JANE:I am really hoping to understand more about how lesbians define lovemaking. JANE (cont):It would be useful to describe womens motivations for engaging in sexual activity without the need to respond to mens desire for intercourse tomaleorgasm. Rosalinda:Getting down to it, I would say there is great variation in the sexual activity of lesbians depending on personality. Some will engage in more hardcore activities while some may be more soft. Rosalinda (cont):For lesbians, and curious women Ive interacted with, a large part of the sexual experience is dirty talk or sexy talk. Myself, along with my dirty talk partner, have been able to obtain a great amount of sexual pleasure and arousal through having hot chats with each other. Rosalinda (cont):So I believe that the erotic talk is very effective in bringing a woman much sexual pleasure. Its almost like a psychological penis. And this kind of thing occurs often. Rosalinda (cont):Talking sexy and gazing at each other while caressing and touching is a highly sexually charged experience for lesbians that brings about intense sexual pleasure and arousal. Then there is the physical aspect. Rosalinda (cont):I would say that kissing is very popular with women. Lovemaking involves touching, massaging, caressing, holding and having full skin on skin body contact. And this goes on for a long time. Rosalinda (cont):It is a sensual, intimate experience and mainly what the women want and crave. It also causes arousal. Oral sex is part of that experience. It is part of the whole body kissing that includes kissing the vulva area. Rosalinda (cont):I know that the whole world seems to equate lesbian sex with cunnilingus and it surely is something that happens often with lesbians. However, it does not occur as often as tribbing does. What I mean is, lesbians engage much more in tribbing than they do in oral sex. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure