Paul : My think Im not able to satisfy my girl on the bed because I have a small one. She hasnt told that to me but I kinda feel that. Im afraid if I might lose her. How do I handle this ? JANE: Well it has nothing to do with sex. Women want a man who is considerate, respectful, good companion & fun to be with. Not hassling for sex all the time… Paul: I agree. But shes kinda into it these days and I can sense it that she not feeling very great about it. JANE: Women enjoy sensual lovemaking but more importantly consideration outside the bedroom. Try to do things to help her let her know that you care about her for more than just the sex. Paul: I will. I also have a major problem with masturbating how do I stop it. Anything you would want to suggest? JANE: Nothing wrong with masturbating. But porn is misleading sets high expectations which leads to disappointment & frustration. Paul: Very true But I just lose control easily. And I get aroused too easily. Dont know how to control that feeling. JANE: A very typical male response you get the pleasure & the frustration! They go together women get neither. Which would you prefer? Paul: I agree Im must somehow quit watching porn. It’s like any addiction find other pastimes! JANE: Remember that penis size is totally irrelevant to women as is intercourse. You should invest in cunnilingus & other sensual lovemaking. JANE (cont): Kissing & cuddling, stroking & massage are also very pleasant. Women like admiration & spontaneity. Sex in the shower or over the kitchen table keep things alive… Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure