Silence is a way of avoiding conflict but, by repressing resentments, partners…
Silence is a way of avoiding conflict but, by repressing resentments, partners accumulate charged emotions, which makes it even more difficult to discuss sexual...
… men come to the sexual experience with only his porno-sex-ed and…
… men come to the sexual experience with only his porno-sex-ed and general socialization – ergo pleasing a woman means: 1) A big penis...
I have no agenda. I am not trying to make money out…
I have no agenda. I am not trying to make money out of anyone. I am simply trying to establish some facts and provide...
The length of time over which erection can be maintained during continuous…
The length of time over which erection can be maintained during continuous erotic arousal and before there is an ejaculation, drops from an average...
Sex in our society is an extremely important way of being close…
Sex in our society is an extremely important way of being close - almost the only way we can be really physically or even...
The political advantages for women, who support or condone the male view…
The political advantages for women, who support or condone the male view of female sexuality, are huge. A woman has nothing to gain by...
Hi, thank you so much for the reading materials. I’m a life…
Hi, thank you so much for the reading materials. I'm a life long learner, and learning new ways to satisfy my partner is very...
Coordinated with the gluteal contractions, there may be movements of the adductor…
Coordinated with the gluteal contractions, there may be movements of the adductor and/or abductor muscles in the upper portions of the legs.
What we call sexual dysfunction today is really just a mismatch between…
What we call sexual dysfunction today is really just a mismatch between expectation and reality.
The more you fantasise, the higher your libido… it’s pretty well established…
The more you fantasise, the higher your libido… it’s pretty well established that the more you think about sex, the more you want it....
One great aspect of men growing older is that they become slightly…
One great aspect of men growing older is that they become slightly less obsessed with their own sexual arousal and need for sexual release.
The heterosexual male finds a regular outlet if he locates a single…
The heterosexual male finds a regular outlet if he locates a single female who is acceptable as a wife in marriage. The homosexual male...
Sex is a form of communication without words based on bodily responses,…
Sex is a form of communication without words based on bodily responses, and is the ultimate in human closeness where a person can express...
We rarely acknowledge the emotional and political forces that influence the acceptance…
We rarely acknowledge the emotional and political forces that influence the acceptance of scientific work. The truth is that some research findings are much...
I thought I knew a lot about women and sex. You’ve showed…
I thought I knew a lot about women and sex. You've showed me that I know nothing. Woodshop
Whether or not she herself reaches orgasm, many a female finds satisfaction…
Whether or not she herself reaches orgasm, many a female finds satisfaction in knowing that her husband or other sexual partner has enjoyed the...
The problem with visual media is that we don’t know what is…
The problem with visual media is that we don't know what is happening inside a person's head. This is confusing for anyone watching because...
Your partner’s not there to service you, it’s not their job to…
Your partner’s not there to service you, it’s not their job to keep you sexually satisfied. You’re together because you love each other and...
From early on, the sensitive female lover learns how to pleasure a…
From early on, the sensitive female lover learns how to pleasure a man, co-operating quite instinctively during intercourse by moving with the man's rhythm....
… for a not inconsiderable number of males the climax may be…
... for a not inconsiderable number of males the climax may be reached within less than a minute or even within ten or twenty...
Why do women so habitually satisfy men’s needs during sex and ignore…
Why do women so habitually satisfy men's needs during sex and ignore their own? The fact is that the role of women in sex,...
We have appallingly bad sex information today because those who are reassured…
We have appallingly bad sex information today because those who are reassured by mysticism far outnumber those swayed by any facts or logic. You...
I wish more women were outspoken like you! I’ve read some of…
I wish more women were outspoken like you! I've read some of your articles, you are a big turn on! Kevin
… the surface of the cervix is the most completely insensitive part…
... the surface of the cervix is the most completely insensitive part of the female genital anatomy.
How would heterosexual men like to live in a world filled with…
How would heterosexual men like to live in a world filled with men looking for opportunities to penetrate their orifices regardless of their amenability?
Few of us reach orgasm without fantasy, so let your imagination go…
Few of us reach orgasm without fantasy, so let your imagination go wild!… Don’t get hung up about your fantasy; it doesn’t mean you’re...
So although men want sex intensely they also benefit from the emotional…
So although men want sex intensely they also benefit from the emotional intimacy or affectionate companionship that women provide through family, friends and the...
One is inclined to suspect that the amazement of the older generation…
One is inclined to suspect that the amazement of the older generation at the present-day behavior is dependent, at least in part, upon the...
Once my heart had an orgasm when she was hugging me and…
Once my heart had an orgasm when she was hugging me and looking at me and saying how she loved me.
The techniques that I used alone were not compatible with sexual activity…
The techniques that I used alone were not compatible with sexual activity with a lover. Not only was it impossible to achieve the mental...
I enjoy reading your articles and perspectives, Jane. It provides good material…
I enjoy reading your articles and perspectives, Jane. It provides good material to think and reflect on, and I agree that you need to...
This insensitivity of the vagina has been recognized by gynaecologists who regularly…
This insensitivity of the vagina has been recognized by gynaecologists who regularly probe and do surface operations in this area without using anaesthesia.
There is never a point at which women can no longer engage…
There is never a point at which women can no longer engage in sexual activity. This is clear evidence that women do not orgasm...
The truth is that, just as women have spent centuries being selected…
The truth is that, just as women have spent centuries being selected by men for their desirability as sex objects. Women have been evaluating...
Men need to acknowledge that their sex drive works like an on-off…
Men need to acknowledge that their sex drive works like an on-off switch. An ideal male lover should re-think his approach to sex and...
Society is also interested in maintaining families as a means of providing…
Society is also interested in maintaining families as a means of providing a regular sexual outlet for adults, and as a means of controlling...
Technically, women together do what male and female together do – touch…
Technically, women together do what male and female together do - touch and kiss and caress one another, except there's no penis. (And I've...
The woman-on-the-street is never invited to comment on (let alone provide convincing…
The woman-on-the-street is never invited to comment on (let alone provide convincing evidence in support of) modern theories in sexology. Women are more or...
I don’t know why people are so scared to speak with others…
I don't know why people are so scared to speak with others about their sexuality but we'll keep spreading the message! Definitely a pleasure...
The opening of the urethra of the male (the meatus) is normally…
The opening of the urethra of the male (the meatus) is normally on the tip of the head of the penis; in the female...
Orgasm, when it is our objective, defines the end of the activity…
Orgasm, when it is our objective, defines the end of the activity that was focused on achieving it. Stimulation stops for a variety of...
What would truly be revolutionary for women’s sex lives is to engage…
What would truly be revolutionary for women’s sex lives is to engage with what research has found all along: the best predictors of sexual...
Sex is a gift that a woman offers to a man she…
Sex is a gift that a woman offers to a man she loves. She offers her body for his pleasure without necessarily hoping for...
Marital intercourse is the one type of sexual activity which is approved…
Marital intercourse is the one type of sexual activity which is approved by our Anglo-American mores and legal codes.
I like it when he comes in my mouth. I like the…
I like it when he comes in my mouth. I like the taste of semen and think the protein does me good.
As they age, even men can appreciate savouring sexual opportunities. They see…
As they age, even men can appreciate savouring sexual opportunities. They see the advantage in delaying orgasm to enjoy their own arousal. In other...
I’ve enjoyed following Jane’s blog spot immensely! Her point of view is…
I've enjoyed following Jane's blog spot immensely! Her point of view is quite challenging and has expanded my horizons of how I see sexuality....
The shaft of the clitoris may average something over an inch in…
The shaft of the clitoris may average something over an inch in length. It has a diameter which is less than that of a...
We are motivated to masturbate because we feel a sense of excitement…
We are motivated to masturbate because we feel a sense of excitement in our minds when thinking about an erotic scenario.
… it’s time to talk about what most men could initiate more…
… it’s time to talk about what most men could initiate more of, and that is non-sexual intimacy… It involves any kind of intimacy...
There seems to be a surprising amount of resistance to asking women…
There seems to be a surprising amount of resistance to asking women to account for their sexual experiences. I simply want to get a...
There are … a large number of the wives who remain uninterested…
There are ... a large number of the wives who remain uninterested in intercourse through the years of their marriage...
Sometimes I like fellatio although I’m not wild about swallowing semen…
Sometimes I like fellatio although I'm not wild about swallowing semen...
I learned early on (as well as from erotic fiction) that a…
I learned early on (as well as from erotic fiction) that a man appreciates some erotic feedback. A man enjoys a lover who moves...
Greetings ! I always appreciate what you write and teach. You are…
Greetings ! I always appreciate what you write and teach. You are honest and always trying to show us the truth and the facts....
One of the most striking aspects of a sexual performance is the…
One of the most striking aspects of a sexual performance is the development of neuromuscular tensions throughout the body … There may be occasional...
A woman knows that she is nowhere near being aroused by either…
A woman knows that she is nowhere near being aroused by either the prospect or the reality of intercourse. The fact that a man...
For most women orgasm does not have this central role in life….
For most women orgasm does not have this central role in life. And if it does, it tends to be for a small part...
It’s a real positive that men slow down a bit as they…
It's a real positive that men slow down a bit as they grow older (post 35) - older men stand to make better lovers!...
We find that about 69 per cent of the total white male…
We find that about 69 per cent of the total white male population ultimately has some experience with prostitutes. Many of these males, however,...
If women find cunnilingus so enjoyable, why doesn’t it lead to orgasm…
If women find cunnilingus so enjoyable, why doesn't it lead to orgasm more frequently? Once again, many women were held back by feelings of...
The taboo involved in talking about sex means that most people prefer…
The taboo involved in talking about sex means that most people prefer to say nothing. Political correctness prevents sexologists from questioning and challenging in...
I love what you do. I’m glad there are people like you…
I love what you do. I'm glad there are people like you in the world. 🙂 Dao
Many males are disappointed after marriage to find that their wives are…
Many males are disappointed after marriage to find that their wives are not responding regularly and are not as interested in having as frequent...
The problem with honesty over sex is that a man needs to…
The problem with honesty over sex is that a man needs to be aroused by and to feel accepted in his sexual relationship. He...
One thing that all words about sex have in common, the four-letter…
One thing that all words about sex have in common, the four-letter words, medical words and euphemisms, is that they include the idea of...
Women who did claim to orgasm with a partner avoided questions by…
Women who did claim to orgasm with a partner avoided questions by implying that anyone who doubted the mutual pleasure of sex must be...
In the human male, masturbatory techniques are largely manual. … Most males…
In the human male, masturbatory techniques are largely manual. … Most males carry the activity though to climax as rapidly as is possible, which...
The light touch is better than the gorilla approach.
The light touch is better than the gorilla approach.
Orgasm defines the limit of men’s ability to engage in sexual activity….
Orgasm defines the limit of men's ability to engage in sexual activity. Women's sexuality is admired because it does not have this limitation.
We don’t have to like everything you say to begin to appreciate…
We don't have to like everything you say to begin to appreciate its power and wisdom. Sometimes our education and the truth are just...
Condemnations of homosexual as well as some other types of sexual activity…
Condemnations of homosexual as well as some other types of sexual activity are based on the argument that they do not serve the prime...
But it takes a man and a woman to create a new…
But it takes a man and a woman to create a new life. Why are men not concerned about their own progeny? Why is...
Shocking though the statistics are, many women have found it secretly comforting…
Shocking though the statistics are, many women have found it secretly comforting to discover they are not the only ones who experience this enormous...
After puberty, men’s sexual reaction to nudity is so strong that they…
After puberty, men's sexual reaction to nudity is so strong that they have new associations with genitals. For women, the connection with going to...
The care and circumlocution with which certain matters of sex are avoided…
The care and circumlocution with which certain matters of sex are avoided in books, in the press, and in other public communications, constantly remind...
Sex is important because when there is a feeling of understanding and…
Sex is important because when there is a feeling of understanding and appreciation between two people – sex can make life together something special....
The basic male sexual function is instinctive. It is satisfied relatively easily…
The basic male sexual function is instinctive. It is satisfied relatively easily by intercourse.
I appreciate alot and learning is a continuous process. I love the…
I appreciate alot and learning is a continuous process. I love the insights you give! Elijah
It should be emphasized, however, that a high proportion of the unmarried…
It should be emphasized, however, that a high proportion of the unmarried females who live together never have contacts which are in any sense...
But by looking at Nature we can see that mating is an…
But by looking at Nature we can see that mating is an act of male assault. By depositing his sperm in a woman's body,...
Sexual double standards that favour pleasuring men continue to prevail. But I…
Sexual double standards that favour pleasuring men continue to prevail. But I also believe women often think they are having an orgasm when in...
When a man is stimulated sexually by a partner he finds it…
When a man is stimulated sexually by a partner he finds it difficult to avoid becoming aroused. Similarly, if a woman's response to penile...
… many of our present day attitudes on sex are matters which…
... many of our present day attitudes on sex are matters which were settled in the religious philosophy of the authors of the Old...
If women know how to have orgasms, why don’t they use this…
If women know how to have orgasms, why don’t they use this knowledge during sex with men?
Why is sexual pleasure taboo? Probably because of the associated exploitation (of…
Why is sexual pleasure taboo? Probably because of the associated exploitation (of women by men) and deceit (perpetrated by women on men). Few...
You are doing an excellent great job, proving your point re your…
You are doing an excellent great job, proving your point re your field of expertise! Congratulations and more power to you! Zoncita
In actuality, sexual contacts between individuals of the same sex are known…
In actuality, sexual contacts between individuals of the same sex are known to occur in practically every species of mammal which has been extensively...
Consent is not about responsiveness or even mutual pleasure. Women are not…
Consent is not about responsiveness or even mutual pleasure. Women are not aroused by sexual activity with a lover at any age. But by...