My Books
Ways Women Orgasm
Learn About Sexuality
A Hand Full of Cards
Women’s Sexual Behaviours & Responses
Sexuality & Sexual Techniques
Understanding Sexual Response
Research Papers
Nospers
Nosper.com
The facts, logic & research findings that explain sexuality
My Books
Ways Women Orgasm
Learn About Sexuality
A Hand Full of Cards
Women’s Sexual Behaviours & Responses
Sexuality & Sexual Techniques
Understanding Sexual Response
Research Papers
Nospers
Home
Authors
Posts by Jane
Jane
3469 POSTS
0 COMMENTS
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I get paranoid. Did I please her? Was I good enough? This…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The reason for the importance (during masturbation) of different leg positions to…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Position of woman on top. There isn’t anything that automatically makes this…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Most men either take it for granted that you have one, or…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Of course, the thirty percent of women who said they could orgasm…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Fellatio is okay but my mouth gets tired of being stretched open.
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) We love each other very much … But when we have intercourse…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The pill itself did not bring about ‘sexual freedom’ … but merely…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I really enjoy it (touching and affection), but I find that some…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) ‘Dick Power’ – the penis decides when it’s over.
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … masturbation increases your ability to orgasm in general, and also your…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) This officially promoted focus on reproductive activities … was important for the…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I feel very strongly that sexual education for women will be one…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) During sex, I (male) can express the feelings I have for another…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … supposedly women are less interested in sex and orgasms than men,…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) My feeling is that I would consider sucking a cock with a…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) If we make it easy and pleasurable for men to have an…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It is not the fact that women do not like intercourse ……
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I used to (fake), because my partner was comparing me to another…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Frequently, yes (I fake orgasm). To get the social obligation over with…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) At times, I would fake them and get so involved I could…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) All too many men still seem to believe, in a rather naïve…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It’s over after his orgasm. Isn’t that the natural end of sex?
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … if you pull any skin around the area it can stimulate…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Staggeringly uniformed. The more confident they (men) are of their sexual prowess…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I’ve learned that unless a female wants sex, it is wise not…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Men are uninformed. They must all read the same book. Of course,…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There are times when I feel I’m discharging an obligation, like washing…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I wish I could be told sometimes in the middle of the…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Orgasm is important, but not as important has he thinks: my orgasm…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Maybe having sex with someone I knew well and deeply cared about…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Most researchers and sex therapists agree that thrusting is less efficient in…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) However, the full spectrum of physical contact is enjoyed by the other…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I feel a little incapable not being able to make her orgasm…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) When I’m inside her, simple things like her arms wrapped tightly around…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Touching is the most important part of sex, part of a natural…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The light touch is better than the gorilla approach.
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Touching is as important or more, to me, than having sex, and…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) They (mammals) also masturbate and have homosexual relations quite commonly.
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I think our culture has made sex overimportant.
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In patriarchal society, the, intercourse for a man has the whole force…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The importance of masturbation for me is that it’s my only source…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) With my boyfriend of four years, we pretty much stopped fucking, because…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Wow – let’s let women tell it like it is, instead of…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sex itself is not terribly important to me, but physical contact in…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There is no great mystery about why a woman has an orgasm….
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It is not female sexuality that has a problem (‘dysfunction’) but society…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) General body touching is more important to me than orgasm.
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) He thinks if I don’t have an orgasm, he has failed me,…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) For a long time I didn’t know if I was having them…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The descriptions of arousal … are very similar to these descriptions of…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The greatest thing is the security I feel when I’m in bed…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It seems that women have only recently discovered the nature and depth…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The definition of male sexuality as being ‘instinctively’ drawn to heterosexual intercourse…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Many men feel they can never be sure that a woman loves…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Men have been raised in an environment where sex is seen as…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In general, then, vaginal penetration or the presence of a penis seems…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) My sexuality has more to do with the desire than with satisfaction….
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) This is my first sexual relationship. I am eighteen – almost nineteen….
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Among most species of mammals there is, in actuality, a great deal…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There is great pressure on women in our society now to say…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The fact is, we usually cooperate quite extensively during intercourse in order…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) From my experience as a minister listening to married women describe their…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I have never failed a woman yet to achieve orgasm.
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Judging from the rapturous descriptions of feelings during arousal, its pleasures would…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … the information he has been given – that thrusting during intercourse…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I think sex is great but I don’t want to sleep with…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I wish I could have the same type of orgasm I have…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Once my heart had an orgasm when she was hugging me and…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) 43 percent of those (males) who answered had had some form of…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Orgasms escape me no matter how hard I try …
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In fact, for over 70 per cent of women, intercourse – the…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) With my husband, I sometimes feel obligated because I’m his wife and,…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Most (men) did not seem to be aware that what brought them…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I have the feeling that I can’t hug my partner without ‘taking…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … this stimulation of women could be compared to the stimulation ……
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Men often feel very angry with women who never initiate sex and…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I’m ashamed of my genitals, and don’t want anyone to see them.
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Women have a different arousal system from men. Their arousal is a…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) No (I don’t fake orgasm), he doesn’t care if I have one…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) To be penetrated is very different to penetrating.
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Orgasm is something I am able to give myself any time -…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Yes, I always fake orgasms. It just seems polite. Why be rude?
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The very earliest societies may have worshiped/venerated women because it was thought…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sometimes I have felt that reaching orgasm was more a matter of…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Other Sources
(Other Sources) … some religious traditions regard a thought as equivalent to an act;…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Other Sources
(Other Sources) Twenty-five to 30 percent of women climax without additional clitoral stimulation. Experts…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Other Sources
(Other Sources) If you can’t explain it simply, you don’t understand it well enough.
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Other Sources
(Other Sources) It vexes me when they would constrain science by the authority of…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Other Sources
(Other Sources) Even Sharon Stone admits that she did women a disservice in ‘Basic…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Other Sources
(Other Sources) A woman doesn’t want sex for the same reasons a man does….
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Other Sources
(Other Sources) … it’s time to talk about what most men could initiate more…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Other Sources
(Other Sources) Many women find it very difficult to talk about sex with their…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Other Sources
(Other Sources) Exploring what defines women’s libido and why it becomes depleted, I investigate…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Other Sources
(Other Sources) As a general guideline, a woman needs to be emotionally fulfilled before…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Other Sources
(Other Sources) … no matter what she says, how much she likes sex and…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Other Sources
(Other Sources) It’s important to see three points: (1) change is possible; (2) it…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Other Sources
(Other Sources) There are many reasons. By far the most common is that we…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Other Sources
(Other Sources) A stronger recognition that women’s sexual response more commonly stems from intimacy…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
Other Sources
(Other Sources) Overall, men were more likely than women to be sexually active, report…
Jane
-
January 1, 2000
0
1
...
31
32
33
...
35
Page 32 of 35