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Shere Hite
Quotations from books by Shere Hite including ‘The Hite Report’.
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(Shere Hite) … the different position and the closeness of the partner prevent a…
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(Shere Hite) Probably millions of women could agree with one woman who wrote, “It…
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I love anything a woman does that takes her off her back.
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Psychologically I like being in control and having power, feeling close to…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Yes, with vaginal penetration, there is a lesser sense of your own…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Vaginas are always, to me, deep, wonderful, warm, moist, magical, intimate.
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Intercourse shows my husband loves and wants me.
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Women have a different arousal system from men. Their arousal is a…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Touching is very important and meaningful, but doesn’t happen often because men…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) ‘Cunnilingus’ at least has a name, even if its meaning is not…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Yes, I like intercourse. I like men, their bodies, and pleasing them.
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There is only one kind of orgasm, the vaginal orgasm is a…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … whereas 44 percent of the women orgasmed regularly with clitoral stimulation…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I don’t enjoy intercourse because it’s a bore and I never come.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … supposedly women are less interested in sex and orgasms than men,…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Maybe having sex with someone I knew well and deeply cared about…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It is not female sexuality that has a problem (‘dysfunction’) but society…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) From my experience as a minister listening to married women describe their…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I think women’s genitals are about as lovely as something on this…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I can’t say I liked answering these questions, I would die of…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Of course, masturbating to orgasm does not automatically enable you to orgasm…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) We have arrived at a point in our thinking as a society…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The truth is that ‘sex’ is bigger than orgasm, and involves any…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I fake orgasm to save his pride and prevent arguments.
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I like it when he comes in my mouth. I like the…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I used to (fake orgasm), because men would enjoy watching me pant.
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Perhaps if you masturbate, you can get a fixation on your clitoris…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) My husband used to ask, “Did you come?” – and when the…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Somehow I feel almost guilty that I’m satisfied afterward. There seems to…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) No (I don’t fake orgasm), he doesn’t care if I have one…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I get virtually no foreplay from my partner, even when I ask…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Yes, I like intercourse, even though I don’t have orgasm. It shows…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It is still remarkable how easily we bring ourselves to orgasm during…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sex is important because when there is a feeling of understanding and…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Men can be put into two groups: straight intercourse men and foreplay…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Like the competition among women fifty years ago as to who made…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) My feeling is that I would consider sucking a cock with a…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Most researchers and sex therapists agree that thrusting is less efficient in…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) General body touching is more important to me than orgasm.
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I have never failed a woman yet to achieve orgasm.
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … for a woman to orgasm during intercourse, she must adapt her…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Only approximately 30 percent of the women in this study could orgasm…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I like to prolong my states of arousal until the desire for…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) As the feminist group the Redstockings put it, for many women marriage…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I would like to have orgasms during intercourse without having to play…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) With my husband, physical touching always leads to sex, which inhibits me…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The fact is that the role of women in sex, as in…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) At the same time, many men jealously guard their prerogative of being…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … it is wonderful to hear what other women are thinking and…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) If women find cunnilingus so enjoyable, why doesn’t it lead to orgasm…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sex is really a neat way to express my strong feelings for…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) To be penetrated is very different to penetrating.
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I have been married to one partner for over twenty-sex years, and…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) As Ann Koedt put it, in ‘The myth of the vaginal orgasm’:…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Why, in our pattern of sexual relations, does the man have charge…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In reality, it is likely that men do like physical intimacy and…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I went through such hell figuring out what was ‘wrong’ with me,…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I get paranoid. Did I please her? Was I good enough? This…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) If we make it easy and pleasurable for men to have an…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) However, the full spectrum of physical contact is enjoyed by the other…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) He thinks if I don’t have an orgasm, he has failed me,…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Judging from the rapturous descriptions of feelings during arousal, its pleasures would…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Orgasm during intercourse is more of a diffused total mental and physical…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The idea that if we would ‘just relax and let go’ during…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I love physical affection and touching but find that this inevitably leads…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Whichever you prefer is a personal decision and a matter of temperament…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) To masturbate, fantasizing, or getting into an aroused state mentally is important….
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In a very real sense, relationships between men are “what matters” to…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … physical intensity of orgasm per se is greater for most women…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In fact, women don’t take longer to orgasm than men. The majority…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … with my present female lover … she and I spend anywhere…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Most men are only attentive to women when they want sex, and…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The crux of the matter (The Sexual Revolution) – the effect of…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Orgasm is something I am able to give myself any time -…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It’s a trade. Like my mother says, men give love for sex,…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Not only were women tired of the old mechanical pattern of ‘foreplay’,…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Fellatio is fun, intercourse is rewarding in many ways; however, the strongest…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Perhaps orgasm is basically a release mechanism for the body, as are…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Stressing that all women’s orgasms are caused by stimulation of the clitoris,…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The reason for the importance (during masturbation) of different leg positions to…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It is not the fact that women do not like intercourse ……
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I feel a little incapable not being able to make her orgasm…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) For a long time I didn’t know if I was having them…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I used to (fake), when my husband had a complex about sex…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) At this point in my life, it’s just not really important, and…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Probably, in many cases, no regular orgasm has occurred; perhaps at other…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I don’t enjoy masturbating and have never reached orgasm when doing it….
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Men were mostly concerned with their own pleasure rather than mine. I…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sometimes emotional orgasm was felt as the desire to conceive, to be…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Once again, the problem … was, as with clitoral stimulation by hand,…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Closeness with another person is more important to me than orgasm (which…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … Kinsey did not say that (female) masturbation is more enjoyable than…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Only 3 percent of the (male) answers to “Why do you like…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I think sex is great but I don’t want to sleep with…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Yes, I always fake orgasms. It just seems polite. Why be rude?
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sex plays a very important part in my life because … I…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There is no reason why physical intimacy with men, for example, should…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I am not interested in ’satisfaction’. I don’t know what it is…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) With women there is a lot of hugging, kissing, caressing, i.e., a…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There were, unfortunately, many women who orgasmed regularly during masturbation but almost…
Jane
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