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Shere Hite
Quotations from books by Shere Hite including ‘The Hite Report’.
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(Shere Hite) … orgasm is most likely to come when the woman takes over…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I’m ashamed of my genitals, and don’t want anyone to see them.
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I never needed to fake – no man noticed I didn’t come.
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Perhaps it is important here to say something about what most women…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It’s an unspoken code of behavior among men not to show that…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Surprisingly, most researchers have not shown much interest in masturbation.
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Freud was the founding father of vaginal orgasm. He theorized that the…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sometimes I have felt that reaching orgasm was more a matter of…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In a very real sense, relationships between men are “what matters” to…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … the different position and the closeness of the partner prevent a…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I think sex is great but I don’t want to sleep with…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Orgasm during intercourse is more of a diffused total mental and physical…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I’m sick to death of sexuality – everywhere sex sex sex! So…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I am tired of having some man tell me what I should…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I have the feeling that I can’t hug my partner without ‘taking…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I love an excellent kisser. It is also important to enjoy it…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I fake orgasm to save his pride and prevent arguments.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I haven’t gotten away from the feeling that I’m ‘dirty’ ‘down there’.
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) If I could find a sex partner with whom I felt completely…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I feel a little incapable not being able to make her orgasm…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … this stimulation of women could be compared to the stimulation ……
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I used to (fake orgasm), and then stopped, and found that men…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It smells so good, I smell my fingers after masturbation!
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) From my experience as a minister listening to married women describe their…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There is, it seems to me, an erotic continuum, of which orgasm…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Anything that helps women define their own sexuality on their own terms,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sex with a woman for me (as a woman) has involved kissing,…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Of the 82 percent of women who said they masturbated, 95 percent…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I’ve had a few orgasms – (um) I can count only one…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Of course, masturbating to orgasm does not automatically enable you to orgasm…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I never fake orgasm. I am angry with other women who do,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I always fake them because I never have them.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I used to (fake), because my partner was comparing me to another…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) If the partner is male, the woman is stuck with the limits…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Many men feel they can never be sure that a woman loves…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The most obvious form of economic intimidation occurs when a woman is…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … intercourse is the ultimate experience. It doesn’t feel that good for…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Some women … have a different type of orgasm during clitoral stimulation…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Women don’t realize that men do all the work, are expected to…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I like it when he comes in my mouth. I like the…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) How would a man feel if he made love and never achieved…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I get virtually no foreplay from my partner, even when I ask…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) To consider all non-reproductive sexual contact ‘an error of nature’ is a…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It would also seem as if there is a definite break between…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) ‘Cunnilingus’ at least has a name, even if its meaning is not…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … if a man’s desire for intercourse is not shared by a…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) This is my first sexual relationship. I am eighteen – almost nineteen….
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I can’t say I liked answering these questions, I would die of…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I don’t need sex as often as my husband but he gets…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The most important real pleasure men’s said they get from intercourse -…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) My sexuality has more to do with the desire than with satisfaction….
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Closely linked with the traditional pressure on men to maintain long erection…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) If we make it easy and pleasurable for men to have an…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) My greatest displeasure is feeling myself to be simply a substitute for…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I love physical affection and touching but find that this inevitably leads…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Men have been brainwashed to think they’re the sexual experts, and furthermore,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In general, then, vaginal penetration or the presence of a penis seems…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There is only one kind of orgasm, the vaginal orgasm is a…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sex in the best of all possible worlds? My clitoris would be…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Of all the women who described how they masturbated, only 1.5 percent…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) First of all, Masters and Johnson chose their basic study population only…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Technically, women together do what male and female together do – touch…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It is noteworthy, however, that very few of the men who had…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … supposedly women are less interested in sex and orgasms than men,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) This officially promoted focus on reproductive activities … was important for the…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … the two reasons women don’t orgasm during intercourse are: they are…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) One girl never orgasmed. I tried every trick in the book ……
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I would like to be able to sustain sexual activity indefinitely. I…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … it is wonderful to hear what other women are thinking and…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The question should not be: Why aren’t woman having orgasms from intercourse?…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I’m sick of all the lies that are printed about women’s sexuality…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) To me orgasms have nothing to do with regular male/female sex. Orgasm…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Boys have had casual sex with me and have then … thought…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The crux of the matter (The Sexual Revolution) – the effect of…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Our sex organs, though internal and not as easily visible as men’s,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) At first I felt somewhat guilty about extramarital sex, just justified it…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I really believe my clitoris may not be physically positioned quite right…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It seems that women have only recently discovered the nature and depth…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Once again, the problem … was, as with clitoral stimulation by hand,…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) One of the problems I had when I was married was that…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Closeness with another person is more important to me than orgasm (which…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Of course, the thirty percent of women who said they could orgasm…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) No (I don’t fake orgasm), but I fake pleasure.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) My husband doesn’t seem to enjoy anything besides intercourse, and that very…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) But perhaps it was also necessary to channel all forms of physical…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) With my husband, physical touching always leads to sex, which inhibits me…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Fellatio is fun, intercourse is rewarding in many ways; however, the strongest…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Position of woman on top. There isn’t anything that automatically makes this…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I enjoy fellatio but women are usually so afraid of it or…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Biologists and psychologists who have accepted the doctrine that the only natural…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I still cannot understand why almost all women who look at pornography…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I went through such hell figuring out what was ‘wrong’ with me,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It is still remarkable how easily we bring ourselves to orgasm during…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The most frequent reason men gave for having sex outside their marriages…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) 43 percent of those (males) who answered had had some form of…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Yes, I always fake orgasms. It just seems polite. Why be rude?
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) But as time passed, her devotion to me (her male partner) evolved…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … researchers must stop telling women what they should feel sexually, and…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I like to prolong my states of arousal until the desire for…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Often I resent the fact that my husband limits most of his…
Jane
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