Steph: Everything you talk about in your book, particularly with reference to your problems with having an orgasm from intercourse, I have had the same problem. Steph (cont): For many years, I had thought there was something wrong with me but was just too embarrassed to talk to anyone about it. In fact, I once heard on a radio talk show Steph (cont): someone called in and said they couldnt orgasm during sex. The response to the person having the problem was to blame this on the man! JANE: But your mother is a medical doctor. Didnt she ever talk to you about sex? Steph: On reading your book, I spoke to my mum who said (I quote!): Of course you dont orgasm during sex as if this was a wellknown fact!!!! JANE: Im amazed that in this day and age, you found no one to talk to. You are such a sociable girl! Steph: As a result of reading your book, my relationship with my partner has stepped up a level. I had been reluctant to have sex with him for about a year. Steph (cont): I had it in my head that HIS inability to make me orgasm during intercourse must mean I didnt love him or dont want to be with him! Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism