(Frequently Asked Questions) Men believe that intercourse involves men doing women a favour – rather…
Men believe that intercourse involves men doing women a favour - rather than the reverse. But if so, why do men offer rewards in...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women are assumed to enjoy the same sexual pleasure as men. Is…
Women are assumed to enjoy the same sexual pleasure as men. Is this why no one gives women credit for their efforts to satisfy...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men stimulate the female anatomy that arouses them. Why do they think…
Men stimulate the female anatomy that arouses them. Why do they think this stimulation would equate to how a woman achieves orgasm by herself?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Intercourse is the physical act whereas eroticism is the virtual representation of…
Intercourse is the physical act whereas eroticism is the virtual representation of the same. Is this why do women not respond to erotic stimuli?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Some men are aroused by the idea that their partner is equally…
Some men are aroused by the idea that their partner is equally aroused. Is this, in part, why some women fake orgasm (to get...
(Frequently Asked Questions) The penis is an external organ. The clitoris is an internal organ….
The penis is an external organ. The clitoris is an internal organ. What effect is this fact likely to have on a person's sexual...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Most women offer intercourse to a man they love. Why is the…
Most women offer intercourse to a man they love. Why is the finding that women talk of emotional (not erotic) responses with a lover...
(Frequently Asked Questions) When a man rubs his genitals against a woman without her consent,…
When a man rubs his genitals against a woman without her consent, it is an act of assault. Why do men not understand why...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sex is an emotional bonding mechanism for men. How could anyone believe…
Sex is an emotional bonding mechanism for men. How could anyone believe that women need sex in order to feel an emotional connection with...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sex educators refer vaguely to female masturbation techniques. Why are they unaware…
Sex educators refer vaguely to female masturbation techniques. Why are they unaware that a woman must use surreal erotic fantasies to achieve orgasm?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women complain about the numbers of married men on the dating circuit….
Women complain about the numbers of married men on the dating circuit. Why do men think women are looking for sex rather than a...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Female orgasm with a lover is typically defined in vague and emotional…
Female orgasm with a lover is typically defined in vague and emotional terms. Is this so that every woman can imagine she might have...
(Frequently Asked Questions) My experience is that most women are hugely offended by sexual discussions….
My experience is that most women are hugely offended by sexual discussions. But surely this is just another way women avoid commenting on the...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Some female researchers have questioned the existence of a male biological sex…
Some female researchers have questioned the existence of a male biological sex drive. Is this because women never experience an equivalent sex drive?
(Frequently Asked Questions) I have been told that I am not helping women’s cause by…
I have been told that I am not helping women's cause by challenging female orgasm claims. Why should an honest person worry about being...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Any woman can claim to orgasm. But given orgasm is not key…
Any woman can claim to orgasm. But given orgasm is not key to male sexual satisfaction, why should it be a major component of...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sexual ignorance arises from a mix of know-it-all men and silent women….
Sexual ignorance arises from a mix of know-it-all men and silent women. Why are internet forums used as evidence of orgasm in the female...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Our society produces loads of pornographic and adult content but no sex…
Our society produces loads of pornographic and adult content but no sex education. Maybe this explains why men are delusional about women's sexuality?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Physical stimulation is only effective (causes orgasm) once we are mentally aroused….
Physical stimulation is only effective (causes orgasm) once we are mentally aroused. How does women's dislike of eroticism affect female response?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women dislike images of penetration and genitals. Is this why movies show…
Women dislike images of penetration and genitals. Is this why movies show intercourse rather than foreplay activities believed to arouse women?
(Frequently Asked Questions) The vagina is not present in men and cannot be involved in…
The vagina is not present in men and cannot be involved in orgasm, a response common to both sexes. Why is penetrating equated to...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Research indicates that women equate emotional responses to arousal and orgasm. How…
Research indicates that women equate emotional responses to arousal and orgasm. How can emotional responses be compared with male erotic arousal?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Clitoral stimulation involves using the pelvic muscles to increase the pressure on…
Clitoral stimulation involves using the pelvic muscles to increase the pressure on the internal organ. Why does no one explain how women orgasm alone?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Comprehensive and authoritative sex information for adults is almost non-existent! Is this…
Comprehensive and authoritative sex information for adults is almost non-existent! Is this why we all assume that erotic fiction reflects reality?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Research shows that prostitutes do not orgasm with clients. Doesn’t women’s lack…
Research shows that prostitutes do not orgasm with clients. Doesn't women's lack of responsiveness explain why they can service many men in one day?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Bravado is a technique aimed at intimidating others into silence on sexuality….
Bravado is a technique aimed at intimidating others into silence on sexuality. How can anyone think that sexual bravado is a show of expertise?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women associate eroticism and orgasm with male sexuality. With all the pornography…
Women associate eroticism and orgasm with male sexuality. With all the pornography and prostitution, how can anyone equate the sexuality of the sexes?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sexologists focus on presenting female anatomy as evidence of female orgasm. Why…
Sexologists focus on presenting female anatomy as evidence of female orgasm. Why do they ignore the vital impact of mental arousal on responsiveness?
(Frequently Asked Questions) No one discusses male orgasm – it occurs reliably and ends men’s…
No one discusses male orgasm - it occurs reliably and ends men's pleasure. So why does female orgasm generate so much debate, especially among...
(Frequently Asked Questions) It is believed that a woman can orgasm from intercourse if a…
It is believed that a woman can orgasm from intercourse if a man thrusts for long enough. Isn't it unfair to put pressure on...
(Frequently Asked Questions) The sex research findings do not solve women’s problem of needing to…
The sex research findings do not solve women's problem of needing to offer a male partner regular intercourse. Is this why they have been...
(Frequently Asked Questions) The only proactive female role is providing male sexual pleasure since a…
The only proactive female role is providing male sexual pleasure since a woman is not aroused with a lover. Why don't therapists tell women...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men assume that women must orgasm from the stimulation they provide. But…
Men assume that women must orgasm from the stimulation they provide. But if women were aroused, why wouldn't they obtain their own stimulation?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women think I am male because I talk of eroticism and genitals….
Women think I am male because I talk of eroticism and genitals. Emotional connection may apply with a lover but how can it cause...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Research indicates that over half of women fake orgasm. Why does no…
Research indicates that over half of women fake orgasm. Why does no one talk about the many women who don’t orgasm but feel no...
(Frequently Asked Questions) We must be honest about what girls can expect from sex. Surely…
We must be honest about what girls can expect from sex. Surely this is vital for women to have the confidence to stand up...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men assume that women are motivated by erotic rewards as men are….
Men assume that women are motivated by erotic rewards as men are. Why do men ignore the significant rewards a woman obtains from offering...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Therapists focus on relationship issues that may make women amenable to the…
Therapists focus on relationship issues that may make women amenable to the intercourse men want. Why is it then assumed that women want intercourse?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men need to stop puffing up their egos and start valuing the…
Men need to stop puffing up their egos and start valuing the effort women invest to please men. Why do men think that sex...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Very few women ever masturbate to orgasm. Is this why women accept…
Very few women ever masturbate to orgasm. Is this why women accept lovemaking even though female orgasm has nothing to do with intercourse?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women look for a loving and supportive relationship rather than for sex…
Women look for a loving and supportive relationship rather than for sex itself. Do women offer intercourse to men in return for emotional rewards?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Orgasm is a response of the human body, like sneezing or coughing….
Orgasm is a response of the human body, like sneezing or coughing. How can a basic response, such as orgasm, vary according to sex...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Talking honestly about female sexuality is hugely unpopular. Is this why there…
Talking honestly about female sexuality is hugely unpopular. Is this why there is so much faking and bravado associated with women's sexuality?
(Frequently Asked Questions) The words ‘libido’ and ‘sexual desire’ reflect the vague sensations that women…
The words 'libido' and 'sexual desire' reflect the vague sensations that women report. So why do people continue to refer to a female sex...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women boast about orgasm to enhance their attractiveness to men. Why do…
Women boast about orgasm to enhance their attractiveness to men. Why do men think that orgasm claims equate to women wanting sex?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Apparently, only women need mechanical assistance to orgasm. But why is it…
Apparently, only women need mechanical assistance to orgasm. But why is it that even the sex toy companies do not guarantee their customers an...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men object to any facts and logic that might put women off…
Men object to any facts and logic that might put women off sex. Is this not evidence that men know women are less enthusiastic...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Despite having neither a vagina nor a clitoris, men are confident to…
Despite having neither a vagina nor a clitoris, men are confident to talk of female orgasm. But why can men not explain how women...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Of women willing to comment, 58 percent do not regularly orgasm from…
Of women willing to comment, 58 percent do not regularly orgasm from oral clitoral stimulation. So why is cunnilingus assumed to cause female orgasm?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Only 1.5 percent of women who masturbate use vaginal insertion. Is this…
Only 1.5 percent of women who masturbate use vaginal insertion. Is this why most women admit that they do not orgasm from vaginal stimulation?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Why has the research finding that married men get more sex than…
Why has the research finding that married men get more sex than single men not been promoted? Why do men not accept this research...
(Frequently Asked Questions) We assume that women’s sexual pleasure is encapsulated in the word lovemaking….
We assume that women’s sexual pleasure is encapsulated in the word lovemaking. Is this why women talk of emotional pleasure and a loving relationship?
(Frequently Asked Questions) I consider it almost criminal to tell women they should be capable…
I consider it almost criminal to tell women they should be capable of orgasms that have never been proven possible. Does no one care...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men promote their own success in delivering female orgasms. But isn’t this…
Men promote their own success in delivering female orgasms. But isn't this just a behaviour that reassures men of their own sexual prowess?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Research indicates that female masturbation is not common. Is this why women…
Research indicates that female masturbation is not common. Is this why women accept their sexual response being defined in terms of intercourse?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Most men would much prefer to enjoy sexual activity with a lover…
Most men would much prefer to enjoy sexual activity with a lover rather than use porn. So why do some women say that they...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Fantasies tend to replace research findings even among qualified sexologists. Why don’t…
Fantasies tend to replace research findings even among qualified sexologists. Why don't researchers welcome open discussion of female sexual response?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Female orgasm is a male erotic turn-on even though it is assumed…
Female orgasm is a male erotic turn-on even though it is assumed to occur reliably with a lover. So why is male orgasm not...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Asking “Do you orgasm?” makes it inevitable that some women will say…
Asking “Do you orgasm?” makes it inevitable that some women will say they do. Is it not possible that women are simply conforming to...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Orgasm comes at the end of activity that is focused on achieving…
Orgasm comes at the end of activity that is focused on achieving it. Is this why both heterosexual activity and intercourse end with a...
(Frequently Asked Questions) We assume that we live in sexually liberated times. But if so,…
We assume that we live in sexually liberated times. But if so, why are couples so reluctant to share ideas on sexual techniques that...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men could carry out their own research by talking to their partners….
Men could carry out their own research by talking to their partners. Why don't they ask women about the anatomy they stimulate to achieve...
(Frequently Asked Questions) A responsive woman uses fantasy for arousal and clitoral stimulation for orgasm…
A responsive woman uses fantasy for arousal and clitoral stimulation for orgasm alone. What is eroticism in the context of female sexual response?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Lesbians don’t need to fake orgasm because they have no man to…
Lesbians don't need to fake orgasm because they have no man to satisfy. So why are lesbians just as unwilling as other women to...
(Frequently Asked Questions) There is a belief that sexuality includes responsiveness. Is this why men…
There is a belief that sexuality includes responsiveness. Is this why men do not appreciate the effort women make to be amenable to intercourse?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Both arousal and sexual release are much stronger for a man than…
Both arousal and sexual release are much stronger for a man than for a woman. Perhaps this is why men provide rewards for women...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sex is vital to most men but most women want love rather…
Sex is vital to most men but most women want love rather than sex. Why is the implication of consent never raised when a...
(Frequently Asked Questions) A married man limits his sexual opportunities elsewhere in exchange for regular…
A married man limits his sexual opportunities elsewhere in exchange for regular sex with his wife. Why is sexual loyalty important for men and...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Of women willing to comment, 56 percent do not masturbate to orgasm…
Of women willing to comment, 56 percent do not masturbate to orgasm with a lover. So why is masturbation assumed to cause orgasm with...
(Frequently Asked Questions) In the early days of a romance, a man invests in companionable…
In the early days of a romance, a man invests in companionable time. What happens to the romance once a couple settles into a...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men stimulate a woman for a few minutes and then assume that…
Men stimulate a woman for a few minutes and then assume that she must have had an orgasm. But isn't this assumption based on...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women often like pleasing men sexually and they make money from men’s…
Women often like pleasing men sexually and they make money from men’s sexual needs. Is this why female sexuality is still a complete mystery?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sexual frustration comes from having an urge to penetrate with an erect…
Sexual frustration comes from having an urge to penetrate with an erect penis. If women had a sex drive, surely they would suffer frustration...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Scientists must substantiate orgasm claims because of the taboo over a lack…
Scientists must substantiate orgasm claims because of the taboo over a lack of female orgasm. Why do we believe what women say when it...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Female orgasm is a rare phenomenon that is not vital to female…
Female orgasm is a rare phenomenon that is not vital to female sexuality. Is this why women are so reluctant to comment on sexual...
(Frequently Asked Questions) You could ask a million women to explain how female orgasm is…
You could ask a million women to explain how female orgasm is achieved and not get an answer. Isn't it at least possible that...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Humanity’s biggest hurdle today, is reconciling our emotional beliefs with reasoning. Why…
Humanity's biggest hurdle today, is reconciling our emotional beliefs with reasoning. Why do people lose sight of basic truths when it comes to sex?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women say they respond sexually to emotional connection. Men respond to erotic…
Women say they respond sexually to emotional connection. Men respond to erotic turn-ons. How can different inputs lead to the same output (orgasm)?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Every embryo has a genital tubercle, which becomes a penis or a…
Every embryo has a genital tubercle, which becomes a penis or a clitoris. Why is the clitoral glans called the clitoris as if it...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Female orgasm provides women’s pleasure – NOT men’s! How can anyone imagine…
Female orgasm provides women's pleasure - NOT men's! How can anyone imagine that having a man ejaculate into your vagina causes female orgasm?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women do not masturbate to orgasm by stimulating the clitoral glans directly….
Women do not masturbate to orgasm by stimulating the clitoral glans directly. Why is women's specific masturbation technique not documented?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women prefer lovemaking (upper body kissing and caressing) over genital stimulation. Surely…
Women prefer lovemaking (upper body kissing and caressing) over genital stimulation. Surely this is evidence that they are not aroused with a lover?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Clitoral stimulation is believed to cause female orgasm with a lover. But…
Clitoral stimulation is believed to cause female orgasm with a lover. But if so, why would women ever accept intercourse with all its risks?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Some men expect women to respond sexually like porn stars. Are men…
Some men expect women to respond sexually like porn stars. Are men really too insecure to face the disappointing realities of female sexuality?
(Frequently Asked Questions) A man, who invests in the wider relationship, may make a woman…
A man, who invests in the wider relationship, may make a woman more amenable to intercourse. But how can this investment help her achieve...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Isn’t it possible that women mislead men into believing they are satisfied…
Isn't it possible that women mislead men into believing they are satisfied either to end sex sooner or to reassure a man that he...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Research indicates that women’s orgasm claims make no difference to intercourse frequencies….
Research indicates that women's orgasm claims make no difference to intercourse frequencies. So what is the point of men boasting about female orgasm?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Research indicates that women enjoy sex whether or not they believe they…
Research indicates that women enjoy sex whether or not they believe they have orgasms. Isn't female dysfunction due to false expectations being set?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Access to comprehensive, authoritative and realistic sex education is a basic human…
Access to comprehensive, authoritative and realistic sex education is a basic human right. So why is it almost impossible to find in our society?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women are responsible for ensuring that their sexuality is portrayed realistically. Why…
Women are responsible for ensuring that their sexuality is portrayed realistically. Why does female sexual response continue to be so mysterious?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men promote female orgasm to trick women into offering more intercourse. Can…
Men promote female orgasm to trick women into offering more intercourse. Can they not see that women use sex to keep men tied into...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Intercourse frequencies decrease in line with the decline in male responsiveness over…
Intercourse frequencies decrease in line with the decline in male responsiveness over a man's lifetime. Why is this research finding not promoted?
(Frequently Asked Questions) It is assumed everyone has the intellect, experience and emotional detachment needed…
It is assumed everyone has the intellect, experience and emotional detachment needed to understand sexuality. Why are we so unaware of our ignorance?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sexual ignorance abounds among men because they believe everything they see in…
Sexual ignorance abounds among men because they believe everything they see in pornography. Is this why men assume that women orgasm with a lover?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Unlike men, most women are looking for a loving relationship rather than…
Unlike men, most women are looking for a loving relationship rather than sex per se. Is this why women need to feel an emotional...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women claim the RIGHT to have an orgasm, which is not how…
Women claim the RIGHT to have an orgasm, which is not how responsiveness works. Maybe they are claiming the right to BOAST about orgasm?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Why has the fact that men want higher intercourse frequencies than women…
Why has the fact that men want higher intercourse frequencies than women not been promoted to help couples understand mismatched sex drives?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men almost always use erotic fantasy when masturbating. Why do women assume…
Men almost always use erotic fantasy when masturbating. Why do women assume it is possible to masturbate to orgasm without using fantasies?
(Frequently Asked Questions) There are no research findings to indicate that women orgasm with a…
There are no research findings to indicate that women orgasm with a lover. Why do sexologists ignore the fact that women often mistake orgasm?
(Frequently Asked Questions) In the past women were called frigid. Now they are called dysfunctional….
In the past women were called frigid. Now they are called dysfunctional. Isn't it time to question the assumption that women orgasm from intercourse?