Humanity’s biggest hurdle toda…
Humanity's biggest hurdle today, is whether we can reconcile our emotional beliefs with intellectual reasoning.
Men masturbate by emulating th…
Men masturbate by emulating the male role in intercourse. Women, who masturbate to orgasm, also emulate this male thrusting role!
Battle of the sexes – sex give…
Battle of the sexes - sex gives women a hold over men. In turn, men want control over their prime sexual outlet.
Sexology is not a political de…
Sexology is not a political debate. It is involves a non-emotional discussion of the facts, logic & research findings that explain our sexuality.
Jane Thomas explains that wome…
Jane Thomas explains that women orgasm much less frequently than men do.
What should young people be to…
What should young people be told about enjoying a sexual relationship?
Unlike men most women are loo…
Unlike men, most women are looking for a loving relationship rather than sex per se. They need an emotional connection.
Responsiveness evolves over mi…
Responsiveness evolves over millions of years. Only sexual behaviours change from decade to decade as fashion dictates.
Jane Thomas suggests women enj…
Jane Thomas suggests women enjoy sex play that is not only focused on orgasm.
Sex education is not just abou…
Sex education is not just about consent. It's also about appreciating the responsibilities that come with penetrative sex.
Men are naturally promiscuous.…
Men are naturally promiscuous. So a woman has to offer sex to keep a man committed to supporting her family goals.
Stimulation needs to cease onc…
Stimulation needs to cease once orgasm is achieved. So a cavity could never be a sex organ because it can always be penetrated.
Sex drive is a strong physiolo…
Sex drive is a strong physiological urge. It is not affected by factors such as the availability of reliable contraception.
It’s easy to suggest PHYSICAL …
It's easy to suggest PHYSICAL STIMULATION techniques but what is the point if no one can name any EROTIC TURN-ONS that cause female arousal?
There’s amazingly little diffe…
There's amazingly little difference between the theories of sexologists & the emotional beliefs of the general population.
Jane Thomas talks about the ev…
Jane Thomas talks about the evidence from biological & evolutionary precedents.
It’s not the first time in hum…
It's not the first time in human history that science has shown that our intuition can provide the wrong answers.
Let’s put the size issue to on…
Let's put the size issue to one side. Women's sexual anatomy is internal and it is only ever tumescent (never rigid like male anatomy).
Over decades of sex a woman ap…
Over decades of sex a woman appreciates a lover who explores sex play beyond intercourse.
Why is female orgasm so import…
Why is female orgasm so important to men? Men want to believe that sex involves men doing women a favour - rather than the...
Jane Thomas asks: is sex drive…
Jane Thomas asks: is sex drive about our motivation to reproduce or to experience orgasm?
Men experience sexual love bas…
Men experience sexual love based on their own physical gratification. Women experience nurturing love.
Original research does not mea…
Original research does not mean just agreeing with everyone else's opinion! Research involves changing the status quo.
Porno orgasms (intercourse or…
Porno orgasms (intercourse, oral sex etc.) involve different female anatomy because men stimulate the body parts that arouse them.
Jane Thomas points out that no…
Jane Thomas points out that no one can name any female erotic turn-ons.
Sex education involves appreci…
Sex education involves appreciating that, knowing what we need is easy but, responding to our partner's needs is difficult.
Unrealistic expectations for f…
Unrealistic expectations for female orgasm cause men to hope for the EMOTIONAL rewards of pleasuring a lover through sex.
Jane Thomas talks about WaysWo…
Jane Thomas talks about WaysWomenOrgasm - her book & Female Sexuality website.
Freudian theories (including t…
Freudian theories (including the G-spot fiasco) based on women providing male pleasure tend to be popular with men. Cocky, eh?!
There is no research to prove …
There is no research to prove that anyone can use a vibrator to orgasm. A few women boast about orgasm & we believe them.
Men have no idea of how import…
Men have no idea of how important affection is for women because their erotic responses (arousal & orgasm) block out these more emotional rewards.
Jane Thomas explains how ‘Ways…
Jane Thomas explains how 'Ways Women Orgasm' helps improve sexual relationships.
I promote enjoyment of erotici…
I promote enjoyment of eroticism, sexual pleasuring & caring behaviours. Men and women have a right to equal respect.
Insecurities about pleasing a …
Insecurities about pleasing a partner, create taboo over how female orgasm is achieved, even between lovers.
Arousal occurs when the mind f…
Arousal occurs when the mind focuses on eroticism. Men's minds are naturally aroused but women must consciously focus on fantasy.
Jane Thomas suggests that very…
Jane Thomas suggests that very few women use erotic fantasies to masturbate to orgasm.
If single women are so readily…
If single women are so readily available, why does any man ever agree to get married?
Learn About Sexuality talks ab…
Learn About Sexuality talks about sexuality in terms of the act of mating, the importance of non-sexual intimacy & consent.
What topics do you think shoul…
What topics do you think should form a part of everyone's sex education?
Jane Thomas suggests how women…
Jane Thomas suggests how women can enjoy eroticism & sex play with partner.
Men are told to get consent. Y…
Men are told to get consent. Yet we are told intercourse causes female orgasm. No wonder men are confused & sexual assault thrives!
The invention of reliable cont…
The invention of reliable contraception cannot make women want more sex, any more than it can make men want less sex.
If women were aroused with a l…
If women were aroused with a lover, they would be motivated to obtain their own stimulation rather than being sexually passive.
Jane Thomas talks about the im…
Jane Thomas talks about the importance of 'sex play' in modern relationships.
Few women ever talk about sex.…
Few women ever talk about sex. Those who are paid to do so, promote sexual health and porno orgasms. They do not talk of...
Foreplay does not assist with …
Foreplay does not assist with female orgasm because women are not aroused with a lover. Foreplay is foremost about male arousal.
Pornography involves graphic m…
Pornography involves graphic male turn-ons that are offensive to women (at least those who are willing to be honest)!
Male orgasm is achieved by mas…
Male orgasm is achieved by massaging the blood flow within the male phallus. How is female orgasm achieved?
I don’t want erotic fiction (r…
I don't want erotic fiction (read loads) or textbook theories (read lots of those too) - just personal stories. Thanks!
While men reward women who tel…
While men reward women who tell them what they want to hear, they will never hear the truth. Most women stay silent to keep...
Jane Thomas explains that men …
Jane Thomas explains that men & women are likely to experience sexual pleasure differently.
My work involves explaining th…
My work involves explaining the erotic turn-ons a responsive woman uses to achieve orgasm when she masturbates alone.
Even if women are too modest t…
Even if women are too modest to explain female erotic turn-ons, surely their lovers should know?
My websites provide a comprehe…
My websites provide a comprehensive, authoritative & unbiased source of sex information for adults, professionals & teenagers.
Jane Thomas explains how women…
Jane Thomas explains how women look for emotional rewards from their relationships.
Sex education is not a popular…
Sex education is not a popularity contest. Educators must present sex research findings not fantasies!
If female orgasm were common …
If female orgasm were common, surely every woman would be an orgasm expert? Why are women so reluctant to comment?!
Any woman who thinks orgasm wi…
Any woman who thinks orgasm with a lover is easy or straightforward, has obviously never had an orgasm in her life.
Sex education is not just abou…
Sex education is not just about the mating act. It's also about understanding a range of sexual pleasuring techniques.
Women look for emotional rewar…
Women look for emotional rewards from their relationships so they tend to find men's sexuality crude & impersonal.
Our society produces masses of…
Our society produces masses of porn but no sex education. No wonder men have no clue about real women's sexuality!
Jane Thomas’ research involves…
Jane Thomas' research involves asking women about their experiences of orgasm.
Orgasm is a male characteristi…
Orgasm is a male characteristic. Women are only capable of orgasm because they have a phallus (the clitoris).
Many women even lesbians fee…
Many women, even lesbians, feel under tremendous pressure to claim to orgasm with a lover just because men define sexuality in terms of orgasm.
Women are easily offended by s…
Women are easily offended by sexual discussions. But ultimately this is just another way of not commenting on the topic.
Sexual ignorance may be comfor…
Sexual ignorance may be comforting to some but others are looking for explanations for their experiences.
We can only attempt orgasm onc…
We can only attempt orgasm once we are mentally aroused. Mental arousal causes tumescence of the erectile organ.
How does anyone explain rape &…
How does anyone explain rape & consent, if they believe intercourse stimulates women to orgasm?
The women who advise on orgasm…
The women who advise on orgasm are not researchers. They are attractive women who promote popular beliefs based on erotic fiction.
What do you think young people…
What do you think young people should know about the sex entertainment industry?
Women enjoy male admiration bu…
Women enjoy male admiration but they are offended by anything as crude as the sexual urges that come from being aroused.
Jane Thomas talks about how re…
Jane Thomas talks about how responsiveness varies between individuals.
Some people think their own in…
Some people think their own interpretation of their personal sexual experiences can be used to define everyone else's sexuality.
Sex education is not just abou…
Sex education is not just about love & romance. It's also about men understanding women's need for non-sexual intimacy.
Erotic turn-ons are objects or…
Erotic turn-ons are objects or concepts that cause arousal regardless of any relationship. Women find this difficult to understand.
Jane Thomas explains the vagin…
Jane Thomas explains the vagina is a reproductive organ that cannot provide female orgasm.
Men’s belief in female orgasm …
Men's belief in female orgasm acts as a permanent green light. Yet they never wonder why men are always trying to persuade women to...
Why is sex taboo? Men are cert…
Why is sex taboo? Men are certainly not offended by sex. One way or another, the silent female population has its say.
Men are aroused by erotic stim…
Men are aroused by erotic stimuli (anatomy, fantasies & sexual opportunities) regardless of any relationship. What erotic stimuli arouse women?
Jane Thomas explains how inter…
Jane Thomas explains how interesting it is when you try to talk to women about sex & orgasm!
I can provide sex education. B…
I can provide sex education. But I cannot make everyone read it. Nor can I make them accept it. Such is the emotional nature...
If women experienced orgasms w…
If women experienced orgasms with a lover, the erotic turn-ons & anatomy involved in female orgasm would be common knowledge.
Even a responsive woman only d…
Even a responsive woman only discovers orgasm by accessing her subconscious arousal when she focuses on fantasies during masturbation alone
Learn About Sexuality talks ab…
Learn About Sexuality talks about sexuality: including our enjoyment of the erotic fantasies and mental arousal that are essential to achieving orgasm.
How would you talk to teenager…
How would you talk to teenagers about what is meant by 'consensual sex'?
We can land a man on the moon.…
We can land a man on the moon. But we can't provide a scientific explanation for our sexuality. Such is the emotional nature of...
The idea that everyone has a s…
The idea that everyone has a sex drive & experiences orgasm with a lover is a male view. Women want a caring, companionable lover.
Sex education involves appreci…
Sex education involves appreciating why only men need to pay for sex. Women want love (not sex) and love cannot be purchased.
Men enjoy the EROTIC rewards o…
Men enjoy the EROTIC rewards of sex. Women enjoy the EMOTIONAL rewards of pleasing a lover. Isn't it rather spoiled to want both?
Men must think women cannot ac…
Men must think women cannot achieve their own orgasm. They seem to think that men provide female orgasm. Cocky, eh?!
Apparently only women need me…
Apparently, only women need mechanical assistance (vibrators) to achieve orgasm. Or so the sex toy companies tell us!