Hello Ms Jane, Your helpful advice & pleasuring techniques to enhance the…
Hello Ms Jane, Your helpful advice & pleasuring techniques to enhance the joy for both partners is much needed. Tavinder
These differences account for the male’s desire for frequent sexual contact, his…
These differences account for the male's desire for frequent sexual contact, his difficulty in getting along without regular sexual contact, and his disturbance when...
We will never be able to protect girls, if we are not…
We will never be able to protect girls, if we are not honest about what they can expect from sex.
Overall, men were more likely than women to be sexually active, report…
Overall, men were more likely than women to be sexually active, report a good quality sex life, and be interested in sex.
I, for one, was bitterly disappointed when sex did not deliver the…
I, for one, was bitterly disappointed when sex did not deliver the easy arousal portrayed in erotic fiction. I also could not believe that...
The average college-bred male is more likely to extend the pre-coital petting…
The average college-bred male is more likely to extend the pre-coital petting for a matter of five to fiteen minutes or more.
The crux of the matter (The Sexual Revolution) – the effect of…
The crux of the matter (The Sexual Revolution) - the effect of declaring sex healthy and necessary, and women 'free' to do it -...
And if women orgasm easily through oral sex, why do men complain…
And if women orgasm easily through oral sex, why do men complain that women seldom return the favour by offering fellatio? But also why...
I feel ashamed that for as long as I’ve been married I…
I feel ashamed that for as long as I've been married I am just now learning these things about a woman. It makes me...
Although the male is frequently aroused without completing his response, he rarely…
Although the male is frequently aroused without completing his response, he rarely engages in such activities as masturbation or coitus without proceeding to the...
As with all forms of casual sex, swinging focuses on intercourse and…
As with all forms of casual sex, swinging focuses on intercourse and male orgasm.
The clitoris is not this little nub on the outside of the…
The clitoris is not this little nub on the outside of the vulva, but is actually this large internal organ comprised of erectile tissue...
Romance may cause a woman to be amenable to sex but anyone…
Romance may cause a woman to be amenable to sex but anyone who is familiar with orgasm will know that reaching orgasm involves a...
Among males who have been stimulated anally in the homosexual, there are…
Among males who have been stimulated anally in the homosexual, there are only a few who are particularly aroused, and only an occasional individual...
… the idea that it is a man’s role to ‘give’ the…
... the idea that it is a man’s role to ‘give’ the woman an orgasm during intercourse. … In addition to the pressure created...
Consider fellatio as a parallel. No matter how amazing the sensations are…
Consider fellatio as a parallel. No matter how amazing the sensations are for a man, when a lover stimulates his penis orally, the mouth...
Your articles reveal a reality which many of us didn’t know. An…
Your articles reveal a reality which many of us didn't know. An eye opener. Thanks, Rafi
Many females, of course, report that they are offended by portrayals of…
Many females, of course, report that they are offended by portrayals of sexual action ... most females are indifferent or antagonistic to the existence...
Women tend to be wary of any male approach, no matter how…
Women tend to be wary of any male approach, no matter how it is disguised, because they learn that men are just looking for...
It (the penis) is not designed to be consistently erect as depicted…
It (the penis) is not designed to be consistently erect as depicted in all kinds of media – able to be erect inordinate amounts...
When girls become women they learn that men’s response to their body…
When girls become women they learn that men's response to their body provides them with a tremendous advantage both in earning easy admiration and...
… there is widespread but certainly unfounded opinion among psychiatrists, which is…
... there is widespread but certainly unfounded opinion among psychiatrists, which is repeated among other clinicians involved in marriage counseling, that there is such...
Having a man love me and want to have sex with me…
Having a man love me and want to have sex with me is necessary to my happiness. It gives me a feeling of being...
Men learn from a young age that sex is a topic that…
Men learn from a young age that sex is a topic that is not mentioned in front of women. So many women are offended...
I really do appreciate the work you’re doing. It’s so important for…
I really do appreciate the work you're doing. It's so important for all the right reasons. Thank you. Michelle
Oral stimulation of the female genitalia is most often directed toward the…
Oral stimulation of the female genitalia is most often directed toward the labia minora or the clitoris.
Men learn that women do not appreciate direct sexual approaches. A man…
Men learn that women do not appreciate direct sexual approaches. A man is likely to get his face slapped or to be reported for...
By focusing on some aspect of sex that she finds particularly arousing,…
By focusing on some aspect of sex that she finds particularly arousing, and by exaggerating it to the point of outrageousness, a woman increases...
Presumably, for a fortunate few, the erotic stories describing the overwhelming sexual…
Presumably, for a fortunate few, the erotic stories describing the overwhelming sexual arousal that fictional women have from vaginal penetration are a reality. For...
Pre-coital petting is limited in many of the lower level histories to…
Pre-coital petting is limited in many of the lower level histories to the most perfunctory sort of body contact, or to a single kiss...
I think I have sex almost always to consummate a bond, to…
I think I have sex almost always to consummate a bond, to develop and perpetuate closeness.
I am challenging modern beliefs about female sexuality, which I believe are…
I am challenging modern beliefs about female sexuality, which I believe are wrong. For example: if women masturbate during sex, why are so few...
I love your genius in elaborating sex. I can’t get enough of…
I love your genius in elaborating sex. I can't get enough of your work! You are a blessing! Elijah
… since most males are aroused by seeing female breasts, and because…
... since most males are aroused by seeing female breasts, and because most females, are in actuality, only moderately aroused by having their breasts...
Sexuality is about our emotions and how we feel loved in our…
Sexuality is about our emotions and how we feel loved in our relationships with others.
There are two types of penis. One expands and lengthens when becoming…
There are two types of penis. One expands and lengthens when becoming erect (The Grower). The other appears big most of the time but...
The aim of Ways Women Orgasm is not to dwell on the…
The aim of Ways Women Orgasm is not to dwell on the difficulties but to accept that they exist and suggest how couples can...
The age at which the male became adolescent or, more strictly speaking,…
The age at which the male became adolescent or, more strictly speaking, the general metabolic level which probably determines both the age of onset...
With women there is a lot of hugging, kissing, caressing, i.e., a…
With women there is a lot of hugging, kissing, caressing, i.e., a lot more touching and affection.
Heterosexual men assume that the sensations of being penetrated are equally arousing…
Heterosexual men assume that the sensations of being penetrated are equally arousing as the sensations of penetrating. They don't take into account that intercourse...
Most men talk generally & make non-personal comments about sex. They only…
Most men talk generally & make non-personal comments about sex. They only suggest that successful happenings are personal. But problems are surrounded by silence....
Considerable affection or strong emotional attachments were involved in many of these…
Considerable affection or strong emotional attachments were involved in many of these (lesbian) relationships.
Women engage in intimate physical activity with a lover primarily as a…
Women engage in intimate physical activity with a lover primarily as a bonding mechanism and to demonstrate affection.
The legal definition of rape is when a person intentionally penetrates another’s…
The legal definition of rape is when a person intentionally penetrates another's vagina, anus or mouth with a penis, without the other person's consent.
If men want women to be more amenable to sex, then they…
If men want women to be more amenable to sex, then they should take the emphasis off orgasm (both their own and hers) and...
Few males achieve any real freedom in their sexual relations even with…
Few males achieve any real freedom in their sexual relations even with their wives. Few males realize how badly inhibited they are on these...
Why, in our pattern of sexual relations, does the man have charge…
Why, in our pattern of sexual relations, does the man have charge of both his stimulation and ours?
Sex is done to women. It does not originate from their own…
Sex is done to women. It does not originate from their own responses. So it is highly embarrassing for most women.
Keep fighting for the truth Jane, no matter how uncomfortable it may…
Keep fighting for the truth Jane, no matter how uncomfortable it may make people feel and how many taboos it challenges. The truth will...
Although 58 per cent of the females in our sample were masturbating…
Although 58 per cent of the females in our sample were masturbating to orgasm at some time in their lives, it was a much...
Women often receive rewards for pleasing a man. Yet men cannot believe…
Women often receive rewards for pleasing a man. Yet men cannot believe that some women employ behaviours to please men.
Men orgasm 85% of the time they have sex on average, while…
Men orgasm 85% of the time they have sex on average, while women only reach climax 63% of the time, according to a study...
Regardless of her sexual expectations, any woman is more likely to offer…
Regardless of her sexual expectations, any woman is more likely to offer sex when she feels good about the relationship and loving towards her...
The sexual life of a male of a lower educational level is…
The sexual life of a male of a lower educational level is primarily dependent upon actual physical contacts.
I haven’t gotten away from the feeling that I’m ‘dirty’ ‘down there’.
I haven't gotten away from the feeling that I'm 'dirty' 'down there'.
The evidence for female responsiveness needs to come from women who can…
The evidence for female responsiveness needs to come from women who can talk confidently about their enjoyment of arousal (a response to erotic stimuli)...
Dear Jane, your work is fabulous! As a psychologist, your information has…
Dear Jane, your work is fabulous! As a psychologist, your information has really been a great asset in helping my clients. Thank you for...
In something more than half (56 per cent) of the (lesbian) histories,…
In something more than half (56 per cent) of the (lesbian) histories, there had been genital appositions which were designed to provide specific and...
Responsiveness is a characteristic of the brain we are born with. A…
Responsiveness is a characteristic of the brain we are born with. A responsive person discovers orgasm because the sensations of tumescence (increased blood-flow) motivate...
… male turn-ons are concrete, while many female turn-ons are situational and…
… male turn-ons are concrete, while many female turn-ons are situational and atmospheric… it helps if a woman has some male-type object reactions, like...
Given the popular belief that female arousal and orgasm during sex are…
Given the popular belief that female arousal and orgasm during sex are easily achieved, many women simply assume that they experience these sensations as...
…nearly all coitus in our English-American culture occurs with the partners lying…
…nearly all coitus in our English-American culture occurs with the partners lying face to face with the male above the female.
Men are uninformed. They must all read the same book. Of course,…
Men are uninformed. They must all read the same book. Of course, passivity in women contributes to their miseducation.
Stimulation of the vagina is associated with a male partner. The clitoris…
Stimulation of the vagina is associated with a male partner. The clitoris is associated with women's stimulation of themselves or other women. Naturally, the...
Jane, You are a great educator. You teach well & you are…
Jane, You are a great educator. You teach well & you are an expert on sexual topics! I love the way you educate. Marco
A good many females … contribute little or nothing … based in…
A good many females … contribute little or nothing … based in part, on the theory that the male is normally so aroused that...
Responsiveness does not arise because an individual has some special knowledge or…
Responsiveness does not arise because an individual has some special knowledge or techniques. This is not a conscious choice.
Men will do anything for sex, and will behave quite out of…
Men will do anything for sex, and will behave quite out of character to achieve it, such as spending several hours being romantic, and...
If a woman cannot give herself an orgasm then it is unlikely…
If a woman cannot give herself an orgasm then it is unlikely that someone else will be able to. Sexual arousal originates in the...
Males with the highest frequencies of masturbation are most often those who…
Males with the highest frequencies of masturbation are most often those who become adolescent first. These are the males who have the maximum total...
I am enjoying sex more in my forties than I did in…
I am enjoying sex more in my forties than I did in my thirties; I enjoyed it more in my thirties than in my...
In fact women are passive receivers of the stimulation men want to…
In fact women are passive receivers of the stimulation men want to provide. Women are passive due to lack of arousal. This is why...
Thank you for having the courage to walk into the forbidden zone…
Thank you for having the courage to walk into the forbidden zone and dispelling darkness. Rick
It is generally believed that females of the infra-human species of mammals…
It is generally believed that females of the infra-human species of mammals are sexually responsive only during the so-called periods of heat ... This...
Orgasm arises as a subconscious response when the circumstances are appropriate. Once…
Orgasm arises as a subconscious response when the circumstances are appropriate. Once our minds are aroused, we supply the correct stimulation instinctively.
This does not mean that every time I do the dishes, she…
This does not mean that every time I do the dishes, she is supposed to have sex with me. That would not be romance....
If you cannot get turned-on in your mind then it doesn’t matter…
If you cannot get turned-on in your mind then it doesn't matter how much you stimulate your genitals - nothing will happen.
When she … refuses to allow the variety in pre-coital techniques that…
When she ... refuses to allow the variety in pre-coital techniques that the male would like to have, or when she accedes to such...
I don’t need sex as often as my husband but he gets…
I don't need sex as often as my husband but he gets upset if I don't have an orgasm, so to keep him happy...
I know we all want a man to think us the sexiest…
I know we all want a man to think us the sexiest thing in the world but it is not helpful to have female...
I’m 55 and you certainly make me think and learn. Thank you….
I'm 55 and you certainly make me think and learn. Thank you. I love learning from you! Fred
Public opinion in regard to such (extra-marital) coitus represents a mixture of…
Public opinion in regard to such (extra-marital) coitus represents a mixture of professed disapproval and spite and malice in which a considerable undercurrent of...
Our responsiveness is a factor of our sex and the way our…
Our responsiveness is a factor of our sex and the way our mind works.
If you really think about why vaginal stimulation matters so much, it’s…
If you really think about why vaginal stimulation matters so much, it’s because it puts the focus on male pleasure.
Enjoying sex for life involves continuing to be thrilled by each other’s…
Enjoying sex for life involves continuing to be thrilled by each other's company in a broader sense than just sex. It involves demonstrating affection...
… the time of onset of adolescence has been fixed as the…
… the time of onset of adolescence has been fixed as the date of the first ejaculation.
Yes, I always fake orgasms. It just seems polite. Why be rude?
Yes, I always fake orgasms. It just seems polite. Why be rude?
Sexual orientation determines turn-ons (whether we are aroused by the same or…
Sexual orientation determines turn-ons (whether we are aroused by the same or opposite sex) but it should not reasonably affect how we achieve orgasm.
I think you’re Awesome. Not afraid to say what you think. Robert…
I think you're Awesome. Not afraid to say what you think. Robert B.