Sexual bravado is not a show of expertise. It is a technique…
Sexual bravado is not a show of expertise. It is a technique aimed at intimidating others into silence on sexual topics.
Threatening women with sexual dysfunction is a sure way to ensure their…
Threatening women with sexual dysfunction is a sure way to ensure their continuing silence on sexual topics.
Jane Thomas discusses the Biological aspects of sexuality.
Jane Thomas discusses the Biological aspects of sexuality.
Sex education is not just about reproduction. It’s also about explaining the…
Sex education is not just about reproduction. It's also about explaining the physical & mental aspects of achieving orgasm.
Unrealistic expectations for female orgasm cause women to look for the EROTIC…
Unrealistic expectations for female orgasm cause women to look for the EROTIC rewards of sex that men have always enjoyed.
Orgasm comes at the end of activity focused on achieving it! This is why sex…
Orgasm comes at the end of activity focused on achieving it! This is why sex always ends with a man's orgasm. Cocky, eh?!
Jane Thomas suggests sexual pleasure is not just about orgasm.
Jane Thomas suggests sexual pleasure is not just about orgasm.
It is a nonsense to suggest that women have a sex drive…
It is a nonsense to suggest that women have a sex drive to engage in activity that is designed to impregnate them.
Women enjoy chick flicks for the romantic scenarios that allow them to…
Women enjoy chick flicks for the romantic scenarios that allow them to enjoy their emotional responses. Men enjoy more erotic scenarios due to their...
Orgasm is a response of the central nervous system. The brain communicates…
Orgasm is a response of the central nervous system. The brain communicates with the erectile organ - the phallus - via the whole body.
Jane Thomas explains that research findings indicate that female orgasm is achieved…
Jane Thomas explains that research findings indicate that female orgasm is achieved alone.
Sexual ignorance is of no use to anyone. But of course ……
Sexual ignorance is of no use to anyone. But of course … it's a personal choice!
INTERNAL reproductive organs have no sensitivity. EXTERNAL sex organs respond to stimulation…
INTERNAL reproductive organs have no sensitivity. EXTERNAL sex organs respond to stimulation if & ONLY if our mind is aroused.
Women boast about orgasm. Men boast about their sexual opportunities, numbers of…
Women boast about orgasm. Men boast about their sexual opportunities, numbers of lovers & their ability to pleasure a lover.
Jane Thomas explains that intercourse is designed to cause male orgasm.
Jane Thomas explains that intercourse is designed to cause male orgasm.
If you’re going to talk about female sexuality with any semblance of…
If you're going to talk about female sexuality with any semblance of honesty, then you need to get used to all the hate-mail!
What’s the difference :- Porn or Sex Education? Give your teenagers a…
What's the difference :- Porn or Sex Education? Give your teenagers a choice!
We orgasm because our mental arousal motivates us to supply (ourselves) or…
We orgasm because our mental arousal motivates us to supply (ourselves) or obtain (from a lover) the appropriate stimulation.
Jane Thomas explains that female orgasm is not as easy as pornography…
Jane Thomas explains that female orgasm is not as easy as pornography implies.
Women dislike any display of the genitals. This is why even adult…
Women dislike any display of the genitals. This is why even adult (X) rated movies only ever show 'love-making'.
Sex education is not just about contraception. It’s also about appreciating the…
Sex education is not just about contraception. It's also about appreciating the rewards & responsibilities of family life.
Women are not aroused by intercourse. This is why bananas are associated…
Women are not aroused by intercourse. This is why bananas are associated with women providing male pleasure rather than women's pleasure!
Jane Thomas suggests that Adult Sex Ed will always be different to…
Jane Thomas suggests that Adult Sex Ed will always be different to porn & erotic fiction.
If only men talk in any explicit detail about female orgasm, then…
If only men talk in any explicit detail about female orgasm, then these are not real orgasms. They're just male fantasies.
Sex is an emotional bonding mechanism for men. Women don’t need sex…
Sex is an emotional bonding mechanism for men. Women don't need sex to feel emotionally attached to someone.
Women often stimulate themselves without ever having an orgasm… just as a…
Women often stimulate themselves without ever having an orgasm… just as a man stimulates a woman for years without her ever having one either.
Jane Thomas talks about the evidence from men & women’s sexual behaviours.
Jane Thomas talks about the evidence from men & women's sexual behaviours.
Responsiveness relies on our own motivation. It has nothing to do with…
Responsiveness relies on our own motivation. It has nothing to do with what others tell us we should want to do.
Sexual knowledge gives us some protection against the misleading claims & the…
Sexual knowledge gives us some protection against the misleading claims & the massive marketing budgets of the sex industry.
At 14 weeks every human foetus has an identical genital tubercle. So…
At 14 weeks every human foetus has an identical genital tubercle. So whether we are male or female, we all have a phallus (sex...
Jane Thomas discusses the confusion over the anatomy involved in female orgasm.
Jane Thomas discusses the confusion over the anatomy involved in female orgasm.
Men like erotic turn-ons … Women like a pretty face, reassuring voice,…
Men like erotic turn-ons … Women like a pretty face, reassuring voice, charming manner? How is that supposed to work?
Learn About Sexuality talks about sexuality in terms of reproduction, sexual responsiveness…
Learn About Sexuality talks about sexuality in terms of reproduction, sexual responsiveness and sexual anatomy.
No one can benefit from truths they are not ready to hear….
No one can benefit from truths they are not ready to hear. Sex education is for those who don't already know all the answers!
Jane Thomas explains that women take longer to orgasm than men do.
Jane Thomas explains that women take longer to orgasm than men do.
We can explain the first few seconds of the universe. But we…
We can explain the first few seconds of the universe. But we can't explain our own sexuality. Such is the emotional nature of humanity.
All that noise women make in movies (‘responding’ to intercourse) emulates the…
All that noise women make in movies ('responding' to intercourse) emulates the resistance scenario, which is a natural turn-on.
Sex education is not just about ‘where babies come from’. It also…
Sex education is not just about 'where babies come from'. It also involves learning about responsiveness & orientation.
Jane Thomas talks about her second book ‘Women’s sexual Behaviours & Responses’.
Jane Thomas talks about her second book 'Women's sexual Behaviours & Responses'.
Male sexuality has a short-term focus. Women’s sexuality includes using sex to…
Male sexuality has a short-term focus. Women's sexuality includes using sex to keep men committed over the long-term.
Men try to get women drunk (or even drug them) to get…
Men try to get women drunk (or even drug them) to get sex. Clearly, women are not nearly as keen on sex as men...
There is no reason why a woman should be aroused by sex…
There is no reason why a woman should be aroused by sex or by a lover. Female orgasm has nothing to do with reproduction.
Physical stimulation: Jane Thomas explains how the BODY is involved in orgasm.
Physical stimulation: Jane Thomas explains how the BODY is involved in orgasm.
Women obtain tremendous pleasure from their emotional responses with a lover. This…
Women obtain tremendous pleasure from their emotional responses with a lover. This explains why men focus on orgasm but women talk of love &...
Orgasm is a response, like sneezing or coughing. The triggers are the…
Orgasm is a response, like sneezing or coughing. The triggers are the same for everyone regardless of gender & orientation.
Humanity’s biggest hurdle today, is whether we can reconcile our emotional beliefs…
Humanity's biggest hurdle today, is whether we can reconcile our emotional beliefs with intellectual reasoning.
Jane Thomas compares the role of masturbation for men & women.
Jane Thomas compares the role of masturbation for men & women.
Men masturbate by emulating the male role in intercourse. Women, who masturbate…
Men masturbate by emulating the male role in intercourse. Women, who masturbate to orgasm, also emulate this male thrusting role!
Battle of the sexes – sex gives women a hold over men….
Battle of the sexes - sex gives women a hold over men. In turn, men want control over their prime sexual outlet.
Sexology is not a political debate. It is involves a non-emotional discussion…
Sexology is not a political debate. It is involves a non-emotional discussion of the facts, logic & research findings that explain our sexuality.
Jane Thomas explains that women orgasm much less frequently than men do.
Jane Thomas explains that women orgasm much less frequently than men do.
What should young people be told about enjoying a sexual relationship?
What should young people be told about enjoying a sexual relationship?
Anyone who can truly orgasm, knows exactly how they got there (including…
Anyone who can truly orgasm, knows exactly how they got there (including the erotic turn-ons they use). It's a reasonably reliable process.
Responsiveness evolves over millions of years. Only sexual behaviours change from decade…
Responsiveness evolves over millions of years. Only sexual behaviours change from decade to decade as fashion dictates.
Jane Thomas suggests women enjoy sex play that is not only focused…
Jane Thomas suggests women enjoy sex play that is not only focused on orgasm.
Sex education is not just about consent. It’s also about appreciating the…
Sex education is not just about consent. It's also about appreciating the responsibilities that come with penetrative sex.
Men are naturally promiscuous. So a woman has to offer sex to…
Men are naturally promiscuous. So a woman has to offer sex to keep a man committed to supporting her family goals.
Stimulation needs to cease once orgasm is achieved. So a cavity could…
Stimulation needs to cease once orgasm is achieved. So a cavity could never be a sex organ because it can always be penetrated.
Jane Thomas explains some common misconceptions about orgasm.
Jane Thomas explains some common misconceptions about orgasm.
Sex drive is a strong physiological urge. It is not affected by…
Sex drive is a strong physiological urge. It is not affected by factors such as the availability of reliable contraception.
It’s easy to suggest PHYSICAL STIMULATION techniques but what is the point…
It's easy to suggest PHYSICAL STIMULATION techniques but what is the point if no one can name any EROTIC TURN-ONS that cause female arousal?
There’s amazingly little difference between the theories of sexologists & the emotional…
There's amazingly little difference between the theories of sexologists & the emotional beliefs of the general population.
Jane Thomas talks about the evidence from biological & evolutionary precedents.
Jane Thomas talks about the evidence from biological & evolutionary precedents.
It’s not the first time in human history that science has shown…
It's not the first time in human history that science has shown that our intuition can provide the wrong answers.
Let’s put the size issue to one side. Women’s sexual anatomy is…
Let's put the size issue to one side. Women's sexual anatomy is internal and it is only ever tumescent (never rigid like male anatomy).
Over decades of sex a woman appreciates a lover who explores sex…
Over decades of sex a woman appreciates a lover who explores sex play beyond intercourse.
Why is female orgasm so important to men? Men want to believe…
Why is female orgasm so important to men? Men want to believe that sex involves men doing women a favour - rather than the...
Jane Thomas asks: is sex drive about our motivation to reproduce or…
Jane Thomas asks: is sex drive about our motivation to reproduce or to experience orgasm?
Men experience sexual love based on their own physical gratification. Women experience…
Men experience sexual love based on their own physical gratification. Women experience nurturing love.
Unlike men, most women are looking for a loving relationship rather than…
Unlike men, most women are looking for a loving relationship rather than sex per se. They need an emotional connection.
Porno orgasms (intercourse, oral sex etc.) involve different female anatomy because men…
Porno orgasms (intercourse, oral sex etc.) involve different female anatomy because men stimulate the body parts that arouse them.
Jane Thomas points out that no one can name any female erotic…
Jane Thomas points out that no one can name any female erotic turn-ons.
Sex education involves appreciating that, knowing what we need is easy but,…
Sex education involves appreciating that, knowing what we need is easy but, responding to our partner's needs is difficult.
Unrealistic expectations for female orgasm cause men to hope for the EMOTIONAL…
Unrealistic expectations for female orgasm cause men to hope for the EMOTIONAL rewards of pleasuring a lover through sex.
Jane Thomas talks about WaysWomenOrgasm – her book & Female Sexuality website.
Jane Thomas talks about WaysWomenOrgasm - her book & Female Sexuality website.
Freudian theories (including the G-spot fiasco) based on women providing male pleasure…
Freudian theories (including the G-spot fiasco) based on women providing male pleasure tend to be popular with men. Cocky, eh?!
There is no research to prove that anyone can use a vibrator…
There is no research to prove that anyone can use a vibrator to orgasm. A few women boast about orgasm & we believe them.
Men have no idea of how important affection is for women because…
Men have no idea of how important affection is for women because their erotic responses (arousal & orgasm) block out these more emotional rewards.
Jane Thomas explains how ‘Ways Women Orgasm’ helps improve sexual relationships.
Jane Thomas explains how 'Ways Women Orgasm' helps improve sexual relationships.
I promote enjoyment of eroticism, sexual pleasuring & caring behaviours. Men and…
I promote enjoyment of eroticism, sexual pleasuring & caring behaviours. Men and women have a right to equal respect.
Insecurities about pleasing a partner, create taboo over how female orgasm is…
Insecurities about pleasing a partner, create taboo over how female orgasm is achieved, even between lovers.
Arousal occurs when the mind focuses on eroticism. Men’s minds are naturally…
Arousal occurs when the mind focuses on eroticism. Men's minds are naturally aroused but women must consciously focus on fantasy.
Jane Thomas suggests that very few women use erotic fantasies to masturbate…
Jane Thomas suggests that very few women use erotic fantasies to masturbate to orgasm.
If single women are so readily available, why does any man ever…
If single women are so readily available, why does any man ever agree to get married?
Learn About Sexuality talks about sexuality in terms of the act of…
Learn About Sexuality talks about sexuality in terms of the act of mating, the importance of non-sexual intimacy & consent.
What topics do you think should form a part of everyone’s sex…
What topics do you think should form a part of everyone's sex education?
Jane Thomas suggests how women can enjoy eroticism & sex play with…
Jane Thomas suggests how women can enjoy eroticism & sex play with partner.
Men are told to get consent. Yet we are told intercourse causes…
Men are told to get consent. Yet we are told intercourse causes female orgasm. No wonder men are confused & sexual assault thrives!
The invention of reliable contraception cannot make women want more sex, any…
The invention of reliable contraception cannot make women want more sex, any more than it can make men want less sex.
If women were aroused with a lover, they would be motivated to…
If women were aroused with a lover, they would be motivated to obtain their own stimulation rather than being sexually passive.
Jane Thomas talks about the importance of ‘sex play’ in modern relationships.
Jane Thomas talks about the importance of 'sex play' in modern relationships.
Few women ever talk about sex. Those who are paid to do…
Few women ever talk about sex. Those who are paid to do so, promote sexual health and porno orgasms. They do not talk of...
Foreplay does not assist with female orgasm because women are not aroused…
Foreplay does not assist with female orgasm because women are not aroused with a lover. Foreplay is foremost about male arousal.
Pornography involves graphic male turn-ons that are offensive to women (at least…
Pornography involves graphic male turn-ons that are offensive to women (at least those who are willing to be honest)!
Jane Thomas talks about the evidence from research findings.
Jane Thomas talks about the evidence from research findings.
Male orgasm is achieved by massaging the blood flow within the male…
Male orgasm is achieved by massaging the blood flow within the male phallus. How is female orgasm achieved?
I don’t want erotic fiction (read loads) or textbook theories (read lots…
I don't want erotic fiction (read loads) or textbook theories (read lots of those too) - just personal stories. Thanks!
While men reward women who tell them what they want to hear,…
While men reward women who tell them what they want to hear, they will never hear the truth. Most women stay silent to keep...
Jane Thomas explains that men & women are likely to experience sexual…
Jane Thomas explains that men & women are likely to experience sexual pleasure differently.
My work involves explaining the erotic turn-ons a responsive woman uses to…
My work involves explaining the erotic turn-ons a responsive woman uses to achieve orgasm when she masturbates alone.