It is a misguided to think that promoting the clitoris will make…
It is a misguided to think that promoting the clitoris will make any difference to any woman who does not already appreciate its role.
Thus, we have two problems: First, the male version of sex drive…
Thus, we have two problems: First, the male version of sex drive is what women are unjustly measured by. Second, women are trying too...
Self-evidently there are ‘responsible’ aspects of sex as well as the ‘pleasurable’…
Self-evidently there are 'responsible' aspects of sex as well as the 'pleasurable' but sexual ignorance is of no use to anyone.
There are some boys, particularly at lower social levels, who do not…
There are some boys, particularly at lower social levels, who do not masturbate because they become involved in heterosexual coitus at such an early...
In fact, for over 70 per cent of women, intercourse – the…
In fact, for over 70 per cent of women, intercourse – the penis thrusting in the vagina – did not regularly lead to orgasm....
It is often suggested that women enjoy sex. This can mean many…
It is often suggested that women enjoy sex. This can mean many things. Orgasm is a specific erotic phenomenon that arises as a consequence...
We love and appreciate every post, being educated and having our perception…
We love and appreciate every post, being educated and having our perception improved. I'm happy to have discovered your writings. Modibbo
… it is the male who has most to do with determining…
... it is the male who has most to do with determining the rate of coitus in marriage.
Orgasm does not encapsulate all the erotic, sensual and emotional pleasures that…
Orgasm does not encapsulate all the erotic, sensual and emotional pleasures that men enjoy from sex. Yet orgasm is used to encapsulate all of...
According to some estimates, over 40 million women have some problem with…
According to some estimates, over 40 million women have some problem with sexual desire and excitement. But if there are tens of millions of...
Many people believe that women are always exploited through sex because men…
Many people believe that women are always exploited through sex because men stand to gain so much more pleasure.
Differences in attitudes on masturbation, pre-marital intercourse, and prostitution are among the…
Differences in attitudes on masturbation, pre-marital intercourse, and prostitution are among the most marked of all the distinctions between social levels...
My husband doesn’t seem to enjoy anything besides intercourse, and that very…
My husband doesn’t seem to enjoy anything besides intercourse, and that very briefly, and I don’t know what to do to change him. I’ve...
Women seem to think that basic facts, such as the anatomy and…
Women seem to think that basic facts, such as the anatomy and turn-ons involved in orgasm, are somehow personal to them. These facts should...
Thanks Jane! Your body of work and the info you provide are…
Thanks Jane! Your body of work and the info you provide are amazing. Gabriella
The most common frequencies (of marital intercourse) … lay between two and…
The most common frequencies (of marital intercourse) ... lay between two and four times per week for the younger age groups, but had dropped...
With no penis requiring urgent attention, gay women can focus on sensual…
With no penis requiring urgent attention, gay women can focus on sensual pleasuring rather than genital stimulation. Lesbians can be more relaxed about exploring...
Sex is only one way in which people give and receive love,…
Sex is only one way in which people give and receive love, so although it is very important, it is not the only way...
With all the hype about sexual pleasure it is easy to forget…
With all the hype about sexual pleasure it is easy to forget that the PRIME purpose of sex is reproduction. This involves not only...
There are boys who never masturbate. There are boys who masturbate twice…
There are boys who never masturbate. There are boys who masturbate twice or thrice in a lifetime; and there are boys and older youths...
I fake orgasm to save his pride and prevent arguments.
I fake orgasm to save his pride and prevent arguments.
Some women approach sex with romantic illusions. They assume that a man…
Some women approach sex with romantic illusions. They assume that a man is so aroused by their body that he can sweep them off...
There’s a reality here that we haven’t begun to explore. Jane is…
There's a reality here that we haven't begun to explore. Jane is helping to cut an opening into what is basically an entirely unexplored...
Females are less inclined to demand that their husband be virgins when…
Females are less inclined to demand that their husband be virgins when they marry.
The only proactive sexual role available to women is to assist with…
The only proactive sexual role available to women is to assist with male orgasm. This behaviour is consciously motivated, rather than a response to...
If you’ve got a penis, it would be super convenient if the…
If you’ve got a penis, it would be super convenient if the way the person with a vagina has pleasure is for you to...
Men experience a purely physical reaction to seeing a woman’s body that…
Men experience a purely physical reaction to seeing a woman's body that has nothing to do with personal relationships. So, men engage lap dancers,...
Most males who have participated in sexual activities in groups have found…
Most males who have participated in sexual activities in groups have found the opportunity to do so with prostitutes.
My husband used to ask, ‘Did you come?’ – and when the…
My husband used to ask, 'Did you come?' - and when the answer was 'yes' - even if I was faking it - that...
A woman is more likely to be amenable to sexual pleasuring when…
A woman is more likely to be amenable to sexual pleasuring when she has a quality relationship with a man. This is much more...
Love your work and writing, Jane! Thank you for your efforts and…
Love your work and writing, Jane! Thank you for your efforts and all you do to promote sex-positivity and comprehensive education for all -...
Many a male, particularly in certain social levels …, is prone to…
Many a male, particularly in certain social levels ..., is prone to seek coitus from every available girl, while insisting that the girl he...
Some women enjoy the reassurance of being admired by men. They may…
Some women enjoy the reassurance of being admired by men. They may interpret this emotional neediness as a sex drive. Some women use their...
Masturbation is a normal sexual outlet, which is most common in adolescence,…
Masturbation is a normal sexual outlet, which is most common in adolescence, but which is practised at all ages, by people with and without...
It is often suggested that a lack of female orgasm during sex…
It is often suggested that a lack of female orgasm during sex is a sign of sexual dysfunction but the truth is that this...
Each type of sex act acquires values, becomes right or wrong, socially…
Each type of sex act acquires values, becomes right or wrong, socially useful or undesirable.
My husband has on occasion threatened to withhold money or favour ……
My husband has on occasion threatened to withhold money or favour ... if I do not have sex with him.
People are quick to blame a woman or her lover for ignorance…
People are quick to blame a woman or her lover for ignorance or poor technique, if female orgasm does not occur. But I have...
Such great work you are doing. You will surely go far. You…
Such great work you are doing. You will surely go far. You are doing wonderful things. Dr Rosalinda
There are fewer females who manipulate the male genitalia than there are…
There are fewer females who manipulate the male genitalia than there are males who manipulate the female genitalia.
As an internal organ, the clitoris has much less significance for a…
As an internal organ, the clitoris has much less significance for a woman than the penis has for a man.
Far from being a disorder, low libido is just the natural state…
Far from being a disorder, low libido is just the natural state of affairs for many women.
The misconception that intercourse is as easily pleasurable for women as it…
The misconception that intercourse is as easily pleasurable for women as it is for men, leads many men to hope for a long-term sex...
Masturbation is the first major source of outlet to disappear from the…
Masturbation is the first major source of outlet to disappear from the (male) histories.
Not only were women tired of the old mechanical pattern of ‘foreplay’,…
Not only were women tired of the old mechanical pattern of ‘foreplay’, penetration, intercourse, and ejaculation, but many found that always having to have...
Any objective assessment of human sexuality must conclude that while sex may…
Any objective assessment of human sexuality must conclude that while sex may be a frivolous form of entertainment for (at least some) men, it...
Jane, your sexuality posts are probably the single most positive influence on…
Jane, your sexuality posts are probably the single most positive influence on all of social media. I'm glad you're here. Jeffrey
More than three-fourths (81 per cent) (of the women) who had never…
More than three-fourths (81 per cent) (of the women) who had never masturbated recognized that they had not done so because they had not...
Women are unfaithful when their current relationship is emotionally unfulfilling or when…
Women are unfaithful when their current relationship is emotionally unfulfilling or when they hope to improve their lifestyle with a more successful man.
Women are turned on by what is done to them, men are…
Women are turned on by what is done to them, men are turned on by what they see.
It is this huge gap between women’s loving emotions and their sexual…
It is this huge gap between women's loving emotions and their sexual arousal that must be difficult for a man to understand. Men have...
With advancing age there is a steady reduction in the amount of…
With advancing age there is a steady reduction in the amount of pre-coital mucus which is, in a part of the population, secreted from...
Men are more responsive because there are many more aspects of sexual…
Men are more responsive because there are many more aspects of sexual activity that trigger their arousal. Women struggle to list any erotic phenomena...
Jane, You are a global ambassador in sex research for both men…
Jane, You are a global ambassador in sex research for both men & women. Abhish
For more than a third (36 per cent) of the masturbating females…
For more than a third (36 per cent) of the masturbating females ..., nothing more than physical stimulation seemed to have been involved. For...
Without the protection of reliable contraception, few women would volunteer for unprotected…
Without the protection of reliable contraception, few women would volunteer for unprotected intercourse.
If a person is not prepared to embrace the needs and genuine…
If a person is not prepared to embrace the needs and genuine desires of their partner, then they shouldn’t get into a relationship. People...
Orgasm involves a release of sexual emotions (through an appreciation of eroticism…
Orgasm involves a release of sexual emotions (through an appreciation of eroticism and explicitly sexual concepts) not romantic emotions. Romance may be an excellent...
The highest recorded median frequency (of morning erections) is 2.05 per week…
The highest recorded median frequency (of morning erections) is 2.05 per week between 31 and 35 years of age. By age 70 the median...
Emotional orgasm is a feeling of love and communion with another human…
Emotional orgasm is a feeling of love and communion with another human being that reaches a peak, a great welling up of intensity of...
Some women describe their experiences in terms of arousal in order to…
Some women describe their experiences in terms of arousal in order to meet male expectations for their sexuality. Equally, some men describe their experiences...
Universally, human males have shown a considerable interest in unusual, rare, and…
Universally, human males have shown a considerable interest in unusual, rare, and sometimes fantastically impossible types of sexual activity.
Women are told that they should enjoy sex. Due to a lack…
Women are told that they should enjoy sex. Due to a lack of confidence in sexual matters, when women don't respond as men want...
Premature ejaculation is the great male fear. The trouble is that coming…
Premature ejaculation is the great male fear. The trouble is that coming too soon is a fact of life.
Unfortunately, female orgasm is not required for reproduction and so vaginal intercourse…
Unfortunately, female orgasm is not required for reproduction and so vaginal intercourse is not designed, either physically or psychologically, to provide a woman with...
The most important biological factors affecting the nature and frequency of sexual…
The most important biological factors affecting the nature and frequency of sexual response in the human animal are the hereditary forces which account for...
Psychologically I like being in control and having power, feeling close to…
Psychologically I like being in control and having power, feeling close to him during his orgasm - giving the most valuable and personal pleasure...
Doesn’t anyone else find it odd (and very convenient!) that modern advice…
Doesn't anyone else find it odd (and very convenient!) that modern advice on female orgasm just so happens to reflect almost exactly how women's...
Thank you for sharing your knowledge and expertize with us. Paul
Thank you for sharing your knowledge and expertize with us. Paul
Masturbation was an activity of very short duration in the histories of…
Masturbation was an activity of very short duration in the histories of some of the females, but it had extended throughout the lives of...
Gender stereotypes are generalisations. Each of us is a unique individual. There…
Gender stereotypes are generalisations. Each of us is a unique individual. There is a range of personality types in both sexes. We don't have...
The way sex is portrayed in the media and in films often…
The way sex is portrayed in the media and in films often provides us with a base of comparison that is not always realistic...
Even well-informed and mature women can believe that they orgasm (when they…
Even well-informed and mature women can believe that they orgasm (when they don't) simply because they do not know what real female orgasms feel...
At the best, abnormal may designate certain individuals whose rates of activity…
At the best, abnormal may designate certain individuals whose rates of activity are less frequent, or whose sources of sexual outlet are not as...
In other words, women really loved the feelings of arousal and being…
In other words, women really loved the feelings of arousal and being together physically with someone.
If every woman is capable of orgasm with a lover, then at…
If every woman is capable of orgasm with a lover, then at least a few should be able to discuss this idyllic phenomenon in...
Your contribution is so incredibly helpful and your posts are educational, helpful…
Your contribution is so incredibly helpful and your posts are educational, helpful and needed! Thanks, Ellie
The effectiveness of such a technique depends chiefly upon … pelvic movements…
The effectiveness of such a technique depends chiefly upon … pelvic movements and rhythmic contractions of the large muscles (the gluteal muscles) in the...
In the presence of women, men can be embarrassed by pornographic images,…
In the presence of women, men can be embarrassed by pornographic images, knowing on some level that most women are offended by this crude...
Major components of women’s sexual satisfaction: trust, intimacy, the ability to be…
Major components of women’s sexual satisfaction: trust, intimacy, the ability to be vulnerable, respect, communication, affection, and pleasure from sensual touching
The overwhelming reaction I have had when asking experts about lack of…
The overwhelming reaction I have had when asking experts about lack of orgasm is that I am expecting too much. Essentially, if you can...
Among most boys, the physical changes of adolescence come on more or…
Among most boys, the physical changes of adolescence come on more or less abruptly, usually between the ages of 11 and 14, and in...
If you want a good orgasm, you can masturbate. The whole reason…
If you want a good orgasm, you can masturbate. The whole reason you make love with someone is to share the closeness and warmth...
A woman may believe that she has orgasms with her lover. But…
A woman may believe that she has orgasms with her lover. But if she is unwilling to have the same experience with an attractive...
You gone sexy girl! Very useful information for less sexy women like…
You gone sexy girl! Very useful information for less sexy women like me. Vauldine
To most males the desire for variety in sexual activity seems as…
To most males the desire for variety in sexual activity seems as reasonable as the desire for variety in ... the friends with whom...
It is nonsensical to suggest that researchers can discover something by talking…
It is nonsensical to suggest that researchers can discover something by talking to a small sample that millions of couples have not discovered over...