Saif : My wife 45 years old but she is not interested in sex. Her sexual desire is no arousal. She is in menopause. Please any tips or medication for wife sexual arousal. JANE: Women are not aroused with a lover at any age. Women have emotional needs and they offer intercourse to a man when he demonstrates that he cares. It’s about being the charming companion and investing in some romance. Dinners and weekends away. Some treats. Saif: There is no medication to increase sexual ability of 45+ women ?? JANE: Age makes no difference. Women only make effort when younger because they need support for the family. Men pay for sex. But once a woman no longer needs the relationship, she doesn’t feel obliged to offer sex. There is no arousal or orgasm for the receiver of the thrusting penis. JANE (cont): Intercourse facilitates MALE orgasm. It has nothing to do with female orgasm. You need to invest in the wider relationship. Affectionate companionship etc. Your wife wants to feel loved and appreciated outside the bedroom. But she probably already knows that you only want sex from her. JANE (cont): A woman’s role in intercourse is to wait until a man ejaculates. This gets very tedious after decades. The only rewards a woman has are emotional and these fade as male admiration fades. Sex becomes a mechanical act that may satisfies men’s sexual needs but nothing for a woman. JANE (cont): All the talk of orgasm is a hoax aimed at making money out of men’s needs. Women want to feel appreciated and respected for the effort they make in sex. Men need to give back by responding to women’s emotional needs. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure