JANE: Men rarely scream when they orgasm so why should women? Daniel: It is usually said that women are emotional beings. When women orgasm, their emotions are high and they can’t hold back anymore, they scream to let go. I’ve had such experience with a number of my partners. Daniel (cont): At the end, they say thank you for making me come. I am weak and relaxed now. Some even squirt in the process. It’s always a pleasure being able to take them to that level. JANE: You are lucky that your partners have been willing to please you. It is vital to understand the key difference between male and female sexual response. Sexual response is a characteristic of male reproductive function. Men respond to eroticism while women respond emotionally. Men seem to find this difficult to accept. Daniel: Well noted, maam. JANE: Surely, as a man, you understand that sexual response involves how the brain responds to eroticism. What have emotions got to do with sexual response? Love and romance don’t cause orgasm, do they? So if no one can name any female erotic turnons then women are not aroused with a lover. If they are not aroused then they are not having orgasms, are they? Daniel: Well, ma’am. I may not be able to argue with you on scientific facts. All I know is that as a young man, I’ve watched my partners climax during romance and sex. That is a fact. JANE: I fully appreciate the world of pornography and male fantasies. You are observing women emulate porno actresses to please you. If you cannot name any female erotic turnons then they are not having orgasms. Men reward women for sex but they also resent any woman who doesnt reassure their ego by faking orgasm or pleasure. Daniel: I agree with you that women, need love and affection. Therefore, when they find a man who shows them love and affection, they tend to open up their treasury which is in some cases manifests in the form of orgasm during sex. Clitoral stimulation leads to great sensation in women. Penetration from men gives them a greater level of pleasure. Otherwise, why do some women complain about some men not being able to ‘perform in bed’? JANE: Women refer to male performance to shame men and also to flatter men. My work is for those who accept that reality is different to fiction. Real women talk of lovemaking, upper body kissing and caressing. They do not talk of eroticism or genital stimulation. They do not welcome mens sexual advances. They welcome romance based on caring companionship. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all