Donald: During my life i have had sex with about 100 women. All but two had one or more orgasms from either cunnilingus, digital stimulation, intercourse or both. Some many orgasms in a session. Donald (cont): You write as if sex is only ever in missionary position, many women prefer riding on top (cowgirl) so they are in control and actively grind their clitoris on the man’s pubic mound until orgasm. Donald (cont): Some prefer doggystyle and many can achieve orgasm presumably through the stimulation of the internal clitoral bulbs which swell considerably through excitation, and/or the mechanical tugging of the anterior clitoris. JANE: You are an observer of female sexual behaviours and a victim of male fantasies. You cannot explain these orgasms because women themselves cannot explain them. If you have had sex with that many partners, you are talking primarily about casual sex. No one discusses orgasm before, during or after a oneoff encounter that inevitably focuses on male needs and intercourse. I am impressed that as many as 2% of your sample were willing to be honest. JANE (cont): The woman on top position does not allow a woman to simultaneously stimulate herself. She cannot move her vagina up and down a penis whilst simultaneously stimulating her clitoral glans. Women assume a proactive role to please a man or to assist with his arousal and get sex over and done with. The glans is the wrong anatomy for female orgasm anyway. It lacks the necessary erectile tissue. JANE (cont): As usual you make no mention of female erotic turnons. How are they having orgasms if they are not mentally aroused? Your references to stimulation of the internal clitoral organ come from the research that promotes intercourse as a female pleasure. But why would a woman opt for indirect stimulation when she can use direct manual stimulation? JANE (cont): Orgasm is a basic instinctive response. It always involves the same anatomy the male or female phallus. Fellatio is arousing for men because it simulates intercourse from the male perspective. The clitoral organ is internal and not designed to penetrate a vagina. So cunnilingus warm and wet stimulation of the glans does not cause orgasm. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all