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Other Sources – Frigidity – This does not mean…
Frigidity – This does not mean failure to enjoy sex when one is dead with fatigue… Nor does it mean failure to get a...
Ways Women Orgasm – All those magazine articles pr…
All those magazine articles proposing a million ways to give a woman a mind-blowing orgasm sound very promising but why are they needed in...
Intercourse is a territorial act of male dominance
In a society where men and women raise families together, intercourse is presented as a lovemaking act. But by looking at Nature we can see that mating is an act of male assault. By depositing his sperm in a woman’s body, a man potentially forces her to bear his progeny. A woman responds to rape
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – Variety in coital position is …
Variety in coital position is regularly suggested by marriage manuals, but once again it is the male who is most often interested in experimenting.
Shere Hite – I really enjoy it (touching an…
I really enjoy it (touching and affection), but I find that some men do not understand this and so become aroused and want to...
Love Sex Intimacy – The suggestion that women shou…
The suggestion that women should orgasm from intercourse indicates the inherent bias. Sexual response is instinctive. There is no should about it.
Orgasm involves identifying with the penetrating male
Some women suggest that female arousal depends on emotional stimuli. I do not think I ever accepted this idea. But it is difficult to discount the experience of others. I slowly concluded that they are mistaken. This fact led me to a further conclusion that arousal is not a common place experience for women. Consequently
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Your RSM video presentation is impressive, Jane. It takes a lot of courage to stand up and present, let alone about such a taboo...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – Most males whether heterosexu…
Most males, whether heterosexual or homosexual, are inclined to initiate a sexual relationship through some genital exposure or genital manipulation.
Positions and techniques for sexual intercourse
Shere Hite explained in the 1970s how the women in her surveys reached orgasm during sex. She compared women’s success with orgasm during masturbation to their experience of intercourse and concluded that the difference was due to lack of clitoral stimulation. “To have an orgasm during intercourse, there are two ways a woman can increase
Learn About Sexuality – The key characteristics of org…
The key characteristics of orgasm include: mental arousal must precede stimulation, stimulation focuses on massaging the blood flow within the corpora cavernosa of the...
Jane Thomas explains that men …
Jane Thomas explains that men & women are likely to experience sexual pleasure differently.
Other Sources – Who would set a limit to the m…
Who would set a limit to the mind of man? Who would dare assert that we know all there is to be known?
Ways Women Orgasm – Why do adults so often assume …
Why do adults so often assume that they know everything about sex when most people have never even read a sex manual?
Penetration is what makes sex erotic and taboo
Penetrative sex (both anal and vaginal intercourse) has a special role in our concept of eroticism. Penetration by a phallus is key to our view of what sex is about. Both sexes may be aroused by the concept of either being the penetrator or being penetrated regardless of sexual orientation. Both men and women can
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – It is certain that most of the…
It is certain that most of the physical stimulation which the female receives from actual coitus comes from contact of the external areas of...
Shere Hite – The most frequent reason men g…
The most frequent reason men gave for having sex outside their marriages was sexual rejection by their wives, or the boring nature of repeated...
Love Sex Intimacy – Porno orgasms (those men assum…
Porno orgasms (those men assume women should have with a lover) involve different anatomy because men provide all the stimulation of a sexual encounter....
Bisexuality indicates an ambivalence over a lover’s gender
Although men have varying levels of sex drive (which affect the frequency with which they want sex), once a man engages in specific genital stimulation he almost always does orgasm. [i] For men, physical stimulation leads to orgasm because they are easily aroused, especially with a lover. A man’s sexual emotions involve his sexual drive
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Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – In many females the foreskin (…
In many females the foreskin (the hood) of the clitoris completely covers the head and adheres to it and then no portion of the...
Transferring masturbation techniques to sex
Caroline lived on a farm as a child and was fortunate in having innocent and light-hearted sexual experiences as she grew up. Even as kids they would play the ‘I’ll show you mine if you show me yours’ game on the bus ride to school. Her mother insisted that Caroline went on the pill at
Learn About Sexuality – Women’s behaviour with a lover…
Women's behaviour with a lover reflects their lack of responsiveness. Women's willingness to assist with male orgasm (rather than achieve their own), female sexual...
My work involves explaining th…
My work involves explaining the erotic turn-ons a responsive woman uses to achieve orgasm when she masturbates alone.
Other Sources – Roxanne a forty-seven-year-ol…
Roxanne, a forty-seven-year-old psychiatrist, explains also that ‘women probably fantasize more and harder than men, because the traditional idea of feminine behaviour is a...
Ways Women Orgasm – Naturally there is distrust be…
Naturally there is distrust between women who suspect that those, who claim to be sensationally orgasmic, are simply reacting to men's desire for a...
The significance of nudity and being touched
Private parts refer to the anatomy that we may want (or be required) to cover up. Private parts include the buttocks, the genitals and the female breasts. Girls are discouraged from showing their panties. Boys learn to keep their penis hidden. It may be considered indecent to show too much bare flesh. Parents often think
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – There has been an insistence u…
There has been an insistence under our English-American codes that the simpler and more direct a sexual relation, the more completely it is confined...
Shere Hite – Sex itself is not terribly imp…
Sex itself is not terribly important to me, but physical contact in the form of touching, hugs, embraces, caresses, etc., is most important.
Love Sex Intimacy – For both sexes there is a huge…
For both sexes there is a huge range in responsiveness (frequency with which we orgasm) that defines normal but on average men are up...
Women’s sexual responses do not need to be sociable
Surveys are inherently flawed where there is a bias in the acceptability of the responses. Frankly it is amazing that any woman ever admits to being non-orgasmic. The turn-on explains the bias. But given female masturbation is so rare why do so many (relatively) of these women volunteer? The answer is in the research findings
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Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – The vagina of the female is no…
The vagina of the female is not matched by any functioning structure in the male, but it is of minimum importance in contributing to...
Why foreplay techniques don’t always work as we think they should
Foreplay has evolved as a means of compensating women for the lack of clitoral stimulation during intercourse. The concept behind foreplay techniques (including clitoral stimulation) is that a man should be able to arouse a woman sufficiently to enable him to continue stimulating her to orgasm through thrusting alone. One problem with foreplay is that
Learn About Sexuality – Men’s behaviour with a lover r…
Men's behaviour with a lover reflects their responsiveness. Men's focus on obtaining the turn-ons and stimulation they need, men's proactiveness (including initiating sexual activity)...
Even if women are too modest t…
Even if women are too modest to explain female erotic turn-ons, surely their lovers should know?
Other Sources – Above all women like men who t…
Above all women like men who take an interest in them.
Ways Women Orgasm – It is important to differentia…
It is important to differentiate between what women say and what women do. Women often stand to gain by professing an enthusiasm for sex.
Consent is vital even within loving relationships
Sexuality is about the choices we make to explore our sexuality both alone and with a lover. The way in which we express our sexuality should show consideration towards others. Everyone should be free to make their own sexual decisions without undue influence. We have the choice to remain a virgin or to be celibate.
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – … it is difficult to understan…
… it is difficult to understand what mechanisms could produce ejaculation without a precedent orgasm. The confusion in the literature seems to be the...
Shere Hite – Sex with a woman for me has in…
Sex with a woman for me has involved kissing, feeling one another completely, and basically humping - pressing mound of Venus against mound of...
Love Sex Intimacy – Even today so-called female se…
Even today so-called female sexual dysfunction continues to be defined in terms of a woman's ability, or her willingness, to cooperate with intercourse rather...
Orgasm is a one-off release followed by a recovery period
With all the completely insane and goofy explanations, I get from women on the internet, it is tempting to believe that, somewhere, there must be women who are intelligent and sexually knowledgeable who could make a much better job of explaining their sexuality. I don’t believe this is the case. Most women keep quiet because
Testimonials – Hello you have a perfect webs…
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Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – The street and institutionaliz…
The street and institutionalized homosexual prostitution which is everywhere available for males, in all parts of the world, is rarely available for females, anywhere...
Contact Jane Thomas
Please connect with me on Twitter, ResearchGate, LinkedIn, Facebook, Mastodon and Instagram! Take a look at my books and watch my videos . You can also contact me directly by email! Many people describe their sex life, including evidence of female arousal, as if it came straight out erotic fiction. I have come to question
Learn About Sexuality – Even plants have male and fema…
Even plants have male and female parts and reproduce sexually (the new life has characteristics from both parents). The male is the more active...
My websites provide a comprehe…
My websites provide a comprehensive, authoritative & unbiased source of sex information for adults, professionals & teenagers.
Other Sources – One man talked about this chas…
One man talked about this chasm as ‘My own Gulf war… 6 inches between us in the bed feels like 1,000 miles!’
Ways Women Orgasm – Sex does not stand alone in a …
Sex does not stand alone in a relationship and in long-term sexual relationships couples need to invest in quality time together.
Why sex education is vital today more than ever
Jane talks about ‘Learn About Sexuality’ with slides. Even though adults may have decades of sexual experience, they are often so intimidated by the confidence of the younger generation that they assume young people know more about sex than they do. The young may be the most sexually active but inevitably they are also ignorant
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – The female is on the average…
The female is, on the average, slower in developing sexually, and less responsive than the male.
Shere Hite – The importance of masturbation…
The importance of masturbation for me is that it’s my only source of orgasm.
Love Sex Intimacy – No one explains which part of …
No one explains which part of the clitoral organ is stimulated. Most people assume it must be the glans (the only visible part of...
Female sexuality involves attracting male sexual attention
Any discussion of female sexuality is usually aimed at providing turn-ons for men rather than being a realistic description of how women truly orgasm. Those who are paid to promote sex succeed in confusing us all (even women) over what is truly possible. Women who talk about orgasm are either promoting their therapy business, their
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Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – In most females the walls of t…
In most females the walls of the vagina are devoid of end organs of touch and are quite insensitive when they are gently stroked...
How to enjoy your sexual fantasies
Women use clitoral stimulation during female masturbation but that’s just dessert. Main course is achieving sexual arousal though sexual fantasies. Many women never learn how to enjoy these. The first step in developing sexual fantasies is for a woman to read erotic stories without any goal except relaxation and enjoyment. I started reading erotica around
Learn About Sexuality – Human sexuality does not stand…
Human sexuality does not stand alone. It is part of a wider picture of the sexuality of all other lifeforms.
Jane Thomas explains how women…
Jane Thomas explains how women look for emotional rewards from their relationships.
Other Sources – Among the most common varietie…
Among the most common varieties of sexual fantasies are those that can best be described as old familiar stories… Sometimes the primary fascination with...
Ways Women Orgasm – A woman can enjoy many aspects…
A woman can enjoy many aspects of her sexual relationship with a lover, such as sharing the sensual pleasures and emotional intimacies of sex,...
Why women cannot orgasm through intercourse
Male orgasm through intercourse is crucial to human reproductive biology. (1) Intercourse is totally defined by male responses Intercourse is a demonstration of the male arousal cycle, from erection to ejaculation. Intercourse is only possible once a man has an erection and it comes to an end once he has had an orgasm (the trigger
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – In their younger adolescent ye…
In their younger adolescent years, the boys who will go to college have 7 times as frequent dreams as the boys who never go...
Shere Hite – The fact is we usually cooper…
The fact is, we usually cooperate quite extensively during intercourse in order for the man to be able to orgasm. We move along with...
Love Sex Intimacy – Men accept the misconception t…
Men accept the misconception that women might be able to orgasm through intercourse if stimulated long enough because they want to prolong their own...
Responsive women use fantasy to achieve arousal alone
Sexual activity is typically described in terms of physical stimulation. The idea that the brain needs to have an empathic response to eroticism is rarely mentioned. This is because we can see physical activity but we cannot know what is happening inside another person’s head. No one (not even a man) can orgasm if their
Testimonials – Thank you for your work. It is…
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Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – Ultimately however among the…
Ultimately, however, among the females in the sample who had had more extensive homosexual experience, simple kissing and manual manipulation of the breast and...
Reaching orgasm
Rose was a pretty woman even in her late forties. Despite being a mother and housewife she always achieved a classy presentation. Rose told me: “Although I masturbated as a youngster (from 14) it was never to orgasm. My first orgasm was by accident. It happened at 17 with a boyfriend – not during penetrative sex
Learn About Sexuality – Educators insist that consent …
Educators insist that consent is vital and yet they confuse the message by simultaneously promoting sex as a mutual pleasure.
Sex education is not a popular…
Sex education is not a popularity contest. Educators must present sex research findings not fantasies!
Other Sources – Being a woman is a terribly di…
Being a woman is a terribly difficult task, since it consists principally in dealing with men.
Ways Women Orgasm – Whereas men use EROTIC IMAGES …
Whereas men use EROTIC IMAGES during masturbation, women use EROTIC STORIES (involving psychological and sexually explicit scenarios) to achieve the levels of mental arousal...
How we know that the vagina is not a sex organ
Orgasm is a primitive and fundamental response of the human body because male orgasm triggers ejaculation, which is vital for reproduction. Male orgasm involves the brain (which responds to erotic stimuli by increasing blood flow to the genitals) and the penis. The penis and the clitoris develop from the genital tubercle in the foetus. They
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – At all ages … the highest in…
Most often he prefers the prostitute, however, because she expects that there will be intercourse, and does not offer the objection that other girls,...
Shere Hite – Most (men) did not seem to be …
Most (men) did not seem to be aware that what brought them to climax was not what brought me to climax.
Love Sex Intimacy – Many women limit their sexual …
Many women limit their sexual experiences to intercourse so they simply assume that this is when they orgasm. Since they never masturbate, they assume...
The mind responds to erotic stimuli: concepts or objects
No boy reaches puberty and consciously decides to be aroused by girls. It just happens. If it doesn’t, he may have a very low sex drive. If a boy is aroused by boys, he is probably homosexual. If a boy is aroused by both sexes, he may be bisexual. No one consciously chooses what concepts
Testimonials – It all comes far too late for …
It all comes far too late for me, but I am still interested to learn, and have already recommended you to friends a number...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – Of the males in the sample who…
Of the males in the sample who had had homosexual experience, a high proportion had had it with several different persons, and 22 per...
How women enjoy eroticism through sex stories
Most heterosexual women do not masturbate. They also do not find the concepts of eroticism or fantasy that appealing. So who reads all the feminine erotica out there? Presumably some lesbian women masturbate and read erotica. In fact, female masturbation and clitoral stimulation are often associated with lesbianism. Perhaps this is why so much female
Learn About Sexuality – Our sexual experiences cover a…
Our sexual experiences cover a broad spectrum of situations that cannot possibly be 100% positive for everyone all of the time. Inevitably there are...
If female orgasm were common …
If female orgasm were common, surely every woman would be an orgasm expert? Why are women so reluctant to comment?!
Other Sources – Basically a man needs about t…
Basically, a man needs about two or three minutes of stimulation to have an orgasm. It is generally a very simple process…! If a...
Ways Women Orgasm – Ways Women Orgasm has one key …
Ways Women Orgasm has one key aim: to highlight just how few women are confident about discussing orgasm in any context and how even...
Women’s orgasm claims do not result in more sex
Let’s imagine, for a moment, that men and women experience the same level of responsiveness ( orgasm frequency). Even so, responsiveness varies between individuals. There would inevitably be times when one lover or the other wanted more sex. There would be many complaints from women of all ages that they were not getting enough sex.
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – At no time in their lives do c…
At no time in their lives do college-bred males depend on marital intercourse to the extent that lower level males do throughout most of...
Shere Hite – It would seem that to analyze …
It would seem that to analyze what is probably an unusual group of women, and then to generalize from these women, is a mistake.
Love Sex Intimacy – The most fundamental belief an…
The most fundamental belief anyone has about female orgasm is that it should occur from intercourse. But the precise mechanism that causes female orgasm...
Testimonials – Recently I was introduced to a…
Recently I was introduced to a writer named Jane and I became a fan in an instant. I love her articles. Everyone should read...