and political advantages for…
Are scientists really so unaware of the emotional and political advantages for anyone who boasts publicly about female orgasms with a lover?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men use porn in the absence of a partner but women can…
Men use porn in the absence of a partner but women can usually find a willing male partner. So why would they ever need...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Even in this age of information, women tell me that men respond…
Even in this age of information, women tell me that men respond sexually and emotionally as women do. Is this why even men cannot...
(Frequently Asked Questions) We assume that the anatomy that men are motivated to stimulate causes…
We assume that the anatomy that men are motivated to stimulate causes female orgasm. Why are so few women honest about their sexual motivation?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Female orgasm is a male erotic turn-on even though it is assumed…
Female orgasm is a male erotic turn-on even though it is assumed to occur reliably with a lover. So why is male orgasm not...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men need to stop puffing up their egos and start valuing the…
Men need to stop puffing up their egos and start valuing the effort women invest to please men. Why do men think that sex...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Physical stimulation is only effective (causes orgasm) once we are mentally aroused….
Physical stimulation is only effective (causes orgasm) once we are mentally aroused. How does women's dislike of eroticism affect female response?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men believe that intercourse involves men doing women a favour – rather…
Men believe that intercourse involves men doing women a favour - rather than the reverse. But if so, why do men offer rewards in...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women, including lesbians, think that emotional connection causes orgasm with a lover….
Women, including lesbians, think that emotional connection causes orgasm with a lover. Is this not evidence that female sexual response is rare?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sex is vital to most men but most women want love rather…
Sex is vital to most men but most women want love rather than sex. Why are consent issues never raised when a woman experiences...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Anyone who has had sex thinks they know it all. Why do…
Anyone who has had sex thinks they know it all. Why do so many people think they have the objectivity and experience required to...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Consent laws oblige men to ensure that a woman is amenable to…
Consent laws oblige men to ensure that a woman is amenable to their sexual advances. How does this prove that women want sex as...
(Frequently Asked Questions) We have two sexes because we are different. How can men know…
We have two sexes because we are different. How can men know anything about female sexual response when they only observe women's behaviours?
(Frequently Asked Questions) There is a belief that sexuality includes responsiveness. Is this why men…
There is a belief that sexuality includes responsiveness. Is this why men do not appreciate the effort women make to be amenable to intercourse?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Let’s put the size issue to one side. The clitoris is internal…
Let's put the size issue to one side. The clitoris is internal and is never rigid (like the penis) so how can the clitoris...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women dislike any display of the genitals. Presumably this is why even…
Women dislike any display of the genitals. Presumably this is why even adult (X) rated movies only ever show lovemaking rather than explicit foreplay?
(Frequently Asked Questions) We accept the need to pay for sex advice. But shouldn’t sexual…
We accept the need to pay for sex advice. But shouldn’t sexual facts and logical explanations be common knowledge that are made available to...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men enjoy the EROTIC rewards of sex. Women enjoy the EMOTIONAL rewards…
Men enjoy the EROTIC rewards of sex. Women enjoy the EMOTIONAL rewards of pleasing a lover. Isn't it rather spoiled to want both?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women fake orgasm and men take the credit. It’s just ego and…
Women fake orgasm and men take the credit. It's just ego and bravado on both sides. Perhaps this deceit explains why no one likes...
(Frequently Asked Questions) It is common to believe that women should respond to stimulation that…
It is common to believe that women should respond to stimulation that men provide. Why do we accept female sexual passivity as normal?
(Frequently Asked Questions) My experience is incompatible with how female sexuality is portrayed in our…
My experience is incompatible with how female sexuality is portrayed in our society. Why do other women have no interest in correcting this situation?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women talk of lovemaking (kissing and caressing). Is this why the research…
Women talk of lovemaking (kissing and caressing). Is this why the research that highlights women's use of clitoral stimulation alone has been ignored?
(Frequently Asked Questions) What is the logic to suggesting that one woman responds to vaginal…
What is the logic to suggesting that one woman responds to vaginal stimulation, another to clitoral stimulation and yet another to both?
(Frequently Asked Questions) No one has an urge to be penetrated by a penis or…
No one has an urge to be penetrated by a penis or any other object. Why is there so much denial over men and...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men offer rewards for regular intercourse: support, money and affectionate companionship. Is…
Men offer rewards for regular intercourse: support, money and affectionate companionship. Is this why is sexual politics such a powerful force?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Most women have no idea that some men expect erotic turn-ons. Why…
Most women have no idea that some men expect erotic turn-ons. Why does no one tell women that they need to exaggerate their arousal...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Female orgasm is a rare phenomenon that is not vital to female…
Female orgasm is a rare phenomenon that is not vital to female sexuality. Is this why women are so reluctant to comment on sexual...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Most men would much prefer to enjoy sexual activity with a lover…
Most men would much prefer to enjoy sexual activity with a lover rather than use porn. So why do some women say that they...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men assume that women are motivated by erotic rewards as men are….
Men assume that women are motivated by erotic rewards as men are. Why do men ignore the significant rewards a woman obtains from offering...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sexual ignorance arises from a mix of know-it-all men and silent women….
Sexual ignorance arises from a mix of know-it-all men and silent women. Why do sexologists use sex forums to define female orgasm in the...
(Frequently Asked Questions) There are two sexes for a reason. Equality doesn’t mean that we…
There are two sexes for a reason. Equality doesn't mean that we are the same. How can so many women be truly sexually dysfunctional?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Any woman who earns money from talking about sex must say that…
Any woman who earns money from talking about sex must say that penetration causes female orgasm. But how can they ignore the implication of...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Research shows that prostitutes do not orgasm with clients. Perhaps women’s lack…
Research shows that prostitutes do not orgasm with clients. Perhaps women's lack of responsiveness explains why they can service many men in one day?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women prefer to talk of lovemaking and the emotional rewards of a…
Women prefer to talk of lovemaking and the emotional rewards of a loving relationship. Is this why they are offended by sexual pleasuring techniques?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Due to their responsiveness, men fail to understand women’s need for affection….
Due to their responsiveness, men fail to understand women's need for affection. Is this why men cannot accept women's lack of responsiveness?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Vaginal lubrication is assumed to indicate female arousal. But there is no…
Vaginal lubrication is assumed to indicate female arousal. But there is no quick or easy orgasm. Perhaps lubrication aims to increase male pleasure?
(Frequently Asked Questions) The ignorance surrounding female sexual response is due to the rarity of…
The ignorance surrounding female sexual response is due to the rarity of female orgasm. Is that why men are so easily convinced by faked...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Even if women are too modest to explain female erotic turn-ons, why…
Even if women are too modest to explain female erotic turn-ons, why wouldn't their male lovers know what turn-ons arouse their partners?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women often stimulate themselves without ever having an orgasm. Perhaps it’s no…
Women often stimulate themselves without ever having an orgasm. Perhaps it's no wonder that men stimulate women without them ever having one either?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Female orgasm occurs most readily and reliably when a woman masturbates alone….
Female orgasm occurs most readily and reliably when a woman masturbates alone. Why is this research finding so unpopular that it is never promoted?