(Frequently Asked Questions) Men are aroused by erotic stimuli (anatomy, fantasies and sexual opportunities) regardless…
Men are aroused by erotic stimuli (anatomy, fantasies and sexual opportunities) regardless of any relationship. What erotic stimuli arouse women?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Whether through intercourse, fellatio or masturbation, men stimulate consistent anatomy. So how…
Whether through intercourse, fellatio or masturbation, men stimulate consistent anatomy. So how can women orgasm by stimulating different anatomy?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men always stimulate the penis but we assume female orgasm involves inconsistent…
Men always stimulate the penis but we assume female orgasm involves inconsistent anatomy. Is this because men stimulate the anatomy that arouses them?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men know that women offer sex for emotional (not erotic) reasons. Why…
Men know that women offer sex for emotional (not erotic) reasons. Why else, when a woman doesn't want sex, does a man say "Don't...
(Frequently Asked Questions) It almost seems that men enjoy the chase or that they expect…
It almost seems that men enjoy the chase or that they expect women to play hard to get. Is this why men call women...
(Frequently Asked Questions) There is little evidence in the population for female responsiveness. Why do…
There is little evidence in the population for female responsiveness. Why do researchers assume that everyone is equally sexually responsive?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Eroticism is sexual scenario that stops short of physical contact. Why is…
Eroticism is sexual scenario that stops short of physical contact. Why is eroticism defined in terms that are appealing to men but offensive to...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Are scientists really so unaware of the emotional and political advantages for…
Are scientists really so unaware of the emotional and political advantages for anyone who boasts publicly about female orgasms with a lover?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men use porn in the absence of a partner but women can…
Men use porn in the absence of a partner but women can usually find a willing male partner. So why would they ever need...
(Frequently Asked Questions) As much as 98 percent of women would like more verbal closeness…
As much as 98 percent of women would like more verbal closeness with the men they love. Why do men find it so difficult...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Orgasm defines the limit of men’s ability to engage in sexual activity….
Orgasm defines the limit of men’s ability to engage in sexual activity. Surely women’s sexuality is admired because it does not have this limitation?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Anyone who has had sex thinks they know it all. Why do…
Anyone who has had sex thinks they know it all. Why do so many people think they have the objectivity and experience required to...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Consent laws oblige men to ensure that a woman is amenable to…
Consent laws oblige men to ensure that a woman is amenable to intercourse. Doesn't consent conflict with the belief that women want sex as...
(Frequently Asked Questions) We have two sexes because we are different. How can men know…
We have two sexes because we are different. How can men know anything about female sexual response when they only observe women's behaviours?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women are less responsive and less interested in discussing sexuality than men….
Women are less responsive and less interested in discussing sexuality than men. Why do men not share their knowledge of sexual response with women?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Let’s put the size issue to one side. The clitoris is internal…
Let's put the size issue to one side. The clitoris is internal and is never rigid (like the penis) so how can the clitoris...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women dislike any display of the genitals. Presumably this is why even…
Women dislike any display of the genitals. Presumably this is why even adult (X) rated movies only ever show lovemaking rather than explicit foreplay?
(Frequently Asked Questions) We accept the need to pay for sex advice. But shouldn’t sexual…
We accept the need to pay for sex advice. But shouldn’t sexual facts and logical explanations be common knowledge that are made available to...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men enjoy the EROTIC rewards of sex. Women enjoy the EMOTIONAL rewards…
Men enjoy the EROTIC rewards of sex. Women enjoy the EMOTIONAL rewards of pleasing a lover. Isn't it rather spoiled to want both?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women fake orgasm and men take the credit. It’s just ego and…
Women fake orgasm and men take the credit. It's just ego and bravado on both sides. Does this deceit explain why no one accepts...
(Frequently Asked Questions) It is common to believe that women should respond to stimulation that…
It is common to believe that women should respond to stimulation that men provide. Why do we accept this female sexual passivity as normal?
(Frequently Asked Questions) My experience is incompatible with how female sexuality is portrayed in our…
My experience is incompatible with how female sexuality is portrayed in our society. Why do other women have no interest in correcting this situation?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women talk of lovemaking (kissing and caressing). Is this why the research…
Women talk of lovemaking (kissing and caressing). Is this why the research that highlights women's use of clitoral stimulation alone has been ignored?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Of the women who masturbate, 84 percent use clitoral stimulation. So how…
Of the women who masturbate, 84 percent use clitoral stimulation. So how are the remaining 16 percent having orgasms by stimulating the wrong anatomy?
(Frequently Asked Questions) No one has an urge to be penetrated by a penis or…
No one has an urge to be penetrated by a penis or any other object. Why is there so much denial over men and...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men offer rewards for regular intercourse: support, money and affectionate companionship. Is…
Men offer rewards for regular intercourse: support, money and affectionate companionship. Is this why sexual politics is such a powerful force?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Most women have no idea that some men expect erotic turn-ons. Why…
Most women have no idea that some men expect erotic turn-ons. Why does no one tell women that they need to exaggerate their arousal...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sex educators insist that the receiver’s consent is vital. So why do…
Sex educators insist that the receiver's consent is vital. So why do they confuse the message by simultaneously promoting sex as a mutual pleasure?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women prefer to talk of lovemaking and the emotional rewards of a…
Women prefer to talk of lovemaking and the emotional rewards of a loving relationship. Is this why they are offended by sexual pleasuring techniques?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Due to their responsiveness, men fail to understand women’s need for affection….
Due to their responsiveness, men fail to understand women's need for affection. Is this why men cannot accept women's lack of responsiveness?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Vaginal lubrication is assumed to indicate female arousal. But there is no…
Vaginal lubrication is assumed to indicate female arousal. But there is no quick or easy orgasm. Perhaps lubrication aims to increase male pleasure?
(Frequently Asked Questions) The ignorance surrounding female sexual response is due to the rarity of…
The ignorance surrounding female sexual response is due to the rarity of female orgasm. Is that why men are so easily convinced by faked...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Even if women are too modest to explain female erotic turn-ons, why…
Even if women are too modest to explain female erotic turn-ons, why wouldn't their male lovers know what turn-ons arouse their partners?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women often stimulate themselves without ever having an orgasm. Perhaps it’s no…
Women often stimulate themselves without ever having an orgasm. Perhaps it's no wonder that men stimulate women without them ever having one either?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Female orgasm occurs most readily and reliably when a woman masturbates alone….
Female orgasm occurs most readily and reliably when a woman masturbates alone. Why is this research finding so unpopular that it is never promoted?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women are not aroused in anticipation of intercourse. Presumably this is why…
Women are not aroused in anticipation of intercourse. Presumably this is why bananas are associated with male pleasure rather than female pleasure?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Most women seem to prefer to define their sexuality in terms of…
Most women seem to prefer to define their sexuality in terms of lovemaking. Is this why female arousal is implicit and female orgasm a...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Due to our mental response to eroticism, the brain sends blood to…
Due to our mental response to eroticism, the brain sends blood to the genitals, making orgasm possible. Isn't eroticism vital to sexual response?
(Frequently Asked Questions) We talk about orgasm as if it is the be-all-and-end-all of sex….
We talk about orgasm as if it is the be-all-and-end-all of sex. But if so, we wouldn’t need to have sex. Why wouldn't we...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sex research has been done but was not popular. Is this why…
Sex research has been done but was not popular. Is this why emotional beliefs based on erotic fiction are promoted instead of the research...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Intercourse is the easiest (least effort and least explicit) way for a…
Intercourse is the easiest (least effort and least explicit) way for a woman to satisfy a man's sexual needs. Is this why women offer...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Is knowledge of reproductive biology and contraception truly sufficient for a heathy…
Is knowledge of reproductive biology and contraception truly sufficient for a heathy sex life? How can we understand sexuality if we never discuss it?
(Frequently Asked Questions) There is no research to support the female orgasms in porn. Is…
There is no research to support the female orgasms in porn. Is this why research that asks women in the population about orgasm is...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Research shows that women have sex for emotional (rather than erotic) reasons….
Research shows that women have sex for emotional (rather than erotic) reasons. Perhaps this is why many women admit that they dislike eroticism?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women associate crude sexual urges with male sexuality. Is this why women…
Women associate crude sexual urges with male sexuality. Is this why women say that they do not need to be mentally aroused in order...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Female orgasm was discovered by scientists, not by couples. Why has the…
Female orgasm was discovered by scientists, not by couples. Why has the research that revealed female orgasm (from masturbation) been ignored?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Research shows that men are far more sexually responsive than women. Why…
Research shows that men are far more sexually responsive than women. Why are the research findings not used to support the advice given to...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Research shows that some men engage in foreplay to enjoy extending their…
Research shows that some men engage in foreplay to enjoy extending their own arousal. So why is it implied that foreplay assists with female...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Our society censors all erotic content to protect women’s sensitivities. How can…
Our society censors all erotic content to protect women's sensitivities. How can anyone assume that it is men who are offended by eroticism?
(Frequently Asked Questions) There’s little difference between sexologists’ theories and beliefs in society. Doesn’t science…
There's little difference between sexologists' theories and beliefs in society. Doesn’t science involve challenging assumptions, myths and ignorance?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Some women use conscious proactive behaviours to provide male sexual pleasure. Does…
Some women use conscious proactive behaviours to provide male sexual pleasure. Does this explain why the porno sex does not tend to continue for...
(Frequently Asked Questions) During intercourse, a woman cannot see her own genitals or her partner’s….
During intercourse, a woman cannot see her own genitals or her partner’s. So how can women have evolved a sexual response to stimuli they...
(Frequently Asked Questions) If women do not orgasm with a lover, they are considered to…
If women do not orgasm with a lover, they are considered to be sexually dysfunctional. Is this why women rarely comment on sexual issues?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Without contraception, few women would volunteer for unprotected intercourse. So why is…
Without contraception, few women would volunteer for unprotected intercourse. So why is men's desire for intercourse used to define women's sexuality?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men, whether gay or heterosexual, focus on opportunities for penetrative sex. Why…
Men, whether gay or heterosexual, focus on opportunities for penetrative sex. Why do women think men are interested in relationship issues?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Therapists tell couples, with mismatched sex drives, to invest in spending quality…
Therapists tell couples, with mismatched sex drives, to invest in spending quality time together. Why don't they explain women's orgasm techniques?
(Frequently Asked Questions) As someone who has both a clitoris and a vagina, I explain…
As someone who has both a clitoris and a vagina, I explain how the clitoris responds but the vagina does not. Why do men...
(Frequently Asked Questions) If a woman says that intercourse is disappointing, a man takes it…
If a woman says that intercourse is disappointing, a man takes it as a personal insult. Perhaps this is why women say nothing about...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men may use vibrators to enhance their pleasure but they do not…
Men may use vibrators to enhance their pleasure but they do not need them for orgasm. So why do we think vibrators cause female...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Intercourse provides upper body lovemaking for a woman and genital stimulation for…
Intercourse provides upper body lovemaking for a woman and genital stimulation for a man. How do women think lovemaking causes orgasm?
(Frequently Asked Questions) No one can orgasm from stimulation that they do not control. Why…
No one can orgasm from stimulation that they do not control. Why do men assume that women can accomplish feats that even men cannot?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women enjoy being admired by men. Is this why women rarely complain…
Women enjoy being admired by men. Is this why women rarely complain that beliefs about their sexuality reflect male fantasies rather than reality?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Female sexologists tell me to read a textbook or consult an orgasm…
Female sexologists tell me to read a textbook or consult an orgasm expert. Why do they avoid referring to any personal experience of sexual...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men are aroused by women’s bodies and achieve sexual release from penetration….
Men are aroused by women's bodies and achieve sexual release from penetration. Isn't it women who give men orgasms rather than the other way...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women often stand to gain by professing an enthusiasm for sex. Isn’t…
Women often stand to gain by professing an enthusiasm for sex. Isn't it a good idea to differentiate between what women say and what...
(Frequently Asked Questions) When a man displays his genitals, women scream and run away. Why…
When a man displays his genitals, women scream and run away. Why do we assume that women are aroused by nudity and sexual opportunities...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Once orgasm is achieved, we generally prefer stimulation to cease. Given the…
Once orgasm is achieved, we generally prefer stimulation to cease. Given the vagina can always be penetrated, how can stimulation cause orgasm?
(Frequently Asked Questions) The function of female orgasm is assumed to be about male pleasure….
The function of female orgasm is assumed to be about male pleasure. But surely female orgasm is about a woman's private and personal pleasure?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Some men try to get women drunk (or even drug them) to…
Some men try to get women drunk (or even drug them) to get intercourse. How does this male behaviour reflect on women's supposed enthusiasm...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Research indicates that orgasm claims make no difference whatsoever to how much…
Research indicates that orgasm claims make no difference whatsoever to how much sex men get. So why are men still so easily convinced by...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men want to believe that sex involves men doing women a favour…
Men want to believe that sex involves men doing women a favour - rather than the reverse. Is this why female orgasm so important...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Beliefs about female orgasm come from erotic fiction, which reflects male fantasies….
Beliefs about female orgasm come from erotic fiction, which reflects male fantasies. Is this why most women are hugely offended by erotic content?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women are considered dysfunctional if they lack desire, arousal and orgasm. If…
Women are considered dysfunctional if they lack desire, arousal and orgasm. If normal women experience these, wouldn't they be as promiscuous as men?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Adults, who masturbate regularly, can generate erotic fantasies that lead reliably to…
Adults, who masturbate regularly, can generate erotic fantasies that lead reliably to orgasm. Is this why some people masturbate more than others?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women talk of cunnilingus that lasts for hours. Isn’t it possible that…
Women talk of cunnilingus that lasts for hours. Isn't it possible that they are talking of arousal rather than orgasm, if the activity lasts...
(Frequently Asked Questions) There is no research to support the belief that women orgasm with…
There is no research to support the belief that women orgasm with a lover. So why is a woman is considered dysfunctional if she...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sexual response is not related to a relationship, love or romance. So…
Sexual response is not related to a relationship, love or romance. So why do women think they need an emotional connection to orgasm with...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Research indicates that many women in the population do not confirm male…
Research indicates that many women in the population do not confirm male fantasies about female orgasm. Is this why no one asks women about...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men imply that women enjoy sexual pleasure as easily as men. But…
Men imply that women enjoy sexual pleasure as easily as men. But if single women are so readily available, why does any man ever...
(Frequently Asked Questions) In 1991, the UK overturned a centuries-old law that a man could…
In 1991, the UK overturned a centuries-old law that a man could not be charged with raping his wife. Does this explain women's sense...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Only 69 percent of women use fantasies when masturbating. How are the…
Only 69 percent of women use fantasies when masturbating. How are the remaining 31 percent achieving orgasm if they are never mentally aroused?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Pornography shows women giving a masturbatory display as a male turn-on. Is…
Pornography shows women giving a masturbatory display as a male turn-on. Is this why we assume clitoral stimulation refers only to the glans?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men know that women are offended by eroticism, so they offer friendship…
Men know that women are offended by eroticism, so they offer friendship rather than referring to sex. What else is the function of dating...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Traditionally men have always defined female sexuality. Is this why women can’t…
Traditionally men have always defined female sexuality. Is this why women can’t make sense of the explanations for their sexual experiences?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Young women shouldn’t feel pressured by the fantasy that sex is easily…
Young women shouldn't feel pressured by the fantasy that sex is easily pleasurable. Isn't slut-shaming proof that men prefer more chaste women?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Orgasm is the result of a mental response to eroticism. So why…
Orgasm is the result of a mental response to eroticism. So why is sexual response defined in terms of physical stimulation rather than erotic...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Research indicates that 29% of women never orgasm during intercourse. Why is…
Research indicates that 29% of women never orgasm during intercourse. Why is this finding not used to define the meaning of female sexual dysfunction?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Few women would volunteer for intercourse without contraception. How can a sex…
Few women would volunteer for intercourse without contraception. How can a sex drive be subdued by a risk of pregnancy or a lack of...
(Frequently Asked Questions) The key problem for women worldwide is not orgasm but sexual desire….
The key problem for women worldwide is not orgasm but sexual desire. How can other women be having orgasms when so many women don't...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sex drive arises in the brain of the penetrating male. Aren’t men,…
Sex drive arises in the brain of the penetrating male. Aren't men, who constantly hassle for sex, evidence that men want intercourse more than...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men rely on female passivity to get the intercourse they want. How…
Men rely on female passivity to get the intercourse they want. How would our species have succeeded reproductively if women were as responsive as...
(Frequently Asked Questions) There is no chance that men would ever allow women to define…
There is no chance that men would ever allow women to define male sexuality. So why do men think that they are entitled to...
(Frequently Asked Questions) We assume female arousal works differently to male arousal because most women…
We assume female arousal works differently to male arousal because most women dislike eroticism. But perhaps women are not aroused with a lover?
(Frequently Asked Questions) No one talks of male orgasm because it is almost inevitable. It…
No one talks of male orgasm because it is almost inevitable. It also ends men's ability to enjoy their arousal. So why all the...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Female arousal is largely subconscious. Is this why most girls lack the…
Female arousal is largely subconscious. Is this why most girls lack the motivation to investigate how their genitals respond to stimulation?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sexologists propose endless theories for how women might orgasm from intercourse. Why…
Sexologists propose endless theories for how women might orgasm from intercourse. Why do they never supply any evidence to support these theories?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Most women would not have sex with a stranger even if they…
Most women would not have sex with a stranger even if they were paid. But how can anyone believe that emotional connection causes orgasm?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Some female sexologists refer me to a book. Why are women, even…
Some female sexologists refer me to a book. Why are women, even so-called experts, so unwilling to discuss their experience of sexual response?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Knowledge doesn’t force anyone to make certain choices. It gives them a…
Knowledge doesn't force anyone to make certain choices. It gives them a choice. Do we really want our teenagers to get their sex education...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women are assumed to orgasm from an act that focuses on male…
Women are assumed to orgasm from an act that focuses on male orgasm. Is this why it is so difficult to find honest information...