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Shere Hite
Quotations from books by Shere Hite including ‘The Hite Report’.
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(Shere Hite) Biologists and psychologists who have accepted the doctrine that the only natural…
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I still cannot understand why almost all women who look at pornography…
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(Shere Hite) I went through such hell figuring out what was ‘wrong’ with me,…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It is still remarkable how easily we bring ourselves to orgasm during…
Jane
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(Shere Hite) The most frequent reason men gave for having sex outside their marriages…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) 43 percent of those (males) who answered had had some form of…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Yes, I always fake orgasms. It just seems polite. Why be rude?
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) But as time passed, her devotion to me (her male partner) evolved…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … researchers must stop telling women what they should feel sexually, and…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I like to prolong my states of arousal until the desire for…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Often I resent the fact that my husband limits most of his…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In the same way that women’s role has shifted from child-bearer to…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Orgasm is more diffuse when I am emotionally aroused with my partner,…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Touching is very important and meaningful, but doesn’t happen often because men…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In patriarchal society, the, intercourse for a man has the whole force…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Fellatio is okay but my mouth gets tired of being stretched open.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) If you want a good orgasm, you can masturbate. The whole reason…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In fact, for over 70 per cent of women, intercourse – the…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) During intercourse I (female) feel very close and somehow entangled and united…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) If I could feel my lover was more involved emotionally, if he…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In fact, women don’t take longer to orgasm than men. The majority…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … the emphasis on the mechanical and technical aspects of intercourse ……
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Small amount of foreplay, then intercourse till he comes, The End.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Women have a different arousal system from men. Their arousal is a…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Many men have a completely genital approach to sex. Sex play is…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It is not female sexuality that has a problem (‘dysfunction’) but society…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Men see other men as the arbiters of what is real, the…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I really enjoy it (touching and affection), but I find that some…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The fact is that the role of women in sex, as in…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sex itself is not terribly important to me, but physical contact in…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The truth is that ‘sex’ is bigger than orgasm, and involves any…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … the basic value of sex and intercourse for women is closeness…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sex is intimate physical activity for pleasure, to share pleasure with another…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The next time you are aroused, notice how swollen your vulva and…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Intercourse is necessary for reproduction, and sexual pleasure and orgasm are involved…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … there is no physically demanding male sex drive that forces men…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) We love each other very much … But when we have intercourse…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It does make me feel strange, that after all the stimulation I…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I think most of the writers I’ve read don’t understand women at…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In other words, women really loved the feelings of arousal and being…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I wish I could be told sometimes in the middle of the…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Why do women so habitually satisfy men’s needs during sex and ignore…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I want to talk about our relationship, feelings and problems, and to…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There is no great mystery about why a woman has an orgasm….
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The very earliest societies may have worshiped/venerated women because it was thought…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Since I don’t have orgasm during intercourse, therefore I enjoy it without.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Most women do not orgasm as a result of intercourse per se….
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) As the feminist group the Redstockings put it, for many women marriage…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) To masturbate, fantasizing, or getting into an aroused state mentally is important….
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I feel that all people regardless of age and experience have to…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) With my husband, I sometimes feel obligated because I’m his wife and,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) There is great pressure on women in our society now to say…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I am not interested in ’satisfaction’. I don’t know what it is…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Although most women said that they missed the touching and holding of…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Judging from the rapturous descriptions of feelings during arousal, its pleasures would…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Staggeringly uniformed. The more confident they (men) are of their sexual prowess…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) It’s grossly built up into something it’s not. It’s just a thing…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I become very aroused by caressing my female lover’s breasts and clitoris…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) To orgasm is fine as long as semen does not end up…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I used to (fake orgasm), because men would enjoy watching me pant.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Kinsey went on to explain several times that the basic problem for…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I would like to have orgasms during intercourse without having to play…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) More than anything else, I associate sex with anxiety, fear of failure,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Perhaps orgasm is basically a release mechanism for the body, as are…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Indeed most men had experienced difficulty having an erection at some time…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) But worse than the actual loss/lack of erection, perhaps, is the fear…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Penetration is one of the nicest feelings I (female) know, mentally and…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I’ve learned that unless a female wants sex, it is wise not…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The reproductive model of sex has traditionally included just enough clitoral stimulation…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) No woman has ever shown me how or even admitted to masturbation.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) With my boyfriend of four years, we pretty much stopped fucking, because…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I for one am heartily sick of reading what men have to…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I really felt I was earning my room and board in bed…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The woman-in-the-street (most of us) still has the impression that it is…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) The greatest thing is the security I feel when I’m in bed…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I am enjoying sex more in my forties than I did in…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) During eighteen years of marriage, we did everything but stand on our…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sometimes emotional orgasm was felt as the desire to conceive, to be…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) My feeling is that I would consider sucking a cock with a…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Again, the penis contains within its shaft two … corpora cavernosa, which…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Yes, with vaginal penetration, there is a lesser sense of your own…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Outside of sex we get along great. We cooperate and are compatible….
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Whichever you prefer is a personal decision and a matter of temperament…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) When I’m inside her, simple things like her arms wrapped tightly around…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sometimes it builds a man’s ego to let him think he’s successful….
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Psychologically I like being in control and having power, feeling close to…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) … with my present female lover … she and I spend anywhere…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Sex is a form of communication without words based on bodily responses,…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) But the point still must be: don’t wait for the Right Man…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In reality, it is likely that men do like physical intimacy and…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I don’t enjoy intercourse because it’s a bore and I never come.
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) When I finally ejaculated at thirteen, I felt great! ’Hooray, I’m a…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Once my heart had an orgasm when she was hugging me and…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) If the importance of female orgasm has been underemphasized, to say the…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) In fact, even women who did orgasm during intercourse most frequently gave…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) He thinks if I don’t have an orgasm, he has failed me,…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I still believe the greatest sexual satisfaction comes from having a partner…
Jane
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January 1, 2000
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) I wish I could have the same type of orgasm I have…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Men are uninformed. They must all read the same book. Of course,…
Jane
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Shere Hite
(Shere Hite) Physically it (intercourse) is slightly pleasant, but boring, because it lasts too…
Jane
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