Abhish: Im sorry for the negative reply but I never masturbate. Instead I save my sperm so they can be put in vagina. And its unethical JANE: Well either you have a happy girlfriend, use prostitutes or have a low responsiveness. Some younger men masturbate 3 times a day. Abhish: Oh my God 3 times a day is too much. I don’t go to prostitutes OK? That’s not in my blood. I conserve my sperm. If a man could do 3 times with a woman wouldn’t that be great heavenly pleasure? JANE: Not really, given women orgasm by masturbating alone. I think you definitely have a low responsiveness. That is why you cannot understand other men. Many men have no choice about masturbation or sex. Abhish: Exactly. Masturbation or Ejaculation is considered bad in our traditional Indian culture. JANE: Highlysexed men do not have a choice. Individuals can have very different levels of orgasm frequency (responsiveness). Abhish: Masturbation or ejaculation I understand is incorrect. The only way to get pleasure or safe sex is intercourse with opposite sex. Man and woman is considered natural sex. All other forms are unethical not correct, immoral, illegal and unacceptable OK? Abhish (cont): Homosexuals (gays) were not permitted during olden days. In the same way, lesbians are not supported by the Indian society. I feel these thoughts are signs of mental illness, imbalance of genes or psychological mental apathy. Gay & lesbian acts cannot produce a child. JANE: You are defining sex according to a reproductive model rather than for pleasure. Do you want to produce a baby every time you have sex? Most people don’t. They engage in sex for erotic & emotional reasons. Abhish: Understood, Jane. You opened my eyes! Sorry I couldn’t realise this sooner An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all