Ways Women Orgasm
Quotations from ‘Ways Women Orgasm’ (ISBN 978-0956-894700) by Jane Thomas
(Ways Women Orgasm) We would like to share some of these ideas with other couples,…
We would like to share some of these ideas with other couples, who have explored a variety of sex play together in a spirit...
(Ways Women Orgasm) If female orgasm is so easy, then why do so many people…
If female orgasm is so easy, then why do so many people ask about how women orgasm? No one EVER asks about male orgasm.
(Ways Women Orgasm) Our enjoyment of sexual pleasure will always depend to some degree on…
Our enjoyment of sexual pleasure will always depend to some degree on our willingness to indulge our sexual fantasies as well as to explore...
(Ways Women Orgasm) The overwhelming reaction I have had when asking experts about lack of…
The overwhelming reaction I have had when asking experts about lack of orgasm is that I am expecting too much. Essentially, if you can...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Women who did claim to orgasm with a partner avoided questions by…
Women who did claim to orgasm with a partner avoided questions by implying that anyone who doubted the mutual pleasure of sex must be...
(Ways Women Orgasm) When girls reach puberty they get breasts and periods: body changes linked…
When girls reach puberty they get breasts and periods: body changes linked to women's child-bearing role. So even today women often approach sex from...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Women can be utterly convinced (and convincing!) in describing their sexual experiences…
Women can be utterly convinced (and convincing!) in describing their sexual experiences as orgasmic. Such stories are worthless unless women can explain their orgasm...
(Ways Women Orgasm) True sexual desire involves our motivation to enjoy our sexual arousal and…
True sexual desire involves our motivation to enjoy our sexual arousal and orgasm by appreciating aspects of eroticism, by discovering masturbation alone and by...
(Ways Women Orgasm) As long as we expect women to respond as men do then…
As long as we expect women to respond as men do then we will always conclude that women are dysfunctional.
(Ways Women Orgasm) One advantage of vaginal intercourse, when combined with a face-to-face position, is…
One advantage of vaginal intercourse, when combined with a face-to-face position, is that it allows for the loving aspects of sexual relationships.
(Ways Women Orgasm) To reach orgasm from sexual fantasies alone a woman has to achieve…
To reach orgasm from sexual fantasies alone a woman has to achieve an intense mental focus. Not only is this difficult in the presence...
(Ways Women Orgasm) The women who were brave enough to talk to me admitted that…
The women who were brave enough to talk to me admitted that they had never divulged the same details to anyone else not even...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Even well-informed and mature women can believe that they orgasm (when they…
Even well-informed and mature women can believe that they orgasm (when they don't) simply because they do not know what real female orgasms feel...
(Ways Women Orgasm) It’s a real positive that men slow down a bit as they…
It's a real positive that men slow down a bit as they grow older (post 35) - older men stand to make better lovers!...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Most girls probably read romantic stories but not everyone is comfortable with…
Most girls probably read romantic stories but not everyone is comfortable with the more explicitly sexual nature of erotic stories, which help a woman...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Very few virgins approach sex realising that a woman might need to…
Very few virgins approach sex realising that a woman might need to exaggerate her true sexual arousal during sex. Women learn over time to...
(Ways Women Orgasm) We often talk about sexual arousal as if an erection or orgasm,…
We often talk about sexual arousal as if an erection or orgasm, for that matter, is caused purely by physical stimulation. This is partly...
(Ways Women Orgasm) It is society that tells us to place moral restrictions on how…
It is society that tells us to place moral restrictions on how we enjoy sexual pleasure even with a consenting partner.
(Ways Women Orgasm) Women, whose sexual experiences are based purely on sex with a partner,…
Women, whose sexual experiences are based purely on sex with a partner, often interpret sex in the light of emotional criteria. They are confused...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Few women challenge the media portrayals of the spontaneously orgasmic women because…
Few women challenge the media portrayals of the spontaneously orgasmic women because by doing so, they risk exposing their own sexual inadequacy. But this...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Unfortunately, female orgasm is not required for reproduction and so vaginal intercourse…
Unfortunately, female orgasm is not required for reproduction and so vaginal intercourse is not designed, either physically or psychologically, to provide a woman with...
(Ways Women Orgasm) There seems to be a surprising amount of resistance to asking women…
There seems to be a surprising amount of resistance to asking women to account for their sexual experiences. I simply want to get a...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Orgasm requires at least a few naughty thoughts from time to time,…
Orgasm requires at least a few naughty thoughts from time to time, so if your conscience is as clear as a nun's then you...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Ultimately the aim is for Ways Women Orgasm to facilitate an open…
Ultimately the aim is for Ways Women Orgasm to facilitate an open and constructive dialogue, covering questions or experiences from women and their partners,...
(Ways Women Orgasm) I am told that women ‘enjoy’ sex or even ‘love’ sex (and…
I am told that women 'enjoy' sex or even 'love' sex (and why not for heaven's sake?) but then they talk of affection. It...
(Ways Women Orgasm) But when I mention sex (only to those women I hope will…
But when I mention sex (only to those women I hope will not drop dead from shock at the mention of the word!) most...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Men tend to become defensive when it is suggested that vaginal intercourse…
Men tend to become defensive when it is suggested that vaginal intercourse does not facilitate female orgasm. One reason is that embarrassment about sex...
(Ways Women Orgasm) The evidence supporting women’s greater difficulties with sexual arousal compared with men…
The evidence supporting women's greater difficulties with sexual arousal compared with men are well documented. Nevertheless, it takes great courage to be truly open...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Orgasm involves a release of sexual emotions (through an appreciation of eroticism…
Orgasm involves a release of sexual emotions (through an appreciation of eroticism and explicitly sexual concepts) not romantic emotions. Romance may be an excellent...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Sex is a gift that a woman offers to a man she…
Sex is a gift that a woman offers to a man she loves. She offers her body for his pleasure without necessarily hoping for...
(Ways Women Orgasm) It is a misconception that we live in a modern and sexually…
It is a misconception that we live in a modern and sexually sophisticated world. From an emotional standpoint, humanity might just as well be...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Even if a woman wanted to be honest, she still has the…
Even if a woman wanted to be honest, she still has the problem of how to respond during sex. Men want a partner to...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Masturbation as an adult activity involves knowing how to become sexually aroused…
Masturbation as an adult activity involves knowing how to become sexually aroused enough so that genital stimulation leads to orgasm. Female sexual arousal has...
(Ways Women Orgasm) People get away with claiming complete nonsense about sex just because no…
People get away with claiming complete nonsense about sex just because no one challenges the common sense of their assertions.
(Ways Women Orgasm) Some women are motivated to explore their sexuality and do discover orgasm….
Some women are motivated to explore their sexuality and do discover orgasm. However, there is no reason for Nature to ensure that this experience...
(Ways Women Orgasm) I am challenging women who say that orgasm with a partner is…
I am challenging women who say that orgasm with a partner is easy, not only because their experience does not tally with the known...
(Ways Women Orgasm) It is this huge gap between women’s loving emotions and their sexual…
It is this huge gap between women's loving emotions and their sexual arousal that must be difficult for a man to understand. Men have...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Men need to acknowledge that their sex drive works like an on-off…
Men need to acknowledge that their sex drive works like an on-off switch. An ideal male lover should re-think his approach to sex and...
(Ways Women Orgasm) We never admit that there are many reasons why people say things….
We never admit that there are many reasons why people say things. They want to impress. They say what they think other people want...
(Ways Women Orgasm) It is really quite disturbing that young women today are so unaware…
It is really quite disturbing that young women today are so unaware of the facts about male sex drive. Every man knows that past...
(Ways Women Orgasm) The issue of clitoral stimulation is a red herring – women aren’t…
The issue of clitoral stimulation is a red herring - women aren't that timid and neither are their partners. If women could orgasm as...
(Ways Women Orgasm) The fact is that people who earn their living from the sex…
The fact is that people who earn their living from the sex industry, only make money by providing the public with what we want...
(Ways Women Orgasm) In fact it’s not just lack of orgasm during vaginal intercourse that…
In fact it's not just lack of orgasm during vaginal intercourse that women struggle with but orgasm by any means with a partner.
(Ways Women Orgasm) Perhaps it is worth stating the obvious that men do not reach…
Perhaps it is worth stating the obvious that men do not reach orgasm simply through looking at images of the female form. In their...
(Ways Women Orgasm) The misconception that intercourse is as easily pleasurable for women as it…
The misconception that intercourse is as easily pleasurable for women as it is for men, leads many men to hope for a long-term sex...
(Ways Women Orgasm) So although men want sex intensely they also benefit from the emotional…
So although men want sex intensely they also benefit from the emotional intimacy or affectionate companionship that women provide through family, friends and the...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Women do not achieve sexual arousal or orgasm nearly as easily as…
Women do not achieve sexual arousal or orgasm nearly as easily as men do. Many women are not even interested in these aspects of...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Rather like climbing up the steps of a slide in order to…
Rather like climbing up the steps of a slide in order to enjoy slipping down the other side, it seems unlikely that even women...
(Ways Women Orgasm) The success of the G-spot myth is not simply down to men’s…
The success of the G-spot myth is not simply down to men's enthusiasm for intercourse. To explain their orgasms during intercourse, women have also...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Of the women I have been brave enough to approach, the vast…
Of the women I have been brave enough to approach, the vast majority have shunned me. It is this almost fearful reaction that so...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Many couples get stuck in an ‘intercourse-to-male-orgasm’ sex life. Bringing some variety…
Many couples get stuck in an 'intercourse-to-male-orgasm' sex life. Bringing some variety to sex takes effort.
(Ways Women Orgasm) Men approach sex eagerly anticipating the easy pleasures of physical intimacy. They…
Men approach sex eagerly anticipating the easy pleasures of physical intimacy. They often fail to appreciate that for a woman to want to demonstrate...
(Ways Women Orgasm) It is often suggested that a lack of female orgasm during sex…
It is often suggested that a lack of female orgasm during sex is a sign of sexual dysfunction but the truth is that this...
(Ways Women Orgasm) From early on, the sensitive female lover learns how to pleasure a…
From early on, the sensitive female lover learns how to pleasure a man, co-operating quite instinctively during intercourse by moving with the man's rhythm....
(Ways Women Orgasm) Both sexes can express their sexuality through sexual arousal and orgasm but…
Both sexes can express their sexuality through sexual arousal and orgasm but since men's arousal happens spontaneously (beyond their conscious control), the progression from...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Some women appear to be so sheltered from the world of adult…
Some women appear to be so sheltered from the world of adult eroticism that one wonders if they have ever experienced sexual urges of...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Women co-operate with men’s sex drive and provide men with sexual pleasure…
Women co-operate with men's sex drive and provide men with sexual pleasure to create the emotional bonds needed for long-term relationships. Intercourse provides women...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Officially, human sexuality is always presented in terms of a relationship. This…
Officially, human sexuality is always presented in terms of a relationship. This allows male and female sexuality to be viewed purely through social liaisons...
(Ways Women Orgasm) More fundamentally though, foreplay techniques do not necessarily assist with women’s arousal…
More fundamentally though, foreplay techniques do not necessarily assist with women's arousal because sexual arousal depends more on a person's psychological state than on...
(Ways Women Orgasm) After all if men wanted to marry women who were ‘good in…
After all if men wanted to marry women who were 'good in bed' they would simply trawl the brothels for a woman who was...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Men experience a purely physical reaction to seeing a woman’s body that…
Men experience a purely physical reaction to seeing a woman's body that has nothing to do with personal relationships. So, men engage lap dancers,...
(Ways Women Orgasm) One great aspect of men growing older is that they become slightly…
One great aspect of men growing older is that they become slightly less obsessed with their own sexual arousal and need for sexual release.
(Ways Women Orgasm) Lack of understanding about female sexuality means most women prefer to say…
Lack of understanding about female sexuality means most women prefer to say nothing at all. It has certainly made me wonder: if the 'normal'...
(Ways Women Orgasm) A lover’s body does not cause female sexual arousal any more than…
A lover's body does not cause female sexual arousal any more than images of naked men (porn) during masturbation. So if sight is less...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Knowledge does not force a person to make certain choices – it…
Knowledge does not force a person to make certain choices - it gives them a choice.
(Ways Women Orgasm) Many women are shocked by any form of eroticism. This shows a…
Many women are shocked by any form of eroticism. This shows a lack of understanding about the nature of sexual pleasure. After all, eroticism...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Male sex drive represents a big part of how we define masculinity…
Male sex drive represents a big part of how we define masculinity yet, due to embarrassment over sex, differences in sex drives are rarely...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Women who say they orgasm from sexual intercourse, but do not masturbate,…
Women who say they orgasm from sexual intercourse, but do not masturbate, do not necessarily have it all figured out; it's just that they...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Men need sex, both physiologically and emotionally, more than women. Men’s relationships…
Men need sex, both physiologically and emotionally, more than women. Men's relationships with others are not as emotionally intimate as women's tend to be....
(Ways Women Orgasm) With all the hype about sexual pleasure it is easy to forget…
With all the hype about sexual pleasure it is easy to forget that the PRIME purpose of sex is reproduction. This involves not only...
(Ways Women Orgasm) I have no agenda. I am not trying to make money out…
I have no agenda. I am not trying to make money out of anyone. I am simply trying to establish some facts and provide...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Men tell me how convinced they are that ALL their partners orgasm…
Men tell me how convinced they are that ALL their partners orgasm during sex. But that's kind of what faking orgasm is about, isn't...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Young women may enjoy exploring sex with different partners but ultimately most…
Young women may enjoy exploring sex with different partners but ultimately most women want to be more than a notch on a man's bedpost....
(Ways Women Orgasm) Yet many women are shocked by eroticism (whether visual or verbal pornography,…
Yet many women are shocked by eroticism (whether visual or verbal pornography, erotica or the concept of sexual fantasy) and equally shocked by the...
(Ways Women Orgasm) When it comes to her own sexual arousal, it helps if a…
When it comes to her own sexual arousal, it helps if a woman sees herself as sexually attractive to men and if she takes...
(Ways Women Orgasm) The difficulty for couples today is matching reality with the unrealistically high…
The difficulty for couples today is matching reality with the unrealistically high expectations (fuelled by the media) that we have for our sex lives.
(Ways Women Orgasm) Men approach sex with a genital focus because they are already aroused…
Men approach sex with a genital focus because they are already aroused so they often fail to engage on the sensual aspects of sex....
(Ways Women Orgasm) From a woman’s perspective, making effort to be more involved in ‘love-making’…
From a woman's perspective, making effort to be more involved in 'love-making' reduces the sense of uselessness that arises from participating in a sexual...
(Ways Women Orgasm) Many people believe that women are always exploited through sex because men…
Many people believe that women are always exploited through sex because men stand to gain so much more pleasure.
(Ways Women Orgasm) One woman was ‘highly offended’ by anyone questioning whether women orgasm as…
One woman was 'highly offended' by anyone questioning whether women orgasm as easily as men. I'm sorry to burst anyone's bubble but the evidence...