Rita: Women can have both a deep loyalty to one person and also many partners without getting feelings for anyone. This idea women just get attached to men just because they had sex is not real. Theres plenty of men Ive just used for sex. I enjoyed being single when I was single. JANE: What do you mean exactly? Can you be more explicit? What are you disagreeing with? What do you suggest as an alternative explanation for women’s silence on sexual topics and their insistence on romance before offering sex? Gay men just head for the boy’s room to have sex… JANE (cont): What do you enjoy about sex? Do you mean intercourse or other activities with a lover? Do you masturbate alone? What erotic turnons cause your arousal both alone and with a lover? What anatomy are you stimulating to achieve orgasm or do you enjoy more sensual or emotional rewards? Rita: Its a mix of intimacy and animalistic instincts. Weirdly for me its about pressure down there. It only takes me 45 seconds to make myself cum but I can only do it two times. With sex I can cum more than that. Sex is just good to me. No complaints here. JANE: Where is down there exactly? What animalistic instincts? What pressure are you talking about? How do you masturbate? What do you mean by sex? Intercourse? You need to be explicit to be credible. Many women boast about orgasm but they clearly don’t understand sexual response. Rita: Well definitely not my feet lol JANE: I am asking women to be explicit about orgasm because there is so much ignorance (inspired by porn) about how female orgasm is achieved. If you cannot explain it, then you are not having orgasms. You are just pleasing men. That is fine but it’s not orgasm or your own pleasure. Rita: Nothing in porn has ever imitated me lol. I usually masturbate laying on my stomach and in porn you have to show yourself. I turn into a ball. Its not a sexy act. I also never use a dildo. I dont like anything not real human in there. I dont get any pleasure out of it. JANE: The vagina (where the penis thrusts into) is not sensitive to touch. It is part of the birth canal. A baby’s head passes down it during childbirth. So a woman cannot feel a penis no matter what size. You are talking about emotional rewards. You have said nothing of eroticism. Rita: Then I must be special cause I definitely feel something. JANE: You can feel external pressure on the vulva and the labia. Some women seem to have a good imagination when it comes to sex. But sadly, if you can’t explain anything in terms of the anatomical facts it doesn’t really help anyone else. You are free to enjoy what you enjoy. No problem. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure