I’ve had a few orgasms – (um) I can count only one…
I've had a few orgasms - (um) I can count only one or two total in all my life with approximately fifteen lovers to...
Men’s politics is characterised by violent action and women’s by manipulative silence….
Men's politics is characterised by violent action and women's by manipulative silence. But silence proves nothing.
Your work is really essential and important. I’m your long term supporter….
Your work is really essential and important. I'm your long term supporter. Keep in touch ok and stay blessed. Irfan
The incidences and frequencies of marital coitus had reached their maxima in…
The incidences and frequencies of marital coitus had reached their maxima in the first year or two of marriage. From that point, they had...
Marriage involves a man agreeing to limit his sexual opportunities elsewhere in…
Marriage involves a man agreeing to limit his sexual opportunities elsewhere in exchange for regular sex with his wife.
For married women today it’s difficult to square our expectations of sexual…
For married women today it’s difficult to square our expectations of sexual fulfilment with the realities of long-term relationships.
In fact the link between clitoral stimulation and female orgasm comes NOT…
In fact the link between clitoral stimulation and female orgasm comes NOT from women's experience of sex BUT from female masturbation.
Concepts of sexual perversion depend in part on this same reproductive interpretation…
Concepts of sexual perversion depend in part on this same reproductive interpretation of sex.
Freud was the founding father of vaginal orgasm. He theorized that the…
Freud was the founding father of vaginal orgasm. He theorized that the clitoral orgasm (orgasm caused by clitoral stimulation) was adolescent and that, upon...
An organ such as the vagina, which is essentially a cavity, could…
An organ such as the vagina, which is essentially a cavity, could never be a sex organ. ... Even the proposal that there is...
I’ve been following Jane for years. I can highly recommend her work….
I've been following Jane for years. I can highly recommend her work. Apparently she is not allowed to share her work everywhere ... Lars
Many females manipulate the male genitalia only at the request of the…
Many females manipulate the male genitalia only at the request of the male ...
The clitoris becomes tumescent (swollen) but it does not become erect (rigid)…
The clitoris becomes tumescent (swollen) but it does not become erect (rigid) as the penis does.
Women who do not appreciate the validity of the motivational forces and…
Women who do not appreciate the validity of the motivational forces and who search in vain for spontaneous desire – which may resemble their...
Sexual arousal is a mental state that arises when the mind responds…
Sexual arousal is a mental state that arises when the mind responds to PSYCHOLOGICAL stimuli (of an erotic or sexual nature). Sexual arousal is...
Considerable psychiatric therapy can be wasted on persons (especially females) who are…
Considerable psychiatric therapy can be wasted on persons (especially females) who are misjudged to be cases of repression when, in actuality, at least some...
As Ann Koedt put it, in ‘The myth of the vaginal orgasm’:…
As Ann Koedt put it, in ‘The myth of the vaginal orgasm’: Perhaps one of the most infuriating and damaging result of this whole...
We often hear sex educators blaming men for ignoring women’s presumed sexual…
We often hear sex educators blaming men for ignoring women's presumed sexual needs. But why are women so incapable of obtaining their own sexual...
I am sure a lot of people read your articles with interest…
I am sure a lot of people read your articles with interest even though they are too shy to comment. You just keep on...
Many of the (women’s) heterosexual dreams had an indefinitely affectionate or generally…
Many of the (women's) heterosexual dreams had an indefinitely affectionate or generally social content which did not include overtly physical contacts. While such dreams...
The clitoris is largely an internal organ. Only the tiny glans (or…
The clitoris is largely an internal organ. Only the tiny glans (or bud) is visible externally.
In many ways female sexuality is still mysterious.
In many ways female sexuality is still mysterious.
Most women are not aiming for orgasm through genital stimulation so they…
Most women are not aiming for orgasm through genital stimulation so they interpret sexual relationships as 'love-making'.
… the female is generally less responsive than the male erotically, and…
… the female is generally less responsive than the male erotically, and for that reason … less often takes the initiative in any sex...
I have been married to one partner for over twenty-sex years, and…
I have been married to one partner for over twenty-sex years, and it's been very satisfying. I have only one wish: for vaginal orgasm...
Men obsess about female orgasm because it is elusive in reality. Pornography…
Men obsess about female orgasm because it is elusive in reality. Pornography exaggerates female responsiveness to provide turn-ons that assist with male orgasm. After...
Very interesting, intriguing, challenging, etc. field of study to undertake. You are…
Very interesting, intriguing, challenging, etc. field of study to undertake. You are handling it very intelligently. Congratulations and wish you all the best! Warm...
… it is probable that few males would marry if they did…
… it is probable that few males would marry if they did not anticipate that they would have an opportunity to have coitus regularly...
Unlike a man, a woman has separate anatomy for urination (the urethra),…
Unlike a man, a woman has separate anatomy for urination (the urethra), reproduction (the vagina) and orgasm (the clitoris). These three functions are all...
It’s important to see three points: (1) change is possible; (2) it…
It’s important to see three points: (1) change is possible; (2) it isn’t his fault that he is the way he is; and (3)...
Through masturbation boys learn how to use genital stimulation to bring a…
Through masturbation boys learn how to use genital stimulation to bring a psychological state of sexual arousal to orgasm. Yet, against all logic, it...
Having reached its peak in adolescence, sexual activity in the male drops…
Having reached its peak in adolescence, sexual activity in the male drops steadily from then into old age.
To tell you the truth, I’m really not sure. I have read…
To tell you the truth, I'm really not sure. I have read so many descriptions ... of what an orgasm is ... I used...
Women evidently enjoy sensual and intimate activity, through masturbation and with another…
Women evidently enjoy sensual and intimate activity, through masturbation and with another woman, without any need for vaginal penetration.
Thank you for your thoughtful, informative view of sexuality. It has given…
Thank you for your thoughtful, informative view of sexuality. It has given me perspective and helped remove a few 'urban legends' some of us...
… females who had used fingers or other objects in vaginal penetrations…
... females who had used fingers or other objects in vaginal penetrations did so ... because they wanted to entertain their male partners who...
The sensations that accompany orgasm vary considerably depending on the physical and…
The sensations that accompany orgasm vary considerably depending on the physical and psychological (erotic or emotional) circumstances that give rise to orgasm.
When it comes to women’s priorities, why, once in a secure relationship,…
When it comes to women’s priorities, why, once in a secure relationship, is sex no longer on top?
Unfortunately the vagina (as part of the birth canal) has very few…
Unfortunately the vagina (as part of the birth canal) has very few nerve endings. Only the clitoris, the female sex organ and source of...
For most males, whether single or married, there are ever-present erotic stimuli,…
For most males, whether single or married, there are ever-present erotic stimuli, and sexual response is regular and high.
… it is the emotional warmth shared at this time, and the…
... it is the emotional warmth shared at this time, and the feeling of being wanted and needed (not the plain physical act) which...
No one thinks it an odd coincidence that male fantasies should define…
No one thinks it an odd coincidence that male fantasies should define the reality of female responsiveness so precisely. Yet the basis for so-called...
Thank you so much Jane. You deserve immense love from my side…
Thank you so much Jane. You deserve immense love from my side for being such an excellent writer. It is a privilege for me...
Many males, however, basing their concepts on their understanding of coitus and…
Many males, however, basing their concepts on their understanding of coitus and upon their conceit as to the importance of the male genitalia in...
Intercourse is an activity that facilitates male ejaculation of semen. The sperm…
Intercourse is an activity that facilitates male ejaculation of semen. The sperm (from the testes) pass from the penis (via the vagina) into...
Surveys have revealed that 75% of men ejaculate within 2 minutes of…
Surveys have revealed that 75% of men ejaculate within 2 minutes of penetration.
Women are told that orgasm occurs easily and naturally during sex so…
Women are told that orgasm occurs easily and naturally during sex so many believe that they orgasm when, in fact, they don't.
There is an inclination among psychiatrists to consider all unresponding individuals as…
There is an inclination among psychiatrists to consider all unresponding individuals as inhibited ... This amounts to asserting that all people are more or...
I wish I could have the same type of orgasm I have…
I wish I could have the same type of orgasm I have during masturbation when I have intercourse with my husband.
Female orgasm is promoted as if it is a relationship accessory. But…
Female orgasm is promoted as if it is a relationship accessory. But orgasm is a highly specific genital response that arises because we ourselves...
I thought the few great books I read on the subject you…
I thought the few great books I read on the subject you engage with are enough but reading yours showed me how naive I...
The minimum use of deep penetrations of the vagina in masturbation is…
The minimum use of deep penetrations of the vagina in masturbation is a reflection of the fact that the walls of the vagina itself...
Sexuality is about appreciating the human body and sexual anatomy. … It…
Sexuality is about appreciating the human body and sexual anatomy. ... It is also useful to know what kind of stimulation may be pleasurable...
While women read romantic novels, men read pornography. While romance packages sex…
While women read romantic novels, men read pornography. While romance packages sex with love, fidelity and marriage, pornography packages sex with violence, possession and...
The degree to which we are able to enjoy our sexuality depends…
The degree to which we are able to enjoy our sexuality depends on the balance between our desire to enjoy sexual pleasure and our...
The possibility of any individual engaging in sexual activity at a rate…
The possibility of any individual engaging in sexual activity at a rate that is remarkably different from one's own, is one of the most...
The greatest thing is the security I feel when I’m in bed…
The greatest thing is the security I feel when I'm in bed with a man. I feel loved and wanted and powerful.
Sometimes it is suggested that a woman stimulates herself once the man…
Sometimes it is suggested that a woman stimulates herself once the man has come. This illustrates the inherent contradiction between the stimulation provided by...
Thank you for sharing with us what you have learned and studied…
Thank you for sharing with us what you have learned and studied and more than happy to keep sharing, we need to open our...
The active incidences of masturbation were lowest in the younger groups, and…
The active incidences of masturbation were lowest in the younger groups, and highest in the older groups of females.
Abortion is an issue connected with the freedom women now share with…
Abortion is an issue connected with the freedom women now share with men to be sexually active without the need for a supportive relationship...
Most guys feel like they are always the initiator and that sets…
Most guys feel like they are always the initiator and that sets up disequilibrium on the passion scale in the relationship.
Female sexuality is often defined in terms of a woman’s attractiveness to…
Female sexuality is often defined in terms of a woman's attractiveness to men rather than her own true state of sexual arousal. It is...
Considering the importance which sexual problems have in the practice of psychiatry,…
Considering the importance which sexual problems have in the practice of psychiatry, medicine, psychology, and counselling of every sort, it is disconcerting to realize...
There is great pressure on women in our society now to say…
There is great pressure on women in our society now to say they like ‘sex’.
Pornography involves portraying male fantasies that help men reach orgasm when they…
Pornography involves portraying male fantasies that help men reach orgasm when they masturbate alone. Nevertheless, sexologists seem to think that porn is a reasonable...
I’ve read articles on your website, viewed the YouTube videos on your…
I've read articles on your website, viewed the YouTube videos on your channel and your message highly resonates with my experience. Rahat
Many males, projecting their own experience, are inclined to overestimate the incidences…
Many males, projecting their own experience, are inclined to overestimate the incidences and frequencies of masturbation among females.
Sexual responses do not change over decades. Only women’s sexual behaviours change…
Sexual responses do not change over decades. Only women's sexual behaviours change as fashion dictates and because of improved policing.
Biologically and hormonally, men are MUCH MORE driven to be sexual than…
Biologically and hormonally, men are MUCH MORE driven to be sexual than women are.
The phrase ‘orgasm techniques’ sounds fancy but only means getting turned-on and…
The phrase 'orgasm techniques' sounds fancy but only means getting turned-on and then knowing how to orgasm by stimulating our genitals. Men also use...
Homosexual child play is … fostered by his socially encouraged disdain for…
Homosexual child play is ... fostered by his socially encouraged disdain for girls' ways, by his admiration for masculine prowess, and by his desire...
To me orgasms have nothing to do with regular male/female sex. Orgasm…
To me orgasms have nothing to do with regular male/female sex. Orgasm is not necessary because I can give them to myself in masturbation.
Sex manuals suggest that a man should offer foreplay before heading for…
Sex manuals suggest that a man should offer foreplay before heading for his own orgasm through intercourse. But as Kinsey noted decades ago, foreplay...
You have very vast knowledge of everything that is impressive. It is…
You have very vast knowledge of everything that is impressive. It is simply excellent I love it. Please continue to share such a rare...
While these physical changes at adolescence are a fundamental part of the…
While these physical changes at adolescence are a fundamental part of the process by which the female becomes mature enough to reproduce, they seem...
Reliable contraception cannot change women’s instinctive responses that have evolved over millions…
Reliable contraception cannot change women's instinctive responses that have evolved over millions of years.
The problem I’ve heard most about over the years… is the problem…
The problem I’ve heard most about over the years… is the problem of mismatched desire… which is the issue of sex-starved men and reluctant...
If a couple has some understanding of the different rewards that men…
If a couple has some understanding of the different rewards that men and women obtain from sex, they can make sure that there is...
In the younger boy there is no ejaculate because the prostate and…
In the younger boy there is no ejaculate because the prostate and seminal vesicles are not yet functionally developed, and in the female those...
The woman-in-the-street (most of us) still has the impression that it is…
The woman-in-the-street (most of us) still has the impression that it is ‘normal’ to orgasm from male thrusting.
Men cannot accept that without a sex drive, women have no reason…
Men cannot accept that without a sex drive, women have no reason to be remotely interested in sex. Rather than try to convince men...
It is SO SO easy to have unreal expectations of a woman…
It is SO SO easy to have unreal expectations of a woman and hence become selfish as we live in such a 'what can...
… the pre-adolescent boy’s capacities for specifically sexual responses develop rapidly as…
... the pre-adolescent boy's capacities for specifically sexual responses develop rapidly as he nears adolescence. This is not matched by any similar rise in...
If we are to understand men and women’s sexuality, we must never…
If we are to understand men and women's sexuality, we must never forget that Nature wants us to engage foremost in intercourse. Male sex...
Men’s illusions about women are long on fantasy and short on reality……
Men’s illusions about women are long on fantasy and short on reality… the more experience a man has with women in the real world,...
Whatever taunts are thrown out by men looking for a frivolous lay,…
Whatever taunts are thrown out by men looking for a frivolous lay, in the longer term men respect a more picky woman.
… the average age of onset of adolescence in the white male…
… the average age of onset of adolescence in the white male is about 13 years and 7 months.