RS: Alfred Kinsey’s work has been pivotal in advancing our understanding of human sexuality. It’s fascinating how his research, especially ‘Sexual Behavior in the Human Female,’ has provided such comprehensive data on sexual diversity and behavior. JANE: I agree! Kinsey’s finding that women are less responsive than men was (still is) hugely unpopular. His work has been ignored by the scientific community. Sexologists continue to promote the myth that female orgasm is common. RS: Kinsey’s findings on female responsiveness have faced backlash for challenging norms. It’s interesting how societal expectations affect science. The controversy around the Kinsey Report shows resistance to taboo topics. JANE: Men see female orgasm as a result of their own efforts during lovemaking & women are content to allow men their fantasies due to the rewards they obtain for offering regular intercourse. RS: It’s fascinating how porn shapes unrealistic expectations, often leading to misconceptions about sexual pleasure. This dynamic you’ve described highlights the need for more open conversations about real sexual experiences. JANE: The problem is that porn is universal because it makes billions of dollars a year. Sex education is inadequate because it makes no money. Men want to hear their fantasies reflected in anything they hear about sex. Women have very little to zero interest in discussing the topic. RS: You’ve highlighted a critical issue with the funding gap between porn and sex education. It’s indeed a challenge when profit drives content over education. Do you think there could be a shift if we reframe sex education to be more engaging? JANE: Very few people have any interest in an intellectual discussion of sexuality. Men want sex they don’t want to talk about it. Women have zero interest. I have not found a single woman confident to discuss sexual response. Most of my loyal followers are male. But few men engage in explicitly detailed discussions of sexual scenarios. RS: Less engagement from women in discussions about sexuality might stem from societal taboos or lack of comfortable platforms. Encouraging environments where women feel safe & empowered to discuss sex might help. Creating forums where women lead the conversation might increase participation and depth of discussion. JANE: I am looking for women who are prepared to be honest. Unlike a therapist, I am not paid to listen to erotic fiction. If women were having orgasms, they would understand what I am saying. They do not. They think I am a man because I enjoy erotic stimuli. I want women who have experience of sexual response. Even men struggle to talk about sexual response. JANE (cont): Women think that orgasm arises from being in love. They do not compare sex with masturbation. They are horrified by the idea of erotic fantasies, which they associate with male sexuality. They do not understand the role of erotic turnons. Women think that arousal occurs from a man’s smile or his hairy chest. They think that orgasm occurs from stimulating the elbow etc. I don’t want nonsense. JANE (cont): This is the taboo of sex that is generated by women’s lack of responsiveness and consequent lack of understanding that crude inputs explicit erotic stimuli required for orgasm. Emotional attachment has nothing to do with sexual response. Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism