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Shere Hite (180)
Shere Hite (180)
Quotations from books by Shere Hite including
‘The Hite Report’
Shere Hite (180)
I have the feeling that I can’t hug my partner without ‘taking…
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March 6, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
All too many men still seem to believe, in a rather naive…
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March 5, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
… even if a man has a strong physical desire for orgasm…
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March 4, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
It’s over after his orgasm. Isn’t that the natural end of sex?
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March 3, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Most men have fucked me with a minimum of foreplay, have been…
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March 2, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Many women had spent rather long periods of time in their lives…
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March 1, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Most of the men in my heterosexual career… wanted oral stimulation from…
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February 28, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
No (I don’t fake orgasm), but I fake pleasure.
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February 27, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
It does make me feel strange, that after all the stimulation I…
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February 26, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Sometimes it builds a man’s ego to let him think he’s successful….
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February 25, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
There is only one kind of orgasm, the vaginal orgasm is a…
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February 24, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
The most obvious form of economic intimidation occurs when a woman is…
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February 23, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
It is not the fact that women do not like intercourse ……
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February 22, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
I’ve tried everything, but I’ve never had one.
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February 21, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Men often feel very angry with women who never initiate sex and…
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February 20, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Many women indicated that they could not even suggest that their male…
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February 19, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Orgasm is something I am able to give myself any time -…
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February 18, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
We have had lots of sex without me orgasming – sometimes it’s…
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February 17, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
It seems that women have only recently discovered the nature and depth…
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February 16, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
I can’t say I liked answering these questions, I would die of…
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February 15, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
One of the problems I had when I was married was that…
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February 14, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
I’m sick to death of sexuality – everywhere sex sex sex! So…
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February 13, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
It’s a trade. Like my mother says, men give love for sex,…
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February 12, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Yes, I like intercourse, even though I don’t have orgasm. It shows…
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February 11, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
This, of course, is not to say that women don’t like sex,…
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February 10, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Men were mostly concerned with their own pleasure rather than mine. I…
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February 9, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
I become very aroused by caressing my female lover’s breasts and clitoris…
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February 8, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Oral stimulation is best, mainly because most men do not have a…
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February 7, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
To orgasm is fine as long as semen does not end up…
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February 6, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
The point is that there is no physically demanding male sex drive…
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February 5, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Once again, the problem … was, as with clitoral stimulation by hand,…
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February 4, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Men have been brainwashed to think they’re the sexual experts, and furthermore,…
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February 3, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
If the partner is male, the woman is stuck with the limits…
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February 2, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Most (men) were speed demons.
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February 1, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
The pill itself did not bring about ‘sexual freedom’… but merely offered…
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January 31, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
I think our culture has made sex overimportant.
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January 30, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
The definition of male sexuality as being ‘instinctively’ drawn to heterosexual intercourse…
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January 29, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Frequently, yes (I fake orgasm). To get the social obligation over with…
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January 28, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
I used to (fake orgasm), because men would enjoy watching me pant.
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January 27, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
I used to (fake), when my husband had a complex about sex…
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January 26, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Intercourse is necessary for reproduction, and sexual pleasure and orgasm are involved…
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January 25, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
In the same way that women’s role has shifted from child-bearer to…
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January 24, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
For a long time I didn’t know if I was having them…
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January 23, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
At times, I would fake them and get so involved I could…
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January 22, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
In summary, since intercourse has been defined as the basic form of…
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January 21, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
There were, unfortunately, many women who orgasmed regularly during masturbation but almost…
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January 20, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Since I don’t have orgasms during intercourse, therefore I enjoy it without.
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January 19, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
In some cases, it was not even clear to the woman herself…
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January 18, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
I would like to know more about sex, but most of the…
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January 17, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Again, the penis contains within its shaft two caverns or spaces known…
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January 16, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
It’s grossly built up into something it’s not. It’s just a thing…
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January 15, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Often I resent the fact that my husband limits most of his…
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January 14, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
I’ve learned that unless a female wants sex, it is wise not…
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January 13, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
I love physical affection and touching but find that this inevitably leads…
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January 12, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
I think sex is great but I don’t want to sleep with…
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January 11, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
98 percent of the women … said they would like more verbal…
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January 10, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Yes, I like intercourse. I like men, their bodies, and pleasing them.
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January 9, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
… there was no correlation with frequency of orgasm: women who did…
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January 8, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Lesbian sex is very different from sex with men. It is not…
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January 7, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
To consider all non-reproductive sexual contact ‘an error of nature’ is a…
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January 6, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
My feeling is that I would consider sucking a cock with a…
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January 5, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Staggeringly uniformed. The more confident they (men) are of their sexual prowess…
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January 4, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
Sex is intimate physical activity for pleasure, to share pleasure with another…
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January 3, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
My greatest displeasure is feeling myself to be simply a substitute for…
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January 2, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
I always fake them because I never have them.
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January 1, 2026
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Shere Hite (180)
… the different position and the closeness of the partner prevent a…
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December 31, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
If my body wanted me to have orgasms, I’m sure it would…
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December 30, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
Of course once he (Freud) had laid down this definition of our…
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December 29, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
Sociocultural influence more often than not places woman in a position in…
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December 28, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
I’ve never had an orgasm during intercourse.
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December 27, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
I don’t enjoy masturbating and have never reached orgasm when doing it….
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December 26, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
Sometimes emotional orgasm was felt as the desire to conceive, to be…
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December 25, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
… the basic value of sex and intercourse for women is closeness…
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December 24, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
… researchers must stop telling women what they should feel sexually, and…
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December 23, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
I used to (fake), because my partner was comparing me to another…
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December 22, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
I never fake orgasm. I am angry with other women who do,…
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December 21, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
I faked orgasms continuously through my marriage, but I didn’t do that…
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December 20, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
To assume that intercourse is the basic expression of female sexuality, during…
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December 19, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
I can see no way sex is political, unless you mean the…
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December 18, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
However, since female orgasm is not necessary during intercourse for reproduction to…
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December 17, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
Female sexuality has been seen essentially as a response to male sexuality…
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December 16, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
Physically it (intercourse) is slightly pleasant, but boring, because it lasts too…
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December 15, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
During eighteen years of marriage, we did everything but stand on our…
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December 14, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
Although most women said that they missed the touching and holding of…
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December 13, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
The crux of the matter (The Sexual Revolution) – the effect of…
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December 12, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
… the idea that it is a man’s role to ‘give’ the…
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December 11, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
Having a man love me and want to have sex with me…
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December 10, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
I think I have sex almost always to consummate a bond, to…
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December 9, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
With women there is a lot of hugging, kissing, caressing, i.e., a…
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December 8, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
Why, in our pattern of sexual relations, does the man have charge…
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December 7, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
I haven’t gotten away from the feeling that I’m ‘dirty’ ‘down there’.
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December 6, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
Men are uninformed. They must all read the same book. Of course,…
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December 5, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
I am enjoying sex more in my forties than I did in…
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December 4, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
I don’t need sex as often as my husband but he gets…
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December 3, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
Yes, I always fake orgasms. It just seems polite. Why be rude?
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December 2, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
Boys have had casual sex with me and have then ignored me…
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December 1, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
I’ve had a few orgasms – (um) I can count only one…
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November 30, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
Freud was the founding father of vaginal orgasm. He theorized that the…
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November 29, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
As Ann Koedt put it, in ‘The myth of the vaginal orgasm’:…
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November 28, 2025
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Shere Hite (180)
I have been married to one partner for over twenty-sex years, and…
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November 27, 2025
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