Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – Considerable psychiatric thera…
Considerable psychiatric therapy can be wasted on persons (especially females) who are misjudged to be cases of repression when, in actuality, at least some...
Shere Hite – As Ann Koedt put it in ‘The m…
As Ann Koedt put it, in ‘The myth of the vaginal orgasm’: Perhaps one of the most infuriating and damaging result of this whole...
Love Sex Intimacy – We often hear sex educators bl…
We often hear sex educators blaming men for ignoring women's presumed sexual needs. But why are women so incapable of obtaining their own sexual...
Testimonials – I am sure a lot of people read…
I am sure a lot of people read your articles with interest even though they are too shy to comment. You just keep on...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – Many of the (women’s) heterose…
Many of the (women's) heterosexual dreams had an indefinitely affectionate or generally social content which did not include overtly physical contacts. While such dreams...
Learn About Sexuality – The clitoris is largely an int…
The clitoris is largely an internal organ. Only the tiny glans (or bud) is visible externally.
Ways Women Orgasm – Most women are not aiming for …
Most women are not aiming for orgasm through genital stimulation so they interpret sexual relationships as 'love-making'.
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – … the female is generally less…
… the female is generally less responsive than the male erotically, and for that reason … less often takes the initiative in any sex...
Shere Hite – I have been married to one par…
I have been married to one partner for over twenty-sex years, and it's been very satisfying. I have only one wish: for vaginal orgasm...
Love Sex Intimacy – Men obsess about female orgasm…
Men obsess about female orgasm because it is elusive in reality. Pornography exaggerates female responsiveness to provide turn-ons that assist with male orgasm. After...
Testimonials – Very interesting intriguing …
Very interesting, intriguing, challenging, etc. field of study to undertake. You are handling it very intelligently. Congratulations and wish you all the best! Warm...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – … it is probable that few male…
… it is probable that few males would marry if they did not anticipate that they would have an opportunity to have coitus regularly...
Learn About Sexuality – Unlike a man a woman has sepa…
Unlike a man, a woman has separate anatomy for urination (the urethra), reproduction (the vagina) and orgasm (the clitoris). These three functions are all...
Other Sources – It’s important to see three po…
It’s important to see three points: (1) change is possible; (2) it isn’t his fault that he is the way he is; and (3)...
Ways Women Orgasm – Through masturbation boys lear…
Through masturbation boys learn how to use genital stimulation to bring a psychological state of sexual arousal to orgasm. Yet, against all logic, it...
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – Having reached its peak in ado…
Having reached its peak in adolescence, sexual activity in the male drops steadily from then into old age.
Shere Hite – To tell you the truth I’m rea…
To tell you the truth, I'm really not sure. I have read so many descriptions ... of what an orgasm is ... I used...
Love Sex Intimacy – Women evidently enjoy sensual …
Women evidently enjoy sensual and intimate activity, through masturbation and with another woman, without any need for vaginal penetration.
Testimonials – Thank you for your thoughtful…
Thank you for your thoughtful, informative view of sexuality. It has given me perspective and helped remove a few 'urban legends' some of us...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – … females who had used finge…
... females who had used fingers or other objects in vaginal penetrations did so ... because they wanted to entertain their male partners who...
Learn About Sexuality – The sensations that accompany …
The sensations that accompany orgasm vary considerably depending on the physical and psychological (erotic or emotional) circumstances that give rise to orgasm.
Other Sources – When it comes to women’s prior…
When it comes to women’s priorities, why, once in a secure relationship, is sex no longer on top?
Ways Women Orgasm – Unfortunately the vagina (as p…
Unfortunately the vagina (as part of the birth canal) has very few nerve endings. Only the clitoris, the female sex organ and source of...
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – For most males whether single…
For most males, whether single or married, there are ever-present erotic stimuli, and sexual response is regular and high.
Shere Hite – … it is the emotional warmth…
... it is the emotional warmth shared at this time, and the feeling of being wanted and needed (not the plain physical act) which...
Love Sex Intimacy – No one thinks it an odd coinci…
No one thinks it an odd coincidence that male fantasies should define the reality of female responsiveness so precisely. Yet the basis for so-called...
Other Sources – For married women today it’s d…
For married women today it’s difficult to square our expectations of sexual fulfilment with the realities of long-term relationships.
Testimonials – Thank you so much Jane. You de…
Thank you so much Jane. You deserve immense love from my side for being such an excellent writer. It is a privilege for me...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – Many males however basing th…
Many males, however, basing their concepts on their understanding of coitus and upon their conceit as to the importance of the male genitalia in...
Learn About Sexuality – Intercourse is an activity tha…
Intercourse is an activity that facilitates male ejaculation of semen. The sperm (from the testes) pass from the penis (via the vagina) into...
Ways Women Orgasm – Women are told that orgasm occ…
Women are told that orgasm occurs easily and naturally during sex so many believe that they orgasm when, in fact, they don't.
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – There is an inclination among …
There is an inclination among psychiatrists to consider all unresponding individuals as inhibited ... This amounts to asserting that all people are more or...
Shere Hite – I wish I could have the same t…
I wish I could have the same type of orgasm I have during masturbation when I have intercourse with my husband.
Love Sex Intimacy – Female orgasm is promoted as i…
Female orgasm is promoted as if it is a relationship accessory. But orgasm is a highly specific genital response that arises because we ourselves...
Other Sources – Surveys have revealed that 75%…
Surveys have revealed that 75% of men ejaculate within 2 minutes of penetration.
Other Sources – Orgasms are elusive. Most wome…
Orgasms are elusive. Most women don’t have one every time (or maybe even most times) they hit the sheets. Plenty of surveys—and likely your...
Testimonials – I thought the few great books …
I thought the few great books I read on the subject you engage with are enough but reading yours showed me how naive I...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – The minimum use of deep penetr…
The minimum use of deep penetrations of the vagina in masturbation is a reflection of the fact that the walls of the vagina itself...
Learn About Sexuality – Sexuality is about appreciatin…
Sexuality is about appreciating the human body and sexual anatomy. ... It is also useful to know what kind of stimulation may be pleasurable...
Ways Women Orgasm – The degree to which we are abl…
The degree to which we are able to enjoy our sexuality depends on the balance between our desire to enjoy sexual pleasure and our...
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – The possibility of any individ…
The possibility of any individual engaging in sexual activity at a rate that is remarkably different from one's own, is one of the most...
Shere Hite – The greatest thing is the secu…
The greatest thing is the security I feel when I'm in bed with a man. I feel loved and wanted and powerful.
Love Sex Intimacy – Sometimes it is suggested that…
Sometimes it is suggested that a woman stimulates herself once the man has come. This illustrates the inherent contradiction between the stimulation provided by...
Other Sources – While women read romantic nove…
While women read romantic novels, men read pornography. While romance packages sex with love, fidelity and marriage, pornography packages sex with violence, possession and...
Other Sources – So a brief definition — vagin…
So, a brief definition — vaginismus is chronic inhibitory tone of the pubococcygeus muscle, so the muscle at the mouth of the genitals is...
Testimonials – Thank you for sharing with us …
Thank you for sharing with us what you have learned and studied and more than happy to keep sharing, we need to open our...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – The active incidences of mastu…
The active incidences of masturbation were lowest in the younger groups, and highest in the older groups of females.
Learn About Sexuality – Abortion is an issue connected…
Abortion is an issue connected with the freedom women now share with men to be sexually active without the need for a supportive relationship...
Ways Women Orgasm – Female sexuality is often defi…
Female sexuality is often defined in terms of a woman's attractiveness to men rather than her own true state of sexual arousal. It is...
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – Considering the importance whi…
Considering the importance which sexual problems have in the practice of psychiatry, medicine, psychology, and counselling of every sort, it is disconcerting to realize...
Shere Hite – There is great pressure on wom…
There is great pressure on women in our society now to say they like ‘sex’.
Love Sex Intimacy – Pornography involves portrayin…
Pornography involves portraying male fantasies that help men reach orgasm when they masturbate alone. Nevertheless, sexologists seem to think that porn is a reasonable...
Other Sources – Most guys feel like they are a…
Most guys feel like they are always the initiator and that sets up disequilibrium on the passion scale in the relationship.
Other Sources – If you really think about why …
If you really think about why vaginal stimulation matters so much, it’s because it puts the focus on male pleasure.
Testimonials – I’ve read articles on your web…
I've read articles on your website, viewed the YouTube videos on your channel and your message highly resonates with my experience. Rahat
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – Many males projecting their o…
Many males, projecting their own experience, are inclined to overestimate the incidences and frequencies of masturbation among females.
Learn About Sexuality – Sexual responses do not change…
Sexual responses do not change over decades. Only women's sexual behaviours change as fashion dictates and because of improved policing.
Ways Women Orgasm – The phrase ‘orgasm techniques’…
The phrase 'orgasm techniques' sounds fancy but only means getting turned-on and then knowing how to orgasm by stimulating our genitals. Men also use...
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – Homosexual child play is … f…
Homosexual child play is ... fostered by his socially encouraged disdain for girls' ways, by his admiration for masculine prowess, and by his desire...
Shere Hite – To me orgasms have nothing to …
To me orgasms have nothing to do with regular male/female sex. Orgasm is not necessary because I can give them to myself in masturbation.
Love Sex Intimacy – Sex manuals suggest that a man…
Sex manuals suggest that a man should offer foreplay before heading for his own orgasm through intercourse. But as Kinsey noted decades ago, foreplay...
Other Sources – Biologically and hormonally m…
Biologically and hormonally, men are MUCH MORE driven to be sexual than women are.
Other Sources – This does not mean that every …
This does not mean that every time I do the dishes, she is supposed to have sex with me. That would not be romance....
Testimonials – You have very vast knowledge o…
You have very vast knowledge of everything that is impressive. It is simply excellent I love it. Please continue to share such a rare...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – While these physical changes a…
While these physical changes at adolescence are a fundamental part of the process by which the female becomes mature enough to reproduce, they seem...
Learn About Sexuality – Reliable contraception cannot …
Reliable contraception cannot change women's instinctive responses that have evolved over millions of years.
Other Sources – Moreover there has never been…
Moreover, there has never been a culture where women have been encouraged to explore and experiment with their sensuality without censure.
Ways Women Orgasm – If a couple has some understan…
If a couple has some understanding of the different rewards that men and women obtain from sex, they can make sure that there is...
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – In the younger boy there is no…
In the younger boy there is no ejaculate because the prostate and seminal vesicles are not yet functionally developed, and in the female those...
Shere Hite – The woman-in-the-street (most …
The woman-in-the-street (most of us) still has the impression that it is ‘normal’ to orgasm from male thrusting.
Love Sex Intimacy – Men cannot accept that without…
Men cannot accept that without a sex drive, women have no reason to be remotely interested in sex. Rather than try to convince men...
Other Sources – The problem I’ve heard most ab…
The problem I’ve heard most about over the years… is the problem of mismatched desire… which is the issue of sex-starved men and reluctant...
Other Sources – Men will do anything for sex …
Men will do anything for sex, and will behave quite out of character to achieve it, such as spending several hours being romantic, and...
Testimonials – It is SO SO easy to have unrea…
It is SO SO easy to have unreal expectations of a woman and hence become selfish as we live in such a 'what can...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – … the pre-adolescent boy’s c…
... the pre-adolescent boy's capacities for specifically sexual responses develop rapidly as he nears adolescence. This is not matched by any similar rise in...
Learn About Sexuality – If we are to understand men an…
If we are to understand men and women's sexuality, we must never forget that Nature wants us to engage foremost in intercourse. Male sex...
Ways Women Orgasm – Whatever taunts are thrown out…
Whatever taunts are thrown out by men looking for a frivolous lay, in the longer term men respect a more picky woman.
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – … the average age of onset of …
… the average age of onset of adolescence in the white male is about 13 years and 7 months.
Shere Hite – Of the 82 percent of women who…
Of the 82 percent of women who said they masturbated, 95 percent could orgasm easily and regularly, whenever they wanted.
Love Sex Intimacy – People are amazed when I quest…
People are amazed when I question the orgasms actresses are portrayed as having in pornography. They cannot believe that anyone would doubt the fiction....
Other Sources – Men’s illusions about women ar…
Men’s illusions about women are long on fantasy and short on reality… the more experience a man has with women in the real world,...
Other Sources – … male turn-ons are concrete …
… male turn-ons are concrete, while many female turn-ons are situational and atmospheric… it helps if a woman has some male-type object reactions, like...
Testimonials – Let us enjoy and savour life. …
Let us enjoy and savour life. I invite you to read some very wise words about eroticism from a very knowledgeable lady. Thanks to...
Alfred Kinsey Female Sexuality – We do not believe that the hap…
We do not believe that the happiness of individual men, and the good of the total social organization, is ever furthered by the perpetuation...
Learn About Sexuality – Given her lack of erotic arous…
Given her lack of erotic arousal with a lover, a woman has no incentive to be proactive in sexual activity of any kind unless...
Ways Women Orgasm – A man tends to assume that phy…
A man tends to assume that physical intimacy is a given as soon as a woman shows him any affection. A woman needs time...
Alfred Kinsey Male Sexuality – … orgasm may occur without the…
… orgasm may occur without the emission of semen.