(Frequently Asked Questions) It is assumed everyone has the intellect, experience and emotional detachment needed…
It is assumed everyone has the intellect, experience and emotional detachment needed to understand sexuality. Why are we so unaware of our ignorance?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sexual ignorance abounds among men because they believe everything they see in…
Sexual ignorance abounds among men because they believe everything they see in pornography. Is this why men assume that women orgasm with a lover?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Unlike men, most women are looking for a loving relationship rather than…
Unlike men, most women are looking for a loving relationship rather than sex per se. Is this why women need to feel an emotional...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women claim the RIGHT to have an orgasm, which is not how…
Women claim the RIGHT to have an orgasm, which is not how responsiveness works. Maybe they are claiming the right to BOAST about orgasm?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Why has the fact that men want higher intercourse frequencies than women…
Why has the fact that men want higher intercourse frequencies than women not been promoted to help couples understand mismatched sex drives?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men almost always use erotic fantasy when masturbating. Why are women assumed…
Men almost always use erotic fantasy when masturbating. Why are women assumed to masturbate to orgasm without using fantasies?
(Frequently Asked Questions) There are no research findings to indicate that women orgasm with a…
There are no research findings to indicate that women orgasm with a lover. Why do sexologists ignore the fact that women often mistake orgasm?
(Frequently Asked Questions) In Victorian times women were called frigid. Today they are called dysfunctional….
In Victorian times women were called frigid. Today they are called dysfunctional. Why does anyone assume that women can orgasm from intercourse?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Orgasm is a repeatable experience involving conscious actions that cause mental arousal….
Orgasm is a repeatable experience involving conscious actions that cause mental arousal. So why do women describe orgasm in such vague terms?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Research involves challenging assumptions and asking difficult questions. Do people really think…
Research involves challenging assumptions and asking difficult questions. Do people really think eroticism is censored because MEN are offended?
(Frequently Asked Questions) A positive response to eroticism is required to orgasm alone. Is this…
A positive response to eroticism is required to orgasm alone. Is this why it is easier for women to claim to orgasm with a...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sex drive is a significant urge that is difficult for a man…
Sex drive is a significant urge that is difficult for a man to resist. How does it make sense to suggest that women have...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Only research findings that promote intercourse as a female pleasure are accepted…
Only research findings that promote intercourse as a female pleasure are accepted by sexologists. Why does this political bias dominate sex research?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Lesbians don’t need to fake orgasm because they have no man to…
Lesbians don't need to fake orgasm because they have no man to satisfy. So why are lesbians just as unwilling as other women to...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women boast about orgasm to enhance their attractiveness to men. Why do…
Women boast about orgasm to enhance their attractiveness to men. Why do men think that orgasm claims equate to women wanting sex?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Bravado is a technique aimed at intimidating others into silence on sexuality….
Bravado is a technique aimed at intimidating others into silence on sexuality. How can anyone think that sexual bravado is a show of expertise?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Most women offer intercourse to a man they love. Why is the…
Most women offer intercourse to a man they love. Why is the finding that women talk of emotional (not erotic) responses with a lover...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Research has been done into human sexual response. Why are the researchers’…
Research has been done into human sexual response. Why are the researchers' conclusions ignored and why has further research not been done?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Our society produces masses of porn but no sex education. Perhaps this…
Our society produces masses of porn but no sex education. Perhaps this explains why men are delusional about real women's sexuality?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women do not suffer sexual frustration because they are not constantly aroused…
Women do not suffer sexual frustration because they are not constantly aroused by the physical presence of men. Can men not understand this point?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sexology will never be a science until we challenge all the myths…
Sexology will never be a science until we challenge all the myths and assumptions. Why is female responsiveness still defined in terms of intercourse?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Researchers have concluded that women mistake emotional responses (love) for orgasm with…
Researchers have concluded that women mistake emotional responses (love) for orgasm with a lover. Why is this fact not part of our sex education?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Mental arousal causes tumescence of the erectile organ. Isn’t this a logical…
Mental arousal causes tumescence of the erectile organ. Isn't this a logical explanation for why we only attempt orgasm once we are mentally aroused?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Fantasies are associated with masturbation. So doesn’t it make sense that a…
Fantasies are associated with masturbation. So doesn't it make sense that a woman discovers orgasm by using fantasies when masturbating alone?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Why am I always talking to men if there are supposedly hundreds…
Why am I always talking to men if there are supposedly hundreds of millions of women out there who can orgasm both alone and...
(Frequently Asked Questions) There are consent laws that allow women to refuse intercourse even with…
There are consent laws that allow women to refuse intercourse even with their husbands. So why do we believe that intercourse causes female orgasm?
(Frequently Asked Questions) If women experienced orgasms with a lover, surely the erotic turn-ons and…
If women experienced orgasms with a lover, surely the erotic turn-ons and anatomy involved in female orgasm would be common knowledge?
(Frequently Asked Questions) The vagina is part of the birth canal. A baby’s head comes…
The vagina is part of the birth canal. A baby's head comes through it. Perhaps this explains why a penis, regardless of size, has...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Research indicates that married men get more sex than single men. So…
Research indicates that married men get more sex than single men. So why do married men complain about low intercourse frequencies with their wives?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Without a man, lesbians can take time to enjoy emotional intimacy and…
Without a man, lesbians can take time to enjoy emotional intimacy and sensual pleasure. Does this explain why lesbians focus on loving relationships?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men dislike the reduced stimulation of wearing a condom. How do women…
Men dislike the reduced stimulation of wearing a condom. How do women orgasm from indirect clitoral stimulation felt through the walls of the vagina?
(Frequently Asked Questions) In a female embryo the vagina forms from reproductive ducts (that disappear…
In a female embryo the vagina forms from reproductive ducts (that disappear in a male). How can women orgasm by stimulating an organ men...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Only the male view of sexuality is promoted. Is this why I…
Only the male view of sexuality is promoted. Is this why I am always talking to men even though there are supposedly millions of...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Most women never masturbate. They accept intercourse as a male lovemaking act….
Most women never masturbate. They accept intercourse as a male lovemaking act. Perhaps this is why they never notice the lack of stimulation?
(Frequently Asked Questions) A responsive woman uses fantasy for arousal and clitoral stimulation for orgasm…
A responsive woman uses fantasy for arousal and clitoral stimulation for orgasm alone. What is eroticism in the context of female sexual response?
(Frequently Asked Questions) The words ‘libido’ and ‘sexual desire’ reflect the vague sensations that women…
The words 'libido' and 'sexual desire' reflect the vague sensations that women report. So why do people continue to refer to a female sex...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Comprehensive and authoritative sex information for adults is almost non-existent! Is this…
Comprehensive and authoritative sex information for adults is almost non-existent! Is this why we all assume that erotic fiction reflects reality?
(Frequently Asked Questions) The penis is an external organ. The clitoris is an internal organ….
The penis is an external organ. The clitoris is an internal organ. What effect is this fact likely to have on a person's sexual...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women need time to tune into the emotions that make them amenable…
Women need time to tune into the emotions that make them amenable to offering a man sex. Why are women's emotional responses not promoted?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men are sexual. Women are emotional. How does anyone explain rape and…
Men are sexual. Women are emotional. How does anyone explain rape and consent, if they believe intercourse stimulates women to orgasm?
(Frequently Asked Questions) When a man rubs his genitals against a woman without her consent,…
When a man rubs his genitals against a woman without her consent, it is an act of assault. Why do men not understand why...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women are made to feel inadequate, by the idea that it is…
Women are made to feel inadequate, by the idea that it is 'normal' or 'natural' to want sex every day of the week. But...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Male fantasies (reflected in pornography) are used to indicate what men expects…
Male fantasies (reflected in pornography) are used to indicate what men expects of women. Perhaps this is why many women are offended by pornography?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women, whether heteroseuxl or lesbian, seek a long-term loving relatinship. Why do…
Women, whether heteroseuxl or lesbian, seek a long-term loving relatinship. Why do men think women are motivated by penetrative sex?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men boast about their sexual opportunities, numbers of lovers and their ability…
Men boast about their sexual opportunities, numbers of lovers and their ability to pleasure a lover. So why do women boast about orgasm?
(Frequently Asked Questions) In a male embryo, reproductive ducts (that disappear in a female) allow…
In a male embryo, reproductive ducts (that disappear in a female) allow ejaculation. Given female ejaculation is impossible, why is it a male turn-on?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women focus on upper body kissing and caressing because they dislike explicit…
Women focus on upper body kissing and caressing because they dislike explicit genital stimulation. Is this why so many women refer to lovemaking?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sexual love is considered to be superior to nurturing love. Is this…
Sexual love is considered to be superior to nurturing love. Is this because women experience nurturing love while men experience sexual love?
(Frequently Asked Questions) It is suggested that one person (a man) can give another person…
It is suggested that one person (a man) can give another person (a woman) an orgasm. But surely orgasm occurs in the brain of...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women are assumed to have orgasms because they have a phallus (the…
Women are assumed to have orgasms because they have a phallus (the clitoris) equivalent to the penis. But why is the role of mental...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Scientists should challenge women’s orgasm claims because they set false expecations. Why…
Scientists should challenge women's orgasm claims because they set false expecations. Why should other women be made to feel inadequate for no reason?
(Frequently Asked Questions) No one had heard of female orgasm before it was linked to…
No one had heard of female orgasm before it was linked to female masturbation. Why has everyone continued to assume women orgasm from intercourse?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men believe that cunnilingus causes female orgasm. Yet there is no research…
Men believe that cunnilingus causes female orgasm. Yet there is no research to support this assumption. So where does this belief come from?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women enjoy platonic love, affection and a lover who demonstrates caring behaviours….
Women enjoy platonic love, affection and a lover who demonstrates caring behaviours. Is this why women rarely comment on sexual pleasure?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Researchers have concluded that orgasm is not important to most women. Why…
Researchers have concluded that orgasm is not important to most women. Why is this astounding but useful fact not made a part of our...
(Frequently Asked Questions) We assume that sex information is based on research. But the research…
We assume that sex information is based on research. But the research findings relating to sexual response have been ignored. How is this scientific?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men could carry out their own research by talking to their partners….
Men could carry out their own research by talking to their partners. Why don't they ask women about the anatomy they stimulate to achieve...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Talking honestly about female sexuality is hugely unpopular. Is this why there…
Talking honestly about female sexuality is hugely unpopular. Is this why there is so much faking and bravado associated with women's sexuality?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Clitoral stimulation involves using the pelvic muscles to increase the pressure on…
Clitoral stimulation involves using the pelvic muscles to increase the pressure on the internal organ. Why does no one explain how women orgasm alone?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Some men are also aroused by the idea that their partner is…
Some men are also aroused by the idea that their partner is equally aroused. Is this, in part, why some women fake orgasm (to...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Research shows that men are far more sexually responsive than women. Why…
Research shows that men are far more sexually responsive than women. Why are the research findings not used to support the advice given to...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Not even female sexologists are willing to discuss women’s responsiveness. Why do…
Not even female sexologists are willing to discuss women’s responsiveness. Why do researchers ignore the research into female sexual response?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sexologists base their views on female orgasm on erotic fiction. Why don’t…
Sexologists base their views on female orgasm on erotic fiction. Why don't they promote the research findings into female sexual response?
(Frequently Asked Questions) If only men talk in any explicit detail about female orgasm, then…
If only men talk in any explicit detail about female orgasm, then these are not real orgasms. Isn't it obvious that men are talking...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Foreplay is foremost about male arousal. If women are not aroused with…
Foreplay is foremost about male arousal. If women are not aroused with a lover, would this not explain why foreplay does not help with...
(Frequently Asked Questions) The clitoris is the organ equivalent to the penis. Isn’t it logical…
The clitoris is the organ equivalent to the penis. Isn't it logical that female arousal relies on identifying with the male role in intercourse?
(Frequently Asked Questions) It is easy to show that porno orgasms (those women are assumed…
It is easy to show that porno orgasms (those women are assumed to have with a lover) are unfeasible. Is this why there is...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Researchers document the fact that women often feel obliged to offer a…
Researchers document the fact that women often feel obliged to offer a male partner regular intercourse. How does this sense of obligation arise?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Sex research is often carried out by men who make huge assumptions…
Sex research is often carried out by men who make huge assumptions on women's behalf. Why do men assume women want sex just because...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Responsiveness motivates us to engage in sexual behaviour. Why do men think…
Responsiveness motivates us to engage in sexual behaviour. Why do men think female responsiveness motivates women to offer the intercourse men want?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women are typically looking for a loving relationship, not sex. Is this…
Women are typically looking for a loving relationship, not sex. Is this not the function of dating and romance: to persuade women to have...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Orgasm releases the arousal that arises when the brain responds to eroticism….
Orgasm releases the arousal that arises when the brain responds to eroticism. So why can no one name any female erotic turn-ons with a...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men may use vibrators to enhance their pleasure but they do not…
Men may use vibrators to enhance their pleasure but they do not need them for orgasm. So why do we think vibrators cause female...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Male sexual function is largely instinctive. It is satisfied fairly easily by…
Male sexual function is largely instinctive. It is satisfied fairly easily by intercourse. Is this why intercourse is core to heterosexual activity?
(Frequently Asked Questions) A turn-on is effective regardless of the intention of the person providing…
A turn-on is effective regardless of the intention of the person providing it (whereas a come-on is an invitation). Why don't men provide come-ons?
(Frequently Asked Questions) As the receiver of male ejaculate, female orgasm has no role in…
As the receiver of male ejaculate, female orgasm has no role in reproduction or intercourse. Why do some women believe they orgasm from intercourse?
(Frequently Asked Questions) A woman may be sexually amenable when she obtains rewards elsewhere in…
A woman may be sexually amenable when she obtains rewards elsewhere in the relationship. So why do men think that they pleasure women through...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Female orgasm provides women’s pleasure – NOT men’s! Do people really think…
Female orgasm provides women's pleasure - NOT men's! Do people really think that having a man ejaculate into your vagina causes female orgasm?
(Frequently Asked Questions) We assume that we live in a sexually liberated society. Why are…
We assume that we live in a sexually liberated society. Why are couples so reluctant to share notes on sexual techniques that pleasure women?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Orgasm is a response of the human body, like sneezing or coughing….
Orgasm is a response of the human body, like sneezing or coughing. How can a basic response, such as orgasm, vary according to sex...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Research indicates that women equate emotional responses to arousal and orgasm. How…
Research indicates that women equate emotional responses to arousal and orgasm. How can emotional responses be compared with male erotic arousal?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Intercourse is the physical act whereas eroticism is the virtual representation of…
Intercourse is the physical act whereas eroticism is the virtual representation of the same. Is this why do women not respond to erotic stimuli?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Therapists have told me that my expectations were set too high. So…
Therapists have told me that my expectations were set too high. So if women cannot expect to orgasm with a lover, why is this...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Why isn’t the truth about our sexuality of value, not only to…
Why isn't the truth about our sexuality of value, not only to sexologists but also to anyone who is interested in logical explanations?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Porn provides male turn-ons, or fantasies, to assist with male arousal in…
Porn provides male turn-ons, or fantasies, to assist with male arousal in the absence of a partner. So women understand why men watch porn?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men believe that women enjoy the intercourse that satisfies male needs. Why…
Men believe that women enjoy the intercourse that satisfies male needs. Why are men so unaware of the emotional control this gives women?
(Frequently Asked Questions) There is no research to prove that anyone can use a vibrator…
There is no research to prove that anyone can use a vibrator to orgasm. Why are people so gullible when it comes to women's...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Men are reassured by the idea that women want intercourse. But if…
Men are reassured by the idea that women want intercourse. But if they do, why do women need other rewards to incentivise them to...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Intercourse involves little effort for a woman and is less explicit than…
Intercourse involves little effort for a woman and is less explicit than most foreplay activities. Is this why women often prefer lovemaking?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women often talk about love when they want to refer to sex….
Women often talk about love when they want to refer to sex. But why do men talk about love to a woman when they...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Before tampons, an intact hymen was a sign of virginity. So if…
Before tampons, an intact hymen was a sign of virginity. So if women do not stimulate the vagina, why would they orgasm from penetration...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Women fake orgasm and men take the credit. It’s just ego and…
Women fake orgasm and men take the credit. It's just ego and bravado on both sides. Presumably this explains why no one likes sex...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Beliefs about female orgasm with a lover are based on porn -…
Beliefs about female orgasm with a lover are based on porn - a male masturbation tool. So why do sexologists suggest that real women...
(Frequently Asked Questions) The sex toy companies never say that their products guarantee anyone an…
The sex toy companies never say that their products guarantee anyone an orgasm. So why do people assume that sex toys cause female orgasm?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Some boys have a porn stash that they have to hide from…
Some boys have a porn stash that they have to hide from their mothers or girlfriends. Why do some women claim to be aroused...
(Frequently Asked Questions) Arousal is a mental response of the brain to eroticism. So how…
Arousal is a mental response of the brain to eroticism. So how can women believe that they orgasm by responding to relationship rewards?
(Frequently Asked Questions) There is little understanding of the role of fantasies in women’s ability…
There is little understanding of the role of fantasies in women's ability to orgasm alone. Is this why women need a man to give...
(Frequently Asked Questions) So-called sexual dysfunctions have become increasingly common. Is this because of the…
So-called sexual dysfunctions have become increasingly common. Is this because of the expectation gap between reality and erotic fiction?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Why has the research finding that female masturbation is much less common…
Why has the research finding that female masturbation is much less common (and less frequent) than male masturbation not been promoted?
(Frequently Asked Questions) Every embryo has a genital tubercle, which becomes a penis or a…
Every embryo has a genital tubercle, which becomes a penis or a clitoris. Why is the clitoral glans called the clitoris as if it...