Nick: I went up to her and without saying a word, took her face in both my hands and kissed her lightly on the lips followed by butterfly kisses on her forehead … let me tell you that what happened after that is not for this forum. Next morning, I was told it was absolutely erotic. JANE: Your example is clearly not erotic. Women confuse emotional feelings for arousal & orgasm. I present facts, logic & the research findings. If you want fantasies, please go elsewhere! Nick: Please can you define erotic? JANE: I’m surprised that you don’t understand what EROTIC is. Dictionary definition: relating to or tending to arouse sexual desire or excitement. But if you think what that is, as a man, it is typically an explicit, graphic turnon that is connected to sexual activity or genitals. GRAPHIC TURNON: Dictionary definition: giving clear and vividly explicit details. Nick: I can read a dictionary but my question was aimed at you. If we are going to do everything by the book we are going downhill. JANE: Erotic is a word that is defined in dictionaries. This is a basic fact. If you cannot accept that then you might as well give up now. As I said, if you are a man, I am surprised that you don’t understand what eroticism is porn, for example, ever heard of it??? Nick: I am not here to fight, I am here to learn more about women and the perceived lack of orgasms … If I was sitting in front of you in your office, would your reaction be similar? Please enjoy your day! JANE: I don’t have an office or clients. I am unpaid. I provide sex education for free to those who appreciate it. I cannot insist that people read, understand or accept what I am saying. They have to be interested enough to invest the time! Nick: And I am just looking at nude pictures … of course I am investing time here but the question comes up … am I investing wisely? JANE: That is for you to decide. I doubt you will find another source of explicit sex information that provides facts & logical explanations in the context of the research findings. I am unique for talking about my own experiences of sexual pleasure & orgasm. I quote other women. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure