JANE: Gender is cultural. Sex is biological. There are two sexes because we are meant to be different. If we were the same, what would be the point? Men & women are very different both sexually & emotionally. Shawna:This might be one of the first things youve posted that I can truly get behind, as a biological and identifying female. Shawna (cont):Many of the things you post as factual for females, do not resonate with me. Itd be great if you used looser terminology most, some, my friends, etc. JANE: I use generalisations such as men are taller than women. Not always true but generally true. If we say every woman is different JANE (cont): we cannot understand women versus men. There are certainly differences between the sexes. Orgasm is critical to male sexual function. Shawna:I certainly agree with that! I love reading everything you put out, and feel it has tremendous value. My comment wasnt intended to offend. Shawna (cont):Often times I feel as though its stated as fact, and men are looking for answers. Youre certainly providing valuable insight. JANE:Thanks. So often women criticise by making vague assertions. It is very frustrating! I am saying many different things day in day out. JANE (cont):But very few women ever comment at all. This is why sexual ignorance is rife. Women have to start giving explicit details on sexual topics! Shawna:I feel like you have a large enough audience that you can pull from. I didnt truly realize you were wanting women to speak out or give feedback. JANE:The feedback you gave was that you disagree with most of what I post. But you have given no details of what you disagree with. JANE (cont): Neither have you offered any alternatives. What mental turnons do women use with a lover? What anatomy do they stimulate? I am asking for specifics! Shawna:I apologize for my broad statement. I do not disagree with most of what you post. I actually really appreciate that youre tackling this subject. Shawna (cont):I apologize for my response. Youre doing what no one else is doing, and I have great respect for you and what youre doing. Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism