JANE:Sex is primarily a male erotic pleasure. But women can enjoy more emotional rewards with a loving partner. Basically men have a sex drive. Women do not. JANE (cont): No one has a drive to be penetrated by an erect penis. Intercourse is a reproductive act that a male is driven to engage in. Scarlet: That’s crazy. So not true JANE: What kind of drive causes a woman to want to be impregnated? She cannot be impregnated every time. Once she is pregnant job done. JANE (cont):Why would a woman always want to have intercourse the way a man does? Please can you name some erotic turnons that cause female arousal with a lover? Scarlet:I don’t know. I think I want to have sex. I have an implant and can’t get pregnant right now, Scarlet (cont):but I still think about it and like having sex. I don’t like it for very long, but I do love the initial penetration. JANE:Yes but that is not a biological sex drive is it? Men are driven to impregnate a woman no matter what the consequences. JANE (cont):Research shows that men engage in regular sexual activity all their lives. Women go for weeks, months & years without sex. No harm done. That is the difference! Scarlet:Are you saying every man has sex? That’s not true. JANE:Sexual activity with a partner or alone. Masturbation is sexual activity. But men have intercourse on average much more frequently than women outside of a longterm relationship. JANE (cont):The research findings are very clear. Men talk about & engage in sex much more freely than women do. Scarlet: I think I make myself come more often than my husband. JANE:What are you calling an orgasm? What erotic turnons do you use for arousal? What anatomy are you stimulating? JANE (cont):Women rarely understand what an orgasm is. They think it is just about nice feelings with a lover. Orgasm is a response to erotic stimuli. It is very specific. Scarlet:I dont know maybe you’re right! JANE:Right about what? Can you be more explicit? These topics are vital for people’s understanding of sexuality. JANE (cont):If you make strong statements, you need to back them up with some facts & explanations. If not, it’s just wishful thinking! An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all