Diane: I am familiar with female orgasms and the physical and emotional factors that go into it. JANE: Orgasm has nothing to do with love or with a relationship. Just look at men who go to prostitutes! Orgasm involves the mind responding to erotic stimuli concepts or objects. Then blood flows to the corpora cavernosa. At which point stimulation of the penis/clitoris makes sense. Diane: I think your information may be a little onesided. I personally can orgasm via stimulus alone and I am female. Orgasms and positive eroticism do not always go hand in hand. I can reach orgasm without having my brain actively involved in any eroticism. I can have a purely physical experience. JANE: I think women often mistake emotional & sensual feelings for orgasm. Orgasm is fundamentally a response to erotic stimuli. But most women are not attracted to eroticism. This is natural. Responsiveness is a male characteristic. Female orgasm is much rarer than we think it is! Diane: What is this statement based on? Women should be supported to trust their feelings and emotions, not told they are wrong. Female orgasm is not rare. Who cares what womens reason is for talking about orgasm? An orgasm is something that should be talked about and not hidden away like a dirty secret. JANE: Over many years of asking women about orgasm, most refuse to comment. I have not found one woman interested in discussing sexual pleasure & eroticism. They are just boasting about orgasm providing male turnons! Men never boast about orgasm it just happens! Men talk about the erotic turnons that cause their arousal. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all