Darin: I have been experimenting with anal play during masturbation. I was surprised to see ejaculation simply upon insertion or a handsfree ejaculation. Darin (cont): I can’t say that the anal thrusting doesn’t really provide any pleasure. However, a vibrator and/or simply penetration with the right size item provides instant incredible stimulation and ejaculation. Darin (cont): The vaginal fisting must take some time to accomplish. Do you receive a significant amount of pleasure from this? What does this feel like? How long have u been performing this? Darin (cont): I did this years ago on my wife but it didn’t ‘stay’ in the ‘routine’ as a pleasurable item. I think she did it earlier just out of curiosity. I agree in that a woman allows a man to pleasure her as this IS where my wife is at. Darin (cont): She may or may not masturbate. But her sex drive for frequency of when she wants stimulated by me is minimal to nonexistent. However, I do think she get some satisfaction from the sensation. JANE: Men have the advantage when receiving anal sex because of the prostate gland which can cause almost instantaneous orgasm. This method used to be used by doctors to obtain semen samples but I believe these days they just provide a porno mag. JANE (cont): Vaginal fisting & anal sex take quite a bit of practice and a woman needs to be willing to invest the time. Women often feel uncomfortable about exploring the more taboo aspects of sex largely due to a lack of responsiveness. JANE (cont): Sexual pleasure differs between men & women for at least two reasons. Firstly women are much less responsive than men are and are not aroused by nudity & genital stimulation as men are. JANE (cont): But secondly genital stimulation with a partner is much more important to mens emotional reward. Even when I obtain really quite sensational physical feelings from anal sex &/or fisting I am still not particularly motivated by sex. JANE (cont): It takes quite a while to get there but also the environment (not using fantasy) does not equate to masturbation which provides the best sexual release. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all