JOE: My research focus is neuropsychologybased conceptual engineering. I have spoken with many researchers. JANE: So have I! None of them can explain the contradictions that I am highlighting. JOE: Women define orgasm differently to men. Many thought they were having hundreds but turns out they didn’t have any. Other researchers certainly didn’t help with this type of orgasm nonsense. They think that a sneeze is a type of orgasm too. The whole multiple orgasm concept is also very flawed. JANE: Anyone who has had an orgasm knows how they got there. Sexual response involves the brain responding to specific erotic stimuli (related to genitals and penetrative sex). Women do not understand that mental arousal is required before orgasm is possible. The brain sends blood is to the genitals to cause tumescence. Without this mental arousal, physical stimulation is pointless. JOE: Penetrative sex, nudity, or genitals might cause arousal in one person, male and female, but not another. Some people boast about orgasm purely to tease people who have the fetish, but others genuinely believe the female orgasm is this wild spiritual thing that fries the brain on a totally different level than anything a male can imagine. JOE: They now have all these apparent types and every day people come up with more: the Gspot orgasm (all the other spots), anal orgasm, deepthroat orgasm, full body orgasm, heart chakra orgasm, nipple orgasm, energy orgasm, and so on. JOE: Males are also now seeking the socalled prostate orgasm, nipple orgasm, super orgasm, mindgasm, male squirting, multiple backtoback ejaculations, multiple nonejaculatory urogenital reflex evocations (NEOS), anal only orgasm, and various others. There are a set of other responses, incorrectly labelled as orgasms. JANE: I have spent every day for the last 10 years asking women about orgasm on social media. Most women refuse to comment. I have also contacted most of the famous socalled sex experts who have also refused to discuss sexual response. Men want to believe everything that women say. I am much more sceptical because, as a woman, I know that the female body does not respond in these often quite fantastic ways. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure