Men obtain sexual relief as well as significant erotic and emotional pleasure…
Men obtain sexual relief as well as significant erotic and emotional pleasure from penetrative sex (intercourse) and other activities with a lover. However, women...
When you have an orgasm the pelvic floor muscles always contract. If…
When you have an orgasm the pelvic floor muscles always contract. If that does not happen you are not having an orgasm.
Many women see sex as an emotional and loving experience. Either they…
Many women see sex as an emotional and loving experience. Either they have no expectation for orgasm or they assume that their loving emotions...
It is a mistake to assume that a sophistication of technique would…
It is a mistake to assume that a sophistication of technique would be equally significant to all persons. For most of the population, the...
98 percent of the women … said they would like more verbal…
98 percent of the women … said they would like more verbal closeness with the men they love; they want the men in their...
Orgasm occurs in the brain. It is not just a question of…
Orgasm occurs in the brain. It is not just a question of physical stimulation. Some form of fantasy is needed.
… Jane’s website is genuinely trying to help women with honest information…
... Jane's website is genuinely trying to help women with honest information ... AND it helps men too. If they want a better perspective....
There are probably very few heterosexual males who would not take advantage…
There are probably very few heterosexual males who would not take advantage of the opportunity to observe a nude female, or to observe heterosexual...
Sexuality is about enjoying sexual pleasure with a lover. We experience sensual,…
Sexuality is about enjoying sexual pleasure with a lover. We experience sensual, emotional and erotic pleasure.
Orgasms are natural, but intercourse is not, for many of us, the…
Orgasms are natural, but intercourse is not, for many of us, the easiest way to have them.
If sex provides men and women with equal pleasure, why do women…
If sex provides men and women with equal pleasure, why do women so often want to obtain a financial advantage from their sexual relationships...
Most of the female masturbatory techniques are labial, or more often, clitoral….
Most of the female masturbatory techniques are labial, or more often, clitoral. A high proportion of the female homosexual relations similarly depend upon stimulation...
Yes, I like intercourse. I like men, their bodies, and pleasing them.
Yes, I like intercourse. I like men, their bodies, and pleasing them.
Women mistakenly assume that emotional stimuli (such as the sound of a…
Women mistakenly assume that emotional stimuli (such as the sound of a lover's voice, kissing or caressing) cause arousal. But mental arousal depends on...
The testes may seem to hurt when there is unrelieved erotic arousal…
The testes may seem to hurt when there is unrelieved erotic arousal ... Such aches are usually relieved in orgasm because the muscular tensions...
One of the most confusing things about how female sexuality is portrayed…
One of the most confusing things about how female sexuality is portrayed in erotic fiction, is the implication that women achieve orgasm by stimulating...
Approximately 30 percent of women don’t have sexual fantasies. For some, it’s…
Approximately 30 percent of women don’t have sexual fantasies. For some, it’s a vestige of the old notion that fantasy is something only men...
It is easy for a woman to pleasure a man and the…
It is easy for a woman to pleasure a man and the fantasy leads us to assume that it ought to work the other...
Among less restrained couples deep kissing is a simultaneous accompaniment of actual…
Among less restrained couples deep kissing is a simultaneous accompaniment of actual coitus, especially at the moment of orgasm.
… there was no correlation with frequency of orgasm: women who did…
… there was no correlation with frequency of orgasm: women who did not orgasm with their partner were just as likely to say they...
Some women get an ego boost from exhibiting their sexuality. In an…
Some women get an ego boost from exhibiting their sexuality. In an attempt to be more convincing, they try to justify their orgasms (which...
Your work matches my lifelong hunches, borne out by my imperfect observation….
Your work matches my lifelong hunches, borne out by my imperfect observation. Your level-headed delivery comes off as helpfully trustworthy & authoritative. Pawel
Many females consider that male genitalia are ugly and repulsive in appearance…
Many females consider that male genitalia are ugly and repulsive in appearance … there seems no doubt that these reactions largely depend upon the...
Pornography provides boys with completely unrealistic images of women’s sexuality. … This…
Pornography provides boys with completely unrealistic images of women's sexuality. ... This issue needs to be addressed by sex educators if boys are to...
In fact, since only about 30 percent of women achieve orgasm with…
In fact, since only about 30 percent of women achieve orgasm with intercourse but over 80 percent experience a climax with masturbation, orgasm by...
Yet many women are shocked by eroticism (whether visual or verbal pornography,…
Yet many women are shocked by eroticism (whether visual or verbal pornography, erotica or the concept of sexual fantasy) and equally shocked by the...
… the restraint of the wife constantly lowers the frequencies (of intercourse)…
... the restraint of the wife constantly lowers the frequencies (of intercourse) in all segments of the population, but chiefly among better educated groups.
Lesbian sex is very different from sex with men. It is not…
Lesbian sex is very different from sex with men. It is not an 'exchange' or a 'trade' ..., it is not something done to...
A woman does not masturbate by replicating the sensations of vaginal penetration…
A woman does not masturbate by replicating the sensations of vaginal penetration (assuming that she is aiming for orgasm). Women orgasm alone by massaging...
Often our struggles with intimacy are problematic as neither side is open…
Often our struggles with intimacy are problematic as neither side is open to discussing it. Jean Claude
… whenever physical contacts or psychologic stimuli had led to orgasm, there…
... whenever physical contacts or psychologic stimuli had led to orgasm, there was rarely any doubt of the sexual nature of the situation, ......
Sexuality is about a sexual relationship, which includes social, emotional and sexual…
Sexuality is about a sexual relationship, which includes social, emotional and sexual aspects. Long-term committed relationships are vital to supporting families over the decades...
Women’s motivation (or willingness) to have a sexual experience stems from a…
Women’s motivation (or willingness) to have a sexual experience stems from a number of ‘rewards’ or ‘gains’ that are not strictly sexual, these rewards...
Knowledge does not force a person to make certain choices – it…
Knowledge does not force a person to make certain choices - it gives them a choice.
There are quite a few individuals, especially of the grade school and…
There are quite a few individuals, especially of the grade school and high school levels, who find more interest in the pursuit and conquest,...
To consider all non-reproductive sexual contact ‘an error of nature’ is a…
To consider all non-reproductive sexual contact 'an error of nature' is a very narrow view.
No one consciously chooses what concepts, body parts or objects cause their…
No one consciously chooses what concepts, body parts or objects cause their arousal. Mental arousal occurs subconsciously or not at all. This aspect of...
You can always count on me, because as a woman I feel…
You can always count on me, because as a woman I feel you're bringing change which is highly needed. Soonitee
It is the constant complaint of married females that their husbands are…
It is the constant complaint of married females that their husbands are … primarily concerned with genital stimulation … It is the constant complaint...
By contrast women, including lesbians, enjoy more sensual whole-body and emotional pleasures…
By contrast women, including lesbians, enjoy more sensual whole-body and emotional pleasures with a lover because of their lack of arousal.
We have lots of expectations about how relationships are ‘supposed’ to look….
We have lots of expectations about how relationships are ‘supposed’ to look. Many times, this fairy-tale model doesn’t mimic our lives or our realities.
Some women appear to be so sheltered from the world of adult…
Some women appear to be so sheltered from the world of adult eroticism that one wonders if they have ever experienced sexual urges of...
Sometimes the dreamer is a participant in the activities, and sometimes the…
Sometimes the dreamer is a participant in the activities, and sometimes the dreamer does not participate but merely observes.
My feeling is that I would consider sucking a cock with a…
My feeling is that I would consider sucking a cock with a loaded gun at my head. No other way.
What strikes me as odd is that the only evidence men seek…
What strikes me as odd is that the only evidence men seek of female responsiveness is that women should be enthusiastic about intercourse. Surely...
It’s important work that your doing, both for women and for those…
It's important work that your doing, both for women and for those people who love them, myself included. Dave
Most males are likely to approach females as they, the males, would…
Most males are likely to approach females as they, the males, would like to be approached by a sexual partner. They are likely to...
Regardless of orientation, men orgasm through intercourse, masturbation and fellatio. A man’s…
Regardless of orientation, men orgasm through intercourse, masturbation and fellatio. A man's arousal (in the form of an erection) also gives him a clear...
There are a lot of people out there pretending to be sex…
There are a lot of people out there pretending to be sex experts. Everyone seems to think they are an expert.
Rather like climbing up the steps of a slide in order to…
Rather like climbing up the steps of a slide in order to enjoy slipping down the other side, it seems unlikely that even women...
Over 99 per cent of the males who go to college have…
Over 99 per cent of the males who go to college have nocturnal emissions at some time in their lives, but only 85 per...
Staggeringly uniformed. The more confident they (men) are of their sexual prowess…
Staggeringly uniformed. The more confident they (men) are of their sexual prowess and the effectiveness of their techniques, the more ignorant they seem to...
Male and female masturbation techniques are similar in that men and women…
Male and female masturbation techniques are similar in that men and women massage the body of the phallus, which contains the corpora cavernosa. The...
Wow!!!! You are amazing! On target and right to the point!!! People…
Wow!!!! You are amazing! On target and right to the point!!! People struggle and they don't know where to turn for help. This is...
The physical contacts between females in the homosexual relations had often depended…
The physical contacts between females in the homosexual relations had often depended on little more than simple lip kissing and generalised body contacts.
The issue of female orgasm with a lover is at the core…
The issue of female orgasm with a lover is at the core of sexual politics. Men want to feel valued as lovers. Women want...
Considering the number of women who have sex regularly, the number of…
Considering the number of women who have sex regularly, the number of orgasms they report having is shockingly low.
It is really quite disturbing that young women today are so unaware…
It is really quite disturbing that young women today are so unaware of the facts about male sex drive. Every man knows that past...
There are males who never masturbate. There are a few males who…
There are males who never masturbate. There are a few males who masturbate only one or twice in their lives; and there are others...
Sex is intimate physical activity for pleasure, to share pleasure with another…
Sex is intimate physical activity for pleasure, to share pleasure with another person (or just alone).
No boy reaches puberty and consciously decides to be aroused by girls….
No boy reaches puberty and consciously decides to be aroused by girls. It just happens. If it doesn't, he may have a very low...
Thanks Jane, I appreciate learning the facts even though they seem somehow…
Thanks Jane, I appreciate learning the facts even though they seem somehow harsh to swallow. Hugs Jose
In the sample of single females, a high proportion (51%) of those…
In the sample of single females, a high proportion (51%) of those who had had any homosexual experience had had it with only a...
Confusingly, for men, the women who are shouting loudest about female orgasm…
Confusingly, for men, the women who are shouting loudest about female orgasm are the ones who have no idea how it is achieved. But...
Just as a man forgets feelings, a woman forgets her sensual desires…
Just as a man forgets feelings, a woman forgets her sensual desires and longings. The practicalities of day-to-day survival and living take precedence over...
Even if a woman wanted to be honest, she still has the…
Even if a woman wanted to be honest, she still has the problem of how to respond during sex. Men want a partner to...
When she fails to be interested in sexual relations with her husband,…
When she fails to be interested in sexual relations with her husband, when she is less interested than he is, when she refuses to...
My greatest displeasure is feeling myself to be simply a substitute for…
My greatest displeasure is feeling myself to be simply a substitute for his hand, a dish of mashed potatoes, or any warm place he...
Some women mislead men into believing that they are satisfied either to…
Some women mislead men into believing that they are satisfied either to end sex sooner or to satisfy a man's need to feel that...
Your fact based researches & deep knowledge about human sexuality has been…
Your fact based researches & deep knowledge about human sexuality has been of genuine benefit to many folks, which luckily I happened to be...
… between 36 and 44 per cent of the females …had responded…
... between 36 and 44 per cent of the females ...had responded to orgasm in a part ... of their coitus in marriage. About...
Sexuality is about talking, observing or interacting with others in return for…
Sexuality is about talking, observing or interacting with others in return for payment or other non-relationship rewards. Depending on our personality we may employ...
How to satisfy a woman every time: Caress, praise, pamper,… die for,…
How to satisfy a woman every time: Caress, praise, pamper,… die for, dream of, tease, gratify, squeeze, indulge, idolise, worship. How to satisfy a...
Ultimately the aim is for Ways Women Orgasm to facilitate an open…
Ultimately the aim is for Ways Women Orgasm to facilitate an open and constructive dialogue, covering questions or experiences from women and their partners,...
In general, the sexual patterns of the younger generation are so nearly…
In general, the sexual patterns of the younger generation are so nearly identical with the sexual patterns of the older generations in regard to...
Vaginal lubrication is assumed to be another key indicator of female sexual…
Vaginal lubrication is assumed to be another key indicator of female sexual arousal but this response facilitates intercourse (and therefore reproduction). In no way...
Your articles are always very informative and interesting. Thank you for your…
Your articles are always very informative and interesting. Thank you for your posts. Heather
It is difficult for most males to comprehend that females are not…
It is difficult for most males to comprehend that females are not aroused by seeing male genitalia. Some males never come to comprehend this.
Sexuality is about appreciating what causes us to become aroused and learning…
Sexuality is about appreciating what causes us to become aroused and learning how we can achieve orgasm both alone and with a lover.
Research has shown that orgasms are also not widely considered to be…
Research has shown that orgasms are also not widely considered to be the most important aspect of sexual experience.
Very few virgins approach sex realising that a woman might need to…
Very few virgins approach sex realising that a woman might need to exaggerate her true sexual arousal during sex. Women learn over time to...
… impotence is in actuality a relatively rare phenomenon.
... impotence is in actuality a relatively rare phenomenon.
… the different position and the closeness of the partner prevent a…
… the different position and the closeness of the partner prevent a successful masturbating technique.
A man can be aroused by erotic stimuli throughout the day. So…
A man can be aroused by erotic stimuli throughout the day. So by the time he gets an opportunity for sexual activity (even masturbation),...
Sex Education should be mandatory across the world. Especially in countries like…
Sex Education should be mandatory across the world. Especially in countries like India. Shikha
There were wives and husbands in the older generation who did not…
There were wives and husbands in the older generation who did not even know that orgasm was possible for a female.
If any form of clitoral stimulation (oral or manual) were to cause…
If any form of clitoral stimulation (oral or manual) were to cause female orgasm with a lover, women would have no reason to accept...