Learn About Sexuality
Quotations from ‘Learn About Sexuality’ (ISBN 978-0956-894748) by Jane Thomas
(Learn About Sexuality) The goal of sexology would seem to be to educate women in…
The goal of sexology would seem to be to educate women in their role of providing male pleasure. This is a political battle rather...
(Learn About Sexuality) For the purposes of reproduction, a woman has to be willing to…
For the purposes of reproduction, a woman has to be willing to continue intercourse until a man ejaculates.
(Learn About Sexuality) Men obtain sexual relief as well as significant erotic and emotional pleasure…
Men obtain sexual relief as well as significant erotic and emotional pleasure from penetrative sex (intercourse) and other activities with a lover. However, women...
(Learn About Sexuality) The golden rule of sex is: if it hurts, then stop doing…
The golden rule of sex is: if it hurts, then stop doing it. If something does not feel good, it should not be done.
(Learn About Sexuality) Reproduction relies on a woman’s willingness to let a man ejaculate into…
Reproduction relies on a woman's willingness to let a man ejaculate into her vagina but not every day, every week or even every month.
(Learn About Sexuality) The key problem with men thinking that women obtain a similar pleasure…
The key problem with men thinking that women obtain a similar pleasure from sex is that they fail to engage on the romantic factors...
(Learn About Sexuality) Wherever someone tries to talk about sex in public, someone else will…
Wherever someone tries to talk about sex in public, someone else will say it is inappropriate. The result is that there is no intelligent...
(Learn About Sexuality) Women’s sexual passivity, which results from their lack of arousal, allows a…
Women's sexual passivity, which results from their lack of arousal, allows a man to assert his own sexual needs.
(Learn About Sexuality) The response of orgasm evolved millions of years ago. Nothing new can…
The response of orgasm evolved millions of years ago. Nothing new can be discovered as such. We can only document the facts and use...
(Learn About Sexuality) Sexuality is about enjoying the responsiveness of our own body through masturbation….
Sexuality is about enjoying the responsiveness of our own body through masturbation. Our mind's ability to respond to erotic scenarios (both real and imagined)...
(Learn About Sexuality) Some women enhance their own (and a lover’s) apparent sexual prowess by…
Some women enhance their own (and a lover's) apparent sexual prowess by faking orgasm to meet expectations from pornography. Other men complain that their...
(Learn About Sexuality) Men expect to have regular sex with their partner. This expectation means…
Men expect to have regular sex with their partner. This expectation means they are frustrated when their partner is physically present but not sexually...
(Learn About Sexuality) Most women realise that men appreciate women who present themselves in a…
Most women realise that men appreciate women who present themselves in a sexy manner. Men have more difficulty understanding that women also want men...
(Learn About Sexuality) If women had a sex drive then they would also suffer all…
If women had a sex drive then they would also suffer all the difficulties and discrimination that men do. They would be persecuted for...
(Learn About Sexuality) In truth, very few people have the necessary intellect, life experience and…
In truth, very few people have the necessary intellect, life experience and emotional detachment to understand sexuality. Most people have only prejudices, assumptions and...
(Learn About Sexuality) Consent is not about responsiveness or even mutual pleasure. Women are not…
Consent is not about responsiveness or even mutual pleasure. Women are not aroused by sexual activity with a lover at any age. But by...
(Learn About Sexuality) Adults masturbate over the longer term because they can generate fantasies that…
Adults masturbate over the longer term because they can generate fantasies that reliably lead to orgasm.
(Learn About Sexuality) Men believe that cunnilingus causes female orgasm. But where does this belief…
Men believe that cunnilingus causes female orgasm. But where does this belief come from? It doesn't come from any research findings. Cunnilingus is clearly...
(Learn About Sexuality) Men attribute all the skill and the effort of intercourse to themselves…
Men attribute all the skill and the effort of intercourse to themselves rather than to a woman.
(Learn About Sexuality) In fact, foreplay only extends a woman’s waiting time and she may…
In fact, foreplay only extends a woman's waiting time and she may prefer quick intercourse if she is not in the mood to indulge...
(Learn About Sexuality) Men assume it is their role to provide a woman with the…
Men assume it is their role to provide a woman with the orgasm she cannot give herself. Yet this is fallacious thinking because orgasm...
(Learn About Sexuality) Even today, women lack the authority and the motivation to put men…
Even today, women lack the authority and the motivation to put men right about their own sexuality. Men's lack of objectivity over female sexuality...
(Learn About Sexuality) But by looking at Nature we can see that mating is an…
But by looking at Nature we can see that mating is an act of male assault. By depositing his sperm in a woman's body,...
(Learn About Sexuality) We will never be able to protect girls, if we are not…
We will never be able to protect girls, if we are not honest about what they can expect from sex.
(Learn About Sexuality) The more creative and inventive we are about imagining scenarios, the more…
The more creative and inventive we are about imagining scenarios, the more likely we are to enjoy solitary sexual activity that relies on our...
(Learn About Sexuality) Only men ever discuss female orgasm openly and confidently. So it’s no…
Only men ever discuss female orgasm openly and confidently. So it's no wonder that sex education and pornography are essentially the same thing.
(Learn About Sexuality) For someone to have a sex drive there must be a trigger…
For someone to have a sex drive there must be a trigger that generates an urge to engage in intercourse. Sex is natural for...
(Learn About Sexuality) My research has involved asking many difficult questions, most of which I…
My research has involved asking many difficult questions, most of which I have had to answer myself. The answers were always there. Only naivety,...
(Learn About Sexuality) Women never contest these myths because of their general embarrassment over sex,…
Women never contest these myths because of their general embarrassment over sex, their uncertainty over their own arousal and their desire to please men...
(Learn About Sexuality) It is nonsensical to suggest that researchers can discover something by talking…
It is nonsensical to suggest that researchers can discover something by talking to a small sample that millions of couples have not discovered over...
(Learn About Sexuality) But it takes a man and a woman to create a new…
But it takes a man and a woman to create a new life. Why are men not concerned about their own progeny? Why is...
(Learn About Sexuality) Any woman who wants intercourse, can find it easily enough. Women only…
Any woman who wants intercourse, can find it easily enough. Women only advertise because they are trying to make money out of men.
(Learn About Sexuality) The kind of stimulation, that might lead to orgasm, is highly specific…
The kind of stimulation, that might lead to orgasm, is highly specific and involves massaging the erectile organ or more specifically the blood-flow within...
(Learn About Sexuality) The reality of sex is so far removed from how it is…
The reality of sex is so far removed from how it is portrayed in fictional media that most women prefer to say nothing. Any...
(Learn About Sexuality) The stimulation of an orifice (mouth, vagina or anus) does not result…
The stimulation of an orifice (mouth, vagina or anus) does not result in orgasm for the receiver.
(Learn About Sexuality) No one thought that Freud, as a man, might be unqualified to…
No one thought that Freud, as a man, might be unqualified to pronounce on how female orgasm is achieved. Men have always been confident...
(Learn About Sexuality) Young women especially often put up with pain and discomfort to provide…
Young women especially often put up with pain and discomfort to provide a man with the regular intercourse he needs.
(Learn About Sexuality) In the presence of women, men can be embarrassed by pornographic images,…
In the presence of women, men can be embarrassed by pornographic images, knowing on some level that most women are offended by this crude...
(Learn About Sexuality) The problem with honesty over sex is that a man needs to…
The problem with honesty over sex is that a man needs to be aroused by and to feel accepted in his sexual relationship. He...
(Learn About Sexuality) When researchers ask, ‘Do you orgasm from intercourse?’ the very act of…
When researchers ask, 'Do you orgasm from intercourse?' the very act of asking the question implies that 'yes' is a legitimate reply as if...
(Learn About Sexuality) Women do not need to achieve orgasm with a lover, in order…
Women do not need to achieve orgasm with a lover, in order to make an emotional connection.
(Learn About Sexuality) If any form of clitoral stimulation (oral or manual) were to cause…
If any form of clitoral stimulation (oral or manual) were to cause female orgasm with a lover, women would have no reason to accept...
(Learn About Sexuality) We need stimulation to continue until orgasm is achieved and not beyond….
We need stimulation to continue until orgasm is achieved and not beyond. But men want to believe (beyond all logic) that women orgasm from...
(Learn About Sexuality) Anatomy such as the vagina, which is essentially a cavity, could never…
Anatomy such as the vagina, which is essentially a cavity, could never be a sex organ. A cavity can always be penetrated. Once orgasm...
(Learn About Sexuality) Any research that supports intercourse as a means of providing female orgasm…
Any research that supports intercourse as a means of providing female orgasm is promoted. Research that contradicts that belief is ignored.
(Learn About Sexuality) We talk of women of pleasure or sinful women. It’s not that…
We talk of women of pleasure or sinful women. It's not that women are inherently bad (or enjoying pleasure). Their bodies tempt men into...
(Learn About Sexuality) Gender stereotypes are generalisations. Each of us is a unique individual. There…
Gender stereotypes are generalisations. Each of us is a unique individual. There is a range of personality types in both sexes. We don't have...
(Learn About Sexuality) A woman knows that she is nowhere near being aroused by either…
A woman knows that she is nowhere near being aroused by either the prospect or the reality of intercourse. The fact that a man...
(Learn About Sexuality) Sexuality is about the act of mating. Humans do not have sex…
Sexuality is about the act of mating. Humans do not have sex simply in order to reproduce. We also have sex to enjoy pleasure...
(Learn About Sexuality) Sexuality is about appreciating what causes us to become aroused and learning…
Sexuality is about appreciating what causes us to become aroused and learning how we can achieve orgasm both alone and with a lover.
(Learn About Sexuality) We cannot legislate for sex education in the sense of insisting that…
We cannot legislate for sex education in the sense of insisting that everyone agrees on the facts and logic involved. Education depends on an...
(Learn About Sexuality) A woman is obliged to cooperate with intercourse for as long as…
A woman is obliged to cooperate with intercourse for as long as a man needs to ejaculate. A woman has to remain in position...
(Learn About Sexuality) If female orgasm occurred routinely with a lover, all heterosexuals, both male…
If female orgasm occurred routinely with a lover, all heterosexuals, both male and female, would know not only the anatomy but also the erotic...
(Learn About Sexuality) Trains and buses around the world at rush hour provide an opportunity…
Trains and buses around the world at rush hour provide an opportunity for certain men to grope women's bodies when they are defenceless. Women...
(Learn About Sexuality) Women are told that they should enjoy sex. Due to a lack…
Women are told that they should enjoy sex. Due to a lack of confidence in sexual matters, when women don't respond as men want...
(Learn About Sexuality) We are motivated to masturbate because we feel a sense of excitement…
We are motivated to masturbate because we feel a sense of excitement in our minds when thinking about an erotic scenario.
(Learn About Sexuality) If intercourse caused female orgasm, there wouldn’t be a mystery that needed…
If intercourse caused female orgasm, there wouldn't be a mystery that needed researching in the first place.
(Learn About Sexuality) Sexuality is about talking, observing or interacting with others in return for…
Sexuality is about talking, observing or interacting with others in return for payment or other non-relationship rewards. Depending on our personality we may employ...
(Learn About Sexuality) Either new anatomy (such as the clitoris) or new areas (such as…
Either new anatomy (such as the clitoris) or new areas (such as the G-spot) are suggested in a never-ending search for the magic button...
(Learn About Sexuality) Men are inclined to portray sex as a male conquest. The woman’s…
Men are inclined to portray sex as a male conquest. The woman's role is belittled. Hence why sex is often demeaning for women.
(Learn About Sexuality) People often focus on physical stimulation techniques when talking about female orgasm….
People often focus on physical stimulation techniques when talking about female orgasm. The psychological aspects of erotic arousal are rarely acknowledged.
(Learn About Sexuality) Most of us are insecure about pleasing or performing for a lover….
Most of us are insecure about pleasing or performing for a lover. We want to know how we can be good in bed. But...
(Learn About Sexuality) Without the protection of reliable contraception, few women would volunteer for unprotected…
Without the protection of reliable contraception, few women would volunteer for unprotected intercourse.
(Learn About Sexuality) Orgasm, when it is our objective, defines the end of the activity…
Orgasm, when it is our objective, defines the end of the activity that was focused on achieving it. Stimulation stops for a variety of...
(Learn About Sexuality) Women are only capable of orgasm because of how the sexes have…
Women are only capable of orgasm because of how the sexes have evolved. Men and women have different internal reproductive anatomy but we each...
(Learn About Sexuality) Confusingly, for men, the women who are shouting loudest about female orgasm…
Confusingly, for men, the women who are shouting loudest about female orgasm are the ones who have no idea how it is achieved. But...
(Learn About Sexuality) One of the problems with suggesting that female orgasm occurs through masturbation,…
One of the problems with suggesting that female orgasm occurs through masturbation, is that very few women masturbate.
(Learn About Sexuality) Rape is an act of violation by a man because he has…
Rape is an act of violation by a man because he has taken something the victim did not want to give.
(Learn About Sexuality) A woman’s sexual role focuses on what happens before intercourse. She needs…
A woman's sexual role focuses on what happens before intercourse. She needs to attract a man and arouse him sufficiently so that he wants...
(Learn About Sexuality) We know that women do not orgasm with a lover because of…
We know that women do not orgasm with a lover because of the enormous political and emotional pressure that is brought to bear to...
(Learn About Sexuality) Women are unfaithful when their current relationship is emotionally unfulfilling or when…
Women are unfaithful when their current relationship is emotionally unfulfilling or when they hope to improve their lifestyle with a more successful man.
(Learn About Sexuality) There is never a point at which women can no longer engage…
There is never a point at which women can no longer engage in sexual activity. This is clear evidence that women do not orgasm...
(Learn About Sexuality) Women who claim to orgasm are no more amenable to intercourse than…
Women who claim to orgasm are no more amenable to intercourse than other women. Nor do they initiate intercourse more than women who know...
(Learn About Sexuality) The issue of female orgasm with a lover is at the core…
The issue of female orgasm with a lover is at the core of sexual politics. Men want to feel valued as lovers. Women want...
(Learn About Sexuality) The fact that there is a sex positive movement implies there are…
The fact that there is a sex positive movement implies there are negative aspects to sex. What are these? Why do they arise? And...
(Learn About Sexuality) In addition to the other disadvantages of sex that are attributed to…
In addition to the other disadvantages of sex that are attributed to women (abortion, prostitution and illegitimate children), women are also labelled as frigid...
(Learn About Sexuality) In the early days, a man’s sex drive seems like a demonstration…
In the early days, a man's sex drive seems like a demonstration of love because he spends companionable time with a woman. Over time,...
(Learn About Sexuality) Orgasm occurs in the mind of the individual at a moment that…
Orgasm occurs in the mind of the individual at a moment that cannot be predetermined because it is fixed by their individual arousal cycle....
(Learn About Sexuality) As an internal organ, the clitoris has much less significance for a…
As an internal organ, the clitoris has much less significance for a woman than the penis has for a man.
(Learn About Sexuality) How would heterosexual men like to live in a world filled with…
How would heterosexual men like to live in a world filled with men looking for opportunities to penetrate their orifices regardless of their amenability?